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My name is kristi, and i love giving advice, i have always been the trouble solver aslong as my brother. I like waking up knowing that i help people with their problems! I give advice about mainly anything, since im taking the time to actually write and help you on your problems, id like it if you would rate and leave comments. Im willing to give any advice to anyone! besides people who right me about stupid things, like playing jokes. Im always on here, so if theres anything you need to talk to me about, im here, so just leave something in the inbox (meaning write me, {top of the page it says Ask a Question }, so just hit that) So thats mainly it
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I need some ways to get out of going to my 13 yr. old brothers baseball games! I RATE WELL!
Well why make excuses?? why dont you just tell your parents that you dont want to go, and that its really boring there, try telling your mom that if shes worried about you being home alone or something that you can go to a friends house. Say you love your brother but going to his game is waste of time, thats his hobby and not yours. If you really dont want to do that, you could pretend sick, or pretent that your angle or foot hurts. Hope i helped you some
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I used to have a really good friend, but shes trying to kill her self, she thinks that everyone hates her, she does all kinds of drugs just to try to kill her self, i really love her to death, shes already been in the hospital and id ont know what to do. I love her but she keeps trying to do needles and stuff.. help me!!!
..well...gosh..um..well..uh..i..i dont know what to tell you because..well i know what your talking about, i really do.. um..well try to talk to her..so she knows who you are..ok? and how you feel..hope i helped..
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alright, my brother is 21 and is a rapper just not noticed yet. he loves rap and has a couple CDs made, just not out yet....Does anybody know how he could somehow get recognized by an artist???
Yeah, people are just saying give up, but you cant do that, thats just not the right thing to do. Try sending demos out to Radio stations, or to some record places, mostly all places ushally check and see if they are somewhat good. Just dont give up, and if giving demos out doesnt help, try rappin in public places! He will make it some day, hope i helped
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Theres this guy and he is 16 and sometimes i think i have feelings for him lyk a boyfriend but then i dont.....he likes me and he said he wanted to screw me and i told him id let him but i dont know if i would let him because im only 12 and loosing my virginity at my age seems a lil to fast but i feel ready, and i think i want to?? should I??
~Clueless~
Girl listen, i know what your saying, you think your ready to go and lose your virginity, and after that, everything be ok. Thats how it always seems untill it happens, they up and leave you because all they wanted to do is get laid. okay listen alot of people your age now days are going and losing their virginity, and they think its all good, girl it aint even all that good. Your 12 years old, you look at all those 10 year olds getting pregent...think if you want that..your a child, children cannot take care of themselves, therefore they cannot take care of another child. Wait untill your a little bit older. Dont fall for his actions girl, he is just one of those guys who are just tellin all these kinds of girls that hes interested in them, only for sex. Hope i helped..if you need more help just let me now :)
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Are diets good to go on? I heard you could like faint from them....also, I just want to eat nutriciously so what kind of foods are nice and light?
Well some diets are good for you..BUT not taking the meds. that type of dieting is bad for you. the best diet that you should do would be eating light foods, like fruit. You could also exercise! yeah i know what your probley thinkin! aw man lol i got to exercise. Well its the second best way losing weight. Hope i helped you!
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k.. i really love this kid john, he loves me alot too. but hes going away for 2 nd a half weeks, he said he was gonna ask me out in augest the begniging (sp). should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i just TRY to get over him?
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x.O.x. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d x.O.x
I believe that you should wait for him, many many couples are seperated for many months, For example: people that go on bisness trips or people that are in war, they are gone for a long period of time and are still in love with each other and feelings do not change. If he loves you too, he will wait and not go with any other girl during those 2 weeks. Hope i helped you
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what are some ways do you guys think could help me with this broken heart problem :(
signed : if only i knew
I know how your feeling, i have been in that mood for the longest time. But then i realized that you dont need a man to survive. Yeah you would like one, but many boys cause heart damage. I would just stay single for a little while, hang out with your girls, look at guys, smile and forget about boy problems. Many of them are not worth your time, and soon you will notice that. Dont sit home all day and mope around wondering how you could have fixed things, think about the positives, if you would have stayed with him longer, and then u broke up..things would be 100% worse. I know its going to be hard, and it might take awhile, but do it inch by inch.. Go out for a little bit, weither it be with your friends or just with family. Also talking about your problems or feelings with someone close to you, that will listen also helps alot. I hope i helped some one, Dont worry hun it will get better, it just takes some time.
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good make out tips?
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1: When about to kiss, move toward slowly, dont attack him lol
2: Breathe through your nose
3: DO NOT stick your tonge in too far
4: Kiss slowly, guys ushally like slow kissers, if he starts going a little faster..got a little faster
5: Practically follow his lead
6: try not to get your teeth in the way
7: oh yes..most important..keep your head tilted lol
Hope i helped
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in order to qet tested for STD's.. do you have to have your parents know ? my mom would totally like freak if she thouqht i was doinq anythinq sexual.. ive been w| my boyfriend 9 months.. i wouldnt have intercourse now but.. maybe oral & i want my boyfriend to qet tested. please help, i rate hiqh !! 14\f
Your parents are not required to be there at a free clinic, so you and your boyfriend could get tested with out any parents knowing!
i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.
This is a very common question that younger girls ask, if you have interest in a boy, and you wonder if he likes you to, you could ask your friend to talk to him about it. Every girl goes throught i, and most of them get their friends to ask them what they think of you or their friends. Before that you should just try to hang out with him, if you see signs like him walking far away or not looking at you long.. you should know that he probley has no interest. I hope this worked.
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well i am a 13/f and like sometimes when im in bed at night or whatever i have these fantasies of my friends and/or enemys getting naked and touching eachothers boobs..is this normal?
Its extremly normal, your only 13 years old, when your younger you go through weird stages, weither it be sexual dreams or other things. They are also just dreams, it doesnt make you lesbian nor anything.
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I just moved in 10 months ago [[beginging of school]] Yeah,i made friends...but now at the end of the year they all turned against me! And its all because if this one girl hates me,they all hate me.I hate being a follower and i love to be original,so simpely,i dont follow her like my friends did. Now shes convincing everyone to hate me! She was once my friend and i never did anything wrong ][[i know this because we werent that good of friends we just sat next to each other in one subject..never called eachother and stuff..]] So she makes everyone hate me for no reason. And im so sad i cry so hard. Im not the same im just miserable. Im trying to get my mom to move back to my old city. Its takeing some effect. I would be over joyed to move back to my city. People like me and i have friends there. But my question is how can i deal with all this pressure and stress on me?
Im becomeing depressed and hateing my life. I dont want to be that kind of person seeing as i always try to look up...even down looks up to me.
Well first thing you need to do, is realize the positives. Your not stuck around with people that are just wanting to be like other people, also, if they are mad at you just because of one girl, that shows you that they were not your true friends. If you really did like them that much to the point where it makes you miserable and you cry alot, i would try talking to the one girl or some of the friends. I know its hard to do, but its something that would make you feel better. If you decide to talk to the one girl that has started all of this, simply ask her why she is doing it, and why she is trying to make your life hard, if she tries to ignore her, then try to talk to your old friends. Ask them why they dislike you and what is going on. Its very hard to do, but you have to learn to take chances to get something back that you love or want. Moving back to the city is not going to solve much, it might give you your old friends back, but running away from you problems never solves anything. If your old friends decide to not talk to you, try making new friends.
how can i find the right girlfriend, without getting hurt like cheated on?
well you never reall know when someone is perfect right off batt, but first you should try to find someone that is very close to you, learn about their past and see if they are a cheater or if they are lloyal. Sometimes you cannot find the perfect someone without experiencing.