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well you see, i really want to go to middle school, like BAD! But i have maybe a 89% to go to this acting school, and i ,may even be in a show! what should i do? i will like to go to school with my friends, but this is a one in a lifetime chance!

Signed,
Confused Actress (link)
ive been in this exact situation except that it was for an acting high school. what u need to remember is that its not a once in a life time chance. not really. i mean u can take classes during summer that will give you basically the same thing an acting skool would. and as far as shows or movies go ur young being in middle skool and so ur going to have plenty of chances to be in shows and such if u just put urself out there. an acting skool is not needed. anyways i hope i helped


okay well i have no problem with having guys as friends but i want them to notice me more in a "girlfriend" way i guess you could say do you have any ideas on how to get them to notice me thanks alot (link)
i had this same problem a couple years ago. pretty much it was a sort of wake up one morning and people notice you thing lol but flirting as more than a friend definitly helps it shows them that u r interested. just show them ur interested give them a reason to think of u as more than a friend... however DO NOT change ur look for them... trust me that is an ultimate bad choice. and dont change urself just express who really are more prominately.


Okay so I like this guy and he used to be my b/f but now we're just friends. We went out for almost a year and I still like and I think he still likes me. I want to go out with him again what should I do? (link)
well if u think he still likes you too and hes single and all then id talk to him about it and go for it. and even if ur not sure that he likes you still talk to him about it. ask him how he feels and dont be afraid to tell him how u feel. cause that will make him more comfortable to admit that he likes you. Good Luck
P.S. ive been thro this and thats what i did and it worked so i hope it works for u too


well im 13 years old and i have strech marks on like the top of my legs near my but and when i wear a bathing suit you see them and i am so self consious of them it sucks do you have any ideas on how to get rid of them thanks! (link)
those r proly there because u lost weight in that part of ur body so working out to loose the rest of it or gaining weight to fill it in would be my best advice


everyone is calling my mom a slut an stuff just cause a few weekz ago at the feast my mom got really drunk (like always) an she wuz actin slutty an stuff (flirtin wit everyone an stuff) she was wearing a really hoochie outfit to an she was like yelling at me cause i was embarrest i tryed to talk to my mom but she kept yellilng at me an sayin "YOUR EMBRARRSING ME FOR CRYING!!!" mean while she was the reason i was crying! i really dont know how to handle my mom! she gets drunk to often! an i think she may be doing pot cause i walk in her room an like it smells like pot or somthing (its so not cigs!)

shell (link)
i think you should talk to her about it. tell her how it makes you feel. but definitly do it while shes sober and doesnt smell like pot or w/e it was. be calm and polite about it but tell her ur feelings and how it hurts you that she acts the way she does. oh and talk to her while shes in a good mood too... ull get her to listen a lot easier. ;) Good Luck


ok... i like my guy friend **bob** :) he-he bob... ok ne ways, i know he has a physical attraction to me. how do u go about asking if he likes u all in all? can u give me some pointers?
thanx f/16 (link)
well honestly just ask him... act kool and just be calm about it. just casually bring it up and ask him if he likes u... it might also help to tell him u like him. cause it makes guys feel more confident when they know the girl already likes them.


im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel??? (link)
for some people yeah it hurts quite a bit because when u "pop ur cherry" ur actually ripping thro a piece of tissue or skin. so yes it will hurt as much as tearing ur skin would and will also bleed a bit.


what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
well wanting to hurt urself for bad things going on in ur life is, sadly, quite common. one reason some people do it is cause they feel like cutting or w/e will get rid of w/e other pain they have and it will distract them. and while in a way this is a good idea its not because harming urself is never a good idea. however maybe stabing a pillow or something instead could also relieve the same pain. just whenever u have the urge to hurt urself try doing something else that can express that pain w/ out inflicting it upon urself.


Hey does ne1 here like Taking Back Sunday or anything awesome like Yellowcard, The Used, GC, Simple Plan, ETC....? If you do and ur between 15-17 u can AIM me at isthatdisposable ADIOS! (link)
i love taking back sunday and yellowcard and the used not to fond of gc or simple plan tho..


i am on my period on holiday and coz i cant take pads and i dont ware tampons i dont no wot to do can sum 1 help me (link)
hmm well thats not good... im not sure i get why u cant take pads but in any case honestly i would say u should really try to use a tampon other wise u take the risk u kno..


i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
garrett ur gay!!


when u loose ur viginity i hear blood comes out? well is it really that much ? or is it somthing u can just ignore?
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no its actually quite a bit... it depends on the person but usually its a substantial amount


allright there's this guy that i like a lot. I really really want to go out with him. I just dont know if he likes me back because he just broke up with this one chick and she's like still obsessed with him. me and him went out before but it didnt really work out. but i think this time it would be different cause i think i have been able to rely on him more often now. i just dont know what to do. should i ask him back out? (link)
regardless of the other chics feelings i think asking him out isnt the right thing to do right now. wait a little while and clue him in that u like him. maybe he does like u back. but ull never know unless you ask. (or have someone else ask that always works ;)lol) but in any case find that part out first and then pop the question. i would pay any mind to the other girl... unless she is a close friend.. and then id talk to her first.


okay well...my mom and dad got a divorce a few years ago..so i have to go back and forth like..one week i'll be with my mom and the next i'll be with my dad..but i cant stand my dad and his new girlfriend..personally i think he deserves better than her but what do i know i'm only 14...okay well..how do i tell my dad that i dont want to go over there anymore because he changed and i dont like his girlfriend? (link)
alright well comunication is key here. u definitly should talk to him and tell him ur feelings about it. and tell him that you dont agree w/ or like his gf because of... w/e reason. but understand that he obviously does like her and u can only tell him ur feelings on it not change his mind completely. be understanding of his feelings for her but speak ur mind. Good Luck :)


alright well i had this one friend in the beginnin of our school year n we like considered eachother best friends and stuff. but we grew apart or whatever and she told people she didnt like me because someone told her stuff that wasnt true. i mean we used to have a good friendship and all she was such a great girl but its weird being around her now because we talk and stuff but not like friends do. but we have mutual friends so we gotta get along, but i kinda miss laughing with her and our inside jokes.. got any advice??? (link)
well if u guys were good friends before and u can be civil around each other now then its possible later you could be friends again. but if you are bugged about not being friends anymore when u feel like you could be then talk to her. tell her that the things she heard weren't true and tell her you still wanna be her friend. if this girl is that kool then i think she'll consider it u kno. and maybe she still thinks ur kool she just isnt sure of what you think. let her know


Lets see yesterday my bf and me were at the park and he told me that he kissed my best friend of all time.. it was just a peck though and he said it ment nothing at all im glad he came out and told me but should i break up with him? i mean i dont want to but i dont want to get hurt anymore and have it be worse... (link)
no i think he was proly telling u the truth if he came to u and told u. however... ur best friend, i might wanna have a talk w/ her if i were u.


I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment. (link)
i completely agree w/ u however i think religion is a god thing in a way because it helped the human race survive and evolve. w/out it a lot of people would have nothing to belive in and if that happened much of the world would be killing itself (more than it already is) and going litterally crazy because answers to their questions like why r we here would not be answered. people like me however dont need something like god to believe in to survive.


ok my old friends from my jr high were all DRAMA.. especially this chick erynne. well i was so used to the drama thing that i didnt even realize people( like my new friends) could be so laid back. i dont really talk to that many peeps from my jr high. but then again most of them dont make an effort to talk to me nemore, when i used to always be the 1st person they called on the weekends. now they always act like they r mad at me so i just decided to find new friends. should i ask them if they r mad at me for sumthing or just forget them..??

chick1 (link)
well if things r going so well for u now i wouldnt bother. but if u really feel the need to talk to them then yeah u could ask them what happened and if they r mad at u... there is no harm in that either.


this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap? (link)
not all... im not!! lol i like real rock and metal :)


I used to know this guy for a long time. We were really good friends and I could tell him basically anything. He was the best. But now he avoids me and never talks to me. This really upsets me and I dont know what to do about it. I still love him a lot, but he always ignores me and dosent want anything to do with me. What should I do? Chrissy, age 15 (link)
well first off ask him whats going on and why he doesnt talk to you. tell him u love him but u dont understand why he avoids you. just be open minded and listen to his answers. if he was that close to you b4 im sure its not anything big maybe hes just got a lot on his mind.




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