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Hello there. I'm Charu, nice to meet you. =)

I'm in 8th grade and I go to Abbott Middle School. I'm thirteen. I love my friends and my boyfriend. Partying is love.

I'm Indian. =) And I would love to give you advice about anything and everything. Ask away!


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Does anyone know of an effective way to keep your gauchos (and underwear for that matter) from riding up? I want to wear my gauchos to my drivers ed class tomorrow but i dont want to have a wedgie everytime i stand up..its VERY embarrassing. Does anyone know of anything that will keep my underwear and gauchos from riding? Sorry if this offends anyone! I greatly appreciate any answer!

Thanks In Advance!

try wearing spandex boyshorts
and pull your gauchos down lower on your waist.

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My BFFL and I have been BFFL for almost 2years now. We NEVER fight which is great, so there hasn't been any problems w/ fighting but Now there is. She has another BFFL.First, we hated each other then we liked each other and now he has a g/f that he LOVES & she loves him and now we extrememly dislike each other, again. I'm at my dad's now for two weeks and I try to talk to her but shes always "busy" or with him, so she says she can't call & he's even before me on her myspace! I'm losing her! =[ HELP

ouch. just remember: the closer you pull her, the more she's gonna run away from you.

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I asked a question earlier about my hair falling out constantly when I'm in the shower & brushing it. Everyone said, its natural for you to lose some hair each day. But honestly, I've never seen someone nor have I lost as much hair as I do nowadays. It comes out like a very thick strand of hair and plus at the end of the shower I have somewhere on my body like a huge knot of just my hair that has fallen from my hair and on to my body. Theres seriously a lot of hair. And yes, my hair is thinning but I still have hair, don't get me wrong. The only thing I can think of is the fact that I used to straighten it a lot. I havne't been doing that as much for about 2-3 months now but I'm still losing hair. Its alllll over the tub and even the drain is clogged because of my hair. I don't know what to do or why its happening... I've even cut my hair short (I used to have long hair) and its still coming out...

Cutting your hair isn't gonna help, sweetie. Go to your hair stylist and ask for some strengthening shampoo/conditioner. It's normal for hair to fall out, but if you're losing too much, that might be a problem. And the next time you straighten your hair, don't turn up the heat too high.

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okay so theres this boy and i REALLY LOVE him..im only 13 and people tell me i dont really know what love is but like love isnt a maybe thing right..? yeah.. you know if you love someone and i do love him but he used to act like he liked me but now he doesnt anymore it it makes me really sad..i feel like im not good enough but all my friends tell me im to good for him..( but hey their suppose to right? ) i think another part is hes 2 grades ahead of me..but he also is my neighbor and were kinda friends i guess but i want to tell him hwo i feel but i dont know if he will feel the same and it would make things akward..so what should i do? please help

Okay, so I know exactly how it feels when people tell you that you're "too young to be in love". It can get pretty frustrating. But remember: never, EVER think that you aren't good enough for him, because it can really bring down your self esteem. Plus, it's not even true. Your friends are right! When a boy I was in love with started giving me the cold shoulder, I used to sit in my room for hours at a time and just cry. I don't want that to happen to you. Don't be upset about it, just try to shake it off by smiling about it. It can be hard, but you should try it. And if you really want to be with him, try to flirt with him a little. Touch his arm when you talk to him, look at him meaningfully when he says something to you, stuff like that... but if he rejects you, it will definately become awkward. But don't let that stop you if it's the only thing you're worried about. If he says he doesn't like you, wait a week or two before getting too close to him again. And if he says he likes you, congrats! But, I have just one more warning for you: Dating a guy two grades ahead of you can give you a lot of pressure, and remember not to do anything you're not ready for.

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