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Wussup? The Name is Lianna, Im 20 y.o, I tend to give good advice, and be real with you. I say what i feel is right, i mean that will be the only way people actually listen. I recently had an account on here, but i deleted it. This is my new one. If you feel you need to ask me a question, please feel free to ask away, I dont discriminate.
Gender: Female
Location: Secaucus, NJ
Age: 20
Member Since: July 7, 2009
Answers: 93
Last Update: March 8, 2012
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Okay. So yesterday probably around 1 or 2 in the afternoon I got a headache i took some tylenol. Before I went to bed I took some more. I had to take more in the morning and i still have a head ache. I am about 10 weeks pregnant if that has anything to do with it. (link)
your not suppose to take tylenol when your pregnant!! it can harm the baby..you need to talk to your doctor more about pregnancy. yoU just gotta deal with the fact that you got a headache. its normal in the pregnancy..Think about your baby's health.


I just got a Facebook, and found some people I haven't seen since third grade on the site (I am 17). Would it be odd if I posted something on their Wall saying "hello" out of nowhere? I found them through others' friend lists. (link)
no, thats what facebook is all about, Have a conversation with them about 3rd grade, it would be fun!


i've grown up going to a christian church and school and i pray everyday but i've never felt God's presence before...

i try to have faith and seek him but it's hard when i don't feel he's there and i feel like there's a hole in my life and i feel lonely but i just don't feel like i'm a christian even though i want to be.

how do i become a christian even though i've already been praying and going to church and have seeked him but don't feel anything?? (link)
prayer is the key..its POWER..you cant give up, ask God to reveal himself to you..The devil likes to play tricks in our heads and tells us to quit praying..you gotta be strong and ask God to give you the energy and strenght to keep going forward..Ask him to forgive you for all your sins and work in your heart, tell him exactly how u feel..talk to him as if he was your friend. he listens. keep prayin!


16/F/Christian
What does the bible say about homosexuality and being sent to H*ll? It just doesn't seem fair that all gays and lesbians can't go to Heaven, especially because God loves EVERYONE. Some people are just born that way and can't help it.
And what about people that are in such an isolated community, that they've never been exposed to God's word or people that don't know Christianity exists? What about them?
And in the old testament, doesn't it say crazy things like, it's okay to rape a woman as long as you marry her afterwards? And if someone hits you, you can chop off their hand, or something like that. That's just...crazy!
Why would God tell someone to put that in the Bible?
What are your thoughts on this? Can someone please clear up the rumors I've heard? Thankyou! Maybe you can recommend some scriptures, too? Thanks, again! (link)
God love everyone,but there are also the devil's children who worship him and God doesnt love them.this is why this world would never come at peace!.. He created adam & eve..FOr a male and Female to be together. People are not born gay at all, they just turn gay after watching and seeing that its ok from other gay people. thats a big rumor!


Hey im 18/f and i've it occured to me today that i really dont believe in heaven or god/jesus. It just seems unreal you know. Somebody today told me you could just replace the word "angel" with "aliens" and people would believe it. One of my old classmates died a couple months ago and i kind of want that peace feeling that hes somewhere good you know. I went to church when i was a kid up until i was about 12. I suppose i just believed in it then because everybody else did. But ive came to the realization that i dont believe in it. I think its all bogus. I really want to believe in it :( but i just dont see how that could be real, i think we just rot in the ground, nothing more, no after life your soul lifting out of your body none of that. Can anybody "inspire" me somehow or convince me that there is a higher power. I really want to believe in jesus :(

Thanks A TON! (link)
i say Pray to God, and read the bible..If you keep doing this it will help..You can also, start visting ur local church to get support from christans..They can pray for you and it will be a start


My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive? (link)
put ur faith in God, and u will see that God is there for you..im 19 and im going through relationship problems, nothing major but i still pray to God for him to control my emotions and make me a stonger person. I think that up to this day God has never left me, and is my only true friend. When you feel as theres noone left in this world, talk to God and watch him work a miracle in your life. He has you here because he puts trail and tribulations in our lives so that we can overcome them and put our turst in him. Later when all this pass by you'll be able to testify the wonders God has done in your life, and will be able to tell other people, who are going through this same problem, why God kept you alive. God is good, and will never leave you.


is it considered cheating if i let my ex girlfriend shit and/or piss on my chest?
or sniff and lick their butthole? (link)
lmao sexual activites more like nasty/sicken acitvies..crazy but yeah it sure is!! anything you think u do sexually is considered cheating.


so i like this guy verrry verry much and he said he liked me a whole lot. he seemed like the right one for me.. we had so much in common, he sent me the sweetest text messages.. whole package.

earlier today, we were talking and i told him (to be open with him), that i had sexual intercourse with a girl 4 years ago, drunk, disoriented, and "went with it" like drunks do during sex.... and when i told him, he freaked and said it wouldn't work, i am disgusting, i am not good enough.. a few mins later he deleted me off myspace and is ignoring me

i wanted to tell him to prove to him i don't want to hide anything from him.. and i looked past his flaws. but when i mention 1 flaw he dumps me.

what did i do wrong? what can i do?? please help!

i of course regret doing that.. it was a party.. and i never did it again! now he makes me just want to repeatedly hit my head against the wall and repeatedly call me stupid.

please, don't tell me what i did was wrong about with the girl.. it was years ago, and i thought he wouldn't mind b/c he didn't mind anything else i told him.

anything would help =[ (link)
sometimes you just gotta keep something to yourself...he doesnt have to know everything. But if your that type of girl who dont like to keep nothing from someone then i suggest that you get with a guy who accept you for who you are.


my doctor told me i have genetial warts. (female). they arent like the ones you see in the pictures when you look up "genetial warts." but i know that is what they are. i was looking for cures. i am getting shots for them but the shots do not cure the ones i have already.

i found lazor surgery as a treatment. also a creme the doctor applys. i dont want to pay a co-pay to just have the doctor rub creme on me when i can do it at home so i found this to be the best...

podofilox (Condylox) - Can be topically applied at home, higher cure rates than Podophyllum resin, useful for prevention.

should i do that? (link)
i think in this case price shouldnt matter. The right way to get cured for genetial warts should be by the doctor, especially if its ur first time/without experience. Dont assume that everything you see on the internet is right. in fact, you may get the right cream but apply it on incorrectly. paying for a co-pay shouldnt matter, your health is what mattters. I suggest you let the doctor do his job.


Sooo I think I might have a yeast infection because I found a little red dry patch on my vagina. My mom does not know that I have been sexually active. So my concern is, is having sex or oral sex the only way to get a yeast infection? HELP! (link)
you can get a yeast infection not only through sex, but by wearing tight or damp jeans,the use of douches or perfumed vaginal hygiene sprays may also increase a woman's risk of developing a vaginal yeast infection.

try this website: Its the causes of yeast infection. https://www.msu.edu/~eisthen/yeast/causes.html


DO you think its ok for your boyfriend to have a girl "friend", where he went to her house ONCE,without your permission,and you never meet her before? (link)
Well i been with him for a little more than 4 years so we are in a commititted realationship..I was just nervous because he never did that to me before. i guess i got a little insecured.


My husband gives me attitude just about everyday, when i call him on the phone he answers the phone "WHAT" and this is the only call of the day, instead of hi how is your day going, but then i notice when we are together and he answers the call of a friend or a relative he answers in the most loving manner. When i ask questions just to start a converstion he answers me with attitude and is short with his answers as if me being around him bothers him. Then he also answers me like if i am stupid for asking certain questions. When i attempt to talk to him about it all he says is "i dont want to hear it" and if you keep it on your going to have hell to pay and what he means by hell is ignoring me and giving me more attitude. It has gotten to the point now i dont even call him anymnore only when i absolutely have to and i dont want to be around him i dont even attempt to start a conversation with him and the worse part about it is when he is trying to be nice i give him the same treatment he gave me and then he has the nerve to ask me what is wrong with me. What is sad is that he has apologized a few times for being this way and acknowledges he is doing wrong but does nothing to try and change it so too me i think he does not care about this marriage at all and i am on the brink of giving up on it even though i love him to death and i guess since i have seen the kinder side of him i think he will go back to the way he used to be; i have never cheated on him i have never lied to him i do everything for this man i am the only one he has, his parents are dead and he has half brotherS and half sisters but they live out of state and i am the only person here for him but he driving me away. (link)
try marriage conseling.. OR maybe with all the stress his been going through is not helping him be nice. But it doesnt give him the right to be extra mean to you..there is something up. Talk to him be real with him, and let him be real with you. Ask where your marriage stand, because you dont deserve to be treated like this.


I really like this purse. I dont care that its fake i honestly cant afford a real one. I dont really care for designer brands either i just reallly like it!! But when i went to check out it said that shipping was $30 unless you buy like 6 things or more. Thats expensive! Almost as much as the purse. Is there a reason its this expensive? Is it safe to give my information out on this site?

http://www.replicas-purses.com/showproduct2.asp?id=7024 (link)
do not buy the purse its not legit...if the site doesnt have a lock on the bottom of the page its not legit. They are scammers and wanna take your money... Be aware of sites that are not popular. dont give out your information.


so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years and we have lived together for a long time now too. so today i came home from work and went on his computer and for some reason started browsing through his internet history. i realized that he had been looking at tons of porn sights and had especially clicked on manyyy pictures of hott girls around my age that they took of themselves. i dont mind if he watches porn or things like that.. i think that is normal all guys do that.. but there were so many pictures of girls my age- not pornos, just pictures of them naked... is this weird? or am i overreacting and this is normal? i dont want to bring it up and make a big deal of it if it is just guys looking at girls.. i dont know. what do you think? (link)
if it makes u feel uncomfortable talk to him, be real with him.. i wouldnt like my man looking at naked girls i would be furious. you gotta put a stop to this if its bothering you.


So i have a boyfriend and i really like him a lot. We've been dating for almost 6 months now. How can i tell i am in love and it is not just another crush? Are there any signs? Because idk. How can i tell he really likes/loves me? Please give advise on the signs of falling in love. (link)
you would defintely know if you love him. its an unexplainable feeling..vice versa with the guy, you would be able to tell if he love you in reality.


heey , so i had sex yesturday and i am taking the morning after pill tomorrow if you take it 2 days after is there a good chance i am not pregnant anymore? i am not positive i am pregnant right now but i am taking it as a precaution.
thanks for the help! (link)
Only take it if he cumed in you...its only for emergency not for fun. u should take it the next day after unprotected sex IF you think he did.


the 411 on my bf and i. we have been together for a year on and off because he was out of state. he is living in the same state as me now. his parents anniversary is coming...but i dont know what to write in their anniversary card...any ideas? (link)
happy (years) anniversary.
wishing you many more years of joy and happiness together. I pray that God will continue to bless you both in a magnificent way. Always appreciate and love each other dearly. congradualations and enjoy this special day!

Love,
ur Name


THIS is if u believe in God .lol


Um....what happens when you have sex? what does the guy like you to do? how does he like you to do it? (link)
when you have sex you should feel really comfortable with the guy, so you can be able to talk to him about it and what he would want you to do. just simply ask the guy its obvious thats you havent had sex before,so be real with him. u shouldnt have nothing to worry about.


The back half of my vagina itches, its seems to be on the inside-ish. I shave down there so my thought is that its chaffing (i hadn't shaved in awhile- so maybe it was caused by that). It doesn't really itch when im like lying down, its just when im walking/ moving.

Any ideas what this is (or if its just chaffing) and how i can fix it?

Thanks so much. (link)
go to the gynecologist, they will tell then and there what is the problem.


ok so im a bisexual female (18) and i've only had one girlfriend before my current one. I love her so much and we havent done anything sexual yet we are taking our time. I was wondering where i can go for free information on how to pleasure her. I have to keep up with her boyfriend and i feel a little insecure about it. please help me out (link)
you can go to yahoo, ask, or google.com and research. Most websites even have products which you can buy online. OR you can go to a nearby sex store if you have one and can ask the employees there to help you pick out something to pleasure her.Also, you shouldnt feel like you have to keep up with her boyfriend, because she is with you for a reason.




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