umm...im tall, blue eyes really sweet and get along wit pretty much anyone i meet. juss ask me anything cuz ive probably been through it all.
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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking? (link)
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no i dont agree. u have to keep lookin 4 the right guy. once u think u've found him, go 4 him but keep looking bcuz it mite not work out w/u and that guy. hope i helped ya!
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Ok this is how it goes...This past friday night this girl, lets say her name is sarah invited me to her house.. I was wit 2 of my friends and we were only gunna go there for a couple minutes..While we were there me n sarah kissed and during us kissing she said she didnt want it to seem like she was leading me on and that we were friends with benifits..i dont really wanna b friends wit benifits and now in her info she has sumthin that says "crushing"...is that about me or about some one else...i asked her and she didnt tell me, idk if it was bc i was wit my friend or wat but i want answers..please help (link)
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u need 2 ask sarah in private about all of this. ask her wut her tru feelings are 4 u and she'll probably tell u. if u 2 kissed then she has to like u somehow. hope i helped ya!
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im 14/f nd im having pblms wit my best friend of 9 years, "trish". we r both in eighth grade nd in the same classes together.i recently had some problems with my sister whose on drugs moving back into the house and stirring up much trouble for my mom nd me. she moved out nd we are piecing our lives back together. anyways, this past june i got into a fight with some gurl at the movies and i got arrested. from then on, trish's mom has not trusted us together she wont let trish and i go anywhere together, the movies, football games, or the mall! trish told me that he mother thinks i will have a bad influence on her. I WONT. ive really straightened out my life and ive stopped getting into fights. Her mom still wont let us hang out tho! its really bothering me.nd i cant prove myself to her mom because she wont let us go n e where! nd last night trish and her other friend who doesnt get into trouble, we'll call her "megan", went to the movies together. i havnt confronted her about it, i dont know if i should. im kind of mad at trish nd i know i shouldnt be but she doesnt do anything to defend me! im soo confused pleasee help me =) thnx (link)
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dont be mad at trish. if there is someone to be mad at, its ur sister. she messed up ur regular life. maybe if you could get ur mom 2 tell trishs mom that ur really a good kid then trishs mom would trust u. trish should really do something to defend u and u should confront her about that. if no one will believe u, then next time trish goes someplace like to the mall, then just meet her there and tell her not to tell her mom. hope i helped ya!
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ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation? (link)
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u shouldnt put urself in the middle of it, but u can give ur friends advice about it. if sara doesnt like bob then tell her to tell him 2 back off and remind him that he has a gf. liz needs to talk 2 bob about this and if he denies it, then she needs to seriously consider breaking up w/bob. hope i helped ya!
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So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?! (link)
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the only way to get over feelings is to try to forget about it. this situation sounds extremely hard to handle, like a divorce or a death of the family. if u feel so bad about it, then tell him and ask him if u can still be good friends. hope i helped ya!
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I have two friends, a girl and a guy. I have a crush on my guy friend....but my girl friend is in the way. I mean, she already has a BOYFRIEND...but it's as if her boyfriend is our guy friend. I also think that he likes her, because he's always hugging her and being nice to her, while both of them leave me out and make me feel bad. And when they talk, I can't get into the conversation, because I have no connection to what they are talking about. HELP! (link)
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thats good that u atleast kno the guy u have a crush on. u should tell ur gurl friend that she should lay off bcuz she has a bf. u should also tell her that she shouldnt leave u out. u should tell her that u dont understand wut shes talkin about and that u want 2 be included. hope i helped ya!
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I am in love with this guy i used to be dating. him and my best friend are really tight. sumtimes i think too tight. I got dumped for her, but they never went out again. when they first were together Marie cheated on Logan. but Marie (my friend) and Logan (my X) are still very tight. I love marie to death but all she does is talk about Logan. she got dumped 3 weeks ago by her boyfriend she was with for 9 months. i know she loves him and only loves logan as a friend. but sumtimez i cant help but be jealous. Im not positive if Logan still like marie. But when i think of how hurt i was when i got dumped i cant help but blame marie too!! i feel like a bad friend that and i really want Logan back... please help me!!
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ok. logan dumped u for marie. big loser. its good that u can tell the difference in marie that she only likes logan as a friend and nothing more. its ok to be jealous. if u think logan might still like marie, then ask him. u should be able to tell whether hes lying or not. as much as i kno that u wanna blame marie, u cant. it wuz all logans fault, but u can tell marie that u feel bad that she dated the guy that u still love. ur not a bad friend, u just need to tell her that. i think it could make u and marie even closer. if u want logan back, then i would tell him that too. if he says he doesnt want u then he is such a big loser and i would just 4get bout him. he'll realize what he gave up and be really sorry. hope i helped ya!
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hey okay so i have a question. okay so i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. i was a bit drunk, he was a little drunk, and we ended up hooking up- only made out. i said to him at the time, okay so is this going to be a random hook up or are you actually going to call me and he said no im going to call you i really am. so skip some a week later he calls me and says he do you want to hang out. of course i did but i couldnt. so yah. so we have been talking and stuff but im worried he is just looking for a hook up.. and that isnt wat im looking for. we are hanging out next weekend and just watching scary movies and stuff- should i just wait till then to figure it out...? he is just so hard to read i cant tell! (link)
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if u really want a serious relationship then tell him that. if he always seems a little drunk, maybe thats because he drinks b4 he hangs w/u. if u really wanna find out if he is juss lookin 2 hook up, then id wait until u hang w/him. hope i helped ya!
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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do? (link)
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u can always just go together as friends. if u dont want peeps 2 make fun of u 2 then tell him that. if he is really sweet like that then he'll understand. hope i helped ya!
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My friend Lisa shes soo annoying, shes my best friend and i love her. But she's a blonde and she abuses that fact.. she imed me today and this is wut happened::
her: whats the number to a hospital
me: why
her: you call 1-800-911 right
me: no
her: i need the number to 911
she pretends to be a dumbass and shes not dumb at all. i can't even have a conversation with her without her asking me what a word means, and she only says it to make herself look blonde, and she sounds so retarded it pisses me off. how can i get her to stop? (link)
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well u will have 2 definently insult her 2 get her 2 shut up. http://www.quotemania.2ya.com/ this is a website w/tons of insults. hope i helped ya!
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well, i REALLY like this guy. and the other day without tellin me my best friend was talkin to him and asked him how he felt about me. well, she told me that he thought of me as just a friend. i was really upset, and my cousin is tellin me to just get over him and find another guy. but the thing is, i dont want to like another guy. hey, i may never get a chance with this guy, but its still ok to have a crush on him, right? or is my cousin right and i need to find another dude, perferably one i stand a chance with? thanks guys..yall rock. (link)
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ur totally rite. u can still have a crush on him but hey u can have more then 1 crush. when u get a bf, then u will slowly 4get ur feelings 4 the other dude. hope i helped ya!
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well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend? (link)
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look what that 1st guy did 2 u. remind him of that. his best friend seems sweet and u should stick with him and ignore the fact that ur ex. cries over u. hope i helped ya!
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Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love? (link)
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yes it is very possible. if u really find someone who is everything u wanted and it seems like there is no way 2 ever break up then that is definently love. but remember, at that age people say i love u without thinking. so take that into consideration. hope i helped ya!
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There's this girl who sometimes hangs out with me at school.The only thing she does is brag, like really randomly and its sooo annoying! She just says random things about how big her house is, how well she can dance, and blah blah blah and i hate it. I'm plain out sick of it and everybody is, and next time she brags to me i wanna say something that will shut her up...like a good comeback. I'm not like being mean, but seriously she's annoying everyone and i just wanna say something witty to shut her up. any ideas? (link)
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go to http://www.quotemania.2ya.com/ and then you can find tons of insult quotes and really shut her up. hope i helped ya!
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Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do! (link)
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ok, u gotta calm down. i kno its definently shocking and hurtful, but u gotta always keep positive. if u feel like its too hard to handle, then get a diary and write it down inside. that way, uve gotten it off of ur shoulders. divorces are nothing 4 u 2 worry about. just let ur parents handle it and everything will be fine. if u ever wanna im me my s/n is volleyballash101. hope i helped ya!
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ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut??? (link)
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he definently wants 2 ask u out. just give him a little bit more time, because he seems to be shying away from the question. if this goes on 4 too long, then just ask him about it. hope i helped ya!
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Ok theres a guy in school who I like, His name is Jake. Hes a grade younger than me. Well Jake rides my bus, everyone thinks he likes me, and I get hugs and he tells me he loves me. But when hes around his friends (most are mine as well) he doesn't act the same. And there are some days where he doesn't even talk to me in the hall. My question is : is it possible that sometimes he is in a bad mood, or are most guys like this? or does he just not like me.
by the way 14/f .... hes 14 as well but still in a grade below. (link)
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some guys are like that. they act one way around u and then another around u and ur friends. so sometimes its a bad mood, sometimes its just the way guys are. hope i helped ya!
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ok well me and this guy are really close friends. i asked him who he liked and hes like no one actually. so im like ok. and then he said to me one night on the internet, promise that we wont fall for eachother again. and im like ok. but i feel like im getting vibes or w/e that he likes me. cuz we were playing bball(one on one) adn he touched my butt a couple of times.(on purpose? who knows) and then hes like u should go to my tourney. and i hope u go and all. so i went. and he kept "eyeing me" like every so often he would just quickly look at me.
so my question is..and i just imagining things..or do u think he likes me but he doesnt want to say..or something
o one more thing when i asked him who he likes he said something like...well i dont want to make a big deal about it, cuz i no its nothing...
signed,
really confused (link)
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dear really confused
this guy definently likes u. u should tell him how u feel about the situation. hang out with him lots and u will definently discover whether he likes u or not. hope i helped ya!
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How do you know when your in love? (link)
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you kno when ur in love if u find a guy that has lots of common interests w/u and u feel comfortable around him. u also feel safe and happi around the guy. hope i helped ya!
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i have this problem....whenever 1 of my friends likes a guy, i start to like him too but i never get him! how can i stop this?
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if u and one of ur friends likes a guy, then u should check w/them b4 trying to go 4 them. if they give u the okay bcuz it couldnt work out, then go 4 it. flirt lots and if u dont get that guy then hes a loser 4 not datin u. hope i helped ya!
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