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Help. I'm fat.

ummm be a little more specific cuz i can't even tell if this is a joke.

Some people can't help being 'fat' they're just built different. Try getting a new nutritious eating habit. Trainers have specific meals that can help you have a lot of protein and to have a steady diet. Remember that its better to eat a lot of healthy stuff than nothing at all... you HAVE to eat. In fact you burn more calories eating than doing most other things... healthy foods keep those calories off.

Just find a sport that you like and have fun with it. You don't neccesarily even have to join a league if you don't have time for that. Just go outside and shoot some hoops or play catch every week. But most important you must accept who you are and then set a realistic goal. So get off this dang computer right now, grab an apple, and swim some laps.

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so i have this friend. and she really wants a dinosaur for her birthday. and i keep telling her that i cant get her one. then she gets mad at me and bite my hair. im almost bald now. its pretty tragic if you ask me. like what am i suppose to do without my hair..like i lovvve to sniff it after i shampoo it you know?? yeah...so back to my problem. i got this girl a "MY LITTLE PONY"(i mean common now. pony..dinosaur..same differnce right?) and she chunked it at my kankles and then started to cry. can miss andie help me and my pony problem?!

omg i can't believe your balding!!! that's so sad.. well i suggest a scented wig for now. Maybe you should "accidently" knock this girls teeth out so she'll stop biting you. And I think it was a good job improv-ing with the pony. And she was probably just crying because your kankles were so gross.. so don't feel too bad about the gift just wear high socks. good luck

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hey andie this be brittany and i need ur advise...lol okay so theres this chick named andie and she thinks shes a true gangsta but ive told her a million times shes not even HALF as gangsta as me...but she wont listen to me...and um well she beter or im gonna hafta bust a cap...
hmmm? well ur a good body guard...everyones scared now...as they should be....!!! muahahahahahahahhahaha i love you and please give me some good ass advise on what i should do...

maybe you just too caught up in da game to realize the true gansta within andiddy... give her a chance and there will be no bustin a cap unless its done by yo body guard. haha i'm a hoss!!!

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I have this friend that I really like..and he says that we would date in high school..but he dosent like me..how can I get him to like me..and he is to shy to hang out..well he said he would but he is very shy! What do I do?

well you can't make someone like you but you can talk to him more and invite him to go see a movie or something so ya'll can hang out and get to know each other more. He might seem shy around people he isn't comfortable with so help him to feel like he can be himself around you. which means you need to be around him.. talking to him online doesnt count. ya'll need to hang out.. whether it be one on one or in a group.

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im going to be moving into a new house and the room that i get is pretty small compared to the bigg room i had before, does anyone know any good idea to make the room bigger??
and also any good themes for my room, and if u do any good websites to check out for room decorating?
thanks so much!

don't paint the room dark.. it always makes the room look smaller for some reason and try getting a bed with like built in droors so you don't have to fill up space with a dresser. There are also many storaging ideas that can be organized and be placed in closets which will also take clutter out of your bedroom.

I don't know of any great websites for room decorating but you can google it and i'm sure something will come up. I'm re doing my small room also and i'm trying a bohemian thing so it will be relaxing and whatnot.. so i definitely suggest something like that so you can get away from school and family and feel comfortable in a calm room instead of crazy colors that you'll get sick of real quick. try muted colors but brighten the walls a bit to keep it more open.

i know this is long but i once read about how kids were using their closet as part of their room and taking off the door and just putting a desk in there or something.. so that might be cool if it works out. hope i helped

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Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.

- Dazed and Confused.

well its good that you came out and told your friends.. although it was a very risky move it was the right thing to do. I understand that this is a very tough situation for you but you need to accept yourself the way you are. Once you feel comfortable with yourself maybe your friends will lighten up. You have to understand that it is a very awkward situation for them and they need some time to think about it and get used to it. If you continue to be a good friend to them then hopefully they will come around. Surround yourself with your family for comfort and begin to try and meet new people.. consider it a fresh start. Always be honest with your friends and if they can't accept you for you then they must not be good friends anyways. But it will take time unfortunately. A good way to make new friends is to get active in a club.. softball, student council, swimming, etc. hope everything works out. Don't feel bad about yourself and don't have any regrets just know you did the right thing to be honest. good luck

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I think I am addicted to video games. I am 14/F and it's sad but true. What do I do? I mean I don't mean to be, I never finish my homework. (During the school year) I have not eaten in days. I don't know what to do, I need help. I am playing and typing at the same time right now!

Please help with my disorder.

this is a tough one to break but its totally normal a lot of kids go through this. When you're not playing the video game you're probably thinking about it in your head so instead of playing it on the tv/computer go ahead and do it yourself. for example if you're playig an NBA game go outside and play basketball with some friends. Active addictions are way better than technology addictions and you can get way more fun out of it too. If that doesn't work then try to use the game as a reward... after you finish homework you can treat yourself to a game. As for the eating problem just tell yourself that after you finish that level you're going to go get a piece of fruit. Games can also build stress if you don't win so instead of waiting for yourself to win take a run outside... its sounds weird but it will really calm you down and its a chance to get you outside. This won't be an easy habit to break so you really have to commit to decreasing game time. good luck

ps: a lot of people can get addicted to gambling and bad stuff like that so learn how to break bad habits from the beginning.

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ok..if this is the second time i wrote this sry. it says i didnt ask a question and i need some advice. well i am 14 years old and there is this guy. we have been talking for about a month and a half now. he tells me he loves me and we almost had sex. everyone always asks me if we go out, i never know what to tell them so then i just asked him what were we?..were we just talkin or do we go out?..and he said we are just talking. i mean i like u but i want to talk to other girls.

should i keep talkin to him to see if things get better. or shut him outta my life? i just dont wanna get hurt. yah kno?

shut him out of your life... men are dogs.... outdoor dogs, ew let him find another poor bitch... haha get it bitch, female dog? lol wow that was a good... k it was stupid but you should totally dump him its like a 'friends with benefits' thing, hate to break it to ya but he's just using you. be careful good luck

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okay well tomorrow or thursday this guy that i like is gonna come down to my house .. i only have one thing planed and that is watch a movie.. because we won't have to talk because well i won't say he's shy but he's not good at making conversation.. so i realised it would be a good way to just like chill and cuddle :-) but what else can we do because that only takes up like 2 hours or less of the time! any answers would be gladly appreciated.. easy 5

play a game or invite some other people over after the movie... you could always go outside and shoot some hoops or swim.. play video games, cuz if ya'll aren't talking then you can just concentrate on the game yet there still is time to talk if it comes up! good luck

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i was wondering if it is ok to have your horse as your best freind

hahaha of course it is sweetie horses are great.. yet they hate me so it wouldn't be ok if they were my best friend : /

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Okay.. I get made fun of at school a lot for dressing like a guy. I'm kind of big, and not really into the whole pink shimmery preppy look. But I want to be "fashionable"... and stopped getting teased so much. Can you give me any ideas that would work for me?

well first of all don't let people MAKE you change your style if you're fine with it just the way it is. But here are some tips... instead of wearing tennis shoes all the time, buy at least 2 cute flips flops and instead of basketball shorts every day try a pair of capris every once and a while and something even easier is hair accessories. Instead of the every day pony tail try a braid or if you want to keep the pony tail try a cute hair clip. you dont have to wear all of this at once.. you can wear your comfy clothes with a cute necklace.. just match a little girly accessory with every outfit. don't change who you are just change a little part of your outfit.

ps: if you want like a 'new look' try looking through some magazines to find a cute style that you can start getting into.. there are way more things out there than glitterock prep, just find what you like!! have fun and i hope i helped.

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What do I do when I need to kick the habbit of putting peanut butter on my balls and letting my dog....yeah...

you punch yourself in the throat and hide the peanut butter from yourself.... then realize what i perv you are before I have to make you realize it myself!


and yes that is a threat

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i wuv you pandie!! we need to have a reunion sometime!!! i miss u soo much!! xoxoxo!! sorry i dont have a question for you! haha

smooches
lolo!

I KNOW BABE!! I miss all of you, ya'll were my greatest friends!!! xoxo

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ok so last summer i got a haircut rite? it came out HORRIBLE, too WAY TOO short! i was so embaressed. so i went to a professional place and it got even worse. i was ALWAYS getting made fun of and i hated it. well the past school year i whore my hair up every single day! now i want my hair to grow really long but since the last haircut i got was a year ago, i dont think my hair will grow. i dont want to "get a trim" cause i want it to grow! should i just snip a tiny bit of hair off myself? please help!

don't cut it yourself!! gah you'll totally regret it. You should get a trim just tell them about 3 cm. You also might want to ask if there are any hair products that increase hair growth. Some easy things you can do at home are stuff like massaging your scalp ((anytime.. when shampooing or jsut watching tv)) and before you go to bed or when you blow dry your hair flip your head over for about 25 seconds or so... both of these will create more blood circulation in your scalp so the hair will grow quicker. good luck

ps: don't use a ton of conditioner either or else it clogs your hair follicles. hope that helps!

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hey andie..i've liked this boy for a really long time now.. and i think he likes me(b/c he always flirts w/ me ) but i am not sure if i should tell him, i like him so i dont have to keep waiting for him...what do you think....

well you should definitely tell him how you feel and its great that he's flirting back but it still might shock him a bit so I would start with subtle hints. Or maybe ask him to a movie with some friends so it doesn't become an online thing. Make sure that he's really flirting and youre not just imagining it... haha it sounds silly but it happens. ((ask yourself.. 'does he treat every girl like this or just me?')) And if you still feel confident enough go for it! If he doesn't feel the same way don't get upset or regret anything, maybe he'll come around... or maybe another cutie will. Hope i helped!! good luck

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okay. so i think i like this kid right? and hes nice and all. but he acts different around different people. and it kinda bugs me. cuz like yeah. can you help? like should i stop liking them? help mwha. :)

well if it bothers you enough where if ya'll were dating it would interfere then i'd say stop liking him but if not then go for it. good luck


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i have been friends with these people forever and after a fight(that i dont even know what was about) i seem to cant make things right what do i do..?

figure out what the fight was about... be completely honest with these people and straight out tell them you want to make things right and then follow through with it. If you have trouble being forgiven then you need to be extra careful with how you act towards these people... don't get offended if they won't accept you back right away, they've been hurt whether you realize it or not so now its your time to help them feel better and treat them like you'd want to be treated.

ps: I'm sure you've felt this way about someone ((they hurt you and you didn't want to be friends with them)) so remember how it felt and do what you wanted them to do in order to become friends again... sort of confusing sorry but hope I helped, good luck

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okay. question. more like an opinon. but if a guy likes you. and you know it. and you like them. would you tell em? tell me your thoughts. xoxo

yes unless I wasn't completely positive I liked the person because I wouldn't want to regret anything or get hurt... or even worse, hurt the other person.

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i have a siriouse case of cancer and need to know what im supposed to do to stay calm!the docter says i may not make it!PLEASE someone help me!!!

have you ever heard of mind over matter? It can truly work miracles. If you just tell yourself that you're going to live no matter what and NEVER give up hope no matter what the circumstances you can survive anything. Don't dwell over this unfortunate bad news just keep telling yourself you'll be okay until finally everything will. Keep yourself busy to keep your mind off of it and let the doctor know that your nervous. I hope everything works out for you, I'll pray for you. This is a challenge that you can over come, and just know that there are families going through worse things. I know you'll be ok.

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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed?

Yea its totally normal in fact I'm getting over one right now. As for the congestion I use zicaam ((not sure how you spell it)) its this liquid stuff that you put in your nose and goes through your blood stream, its really easy to use and helps a lot! And if you ever get a real bad cold again use airborne

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