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how I have skinner cheeck? (link)
You obviously just have a round face shape. So do i. Theres really nothing u can do but lose weight. Just dont get too skinny.


my legs are really splotchy and not a very smooth skin tone, how do i fix them up?
Thanks:)

PS also my legs and face dont tan well and evenly, my face doesnt turn brownish and even, always red...any way to help with this?
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the facial redness just means you need to give your face a few days to turn brown, (out of the sun.) i have that same problem. as for your legs, you might have ictheosis, which is a skin condition my dermatologist diagnosed me with. its when you have dry, kinda scaly flaky skin. n it can look like roadmaps on youre legs lol. youd have to go to a derm and get a prescription for ammonium lactate, a lotion that cures it. shaving your legs also helps though, bc its sloughs off dead skin. hope this helps!


What is it called when a person cant date anyone but the person they are going to married? Thanks to whoever answers. (link)
i think its an arranged marrige? maybe. hope this helps


ok so after i have sex with my boyfriend it burns hella bad like excruciating pain i d k but like sometimes if he doesnt cum in me it doesnt burn at all lol i used to think i was allergic to his cum but im sure thats not what it is cus usually it happens either way and it seems like every time he rips me open too and that happens as soon as he goes in and its not like im dry well usually im wet but either way i rip and end up bleading so i d k w t f is going on and i was wondering if anyone can help if you know whats going on with the burning thing and the ripping too and if you know what might help if you need anymore details let me know and i can tell you everything

much thanks (link)
ok well if you rip everytime you have sex then youre reallly tight. this sounds kinda..gross..but if you masterbate using something inside you, graduating from smaller objects to larger, youll be looser, & it wont hurt as bad, and you wont tear. as for the burning, guys cum smells kinda like bleach, because it kinda is, in the way that cum has bleach-like chemicals to break through vaginal fluids so the sperm can impregnate the girl. so the burning is normal, but if its really bad, youre probly a little dry. try making out hXc (which makes for greatt sex :) or have him eat you out. that works really good lol. hope this helps! - ali, 16/f


Lately, I find myself listening to the same bands over and over. I'd really like some suggestions for new bands to listen to.
Anything similar to:

The Rocket Summer, Mayday Parade, The Used, Just Surrender, or This Providence.

I'd prefer bands that are more unknown, too, because I know a lot of better known bands.
Thanks =] (link)
senses fail, bet on black (unsigned band :) , say anything, atreyu, bullet for my valentine, alterbridge, the 69 eyes, HIM, kill hannah (insanely amazing), hawthorne heights, hollywood undead, bring me the horizon..hope u like these, good luck :)


What would be the best way to hide the fact that you smoke from your parents?
I've gotten away with it for like 5 months, but I'm worried that they'll find out and freak.
I mean I always have a lighter in my bag...and my dad knows, he doesn't give a shit. But if my mom found out she would kill me.
Well my dad knows that I smoke, but he pretends that he doesn't...so yeah.
I usually stay in a t-shirt when I'm smoking, and then after put on a hoodie and/or a jacket. Then I chew gum or eat mints and spray some axe around.
I have also found a solution to the finger smelling problem, I put some rosy shit lipbalm on my fingers and then they smell like ''soap''

But I need some better methods as my mom is getting suspicious since I use a can of deodorant a week or so.

Thanks dudes.
m//15

Btw...I don't want no lectures about how bad this is for me.
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i just turned 16, & i smoke too :). my mom doesnt care anymore, but i got away with hiding it for about 5 months also. dont use axe or deoderant to cover up the smell; use febreeze or something that "eats" odors. chewing gum n mints like said helps good too. if your parents smoked itd be a helluva lot easier hide..what youre already doing is pretty much what i did..and it worked for long time. if your mom finds out, jus tell her at least its not the worst thing you could do like drugs or bangin hoes haha. hope this helps :)


how do you lighten your eyebrows? my hair is light but my eyebrows are black. someone dyed them to match my black hair but now it's faded and my eyebrows look so harsh. help? :[ (link)
take a good pair of tweezers, and look in the mirror verry closely at your eyebrows. you will see some thin wispy eyebrows, and there will be other thicker, much blacker eyebrows. when these thick ones are pulled out, they have thick black roots as well. these are the hairs you want to get rid of. (but not every single one..) pluck these out. be careful, and take your time, because it will take some time..about 20-30 minutes per brow. i do this to mine and it works great. hope this helps :)


okay i know i sound dumb but what are all the bases?..i think 1st base i s makeing out and all the way is sex but i dont know..yeahhhh (link)
1st base is making out, 2nd base is feeling up boobs, 3rd base is fingering, eating out, handjobs n blowjobs, and 4th base is sex. hope this helps :)


why do you think this movie is considered anti-war?? (link)
What movie are you even talking about?


17/f and not sexually active. i keep down there really clean. i know discharge is natural, but after coming off my latest period it has smelled funky for a couple days. it is a little white/clear liquid that smells kinda like meat and cheese. it can't be a yeast infection b/c it doesn't itch! what could this be? what should i do? please don't say ask a doctor, i'm trying to ask a doctor right now (link)
depending on where you are in your cycle, your discharge will look and smell different. it also changes as you get older. i had the same problem, and this is basically what the doctor told me. its just kinda gross to the person its happening to is all. probably no one else can even smell it but you, because everyone is tuned into their own scent, being paranoid about it. weird, i know, but i hope this helps! :


Okay well we'll start with the basics. I'm a female, and 16 in a month and 11 days. I started having sex about a year ago. I've always gotten my period, sometimes late and sometimes on time. Last month I got my period but it was a few days late. On the other side of this story, I applied for a job and have to take a drug test. The last time I smoked was about a week and a few days ago. My friend gave me some niacin and some detox7 pills. I've been taking about 6-8 niacin a day and 4-6 detox7 pills.

Okay now to what's been happening to me since sunday morning. Saturday morning I took the 6 niacin and 4 detox7. Saturday night I went to Tommy Bahama's for a friends sweet sixteen and the pasta I order didn't really taste good but I ate it anyways. Afterwards, we went to her house to stay the night. I didn't fully go to bed til maybe two but I felt fine. Sunday morning I woke up with a nauseated stomach. I threw up once and then went to eat breakfast. After I ate I felt fine. As soon as my mom picked me up and brought me home, I puked out the pancakes I had eaten. I never puked after that day. Sunday afternoon I finally took my pills 6 niacin and 4 detox7. Went to bed around 12 and felt fine. I woke up nauseated again. I drank some milk and ate some yogurt. On my way to school I had my carpool pull over so I could throw up. That's the only time I threw up Monday. Monday night I took 8 niacin's and that's it. I went to bed at around 12. Tuesday morning(today) I woke up at around 4 and had to puke. There was nothing in my stomach so I threw up a yellowish bile. This continued til about 6. I threw up about 6-8 times. And went back to bed soon after. I'm awake now and do not feel nauseated at all.

Now for my question.
I have a doctor's appointment at 3. Are these effects of the niacin or do I have morning sickness and pregnant? (link)
it sounds like effects of the niacin, but i know more about pregnancy scares, with my having 2 of them, and being almost exactly as old as you. if this is morning sickness, then you could be anywhere from 1 - 4 months pregnant. this is usually accompanied by feelings of exhaustion (or just more tired than usual.) spotting, (like a mini-period) and your breasts would get bigger and a little sore. your best bet would be to get a pregnancy test from the drustore. ive gotten them before and they work. if you have any other questions about whether or not you could be pregnant, send me a message or im me on aim s/n blahblahally27. :)


well, let me start by saying that i've never actually made myself throw up. but i have stuck objects down my throat to make myself gag. after i eat have a tendency to feel sick. in order to make myself feel better, i have to do this to myself. i would feel better if i would actually throw up- but no matter what i can't seem to actually get myself to puke. which is probably a good thing.. hah. anyhow.. about how abnormal is this process? should i do something about it? (i am not fat. i am 5''3 and 106 lbs.) (link)
as long as you dont have a negative body image, or think youre fat and are trying to make yourself skinnier, then no, you dont have an eating disorder per se, you have a disorder with eating..make sense? since your not actually throwing up, and arent trying to make yourself stick-thin, you have nothing to be ashamed of. so talk to your parents about going to the doctor or a food-related therapist if nessecary. you may have a type of medical disorder or sickness, but not anorexia/bulimia nervosa. hope this helps, and good luck :)


My Skin down there is covering over my head (penis head), is this normal? (link)
yes, it just means you werent circumcised. most guys are circumcised when they were either a baby or small toddler. it just makes the penis easier to clean. and such. i guess you could always get circumcised if you want, although i dont know, because of age. ask your parents why you werent if you want. hope this helps :)


ok well when my boyfriend tried to do this pretty much all he did was do what he would do with his finger when figuring me and i guess it tasted HORRIBLE and i even washed and scrubbed down there and what not and it didnt feel good isnt he supposed to like lick the rest down there? cuz ya what he did didnt feel good and idk if i will let him do it again because it tasted that bad. so ya is he doing it wrong if so what is he supposed to do? (link)
not to sound pervrted or gross, but hes supposed lick, nibble , and suck the clit, and go inside your vagina with his toungue. the main focus is on the clit though. hope this helps =)


are girls supposed to have hair on their pussy?
Or no? Whats better? (link)
yes, everyone has pubes, but most guys prefer it completly shaved or waxed. shavings a pain but waxing hurts like shit. altho it does last longer. shaving is your best bet. good luck =)


Hi I'm 13/F and I need six pack ABS but (there is always a but) I only have 4 months to get them. Please help people I need them and I dont have that much time if you need the exthact date I need them by june 22nd. Thank you so so so so much to anyone who answers. (link)
your a girl why the hell would you want a six pack?? ew. eat healthy and do a million crunches, shotguns, alphabets, etc per day


Ok thoday was my first time fingering myself well i had some blood on my finger.I'm a virgin still and did i pop my cherry? (link)
Yes


13/f

Okay... This makes me nervous, but I... Well... You know the word. I do that, but today... I hit this part and it really hurt... It kinda hurts now. Did I do something wrong??? I cannot tell anybody else this because it's my secret... Nobody knows about my... Thing. So... Can somebody tell me what i might've done????
p.s is it bad to... Do that at my age? Thank you! (link)
no its perfectly fine at your age. i did it then, and younger. i remember one time i was doing that..around your age..and i hit something. it surprised me and hurt so that it actually paralyzed me for a few seconds. i remember it still hurt after a couple hours, but after about a day it went away. you have nothing to worry about, i did the same thing. im 16 now and im fine. i was perfectly ok a few days after. but it scared the crap out of me! dont worry tho your ok. feel better =)


i need heavy metal/death metal (etc) music but the instrumental or karaoke version! (no singing but maybe some screams here and there)

napalm death is too screamy. i need this for school project to play in the background of my presentation (link)
try some cradle of filth. i dont know for sure, but judging from all their stuff ive heard (quite alot) they can be very dark and instrumental. try too look through their songs for one with little or no words, theres a good chance youll find one. good luck! =)


i have a question.. ive never made out b4 i know haha but how do you ... like step by step how do you make out .where does ur tongue go? im a girl . help me out (link)
its rather hard to explain..but doing its really easy. when the times comes you just know what to do. its instinct. but, to answer some questions, their toungue will be goin around inside your mouth, and you just do what they do. its really easy once you get the hang of it =) good luck!




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