My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
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me and my friends have a so called"friend" named jodi.weve known her for like half a year.at first she seemed cool.but then she got really annoying.she started acting like a bytch and only do what she would wanna do.so should we keep talking behind her baq and acing like were her friend.or confront her and tell her we dont wanna be her friend
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You should not keep talking about her behind her back...but you also should not be bluny with her and tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore. I know how annoying people can be but believe it or not everyone is annoying to someone and you wouldn't like it if they came up to you and told you not to hang around them anymore...you know what I mean?
I mean, I don't blame you for wanting to take a break from her but how about without your friends knowing, you go up and confront Jodi and tell her that you don't appreciate how she only goes with what she wants to do...and choose an arrangement for you guys to all choose different things you want to do...
good luck...just please dont hurt her feelings...
~Gessyka~
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I'm 13/f, and i live in florida. does anyone know where i could get a job?(well, im 13 next week.) i'm in the tampa area (palm harbor) and i'm really into music (a gig job would be AWESUM) (i'm learning guitar, and i sing) thanks!
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Well to get into a gig you need to practice a lot and have a set plan...and that may be hard for a 13 year old...but good luck with that...
As for any other jobs...13 years is a hard age for getting a job...usually you may have to wait until your 14 or 15 ... but then again it may be different policies in different areas...
You could babysit for a job..I know I say that to people a lot but 13 is a hard age...
Good Luck...keep practicing your guitar..
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My ex-girlfriend and i broke up a while ago. I didn't want to break up, but we did. I thought i would be ok with it after a while, but i'm not. Every time i see her i wish we were still together. It's hard for me to hang around her or even think about her as just a friend. How can i get over her and just be her friend? (link)
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You're going to have to figure that out yourself...I know this sounds like sucky advice but there's hardly any ways people can tell you to get over her...
I'm not going to lie it will probably be hard for you...but I'm sure once you allow yourself to move on everything will go smoothly..date some other girls and try to get your mind off of her..
Also, make sure you still keep in touch with yoru ex-girlfriend no matter how strong the feelings you have for her are..you shouldn't allow yourself to hold back and miss out on a great friend..
----->> PLUS, if you avoid her all because you have these feelings for her still, it will hurt much more...I know this sounds strange but being around her maybe can help you to get over her a little..ya know?..you'll realize that she's moved on and she still cares about you as a friend...
Good Luck to you...xo's
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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways. (link)
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okay you should really take some Tums adn some saltine crackers...that helps to keep your naseous-level down...
Try falling asleep on the plane so you won't focus so much on your airsickness...
You may have grown out of this...who knows?? Warn your boyfriend if you feel comfortable enough...
I'm not good with this type of avice I've never been on a plane yet..but good luck and see if there are some light medicines to sooth your stomach aches on the plane...
Good Luck
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Well i get hotflashes everytime i have sex. what can that mean? DUUUUDE :-\ (link)
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Hey...*squints* I know you...
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i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do? (link)
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Just spill your guts out to her...tell her everything...she's not a very good friend if she made that up about you..you should tell her everything and talk to your boyfriend...please..just let her know how you feel.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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BOTTOM LINE: stick to your morals...
I'm totally serious...not sticking to your morals is going against what your heart tells you to do..and that's not good. If he loves you he should wait...you BOTH should...
Sex is a special thing and just because you love someone doesn't mean it's all about the sex...you could love someone for 20 years before you have sex...and if it's really love you both would be willing to wait for each other...
I'm sure you and your boyfriend are very happy together..but, you never know how long the relationship will last. Personally, I believe in premarital sex but then again I don't...I don't believe a piece of paper saying that you're married should change what already felt like it was...but marriage IS a big deal no matter how people look at it. It's a lifetime commitment to each other and I'm not saying that your boyfriend would ever do anything bad to you but..he could leave you the second you lose your virginity...
Now, I'm not saying he will but its good to keep the relationship on hold and stuff..and to slow things down from time to time no matter HOW MUCH you both love each other...waiting will be sooo great in the long run...
The way I look at it is..if you wait until your married to share something as special as sex...it will be so much more worth it because it's like you both WAITED for eachother...that's the beautiful part...
You both love each other so much that you will wait to commit to each other before you have sex...and by the time you two are married you'll have so much to look foward to and it wouldn't be all the same thing...ya know?
I mean..sure you can have sex now but I mean..if you did there would be no excitement on your honey-moon night knowing that its not the first time..knowing that you will never have that same nervous but comfortable feeling the first time you do it...and its like its all been done before, ya know?
You know...it's totally your choice...it's all on you now. But, I'm just saying..no matter how much I love the person I would wait..because I want to feel that for the first time when I know the relationship is secure...I would wnat my first time to be after my wedding when you feel the love for eachother and you realize that you have both waited this long...and you love eachother sooooo much...
Good Luck...tell him what you feel...if he loves you he'll understand...
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does anyone know how to make a skirt out of an old pair of jeans??? (link)
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Just take some scissors and if you need to sew some spots do that, and just play around with different designs to make one that best fits you...
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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.
I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.
Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time?? (link)
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nooo dont try it..
Seriously..that's just the beginning..you really never know what could happen..I know everyone says it's "fun" but please dont..I know a lot of people who've tried it just once an regretted it ever since...
Why would you want to try it? People who smoke pot don't know what they're talking about..once you smoke pot you're labeled a pot-head from then on...you don't want a bad reputation..
Why would you want the feeling of not having control over yourself?..if you get high you wont know whats going on...and you wont have complete control over the situations you are faced with...thta could be really dangerous..
I know I sound like a parent...and I know you feel like you just want to live a little...but trust me..thats the LEAST way to make you live a little...find some other way, but drugs arent the way to go..no matter what kind.
Please don't do it..
No matter what people say...
I mean, there are always going to be people who persuade you to try pot..but, please dont give into it..you'll be just like the other 98% of teens..and not only that but you'll hurt yourself..there are sooo many consequences involved...don't do it..
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I chose the IUD for birth control. I haven't had sexual intercorse for more than 4 months, but I feel irretation and burning inside of my vagina like I'm always hot below. There's no discharge or odor. My pap came back normal in July 04 and my IUD is in the correct place. I thought it could have been a yeast infection so I used 3 day monostat cream. I was fine for a few days, then it was back. Can you help me find a answer to this question? (link)
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You're goign to haev to go to the doctors or a gynecologist..that's all the advice I have..
Good Luck
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i knew this guy for a couple of months and we really seemed to become great friends. we even had some type of conection. but a few months ago he just stopped talking to me. i thought we were friends, and then he just left. hes never on the computer and i dont know his new phone number. and his nephew wont tell me anything! how do i get ahold of him how can i get him back?! (link)
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Whats his name? Look it up in the phone book...I dunno if you're going to the same school as him next year but if you are DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY..
Good Luck..and once you see him or talk to him again don't let him get away..
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does anyone know any good places that hire 14 year olds? i really need a job! lol (link)
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Try a nearby store or something..theres not many jobs these days that allow FOURTEEN year olds to work..you may have to wait about a year or two to get a decent job but who knows?..maybe a store wouldnt mind..
Also babysitting or petsitting is great to take up...
Good Luck
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i love all my friends dont get me wrong but i really like one of my friends and he knows i like him but he has a girl freind and i think he likes me but i really dont know what to do?? (link)
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Talk to him...if he's your friend you'll understand...if you don't want to do that and you want to find out then there's not much else to do but wait for him to approach you...and in a situation like this he most-likely wont.
Good Luck..
try emailing him..
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hey everyone i am switching schools.. on july 21st and well i dont really know anyone at the other school besides one person and i am really comfortable where I am at right now.. or where i was at before summer came around.... and well i dont know what i should do.....i mean really i dont want to go... how will I cope with other people?? well it will only be for one year..(im going into 8th grade.... but oh well i'll just have to deal.. right?!!
xoxo crystal -13 (link)
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I know its going to be hard...I transferred schools after 6th grade. When I went into 7th grade I didnt know a soul in my school...I was so scared and I am such a quiet person that it was hard for me..
Trust me, it will get easier...and as long as you're comfortable with where you're at I'm sure you'll do just fine...you seem like a very confident person and that's what people like...good luck
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Okay so I just back from camp rioght, well i have aboyfriend and I really do like this boy I met and He likes me , What should I do???
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All I have to say is if you don't like your boyfriend anymore DON'T lead him on...and DON'T cheat on him.
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ok uhmm im 14 and a female this boy lets call him * mike * well me and him go out and with every other boy i`ve ever went out with i seen almost everyday and i dunno maybe im just scared to see him i mean we.ve been going out for a month and we havent even kissed yet =\ we never see eachother but i like him alot
+ one day he asked me a ? _ if i shave my - - u kno and i didnt kno what to say because well i trim it up lol but if i say that do you think hes going to be like ew? PLEASE HELP
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DOn't answer...just kinda look at him and walk away. OR tell him straight out that's private...
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my friend tina looks way older for her age and she is 13 and older guys like in their 20s hit on her. and we went to the movies by ourselves i though we were going to get raped because these guys were following us around all nite and she told them i was 17 but im 13 and i dont even think i look 15 how could i pull of 17!
Older or not! (link)
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I would definitely talk to her about it and if she doeszn't want to listen you should tell someone.
Either that, or you don't hang out with her alone anymore...only with supervision...
You could get yourself into a lot of trouble...you need to talk to her...if she's your friend she should listen and tell her that you're worried and you DON'T WANT HER LYING ABOUT YOU anymore...,make sure you get that straight...that is very important...
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what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything (link)
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A male and female give eachother oral sex at the same exact time...blah
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i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight? (link)
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UNDERWEIGT! Gain at least...15 pounds...trust me it sounds liek alot but it isn't for you.
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this might sound stupid...but whats an orgasim? (link)
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Lets just put it this way...It's a burst of happiness.
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