okay so I have this guy and we just talked for like two days and we just clicked and I mean literally. we have a whole lot in common.I can tell him anything. he's my best friend already:) and I like him more than that but I'm not gonna tell him yet. and when we talk,it seem like he like me too. but I don't know. we talk to each other for about 3-5 hours a day and we talk even when we wake up in the morning before going school:D.how cute is that? I like him a lot but how do I know if he like me too?and he has a girlfriend :(. and he wants to take classes with me ,sleep when I sleep, and sit next to each other all the time. but how do I know if he like me eventhough he had a girlfriend?
Well, he's human. Just because a guy has a girlfriend, doesn't mean he can't like, or even love someone else. Acting upon his feelings towards you would be a completely different thing altogether. He seems interested, but he may never admit that because it could only bring him problems. I guess the most important thing to take notice of is whether he tries to hide you from his girlfriend. If he acts different with you when she's around, it could possibly mean he does like you, but knows that he's doing wrong to his relationship in doing so. If he's still a complete sweetheart to you even in front of her [and she shows no signs of jealousy], it could mean he's really comfortable with you and only interested in your friendship. If you think it wouldn't ruin your relationship to ask him how he feels about you, then do so. It's the only sure way to know what his intentions really are.
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does smooch causes pregnancy
If by "smooch" you mean kissing, then no, it does not. Never in a billion lifetimes will someone get pregnant from a simple kiss. If you mean anything else, I'm sorry this did not help you.
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I am a thirteen year old girl - btw. So at my school I have an huge crush on a boy. And I am pretty sure he likes me too. But you see, a ton of other girls like him too, and I am scared that I might lose his attention while I have it. What should I do? How can I keep him interested with out moving to fast?
katwashala.
It really all depends on you. I've always guessed the reason guys like me is because flirting comes very naturally to be, so it's not that hard to flirt and all the while seem uninterested. It's all a game really. First you attract him, then you let HIM do the following. If a lot of girls like him, he'll most likely pick the one he CAN'T have. It's human nature. I know I'm like that. Smile at him a lot, and be charming from a distance. Then let him see you're not like the other girls who'd die for him [even if you are], and that you want his friendship and need nothing more. Ignore him a little, but make sure he's always watching. It's fool-proof, I swear. Good luck
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is it normal if you never have had an orgasm, and i have been sexually active for two years?
It's pretty normal, actually. There's also a chance you may have had one but didn't recognize it as being an orgasm. I have a friend who's been having sex for 3 years, and she even has a baby, yet the other day she asked me what an orgasm was and how could she know if she had one, and I'm a virgin... I thought it was hilarious. It turns out she has had them, she just thought it was normal when it happened.
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I am a sophomore in highschool and I am sort of in a relationship with a 22 year old. Do you think this is strange or perfectly fine? Any advice/comments are appreciated :]
"Age is an issue of mind over matter; if you don't mind, it doesn't matter"
-Mark Twain
That's truly one of my favorite quotes. Heck, I live my life by it. Unless you feel this guy is trying to coherce you into something you don't wanna do, it's fine. No matter what we say here, you'll probably just keep dating him anyway.who are others, specially the government, to tell you who to love? That's just my honesty, but good luck.
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my eyelids are really painful and heavy and they kill
what can i do slash what does this mean?
Mine are too, like EXTREMELLY droopy, but that's just cause I haven't slept in a while. It may be that, maybe you took a medicine that has made you drowsy, maybe they're just swollen. Wet a small towel with hot water [the hottest u can take], and leave it on. If it hurts that badly, just go to the doctor. Good luck
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well my friend made all this stuff cunfuseing with this two boys i like and the other day i was chillin with some of my she calls me and tells me to go back to the skool but i say no cuz i dont want to but you should come up here put her wouldent then she hung up on me and she like diched me like last week so i was still kinda mad at her and to day she walks up to me and she has a black eye so i asked her what happed and she sayed that her parents got mad at her cuz of me so i say and thay hit you? she dident answer and starts yellin at me about how i diched her to go hang out with my other friends even tho we dident even have plans and tried to plam it on me that she got in truble when i dident do any thing! and my friends were in the bath room when her friend was puting it on her and she dident have one druing 1st per.
im startig to think i shoud drop her as a friend cus she has done stuff lie this befor and worse stuff!
weve been friends for like 8 years and im 15 so is she
should i drop her?
First off darling,do yourself a favor and go back to school. Stay there. It'll do you some good. Moving on, I really don't see how it was your fault her parents decided to punch her in the FACE. Honestly, that's not your problem. Maybe if they had yelled at her, or punished her, but a black eye? Anyway, maybe she feels like you diched her first, which would explain why she's been avoiding you. You really didn't make anything clear, but people who bring trouble, are possessive, and make up lies to make you feel guilty are definitely not worth having around. You have two options: either get her alone and talk to her about it, or make it clear to her that you're not interested in that sort of friendship any more. Either way, good luck.
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ok im a girl and im addicted to sex....well watching it...and i get so horney when i see a video of two gay guys fucking and kissing each other....and the same goes for lesbian videos......im confused does this mean im gay???
i dont get wny i like watching gay guys fucking and kissing.....cuz there two GUYS!!! and i dont get the lesbian thing either......but i like guys i know i do....so wat does this all mean...am i...BI???????
Actually, I enjoy watching man on man action too. I can't stand lesbian porn, and I've tried with a girl and didn't like it, so I'm definitely not lesbian. Maybe that's all you need to do, try kissing a girl and see if you enjoy it. I can't really give you an explanation for why you prefer what you do, but there's something about men dominating each other that interests me. Hope this helps.
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there is a guy, let's call him chris. he liked me in 8th grade and asked me out, and i said no. however, we remained good friends until 9th grade. then, he got a girlfriend, and, assuming that he no longer liked me / wanted to talk to me, i insincerely ignored him for a few months.
little did i know that separately, my female friend (let's call her brianna) from out of town was talking to him on a daily basis. they became friends in 8th grade when he would often ask her for advice regarding asking me out, etc. it was very awkward. even in 9th grade during the timespan of chris and i not talking, brianna would talk to him and then one day chris messaged me and we made up and became friends again. brianna selfishly feels fully responsible for chris and i becoming friends again, although i would have been just fine not being friends with him.
so now, in 10th grade, we are all friends. GOOD, right? NO. it's horrible. i absolutely hate it. i hate how she talks to him and how they talk and IM and say things to each other that i don't know about. both parties have considered dating each other but for obvious purposes (and not-so-obvious) they have not yet. brianna went out with a separate guy from my school, let's call him chester, and i barely even knew about it. the whole time, chris was giving brianna advice about what to do about chester. and it got me so heated.
i always thought that it was me just being my natural jealous, overly sensitive, overreactive self. but recently, i realized why i am so upset about this whole three-way game that brianna, chris and i are playing.
(1) the whole reason why i appreciate(d) brianna as a friend so much was because i could say anything about anyone in my school to her and not worry about her telling anyone. it was that she was so separate from all my other friends and i could escape to her when i had drama with my other friends from my school. but now i have to say, "don't tell chris, but..." otherwise she will.
(2) chris is the perfect boyfriend except for one thing, which is why i didn't go out with him. i am almost territorial of him because i want first dibs when that one thing changes. so i really don't like him talking to my friend. i don't care about other girls but it's JUST with her i feel so upset.
(3) i miss having conversations with each of them without the other one's name coming up.
SO ANYWAY. i hate playing this triangular game. i absolutely hate it. except i can't seem to separate myself from them because they were two of my BEST friends and i just miss back when they didn't know each other. i can't talk to them because they'll ask me what my point is, and i pretty much just want them to stop talking to each other. i know that's selfish of me, but that is what i want. i will not try to persue it though, nor will i try to break them up as friends because they "have so much in common" :( :(
but what should i do? believe me, i have TRIED ignoring it. i have TRIED. and i can't. i can't tell them that it's awkward for me because it would come off as though i like chris, which i sort of do except for that one flaw of his. she doesn't like him as more than a friend but she would date him if that one flaw was fixed, just like me.
for the love of god, can someone please help me and supply me with some advice? i absolutely hate this...
I've noticed you've asked this same question at least 3 times, and I guess you haven't found your answer yet. What do you want me to tell you? You're jealous, and unless you plan on cutting all ties with the two of them, or sabotaging their relationship, you're gonna have to get over it. Yeah, it gets weird when two friends you do NOT want together become really close, and believe me, I've tried breaking it up. The only one who ended up loosing was me. You shouldn't be jealous about your friends being friends. You should celebrate it. But if it's truly that unbearable and uncomfortable for you, tell them each what you don't like. Tell the girl that anything spoken between the two of you should remain as such, and tell the guy that you have feelings for him, but there's just that one thing stopping you. It's kinda like an Anne-Mary Boleyn situation. Things hardly ever go our way, and the chances of things magically returning to what they used to be are very, very slim. Just make sure that she doesn't get the guy, cause trust me, you'll just end up loosing them both. Good luck.
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To make a very long story short there's this guy at my school that I really, really like. I've liked him since last year and I never really stopped. Over the summer I thought that maybe I'd gotten over him because I didn't really think about him but seeing him again this year brought back all my feelings for him. The only thing that REALLY sucks is that I don't know him. I don't have any classes with him, I'm not friends with any of his friends, I've never really talked to him.. I know it's completely lame to like someone I don't know and I've tried getting over him but I can't. I've liked other guys but each time I end up comparing them to him.
You're probably wondering how I could like a guy I don't know so much and the truth is, no matter how shallow it sounds, that he's really good looking. But that's not the only reason I'm attracted to him. I've seen him when he's with his friends and I can just tell that he's a genuinely nice, amazing guy. One of my best girl friends is in his class this year and she had to work with him on an assignment and she told me just how nice and smart he really is. That he's not stuck up, conceited, and snobby like most guys who, if they looked like him, were as popular as him, etc. would act. She's trying to become closer friends with him so that she could introduce us but it's not that easy. And I'm tired of liking him so much and not being able to do anything about it. I want to be able to talk to him and hang out with him and stuff.
My main problem really is that I'm super shy and self-conscious. I'm usually like that with new people but when it comes to the guy I like then it's about ten times worse. Most of my friends tell me that I should just go up to him and try to strike up a conversation but I can't because I just freeze up! Most of my friends also think that he may like me too because some of the things he does kind of hint at him possibly liking me but I don't really know what to think. I guess it could be because I don't wanna get my hopes up but I don't know! Please help me! I don't know what to do and I need major help! Any advice will be greatly appreciated!
Girl, NEVER feel bad about being shallow. Anyway, take it from someone who moved to ANOTHER COUNTRY for a perfect stranger she fell in love with but knew nothing about, the worst feeling is regretting not having tried when you had the chance. It could be that he's just shy. Honestly, it's also a possiblity that he hasn't approached you cause he doesn't like you [but let's ignore that for now]. You guys don't know each other, meaning just like you don't know how he feels about you, he has no clue you like him. If you don't have classes with any of his friends, take advantage of the fact that your friend is his project partner. See if there's a way that she could invite him to her house, and then show up COMPLETELY by mistake ;). Add him on myspace, facebook, or aim. If all else fails, you're gonna have to catch him when he's alone and talk to him [which is actually not a terrible idea to begin with]. Make sure to catch his attention and smile often, and brush past him, touch his hand with yours, or accidentally bump into him. Close encounters will increase the chances of him approaching you. It's really not as complicated as it seems. And really, don't let yourself regret not having apmething with him because of shyness. It's a horrible feeling. Good luck
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17 F
Since yesterday my nipples have been really sore and erect, any ideas what is causing this??
I googled it, but the only thing it comes up with is pregnancy.. I want to know other possible reasons too, not just pregnancy!
That happens to me about two days before I get my period, and it usually lasts as long as a day or two, so that could be a possibility. If it's really uncomfortable and you feel it's happened for too long, call your doctor or go and have it checked out.
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My boyfriend (19) and I (18) have been dating for almost a year now. He's always been extremely nice to me and loving. He'd tease me sometimes but in a cute way. Over the past month or so I've noticed the teasing increasing a lot and it's getting well...mean. He'll point out my flaws about myself that I hate (my ears, and ankles), make fun of the way I speak at times, and he'll cuss at me alot more. Not like, cuss me out but last night, he called me a bitch and I was absolutely blown away--I couldn't believe it but he said he was joking and he was laughing and joking around about it. He also told me to shut up. After that, I confronted him about it and he claims that nothing has changed about the way he is towards me. But something is clearly different and I'm just wondering if anyone has any idea what. The cussing isn't really that bad, it was just last night that he did that but the teasing goes get very mean.
Usually, guys do this when they get defensive about something. Maybe you've insulted or embarrassed him without noticing, and that's his way of getting even. It sounds like he may be mad about something you did, and now he's doing this to spite you. It could simply be that he's gotten very comfortable with you. Also, maybe he feels like you complain a lot about yourself [not saying you do, just taking a guess], and is making fun of you to make you realize you're blowing things out of proportion. Either way, talk to him again and tell him something HAS clearly changed and you want to know what it is, cause you're just not comfortable with that new relationship. Good luck.
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What channel is HBO? I want to watch "trueblood" but I don't know what channel, help please :/
It's usually 29, but you have to get it in your cable package.
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ever since i can remember i've felt like i'm living in the wrong time..like i feel like i shoud live in the 80's or 70's. i am obsessed with everything from back in those times and always wish so hard that i could live then instead of now. i feel like back then everything was much easier and relaxed and there wasn't as many world problems and stuff as there is now. all of my favorite movies, music, and actors are from back then but then it sucks becuase the actors are older now so it's weird since i'm just a teen..i just feel like iwas meant to live back then. sometimes i even get depressed about this and people ask me what would make you happy? and really what would make me happy is living in the 70's or 80's but i know that's impossible now. it just sucks because i totally hate this time era. i feel like techonology ruins everything and lets people know things they aren't meant to know, and that's why everyone fights so much. i just feel like all this technology is unnatural, and i feel lke in the 70's or 80's it was at the perfect balance. in my dream world i would be a child in the 70's and a teen in the 80's...i would be so happy. because i feel like techonology and the new world now ruins everything. can anyone help me? i just want to feel better about the time i'm living.and has this happened to anyone else? or do i just have problems?
Oh my god I SWEAR I think the same thing everyday! I've always figured I'm just insane. Guess not. I would've loved to be a Poison groupie, wear those clothes and the huge feathery hair. But I also think I'm a Victorian child. You know, like the style you see in Titanic [film] with the fancy hair dos and the skin-tight corsets. I feel like everything was just so much more simple and less corrupt back then. I hate what this world has become, and I hate that I was born in the wrong time period. But hey, what can we do but dream? Just know you're not alone. Much love
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I have a lisp with the s and ch and sh but not the one where you make the s's sound th's but it sounds wierd when i talk like job, shopping and stuff like that and people at school laugh at me and i dont know how to make it go away on my own without going to somebody. it's so embarrasing but it's not really with the s as much as it is with the ch and sh and j. i want to get rid of it my own without going somewhere. and i was also wondering if guys would still like me and want to go out with me even though i talk like this? please help thanks.
I have a lisp too. Most of my s's sound like z's or th's. It's mainly words that END with s that I try to avoid saying. Anyway, it used to be really bad when I was a kid, but my parents and younger brother would make fun of me EVERY SINGLE DAY for it. They would embarrass me in front of everyone. Sometimes my dad would even hit me for it, as if it is a choice of mine to speak like this! Anyway, believe it or not, it's hardly noticeable now, except for to me of course, so it CAN actually get better. Tons of guys like me, and not one has ever mentioned it, much less made fun of me for it. All you have to do is practice. My teacher once told me lisps are a result of some sort of tongue disability, so believe it or not, you should pay attention to how people move their lips and tongue. Most importantly, it's all about the attitude. If you ignore it, everyone else follows, so pretend you don't give a crap, even if you do. Luck
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okay its this boy i really like and weve been talking and lastyear we didnt have any clases together but this year we do and today we were like staring at eachother in class and we have the same lunch together and i called him tonight and we talked for a while but this girl has him on her my space page but thier not a couple and he wants to come see me this weekend and i do too ....but i dont know if he is not serious with her or wants to be serious with me .... and by the way last year we were already established that we like eachother please just give me some advice thanks
Who cares if she has him on her top? Doesn't mean she likes him, and it's certainly no proof that HE likes her. If you really like him, let him come over and see where it goes. And if the chick thing really bothers you, ask him if he's serious about her. Focus on the two of you and don't let the girl get to you. Luck
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what does it mean when someone shakes your hand and wiggles their finger in your palm? idk what catagorie to put it in either..
Where I'm from, it means "I wanna eat you out"..it's actually pretty funny =]
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okay i got my period for the firs time in may around the 21st then next on june 20ish but never got it again for three months i know its not regular the first year but i havent got it for three monthss! and im not pregnant ive never done it. but i jst wonerding whats wrong
It's true, it's not necessarily gonna be regular the first year, but I had a friend that hadn't gotten it for 5 months and had to get a biopsy done, and another one that would get it one month and miss it the next. This last friend of mine hadn't gotten it for 4 months the last time, and finally got it on her way to the doctor's office. haha. Mind you, both girls have had the period for at LEAST 6 years. So you see, it's really not only you. It's also not much to worry about. You should still tell your mom so she can decide whether you need to go to the doc's office or not. Good luck.
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I just started college last week, and I already have written one short paper. I am a fairly good writer when it comes to expressing my thoughts and ideas, but I would like to have someone proofread my paper(s) occasionally, such as when I have a large one with a big chunk of my grade in jeopardy. Does anyone know a site that can connect me to people who will do this for free (I tried to google this matter, but I didn't exactly find anything). Or would anyone on this site be willing to help? Haha. It might seem far fetched, but I figured it was worth a shot.
I'm only a senior in high school, and I'm only 15, but I do get straight A's. That being said, I would LOVE to help you. I also found this site, among others, when I googled "free proofreading", which you might wanna do.
http://www.hgpublishing.com/EssayHelp.html
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16/f
so recently i started getting high and i'm normally a pretty shy person. i mean i'm like loud around my friends and stuff but like new people i meet and stuff it's harder for me. but i was at a party last night and i met this kid and i guess i came off as a little bitchy at first and like quiet but then i smoked and he was like wow you're so much more fun when you're high and so basically it like makes me into the person i want to be.. like more fun and loud and stuff. like that's the personality i want. i'm like scared i'm gonna get addicted to smoking because i want that personality so bad. what should i do?
You can't get addicted to weed. Not physically, anyway. That's just me being honest. It does change you, which is why you feel like you NEED to do it to come out of your shell, when in fact, you really don't. It's weird, cause it's supposed to be a depressant, yet it gets you high. Again, I'm gonna be honest, and not to encourage you or anyone else to do it, but because you and I both know when I'd be lying. I like pot, for the same reasons you do. I hate being shy, and I guess it changes that. But that's the worst thing; you know it gives you the courage you don't already have, which is when you get MENTALLY addicted to it. That's why weed is called the Gateway Drug, because it opens you up to many, many more. Eventually the buzz isn't enough anymore, so you go out looking for more. What you SHOULD do is stop, and never touch drugs ever again. Of course, I'm being a hypocrit because I'm not ready to stop yet. Get away from friends that tell you it's good, and try talking to someone you feel you can trust. Good luck.
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