Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.
Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.
Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.
SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
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Last Update: July 6, 2006
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I've always been the type to worry about STDs but I went a little far with my boyfriend and we have preformed oral on each other. Even though I might have the chance of already having caught something is it ok for me to ask him to be tested? Where might he get tested? (link)
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Dear tested,
It is never to late to get tested and yes you should still ask him to get tested. Not only for peace of mind but for future reasons, by getting tested and him tested you can take precautions no matter the outcome of the test results. In every city there are labs/clinics to get properly tested for an STD. Also most hospital will cater to such needs.
Hope this helped
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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I'm an 18 year old female. I lost my boyfriend, to be honest my fiance, last summer. It's been long enough that I know I should be able to accept that he's gone but I still wake up with an empty feeling in the pit of my stomach. I just need some help, maybe another perspective on how to deal with this. (link)
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Dear Loss,
I know what you mean, all the symptoms, empty feeling, feeling alone, trapped. The only way to really deal with something such as loss is to let it fade away. Something of this nature takes time, I once told someone "Sometimes its better to let a wound bleed rather that cover it up". And what I meant was something are meant to get over and forget, sometimes we need to let things heal on their own. Same with relationships and loss. Let time pass and the feeling supress this can take a while but you need not to rush this process.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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My problem is that I am always thinking so critically of myself. It started a few years ago when I realized I was obese. I have lost a few pounds since then, not enough to be rewarded for but I still feel fat and ugly all of the time. Technically, if you went by my BMI I am overweight still. I wish I did not feel this way about myself because I have always admired confident people, you know? I want to be like them. Its like, I tried to slim my body but NOTHING works so I have given up on that. Yet when I look in the mirror I see a fat, ugly person that everyone hates. What should I do? Life is miserable this way. Please help... (link)
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Critical,
I know the feeling, at a point in my life I went through that same stage. Losing weight is one of the hardest things to do, its like kicking a bad habit like smoking or drinking. You have to take the time to do it plus it is a full time job because you have to monitor yourself from eating bad things, over eating proper portions. But exercise is good, like jogging for 15-30 minutes a day is better than nothing or even walking for 45 min. As for the confidence that is all about how you handle yourself. It's something that takes practice and finess. I have built up my confidence by furthering myself in aspect of my life, such as computer, reading, language, film, any hobby I take up soon becomes a perfection, a part of my life. So if you want to begin feeling better about yourself take the time to appreciate what sets you apart from people and use that as your foundation to form who you want to be in your future.
Hoped this helped,
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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today, at school i walked for about 30 minutes..about a mile, then i walked home...about 30 more minutes...then i lifted weights for 20 minutes, then did my gazelle for only 10 minutes, i then walked to the school to get my couison, and home ( 30 minutes ) then i did an intermediate pilates video..
me and my couison plan on doing this a few times a week..will i lose weight? ( sum days though i won't be doing all that walking, and it'll be weights, video, and gazelle )
any advice to stay motivated on the gazelle for 20 minutes? i feel like its like 5 hours! i love reading advice..so i'll take comments..
thanks in advance!
much love
hopeless romantic (link)
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Hopeless Romantic,
Yes that will help you lose weight but all that or course means nothing without a stable diet, a healthy diet is the way to go when on that type of trainingf schedule. But if you are looking for fast results I recommend running. I know the number one ranked fitness trainer here in AZ and its all about getting that heart working and the metabolism working properly. Plus take a table spoon of cinnamon each day to keep your blood levels in check and your metabolism working.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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I really like this guy Adam. We've started becoming good friends latley. He's so sweet; we talk alot in class and I cheer for his basketball team. However idk if he's just being nice when we talk or if he likes me back. He doesn't know that I like him and idk how to tell him. [ Hes more on the popular side; but hes totally sweet. His good friend [ Ariel ] said I would have a chance with him, but I really dunnoe how to tell him I like him!]
So how do I tell him I like him?
And How do I tell if he likes me back? (link)
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Dead friendship or love,
I am very direct when it comes to relationships, and in situations that I don't know where I stand I am even more direct on finding out where I stand. I am 20 years old and I have been told by many females that they appreciate my approach. I would suggest an approach that gives you a homefield advantage, I would make the first move by asking him on a date, nothing to extravagent so a simple night out, not a movie but a setting that allows both of you to connect and get to know each other. So take the first step and you might be surprised.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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Is social anxiety passed down genetically. My grandma has it and I think I may have it too. Would my chances be more if my grandma has it but my parents dont that I have it? (link)
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No,
Social anxiety is not genetically passed down. it is a trait that some people feel not because of fear but because of being shy. Shyness is something that is very hard to to stray away from but can be helped by self motivation or with friends. One of my best friends have a social anxiety problem and I take them to places they have never been and I have them meet some of my friends that they don't know. But it is also nothing to be ashamed of. But in short its not passed down.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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For me my love life sucks. I have the most amazing friends, but i still wish I had someone to actually love.
My problem is that i dont know how to really get a guys attention. I am always told to be myself, and thats what guyslove the most. But, I do just that, and I seem to not be getting any feedback. Do I need to take my 'flirting level' up a bit? pleeease help me!!
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Try flirting thats actually the way to get attention. And if you want me to be honest I will, a guy loves when a female is who she is but in todays society that only tend to work when your in a relationship. If your close with male friends and they are attracted to you because of who you are then thats the only time it really works. Naturally you need to make friends with the guy you want to go out with and ease him into your life after he gets to know who you are. So just flirt more.
Chris
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Any guys out there want to tell me what they like about girls? Its so hard to figure out them. Tell me what you guys like to hear from girls as far as flirting n other stuff. Thnx! (link)
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Dear Hey Guys,
Expect to hear a varity of answers on this question. For instance I live women that are smart, and have a very sweet personality, one that possesses many talents and looks towards the future but lives in the moment. There are also many qualities that attract me, such as, I like them to be short, brunttee, naturally these are the girls I tend to go for. Yes trying to figure a women out is hard when your not reading the signs right but when you understand them and pay attention to who they are, women can be easy to understand. And like I have said for years "The time your not trying to understand women is the time you understand them the most. And when it comes to flirting just be playful in anyway, because males are easily turned on, like the moment my girl says pancakes, I get turned on.
Chris
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ok, what's "7 minutes in heaven"..i know its a game, but what do you do? hows it played? rules? etc? =) (link)
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7 minutes in heaven is a game where a male and female are placed in a room or closet and have 7 minutes to do what ever they want inside the closet normally they make out, or if your in high school and you were apart of the group I hung out with and went to the partys I went to, you were in there for around an hour and you were doing more thatn kissing. But naturally it is making out for 7 minutes.
Chris
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I can't make up my mind what I want to study. I am a 21 yr old male. I was going to go to school to learn about video editing because I have an interest in that, but now my friend and I had an idea to go to this design school and get certificates for interior design and start our own business. I can't decide because I am interested in both. Which of the two sounds like a better idea. And if anyone is a video person or an interior designer I would like to know how the salaries of these two occupations compare. (link)
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Well man im a 19 year old attending Collins College in the media arts, my girlfriend attend the same school in the area of Interior Design. So let me begin my classes deal with Video editing which is great fun and has perks such as cash (if your good). Its the same as Interior Designing you have to work your way up, and since naturally i'm more interested in film I say be a video editor, but since I don't know you too well just take a few classes in both and see which one you prefer.
Chris
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Why do poeple shave down there? I've just alwasy wondered that. And what does it do in terms of sex? Does it make the experience diffferent? And doesn't it depend on the guy if he likes it shaved or not? (link)
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Why do people shave? Well its just a person preference, like I'm a guy and I keep my area well trimmed, and my girlfriend is the same way uptop she likes there to be some but the lower its shaven on her (near the entrance). No it doesn't make the experience any different, its just what that person likes.
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Hey Chris, its me again Jessica,
Well I was wondering if you could help me out? My psychology class at Yale if you can remember, is extremely hard considering I don't want to be there. So I was wondering what you knew about the terms external locust of control and external locust of control? (link)
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Jessica--
Thats an easy one,
External-- Fate isn't in your hands
Internal-- You in charge of you fate.
Its that simple, I took psychlogy las semester in my state and it gets easier. If you need anymore information from me dealing with Psychology don;t be scared to ask I know all about it. Oh and I refuse to help write your papers again.
Chris
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Dude, you play the guitar that is awesome. I also read the article about you in the Mix Magazine and blue blood about having being guitarist of the year, but I want to know is it true you own the only 5 Knox guitars with original strings and in mint condition?
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Yea, man its true I own all 5 in mint condition I played the blue one at the competition and let me tell you the sound on it was amazing its nothing like I;ve ever played. And thanks for being a fan.
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How do I meet my favorite celebrity? (link)
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Depends who it is really. e only way to meet a celebrity the easy was is to go to an autograph signing, or pay a load of money for back stage passes. Or you can just live in LA and visit all the major shopping streets. Robinson Boulavard, Beverly Hill, Melrose place, Rodeo Drive Ect. So take you pick.
Chris
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What happens if you let a yeast infection go on for a really long time? (link)
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Your infection will spread, and then you are put on serious medications the treat the on goging infection;
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What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'? (link)
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69= Male and female give oral sex to one another at the same time. And Wet is referred to a female, it happens when she gets turned on and she begins to self lubercate.
Chris
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hey...i like this guy, and he likes me...but hes not going for it! if there anything that i should do to kind of, ya know get him to ask me out? cause he knows i like him too. (link)
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Let me ask you this, Are you sure he likes you? Because thats always a misconception some females have. Just because we are flirty and everything it doesn't mean we are always interested, and im not saying he is not interested in you. Honestly does he know you like him like him, not jusdt a friendly type? Because trust me when it comes to guys hinting things get you no where. And you know what why don't you just ask him out, because guys are shy as well and he might be waiting for you to make the first move, because if you don't time will pass and he might lose interest because he has to wait.
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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him? (link)
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Dear Kissing,
Actually to my experience kissing a girl that has a healthy amount of lip goss is always a bonus in her direction. And through conversation with friends other males do prefer it as well, normally the basics in flavor are well appreciated on our behalf (vanilla, strawberry, cherry) some we know and can say. SO yes keep on lossing.
Chris
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Holy cow. You sound next to perfect my boy. For your picture though..all i see is a red X. Do you have any pictures you can post?
You can check out my column if ya want--Beastfromtheweast (link)
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thanks, and yes I do have some pictures I can post it just so happens I need to upload the new ones.
Chris
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Is it ok to mow your crochy hair down there? (link)
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Yes, actually most people prefer that the hair down there be either trimmed or shaved. If you are a female and you have a bf I would especially if your sexual and your guy likes to go down, and if you are a male still do it ladies to appreciate it.
chris
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