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I believe in God, Karma, luck, fate, and living on the edge. Being average or normal isn't for me. I never wanted to blend in... it's all about being unique and being yourself . Loving who you are, and to hell with anyone who who doesn't agree.

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I am a 34 C cup size. Im really skinny though. I actually wear one of the smallest pant size like size 1. I dont know what do do about a bathing suit. Their all to small.

Many places sell tops and bottoms seperate because you are not alone with the problem.
The % of people that do not have to get two different sizes is small I am guessing.
Just be glad it is not your butt thats bigger than your chest size. That's when you might have a valid problem. You'd probably be running about average then.

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OMG. I know this girl who smokes weed and I try to tell her to stop but she totally keeps on doing it. The only reason she does it though is to be cool but when I try to tell her that it's not cool, she hits me with a soda can! HELP!!

She obviously thinks you are not cool so leave her alone.
People do not quit doing drugs just because someone says "Hey... stop that". Hel lo!

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What does emo mean? I am really confused...Everyone says i look emo in all my pics but i dont even know what emo is...can someone explain it to me?

Go to google.com and type in "Emo Phillips photo".
He is a Wacko comedian that has a bowl haircut and acts like he is MHMR.

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could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer?

Summer2u
SweetSummer05

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i need some help here..well okay i love my boyfriend to death and we`ve been dating for a little over 7 months. and we just started doing things sexually because i dont know before i didnt feel comfortable but now it's like everytime we are together he wants to do more than just hang out it is always revolved around "doing stuff" and that isnt what i like. Why is he doing this? Is it just a guy thing or what? and should i talk to him about it because when i dont give him any i feel like he`s mad at me like until i get to see him again. even tho he says he`s not. And i`m sorry this is so long, thanks for everyone who reads this, please help me!

If you do not want to mess around then set your bounderies. He may not be pleased that you decline his advances, but big freaking deal. It is you're body and you are not on this Earth to suit anyone but yourself.
The more you give in to him the more he will think he can get you to do whatever, whenever. He will manipulate you with his mood swings, and guys will say anything if they think it will get you to give it up.
If you want this guy to stick around then don't make it easy for him. It needs to be when you want to. Showing weakness and giving into him is not a way to keep a man. The challenge is what they desire.

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does anyone know of any exercises that strengthen your arms so you can surve over hand with alot more power (besides push-ups) thanks alot!

pullups and chin ups.

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when does the guy put on the condom? does the girl do it or does the guy?

To make it fair I suggest flipping a coin to see who does the deed.
Paper, rock, scissors works too.
Sheesh!~

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The last time I had sex was like a month and a half ago with this boy I really loved.. I really don't NEED sex and I know that, but in my city girls spread rumors and all that. I wanna hook up with a guy I'm not in a relationship with, but I don't want to listen to people's shit.. What should I do?

I suggest you read over the question you asked.
You said yourself you do not need sex, so there is the answer.
Why bother having sex with just some random guy if you don't need it? Save it for someone that respects you and cares about you. Respect yourself and others will have no choice but to respect you as well.
If you don't want people talking bout you don't tell anyone you're business. One person will send out the news like wild fire.
Even if you keep quiet then you are still not safe cause the guy is gonna brag to all his friends.
Just spare yourself the BS and wait til it does matter.

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My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here.

Trust me.. It is not you that makes her feel insecure.
Girls, and grown women (I am guilty too) have this thing I like to call "Fataphobia". The fear of being to the heavy side more than the skinny side.

It doesn't matter how much you tell her she is prefect, pretty, or thin it matters how she sees herself. However, compliments are always appreciated!

All the cosmo mags drill it into females minds that rail thin is where it is at.
In time she will hopefully get over the personal insecurites.
I am a fataphobic but only to suit myself. If someone doesn't like the way I look then Buh Bye.

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