The last time I had sex was like a month and a half ago with this boy I really loved.. I really don't NEED sex and I know that, but in my city girls spread rumors and all that. I wanna hook up with a guy I'm not in a relationship with, but I don't want to listen to people's shit.. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Mackenzie answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 7:04 pm: RetaRded giRls in youR city aRe likely in *NOOOOOO* position to Ridicule YOU!! Tell them that when they fix THEIR flaws.. you'll pay attention to THEIR suggestions!! And who caRes what they think!?! I undeRstand it MAY get annoying, but the only opinion that should matteR is that of youR family and fRiends!! If *YOU* aRe happie with the way *YOU* aRe, then TO HELL with eveRyone else!! It's *YOUR* body.. theRefoRe *YOUR* choice!! Do whateveR makes *YOU* happie!! HoweveR, I STRONGLY encouRage you to be wise about this, and use pRotection -- they make it foR a Reason. Hope this helps!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Crizma answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:59 pm: I suggest you read over the question you asked.
You said yourself you do not need sex, so there is the answer.
Why bother having sex with just some random guy if you don't need it? Save it for someone that respects you and cares about you. Respect yourself and others will have no choice but to respect you as well.
If you don't want people talking bout you don't tell anyone you're business. One person will send out the news like wild fire.
Even if you keep quiet then you are still not safe cause the guy is gonna brag to all his friends.
Just spare yourself the BS and wait til it does matter. [ Crizma's advice column | Ask Crizma A Question ]
laurentaylor927 answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:46 pm: well...i recommend that u dont pay attention to what other people think if you really like him...but i mean if your version of "hooking up" is having sex hten ipersonally dont think that its the best idea in the first place...lol sry [ laurentaylor927's advice column | Ask laurentaylor927 A Question ]
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