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Alrighty, so I'm 15 year old teenage girl.
*Around 5'4, 5'5.
*Weigh 105 pounds. - No I'm not anorexic. Just high metabolism :/
*Small boobs - Around... 34 AA ?
*Don't really have hips.
*Athletic legs - Not skinny, but not really fat. Their just basically all muscle. My legs are a bit bigger then average
*Average shoulder width
*Tan-ish skin
*Shoe size 8.5 -9 - If that helps, LOL
*Heart shaped ish face
I'm not a fan of those, super patterned swimsuits, for example, too much lines here and there. But like simple patterns like polka dots, stripes, etc. are fine. And don't really like white swimsuits. :|
And the problem is that I'll be wearing this in front of my family, so I don't know if I should wear a bikini or not. It's just that awkward feeling you get that you feel too exposed you know?
Any opinions will help ! Thanks. :)
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If you wanna go for a bikini, I would go for either the small triangles or a bandeau top, those look best with a smaller chest. As for the pattern, it's whatever you like..the pattern on the swimsuit doesn't really make you look any skinnier/heavier considering youre pretty much showing everything youve got anyway. And if youre gonna be with your family and you really want a bikini, you can always buy a cover up to wear when youre out of the water. Or you can wear some nike shorts or something over it when you go swimming.
If thats still too revealing you can always go for a one piece, and if you want a little spice, the monokinis with the cut-outs are really cute!
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I need some tips from the girls. Are there any special techniques that you use when you're making out with a guy? ILL RATE (link)
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my boyfriend loves it when i run my fingers through his hair or lightly touch his cheek. i also like to kinda tug on his shirt, either the collar to like pull him closer or like on the back of his shirt.
i love to suck/lightly nibble on his bottom lip. sometimes i alternate with the top lip. also, he always seems to like it if i was just eating something really cold like ice cream, or if i have ice in my mouth and my mouth is cold.
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i really want a mac. i'm into photography and editing pictures and i hear its good with that. also, with ichatting, does that come free when you buy the macbook? anything else i should know? (link)
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i have a mac, and yes ichat is free and it comes already downloaded to the macbook, along with a lot of other useful programs. the editing stuff it comes with is really cool to work with, and macs are much better than pc's when it comes to things like that.
I got mine a end of last year, and I will admit it did take some getting used to. But I have loved it ever since. It hasn't slowed down at all since the day I bought it so I'm impressed. Also it has never gotten a virus, and I always seem to have problems with that with my pc.
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hey are there any guys out there over 16 that are still virgins? i feel like in todays world teenage guys just want to get laid and that no ones a virgin anymore.
if you are a guy whos a virgin can you share you opinion on sex and things please? thank you. (link)
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I'm not a guy either, but my boyfriend and I are both 19 and still virgins. He actually dated a girl in high school for over 2 years and they didn't have sex, so I was actually pretty surprised. But we've been dating for 5 months and we want to stay virgins.
I know we both really want to have sex, sometimes I even feel like I do more than him, but we made a conscious decision not to. It is really easy to feel like everyone around me is having sex, but it doesn't change the way I feel about it.
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my boyfriend and i have never had sex, but we're completely in love and we want to. im 16 and hes 17 and we've done everything else besides sex (handjob, blowjob, eat out, fingered) and, i dont think this is the case, but my boyfriend thinks i might be pregnant because a few times he has come right around my vagina, and its come very close and i never worried about how close we were when he came because i never thought it was an issue. the last time i got my period was around january 28th, and it is now march 3rd. he's the first guy i've ever done anything with if that helps, but could someone maybe help me what should i do? should i have sex with him soon? or should i wait and see if i get my period/ or take a pregnancy test or something? thank you so much! (link)
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the person below me doesn't know what she's talking about. Semen does not die once it hits the air. It can survive a couple hours outside, and even days inside the vagina.
Although the chances are still slim, there is a chance you could be pregnant. But I would wait to have sex until after you get your period. Considering how concerned you are, you need to take precautions when you do decide to. Using condoms, spermicidal lube, and the pill in combination is the best way to go.
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Hey, I'm a girl. 16. ^^
Okay, so... I've just recently turned 16 and got my medicare card.
Me and my boyfriend really cannot be bothered to use condoms anymore, and we're thinking of getting me on the Pill, now that I've got my own medicare card.
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The question is, would Medicare record my transaction at the doctor/chemists? And do we get something in the mail about it?
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Please don't tell me stuff like "You're too young", or "that's unhealthy". I really don't need that. (link)
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I'm not sure what you mean by medicare card, because you only get Medicare if you are over the age of 65, or if you are disabled. Perhaps you mean medicaid? That's insurance given by the government if you meet certain requirements (usually making less than a certain amount of money).
Either way, it will show up on the records. And the information can be accessed in other ways besides the mail by the primary card holder (your mom or dad).
I would suggest going to planned parenthood.
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What exactly is the definition of losing your virginity?
No, I took health so I know the basics. So don't go into that.
Let's say that a girl & a guy wanna have sex. The guy puts his penis inside her, but the girl's in a lot of pain, bitches, tells him to stop, etc. and he pulls it out. The end. Has she lost her virginity even though it lasted all of 3 seconds? (link)
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Honestly, everyone defines virginity as different things. In today's society, there seems to be a lot of gray area.
I remember in junior high sex ed (this was about 7 years ago) my teacher told us that if anyone touched your genitals at all, then you were not a virgin. I believed that until I got to high school. Then everyone I talked to said it had to be penetration by the penis to lose your virginity. So I suppose it's really up to you whether you want consider yourself a virgin or not.
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I want to design roller coasters.
What will I need to major in in college?> (link)
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my friend wants to do the same thing and he is majoring in mechanical engineering. you can do one of several engineering majors though.
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I have a very odd, rather embarrassing, sexual fetish. I have always been "into" this sort of thing and all of my fantasies and sexual thoughts revolve around the fetish itself. I really don't want to have this sexual fetish any more though.
I have searched online on how to get rid of a particular fantasy or sexual fetish and all I can find is to embrace it. All of the material is the same thing: Embrace your sexuality, embrace your sexual differences, be unique and enjoy your sexual desires and kinks, fulfill your sexual fantasies, etc. That's not what I want.
How do I get rid of this odd sexual desire though?
Like I said, it really isn't common so it isn't like I can find friends to share my sexual interests with or find a partner "into" the same thing I am. It's incredibly embarrassing and I don't think I could even say it outloud to another person if I had to. Since it's a strange, unusual sexual desire it makes me feel like a bad person. I'm tired of these feelings and I'm tired of thinking about it. I want to be more "vanilla" and normal.
Please, help me get over these sexual thoughts revolving around this kink! Any idea or tip is highly appreciated! (link)
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whatever it is, i can almost promise you that there are people out there into much weirder stuff. you might be surprised to find that other people probably do in fact share the same fetish as you, no matter how odd you may think it is. and once you find someone special and you share fantasies, maybe they would be willing to take part in it and you could return the favor.
if you really want to try to get rid of it, the only thing i learned about in psychology is that aversion therapy has had the best results in eliminating fetishes. you could try seeing a psychologist.
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What do you think of these dresses for 8th grade graduation?
Which dress do you like best? + any other suggestions?
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=437037&CategoryID=37783
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=447040&CategoryID=18109&LinkType=PDPZ1
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=50455&CatID=51773&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=17d8a60&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=50455%7c51280&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=39&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=50455|51280|51773
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=50455&CatID=51773&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=171f5a6&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=50455%7c51280&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=45&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=50455|51280|51773
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2066589810&Page=1
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2059045245&Page=3
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2060590923&Page=4#
Keep the price in mind.
Is that the kind of dresses you were to graduation?
I don't know what do you think?
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http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=50455&CatID=51773&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=171f5a6&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=50455%7c51280&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=45&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=50455|51280|51773
that one is absolutely adorable, and also a very flattering cut.
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16/F
Okay, so i've had sex a few times recently and now thats all I want to do. I'd rather do it with a guy i'm NOT dating, I know thats bad but its just how I feel. Please don't tell me "I'm too young to be having sex" because its my business, not yours. I'm asking for help, not for you input on my decisions.
So, is there anything I can do to not be so sex-crazy?
Thank you! :) (link)
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I'd say there are two routes you could take. You could try busying yourself with other things. Join a club, take up a hobby, or join a gym. Hang out with friends more often, take bike rides...just do stuff to get your mind off of it.
The other thing I would say is you could get a vibrator. Same pleasure but much less risk and complications involved.
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16/f
I'm really interested in purchasing a chi flat iron, but my problem is that i'm not sure which one to get or where/if i can get it without ordering it.
-I have long, thin, wavy hair.
My only requirement is that it be a 1" flat iron.
So...suggest away :)
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i have a chi turbo and i really like it. turbo means it gets hotter than the regular (but you can still adjust to not be as hot) so since it gets hotter, it works better.
i got mine from an Ulta. but you can also find them at any department store that has a salon in it. some drug stores have them, and sometimes you can find them at the mall
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(sorry this is going to be long) okay so i had this dream about a week back, now most of the time if there is something in my dream it comes back to be Deja'Vu or i think about it and i figure it out. now please don't just say something like "well your the one that had the dream, you should know what it means" because i cant figure this one out to save my life. i've put together things that are in the details from the dream that i have looked up on a "Deam Interpretation" website but i don't know what to do with them, it's like i have all of the pieces of the puzzle but i don't know where to start. if you think you can help then please reply to this post so i can tell you more because i don't have enough room and i have no where else to turn at this point, i even started useing this website just to ask this question. so please if you can help reply. thank you :) (link)
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well..i can tell you im in a psychology class and my professor is a neuroscientist and he basically told us that dreams don't necessarily have underlying meanings. Dreams are just a way to sort out your thoughts from the day and go through everything. If it's a dream that you get often, it just means that that particular issue is important to you..it doesn't mean that whatever is happening is meant to be taken literally. but you can go ahead and send me something about the dreams if you would like.
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What is financial aid for college based on?
Does debt factor into it at ALL?
Because my mom makes $85k a year before taxes, but we have SO MUCH to pay off (house, car, etc) that we're nto too far away from living paycheck to paycheck.
How much finaid would my family qualify for? (link)
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financial aid depends on a whole lot of different factors. You have to fill out the FAFSA, and once you do, it will give you an EFC (expected family contribution). From there, they deduct that amount of money from however much the estimated cost of attendance is, and thats how much financial aid you will get.
I don't think the form specifically asks how much debt are you in, but it does ask things like how much money is saved in various accounts (including your parents retirement, anything saved at all) and how much is in escrow (the amount of money your parents have already paid on their house). So obviously the more money they have saved and make, the less financial aid you will get (because the expected family contribution will be higher).
Most of the time, the EFC seems too high for people and parents are often unable to contribute that much. But the form also asks about if you have siblings, and if theyre in college. Or if your father provides an income, or childcare payments or whatever. The form asks a lot of questions, but more than likely you will qualify for some kind of loan if nothing else. At $85k/year, I'm not sure if you'll qualify for any kind of grant (the money you don't have to pay back), but the only way to know for sure is to fill out the FAFSA.
There are also certain loans that if you meet certain requirements, you don't have to pay them back. Just do your homework. Apply for scholarships early. There are lots of ways to pay for college, its just basically a huge pain in the butt.
Here is a quick estimator of what you can expect your EFC to be
http://www.finaid.org/calculators/quickefc.phtml
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I smoke a lot and lately my highs last less then an hour!
Why is this and how do I fix it and make them last longer (link)
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your body builds up a tolerance to it.
try doing it in a different environment. if you always smoke in one place, like the bathroom for instance, then once you go in the bathroom and go through the motions of lighting up, your body can predict what's going to happen so it starts preparing itself. just be careful and don't use too much when you're in the new place because it will be stronger.
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I play sports, and i'm just going to come right out and say this, IT'S SO NASTY WEARING PADS!
I tried a tampon today.
The smallest theyve got.
And I was kind of struggling to get it in, but afterwards everything was great.
But when I went to take it out, it hurt SO bad.
My friends say it hurts the first few times, but not to the point where it brings me to tears.
I need help, and I can't stand pads any longer!
I'm a virgin too, if that helps any?
Thanks!
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well for me, it hurts a lot less if it has absorbed a lot of blood versus if its dry. i think it slides out easier because its not like dry..if that makes sense..had it absorbed much when you took it out?
just make sure you are pulling it out at the angle that you put it in. don't like pull it straight down or anything.
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Ok so I heard that you have to alternate every other day. Like if I do crunches and butt today i can't do it tomorrow, i have to do like arms and legs tomorrow. Well I want to know if that's true. I am making it my goal to get into shape at home this winter. It is really a challenge for me to exercise because it's not my favorite pass time, but I really want to be in shape and stay that way and not keep yo yo-ing, so don't give me complicated stuff please. Here is what I am doing: I am doing about 20 min of ballet/gymnastic streches, 10 min of- ab crunches (moving up every workout in intervals of 10-20, i'm at about 75) butt crunches (4 sets of 8 on each side) girl push ups (I'm horrible at push ups right now so I can only do about 10 :P) and the side things for the love handles where you stand straight with feet shoulder length apart and you stick out your arms and you lean from side to side (moving up almost every workout in intervals of about 5-10, started at 30, I'm at about 50 right now) and that's about it for the toning. Then I do about 30 min of bellydancing and club dancing cardio, but my main focus is belly dancing isolations, lots of jumping, arm work and focusing on certain muscles and mini coreographies. So with that said...Can I do those crunches and push ups and side crunches and butt crunches every day or do i have to alternate with something else? Will it keep my muscles from growing properly or something weird? Thank you for the advice. My goal is to have a flat but rounded tummy like how a lot of belly dancers look and to have a rounder butt and to have slimmer arms and to have more slinder leggs and to have longer stamina to be able to coreograph long dances. So I really need to focus on my stomach and my butt. Thanks! Oh I'm already doing the right eating so I don't really need nutrition advice, just body toning advice. (link)
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it won't keep them from growing properly if you do the same exercises every day, you just get better results if you switch off. this is because when you work out, you are actually breaking down your muscles and then when they rebuild themselves, they are stronger. there are acids and stuff being released, and basically long story short your muscles need time to repair themselves. if you keep breaking them down every day they won't have time to rebuild.
you could rotate days..like one day work on your stomach and then the next your butt/legs.
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19/female.
So i'm not going to lie, i always get attention around guys, i'm use to it and love it. I'm an outgoing girl, i just love to have fun and don't care what people think about me. My best friend, she is okay looking, but every guy always tells me how i'm hotter than her and nobody really thinks she is pretty. I do feel bad for her, but obviously i don't tell her they say that. Well anyways, there was this cute guy that she was interested in and i didn't think anything was going to happen with it because she is a really shy girl, she's never kissed a guy before or anything and never had a boyfriend and this guy is the exact opposite. Well we ended up hanging out with him last night and he was giving her all the attention and texting her all night. I get it, me and my cousin were trying to hook them up. I was jealous though, that was the FIRST time ever that i wasn't getting the attention and i hated it. I was soooo bored. And when my friend texts him, she always asks me what to say so its basically like me talking to him? DUMB. But it's like my friend is rubbing it in my face that he thinks she is cute because she is always like "OMG he said this, he said i was cute .. blaaa." Now i'm not trying to sound selfish, like a bad friend or anything but i'm not use to this. And i don't do that to her at all, i don't say "haha yeah all guys think i'm hot" obviously i'm not like that to her that would be just annoying. But what am i suppose to do? I'm getting pretty annoyed of this situation, she is always talking about him and now we're all hanging out again tonight .. great. I know i sound like a self centered person but i'm just use to getting so much attention because i'm an outgoing girl and i guess guys think i'm hot, that when a guy doesn't pay attention to me and pays attention to my friend .. i get jealous. I really do want to be happy for her, but i don't know how without being annoyed. (link)
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the truth is, your friend is probably insecure because she doesn't normally get this kind of attention from guys. and her repeating it to you might seem like her rubbing it in your face, but she is just relishing in her moment because she obviously doesn't get a lot of them. she wants to feel like it's real.
just try to be happy for her, or at least act like you are. if you start to get annoyed, remind yourself of all the guys that have and still do like you. maybe even text some of them whenever she is talking to her guy.
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I am super embarrassed but I tried to put one in and I found out that tampons HURTS! Is it like this for everyone or am I a freak?
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they definitely hurt the first couples times i tried to put them in. once you get the hang of it, you really dont feel anything though. you just have to be sure youre putting it in at the right angle and that youre relaxed when youre doing it. every box of tampons comes with instructions with pictures usually, and as weird as that is they really helped me.
also, plastic ones go in a lot smoother (for me at least) i use tampax pearl and i love them.
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I've never dyed my hair before, and yes they say that's a very good thing. Dying is unhealthy for your hair [blah blah blah] but the thing is, I would like to do it once!
My hair color really fits me, but I want to try something else so I really need an opinion [=
http://i36.tinypic.com/24ox2ev.jpg
http://i38.tinypic.com/2gshcvo.jpg
^^ two different angles of me ^^
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I think blonde would look good on you, or maybe just some highlights.
I agree its really fun to mix it up with your hair color. Just keep in mind its a real commitment, because once it starts growing out you have to re-dye it. and then it blows through your money, especially if you go to a salon. I'm kinda lazy though so maybe thats it lol
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