about

You may call me Brittany.

But, do not call me Britney, Britany, Brittney, or any other form of my name.

Just Brittany, is fine.




I don't like my middle name so don't ask.




I'm 16. and i guess that's pretty sweet, huh?

Yea, I thought so too!







I reside in Decatur Illinois.

it's not the most interesting place.

BUT, we make the best of it!







I love helping people!

I'm a PROUD LIFESAVER AT MY HS!

St. Teresa! =]








I'm always late.

And, I don't like school.

It's pretty much a waste of time.

But, we all have to be there.. so minus well get over it.









I like to be myself.

And I like who I am when I'm with my friends.

I L0VE MY FRiENDS!

They are the best.








I like to sing in the shower, eat french fries, and dance in the rain.

I also like hockey games, chewing on straws, painting my nails, & talking to my sister.

We have a tendancy to be best friends sometimes.







I also have a tendency to enjoy doing jumping jacks and laughing.

yea, i like to laugh.. alot.

do you like to laugh?

I like to laugh!

And I fall for people easily.

Drinking Hot Chocolate is nice too.


I like to say and do random things, it's pretty sweet.

I enjoy talking to my friends on the phone for excess amounts of time.

Oh & staying up all night talking about stupid things.


I hate people who think they're better than you.

They're not.

No matter what they think, they're not.

You're just as amazing as the next person! =]






Hmm... I like rainy days, dancing in my underwear, scary movies, the color pink, and hugs.

I like my doggie, too.


I do NOT like Fried chicken, typically my x-boyfriends, stuck up girls, and overly judgemental people.








okay. that's about it cuties!

advice

Ok, don't think I am crazy or anything, I just DO NOT like scary movies. I end up thinking about them long after I have watched them. Now, I know the best idea is not to watch them, but unfortunatly I don't always have that choice. Any good techniques besides the simple "Remember that it is fake?" Thanks

close your eyes! think of sumthin happy! pretend like its not happening.. and it will all b over so0n! haha that is what i ALWAYS do.. at least on the scary parts. i LOVE scary movies.. so really.. idk. but if i was you, i would just tell ur friends nd stuff u dont like em.. but im sure they will still make u watch em. haha. but just like see a funny movie after the scary one, to lighten the mo0d. lOl hope i helped. xo brittany

[view]

hey, its lauren. my hair is about shoulder length, unfortunatly, it used to be all down my back, but i cut it off for an organization called locks of love when my friend got cancer, and they need at least a foot so. it is natrally strait, with a tiny bit of wave to it. althought i have a nice hair cut, layered adn angeled, i wear it down every day, and it gets boring. ne ideas...ps. my homecomming was awsome, usually everyday i curl my eye lashes add some lip gloss and im good to go. everyone asked me where ig ot my make up done, and told me i looked like a new person. my brother was not very happy (hes protective, and didnt like his friends looking at me hehe:)

hey lauren! i am soo super glad that i could help out on ur make-up! sounds like ya lo0ked pretty hohtt! if ur brother was gettin mad at his friends for making goo goo eyes atcha! haha you go girl! aww im sorry to hear about your friend too, but u seem soo sweet. thats a REALLY nice thing of you to do. give ur hair to those who need it. and i know how important it is for a girl to get her hair cut. so0o i just wanted to tell u, ur like my lil hero, cuz u think of others be4 urself, i wish more ppl cud be like you.. but neways.. well wut u cud do to ur hair is srunch it!! you can wear ur hair down or up when its scrunched and it lo0kz mad cute!
so here's the 'scrunchin stuff to get'..
Garnier- Scrunching Spray ((in a light green see thru, bottle and a dark green cap)) and then Garnier- Gel ((juss a lil green tube))
and then the Garnier- Curl Mousse.
and wut you do is when u get outta the shower.. put in the gel all over ur hair. then the mouse. kinda take ur fingers and losely shake ur hair. after that, you take the Spray and spray it throught out ur hair, after that take portions of ur hair, and squeeze them, or 'scrunch' them. then u just hairspray it, and let it air dry! when it mostly dry u can put it up.. or it lookz cute down!* i know others ways to do it too.. soo juss lemme know if u need help or advice with ANYTHING~!* like outfits.. ect. hope i helped. toodles. brittany

[view]

my friend becca is so weird wht can i do to make her not so weird? its starting to get on my nerves!

well everyone is themselves, and if she's weird and u dont like it.. well then theres really NOTHING u can do. you can tell her that sometimes she REALLY gets on ur nerves, and u cud ask her to kinda not act so goofy all the time. but ur friend Becca, is just herself, and shes tryin to have fun along with everyone else, if shes weird b/c of that, u shudnt b mad @ her or ne thing. but dont change her. just confront!*

[view]

hey this is the girl with the reddish hair and blue eyes ( my name is lauren by the way) anyway i went to my homecomming with the make ups tips u gave me adn everyone asked where i got it done! thanks so much. if u have any hair secrets , styles, or tips to make it shiney or full, im open to them, i dont live with any girls so i need some help...thanks

awww that is soo awesome!! did u have a good time at ur homecoming? im brittany. its nice to meet you lauren. ;). yea! i would LOVE 2 give u more make-up tips and hair, and everything! i have a sister, and my mom is young. so i kinda know lotsa bout being girly. haha. ((not sayin that you arent)) but i wud LOVE 2 help. how short or how long is ur hair?* and like is it straight, wavy, or naturally curly?~*

[view]


I need someone who will help tell me something that can help depression I need someone or something to help me I HATE MY LIFE SOMEONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!

well okay.. i dont know how to help you, b/c i dont know ur situation. like what is going on your life.. but if u need sum1 to confide in, ur have ur scho0l counselor, friends, of even i, will be willing to listen to you. we all get down sumtimes, and feel like evertyhing goes wrong at the same time. and really all we need is sum1 to listen... try doing sumthin fun and interesting, try to meet new people, and try new things, and just be yourself. and i think part of the issue mite be how u judge yourself.. or how u see urself in the eyes of other people. try not to be so hard on urself. and try not to say u HATE UR LIFE. i had a friend who killed themselves, and they told me how much they hated their lives.. but it was to0 late. and i had another friend u told me that.. but i was able to hear them out, and i had sum tough love, theyre still alive. so if u need to talk, u can leave a lil thing n my inbox. and i will write back. i hope i helped. L0v3 brittany

[view]

ok i figure im gonna have to start from the beginning i had a b/f and we went out for a little over 6 months then out of no where he text's me at 4 in the morning sayin he likes sum1 else and he wants to break up and that night hes all over this girl at a school game and i seriously wanted to cry the whole time i went home and cry then he comes on and tells me the real reason that he dumped me was cause i treated him like shit when he always made me cry and i gave up goin to cali to hang out wit him so now the girl he dumped me for dont like (if she ever even did) so now hes actin all depressed and talking to me when he knows i dont wanna talk to him and i like this other guy whos sooo swert to me and is so nice and hung out wit me that night at the game and listen to all the stuff i said about him and yeah no hes trying to ask me to hang out and stuff and the guy i like is starting to act kinda wierd what am i supposed to do i have no intrest in being my ex's friend cause of what he did but i cant help feeling bad for him SUM! HELP ME PLZ!!!!

no bodys perfect. and neither is ur ex. he messed up but im sure u can name lots of times when u've messed up. its only human. and by not helping him, it just means ur sto0ping down to his level. so id say hear him out and just tell him that u will b there 4 him, even tho he was never really there 4 u. and if i was you tell him how bad he hurt you, and that u feel bad for his situation, and will listen to what he says, but there will never be nething between the two of you b/c of how badly YOU got treated last time. and go for the other guy. the sweet one is the one you need to hang out with.. but dont just completely blow off ur ex.. i mean.. if u had been the one at the game with another person.. and he wudnt ever talk to YOU again, you prolly wudnt feel to go0d. so just lo0k at the situations from both sides. hope i was of SOME help.. BEST OF LUCK* feel free to ask me nething if u need to0. boys r complicated.. i know. x o x o brittany L0v3

[view]

I dont have my drivers license yet so what do I do to get one?

you go to drivers ed. then u get a permit. you must drive with ur parents or gardian for 25 hours. then after you've been in drivers ed for 3 months, you are ok to get ur liscense. toodles. xo xo brittany L0v3

[view]

Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school?

well do u SERIOUSLY like her? or r u gonna do it as a joke?? if its sumthin mean no. but true love shudnt be hidden behind popularity. :)

[view]

hey, i am the girl with the bluish green eyes and dark reddish hair lol, you were a ton of help, tell me if i get too specific, but do you kow any brands of those make ups you told me, im not very make up savvy, thanks so much

hey~* aww im glad to know i helped!* the eye liner i have is ::

CoverGirl ((Perfect Point Plus)) eye pencil.. in charcoal. its really cheap, and u can get it at like walgreens, osco, wal mart.. just ne where lil drug store like that. and as for bronzer.. a good kind is a brand called Cornsilk, and it will say "oil-absorbing, blushing, bronzer" its mad cheap. and makes ya looked sunkissd. it too can be bought at ne of those drug store things. and it really inexpensive. as for glitter.. theres a special kind u can get to use 4 ur eyes.. by Loreal called Crystal Infinite. same as be4 cheap and at the drug stores. LoL. and for mascarra i use this stuff called Original Voluminous by Loreal also (black bottle gold cap) makes ur eyelashes look really think and pretty. and as for lip gloss.. ne pink or peach color will do. hope that i helped you!! :)! if theres ANYTHING else.. feel free to ask!~* hehe. L0v3 *brittany*

[view]

Hey, aright well I have posted questions about my ex-boyfriend (at the time). Anyway this has to do with him. Well like on Friday on his birthday I started to go bak out with him, and once ppl started to kno about it they called us the ever lasting couple and I was happy about that cuz the first time we started to go out we lasted for 6 months. So I guess my question is after me and him have gone through all of this do u think that we will last for a long, long time or is this just a sign of trouble ahead for the both of us?

Thanx so much to who ever answers this!!

well personally, i think this is all a good thing! obviously you both still have feelings for e/o, therefore, you know sumthin was meant to go right between the two of you. and since every1 is callin u guys the 'everlasting couple' and u feel like everythings right when ur with him then im sure u guys will b 2gether for a long time.. but ask him how he feels about u guys bein back 2gether!! if he really loves you and wants to be with you then he wont hold ne thing back, and you wont need to worry about how long or how much your gonna get out of the relationship!!! HOpE i HeLpEd! AND SOO MUCH LUCK 2 YA BABE! L0v3 * brittany *

[view]

i have greenish blue eyes, and very dark auburn red hair..i have a big event comming up..any of those beauty experts out there have any make up ideas to look pretty, natural..but not as natural as every other day? thanks

oOo la la.. mammacita flaunt them pretty eyes! :)! if i was u, i wud curl my eyelashes, add sum top eyeliner as well as bottom in a smokey color liner. and to kind of bring out ur face thru ur hair color.. i wud put on some light bronzer on ur cheeks, and then a light pink blush. with sum cute like light pink lipgloss. oo and u shud use sum glitter. like on ur eyelids above or on top of the liner. yea. ne thing else i can do just ask. hehe. hope i helped. o and just play around, make-up can be ur friend or ur enemy haha. but we will all find out sum way or another! LoL. o and have FUN with w/e you got going! toodles. L0v3 *brittany*

[view]

okk...so i told my b/f we should take a break cuz we neva hangout and get to see eachother (hes always with his friendss)n it seems like he just wants to be with them all the time..i really really like him still n everything but i dont know really what to do...i tryed talkin to him about it but he doesnt get it?....helpp lol write backkk

you know sumtimes, people just werent meant to work out. and he probably doenst understand, cuz thats just the way some boys are. they want things to go just their way.. and being with friends is their idea of fun. so0 maybe he doenst get it, becuz he just doenst care to listen. boys have a tendancy to only hear what they want to. maybe you shud give up trying to make things work with him.. and lo0k around for a guy who isn't 'friend-oriented' i mean i KNOW it's hard to let go of someone you like a lot.. but sumtime u have to. plus, maybe if ur gone. he will see how much u really mean to him, and he will want you back and then maybe treat u better.. and notice that girls want attention.. just as MUCH as they give there friends! ;o)! well hope i was of SOME help. if u need ne thing feel free to ask me! good luck* L0v3 *brittany*

[view]

i really like this guy and hes in three of my classes, HOT. okay i like him, but i think he likes another girl, i didnt even get his sn yet what should i do? how can i show it?

well one day just kinda say hi, and start talking to him about what he's interested in, and what kind of sports he likes. stuff like that. then towards the end of the conversation ask him for his screen name, say sumthin smo0th like 'yea, well, thats awesome, im glad i got to know you a little better, maybe i could get ur s/n and we cud talk a lil more later?.' or slip him a note.. not one of this immature 2nd grade, circle yes or no notes, just a casual hey and cud u get his s/n to talk to him later on, and then sign ur name, so he knows it. well i hope i helped! luck hunnie! L0v3 *brittany*

[view]

ahh okay me and my ex bf broke up SOOOOOOOOOOO long ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! there was a big fight and we havent talked really since. ever since then his friends will NOT stop talking crap about me,calling me a hoe, and spreading soo many rumors about me around school.. my ex doesnt even goto my school nemore cause he graduated, but his cousins and his friends that he doesnt even really talk to nemore keep on talking shit about me...ofcourse i stand up for my self if they ever say nething to my face..ive said endless amount of things back so its not like i dont stand up for myself. ive even tried talking about it with them but they just wont stop...even if i become friends again with my ex bf, they still wouldnt stop..i dont want advice on how to make them stop, but just on how to look past it..i know i shouldnt care about whut other ppl say about me, its just im like a girl who looks at herself with sooo much respect, im the opposite of a slut...but they just keep talking..how do i handle this personally? thanks so much =]

you know what theyre probably just jealous, and OBVIOUSLY COMPLETELY IMMATURE!! just keep on with that attitude of a certain level of respect for yourself, and dont let those losers change that! u seem like a real down-to-earth girl, and who cares wut idiots like that have to say. since you can see that theyre just bringing up something from the past, then im sure people around you notice it to. eventually, everyone is gonna get sick of hearing them start crap about you when thyere come to complete relization, that its DONE and OVER with. so who cares, let them talk, keep sticking up for urself, and eventually, theyre gonna stop. try to just ignore it. cuz by recognizing it, they will keep doing it. well i hope i helped sumwhat. tell those jerks, they need to get a life, instead of trying to change wut done with in yours! * good luck hun! * L0v3 * brittany *

[view]

ok well a guy found out i liked him and he likes me but im not positive i like him becuz i like other guys too. what should i do when i see him tommrow? AHH ill rate u a 5!

when you see him 2maro, just be casual, dont avoid him. b/c that'd be weird, and suspicious. if he approaches you, just act cool and be nice.. ask him how he is and what not. if your not sure u like him, then u dont know when u might decide you for sure like him, so treating him bad or differently might not b the greatest idea. maybe see if he's doin ne thing this weeked.. and make plans, if it's fun and he has what ur lo0kin for or what u feel attracted to, then see how things go from there! hope i helped! =)! and good luck with the fellas, chicka!* L0v3! *brittany*

[view]

ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween!

uhm.. go and see him without her!!!! i used to go and visit my X boyfriend all the time just me.. and he always had friends over, so it wasnt akward or nething.. so maybe u shud tell him that u wanna do sumthin, and he shud bring sum friend along so that things rnt akward for you guys. im not trying to be mean, but maybe if u guys go and do sumthin this weekend without ur friend, then that would b a good thing. b/c u cud get used to not having her around, and maybe see him more when shes in trouble. well i hope i helped! have a GREAT halloween! *toodles* '`* brittany

[view]

I met a guy almost 5 years ago who was everything I could have ever wanted. He was perfect in every way for me...then we lost touch. We were too shy to keep in touch, but for awhile after we left each other...I can't stop thinking about how perfect it was. What do I do now?

well if i was you, id try and find him!! nd just tell him about how he crosses ur mind from time to time.. and u were wondering how he was doing and what new in his life! and maybe ask him to do sumthing! who knows.. maybe he still thinks about you too.. lets hope so! well ill hold my breathe and keep my fingers crossed, and i hope everything goes good for you! hope i helped.. *brittany*

[view]

My friend's dad smokes. She is afraid he will die! She says that he has been coughing really bad latly. She says he is trying to stop smoking, but not really suceeding. She says that he is the one who brings all the money to the family, and shes just very afraid. She is afraid he will die from cancer or something. So basically, i need some advice in helping her through these hard times, and maybe if theres a good way to help her dad smoking. Thank you!

my mom and granmma smoke, and it worries me alot, especially since my grandpa died when i was younger from smoking. tell your friend, to look up some statistics of some harsh facts, about the effects, deaths, and problems caused by smoking and to tell her father about them. or ask him bothering ?'s like "what would our family do without you? and so on.." but make she she makes it clear that shes only doing it b/c shes worried, and doesnt want anything to happen to him. i would deff suggest to your friend, to encourage her dad to not smoke anytime shes around him, and ask him to see a doctor about his coughing, and if the cough is smoking related, try and see if the doctor can do nething to deprive his nicotene cravings. ((my english teacher went to a hypnotist, and she hasnt been smoking since... so who knows)) i hope i helped!! tell ur friend, that no matter what YOU are there for her, and remind her... its nice to know you have sum1 who understands and cares. ur a good friend. best of luck * brittany *

[view]

What should you do if you keep on babysitting and they always say they will pay you but never do, and you are too nervous to ask them to pay you?

just kindly say to whoever it ur babysitting for, that you need the money, and you don't mind babysitting for them, but when they promise to pay you and they don't its dissappointing. and i mean YOU are the one giving your time and energy to babysit for you, the least they could do was repay you at least some of what the debt is. you should deff. confront them about the problem. but dont have ur parents or nething do it for you, b/c that would come off as immature, just be nice, considerate, and understanding about it. and HOPEFULLLY they will treat you with the same decency. ;o)! hope i was of SOME help! GOOD LUCK! * Brittany *

[view]

i meen i really want a boyfriend but i guess im can be picky about who i like , some of my friends will go out with sum 1 that they have very little feelings for but i want to go out with some i really lik e but i dont liek anyone in my shcool and theres jsut no one thats i liek yet i jsut wish i would find him is this ok should i look harder be less picky or will i find him

okay, heres my boy lecture for you. Boys are soo complicated! but they find us ladies to be just as confusing. so before you go and 'settle' on someone think about BOTH of your feelings. i mean okay.. first off.. you dont wanna be put into an akward relationship, or a hurtful one. and by lowering ur standards you will prolly do that. and be lowering ur standards, and settling on any guy or what have you, your feelings could change. and you would end up hurting him, and he wud feel led on. so, if i was you, i wud just wait, ask some of ur 'easy-boy-settling' friends if you guys go out more, or go to places where some boys hang out.. from different schools. and be bold, and brave, get some numbers or screennames, and if theyre not right for you, they have friends. so good luck. hope i helped. and didnt confuse you! :o/! *brittany*

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker