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does anyone know how much invisalign braces cost? i have gaps in my teeth & i'm really considering invisable retainers. also do most insurance companies cover them even it's only partially?
I currently have invisalign, I am very impressed and so is everyone I show them to. I am paying 5000 dollars for mine but I paid 1000 down payment and I can pay in monthly installments for the rest of the time I have them in for. It depends on what insurence company you have but some pay for braces and so some might pay for invisalign. Call in and ask them if your covered they will let you know. I have a bit of an overbight and alot of crowding and as I said I am impressed. Good luck. I hope I helped!
So basically. im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 going on 18 in may. but trust me we have like almost the same maturity level. and honestly age doesnt really matter for us. so just ignore that small detail. haha. well him and me have done almost everything except have sex. and honestly i dont think ill be ready for that for a really long time. and he understands that i want to wait a while. its just that im scared that when he wants to i wont be ready and i wont know how to tell him so ill end up doing it and become a complete mess and totally regret it the next morning. so i was just wondering, for anyone who has been in this situation before or just even knows what im talking about, what should i do or how should i tell him when the time comes around without hurting him or even myself. thankss. :]
Well you said that he knows that you want to wait, so let him know that you don't feel ready but whne you do you will let him know. Make sure you let him know that you still feel confortable will doing the other things so he doesnt think that you feel unconfortable with him. It's good to be open with one another and im glad to here that you don't want to ruin it by doing it when your not ready. And as for you letting him know when your ready, don't worry about how to tell me, when you do feel ready, you will know becuase you will feel it and it won't be something that you want to do jsut because you are aroused but because you feel ready! You will know how to tell him or show him your ready when your ready and hopefully when you do let him know you are ready he will double check with you by saying are you sure or whatever. I hope I helped!
take a look at this picture i took of myself (may not be clear)
http://img170.imageshack.us/img170/9720/mewscrunchedhairiq9.jpg
I've never scrunched my hair... so this would be my first time.
Can someone tell me if my hair is scrunched? and what i need to do to fix it?
this is what i did-
took a shower
then put moose in my hair and scrunched it up ( held it from the bottom and pushed it up on my head)
then I put gel in it and did the same thing while blow drying my hair
then I put it in a messy bun and left it like that for 10 minutes
took it out and then done.
did i do that right?
thnx
The nessy bun works for me sometimes, but then it is knotty and curly. So what i do it a have a shower then put in a leave in hair moisturizer(tips only) I also leave in a detangler. I flip my hair over and gel my hair and blow dry it while scrunching it (some blow dryers come with a difuser meant for scrunching) I add some moose and i do this for about 10-15 min until my hair is somewhat dry and VOILA i have nice wavy/ curly NOT frizzy hair.
I hate my body! My vagina is totally warped! My innerlip on the right side is way too large and it actually hangs out past my outer lips. Totally disgusting. And last night I tried shaving myself down there for the first time. I did trim the hair with scissors first and then used a razor. I really don't understand how anyone could have a clean shaved pussy...? That area is NOT easy to shave. Is there ANYTHING I could do to boost my confidence? I'm totally scared of losing my virginity or letting a man see me naked because I feel so ugly.
Ok. I am SURE that you are not ugly. Everyone has a really great part of there body that they love, and a part of there body that they dont love so much. Just because both your lips arent the exact same size does not mean that you are ugly. Nobody is perfect. Everyone has one foot that is bigger than the other and one eye that is bigger than the other and you know what, every guy has one testical that hangs lower than the other. you are beautiful and when you feel beautiful other people will see it too. If you feel bad about yourself everyone around you will be able to sense that from you. And you know what its normal to do things to enhance your beauty like waxing, and shaving and so on. Everyone has their BLAH and UGLY days. ITs Normal! But then look at all the times you thought you were beautiful and when someone has said you look good. That is YOU. You Look Good. And when you feel confortable with yourself You Will feel sexy. And you will be able to slip into something really sexy and show someone that you really love and care about just how sexy you can be! I hope you look at yourself and feel beautiful, and realize thast its not normal to be perfect! Bye Hunny take care =D
well i would say that ive got a lot of black heads and well i hate them..ive tried biore strips and they help somewhat and ive tried face washes..i have them particularly around my nose and chin..can someoen suggest things that help out a lot by taking them away but arent too expensive...thanx in advance =]
btw..15 female
I also have alot of blackheads on my cheaks and nose. No matter what you should always clean your face. You will notice that when you find a product that works, if you stop using it for a bit it will just come back. I use sebamed its kind of expensive (17 bux Canadian) it helps clean my face and Olay face scrub helps alot with the black heads. Also wearing makeup and not cleaning your face afterwards is asking for acne. Point is I've learned that no matter what they will never just GO AWAY. You need to keep buying and using the product and experiment with different ones that suit your skin. Go to a pharmacy and ask for there opinion or go to the cosmetic section at some drugmart (shoppers drugmart) and they will give you there opinion which I find to always be very valuable. Hope I helped. Take Care
warning --this is extremely long =\
ok well im 14/f in 8th grade.
ok so the summer before 7th grade like changed everything. theres this boy, chris that i never really talked to until that summer. i dont kno how it started but one day we just started talking online and he told me how he used to like me and everything. after that we just kept talking throughout the whole summer, and that's when i started to like him.
we continued to talk online, but we never actually hung out. then one day, i told him i liked him. he said he liked me too but i kinda just shrugged it off and we didn't go out or anything.
so then 7th grade started. we hardly talked for the first couple months. then i remember in october, there was a halloween dance, and my one friend, who was really good friends with him at the time, was like oh you guys should dance together.. we didn't. i was stupid and just like stood there. i'm also REALLY REALLY shy, so talking to him online for me was easy, but to his face, i got like speechless. i know that after a while though, i'd become more outgoing around him. but that never happened..
so during november, he asked me out again. except it was online and through my friend. i, for the second time, was stupid, and said no. i regret it to this day. like the time before that, he didnt actually ask me out. but this time, he was, and it was soo weird for me cause he would've been my first boyfriend, so i just like freaked out and said no. i regret it soo much. i just wonder how things would've been =[
anyway, i think after that, he had this thing with like kicking me in the hall. lol not like to hurt me.. but yeah soo that was like our thing for a week or two, but then one day i went over to him to kick him and he was like "im not kicking you anymore" i dont know what exactly he meant by that. i dunno if he meant this is stupid, i dont want to get in trouble [cause one time a teacher yelled at us lol] or that he didnt like me anymore. but i duno
after that we continued to talk online still. but it was becoming more me iming him first and he didnt talk as much, it was usually me talking the most .
the rest of 7th grade was just a blur. towards the end he went out with different girls, and rarely talked to me. i still imed him online, but he acted like he didnt care.
i know this sounds weird, but i became kinda like stalkerish online. i like imed him everyday. i regret it alott .i guess i was just desperate for him to like me or something.
the summer was like that too..so then 8th grade started and i dunno what happened. we rarely talk except if he asks to borrow a pen or something. he's only in one of my classes. one time in like september i kinda just like let out my feelings when i was iming him. he told me that im shy, which i know i am..i think thats why he doesnt like me.. he liked me in 6th grade because he didnt know me, and now he thinks he does, but he doesnt b/c im not always shy.
anyway, i havent spoken to him online since september or october. i talk to him in school rarely, but its not even talking its like, him asking me for a pencil and me being like "here" ughh. i just wish things were back to the way they used to be. like the day before 7th grade he was like i cant wait to go to school tomorrow cause ill see you..=[ i miss that.
now we never talk. AND he has a girlfriend..they were going out since october but broke up in february like, twice, but not they're back together. i doubt it will last..
i mean like sometimes i'll catch him looking at me. i duno. i still like him so muchh. he probably doesnt even remember or care, about what happened between us. i just wish he would realize what it means to me. i dunno wut to do. how should i talk to him? i want us to atleast talk more again. i know i should get over him but ive tried and i cant. should i say something to him in class, and what should i say? should i try iming him again? or would that be weird since i havent imed him since september? im desperateee=[ thank you so much
Well I think that you should tell him EXACTLY how you feel. If its better for you to talk to him online then I guess you can do that but it would be best to talk to him at school. Since I know you're a little shy right now I think you should message him and tell him exactly what you said at the end of your question. Tell him you really care about him as a friend and you want to be able to talk to him again. Tell him that you're sorry that your shy but that he needs to give you time and help you through it in order for you to open up to him. Tell him you regret saying no when he asked you out and you miss talking to him. Then go on from there. If he shrugs off everything you say then you'll find out the whole year you have been obsessing has been a waste. I think that this guy seems sincere and was getting mixed messages from you so he just cut the whole idea of you guys dading off. So i'm pretty sure you won't be upset about comfronting him. After you have talked to him about everything online when you see him at school start off with a smile and a nod then throughout the day you talk to him and he will most liely talk to you too since he should be helping you through everything in order for you to become outgoing. I hope I helped. You should alwasy be honest NO MATTER WHAT so talk to him tell him how you feel and you cant go wrong :] Good Luck!
ok so i really want some help . please. i will rate 5's for anyy.
ok soo. i have a new boyfriend we'll call him jake (of 4 days) and i really like him. i never see him he lives like 20 min away.. different school and stuff and i havent seen him since last year at a batmitzvah where i met him. we talk online a lot and (4 days ago) he asked me out. i said yes because i like him and hes nice and blahh. however i have been in love with this one guy we'll call him chris. (these are not their real names) so i have like loved chris for a year. he was a jerk to me.. and so i TOLD myselfi didnt like him anymore but i still did. so anyways,to get to my point. i still love chris even though im dating jake. i dont want to dump jake but how should i get over chris. and chris is like a good friend. and another thing.. jake ,i feel, is always taking advantage of me and my body.. he always asks if i'm horney or what we would do (how far we'd go) or if i would send "sexy" pics of me. (if you know what i mean) and he says that like every time we talk and ugh its annoying but i still like him a lot. soo yeah id love any advice thanks sooo much and sry if this was sooo long
Well, jake sounds like the real jerk. He is obviously in it only cuz he's a pervert and nothing else. he has no respect for you and you shouldnt be with him. Plus it sounds like you guys don't even know eachother. The chris kid. If you think he is such a jerk it shouldnt be hard for you to get over him. If its sooo hard for you to get over him then he's obviously doing SOMETHING right. Well anyways point is, you and Jake should just like not even be friends. Not worth it. And chris well hang out with him be friends and if you guys hit it off and become something more you do, but if you dont you dont. Im pretty sure you are young so if you dont have a boyfriend for a bit who cares.
I broke up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago. Since about the week of our break up, I've been hanging out with one of his best friends, and we've become extremely close. I'm beginning to fall for him, and likewise... but whenever this happens, I change my mind. I like the challenge, but once the other person starts to have feelings for me too, I'm bored and don't like them anymore. I really don't want to do that this time... because I really care about him.
I'm afraid to have a relationship, because I know that, being the way I am, I'm going to ruin it and lose an amazing friend.
Help?
You know what, the same thing used to happen to me. What you need to do is make sure that you are serious about this guy. Whenever i went out with a guy it didnt take too long and we'd be breaking up because i would loose interest. I think this happens cuz even tho you like this guy he may not be your type, and even if you dont know this it might be true. I think you should let him know that you cant rush into things and that you wanna be sure about things befor you take it any further. If he sticks around and you dont loose interest you will most likely be positive that you arent going to loose interest for no reason this time, if he doesnt stick around you know he was only up for a little fling thing and that saves you heart ache, but like i said dont do anything until you are completely sure, and dont shrug off any doubt you may have until u are completely positive about your feelings for each other and your relationship and i can almost guarentee that you will not just loose interest out of no where, and if you do i can almost guarentee it wont be untill a long while after you are dating and all the good times you guys will have will be worth it.
well. im 15/f and i like this guy that i KNOW likes me back.. i see him about every week or so.. we flirt and all.. but hes not doing anything about it.. all of my friends say that he told them that he 'adores me' and all.. but hes really not taking anything to the next step.. is there something i can do to show/tell him that i want him to go further? tell me if im doing anything wrong.. or if i should be doing something..
thanks..
Well I think in your position YOU have to take the step further. If you know that he really cares about you, and you really care about him, YOU should talk to him. Ask him where you guys stand, tell him you want to be with him and ask him what is holding you back. Yeah it'll probably be hard to just come out and talk to him about it but it will be worth it. You will find out more about whats happening with both of you, and you wont be wondering anymore. Its obvious that you already waited a while for things to happen, and since he isnt doing anything about it you should. Trust me this WILL work, your not doing anything wrong i think you are just both too shy to talk about you guys as a couple. I asked my bf out and I took the next step all the time, now me and him have been dating for 4 months. You cant go wrong with my advice, even if something is stoping him from goin out with you, YOU will find out and you wont be wondering anymore. All i have to say is do not be afraid of rejection, if you are determined to ask him about stuff you will, just remember that in the long run, only GOOD will come out of you asking him.
Good Luck...
im 15f. im falling for my best friend; weve known each other for 4 years; hes 16m
i dont knoe if he feels the same way about me n im to scared to let him no how i feel
lately hes been saying really sexual things 2 me and he wants to have sex with me; i told him maybe but im not sure
we never hang out n person becuas im always busy so we only talk on comp
do you think he just wants 2 be friends with benefits and thats all nothing more? n do you think i shuld jus give in n have sex with him if thats all hes lookin 4?
I think that hes just being a flirt and yeah....he just wants be friends with benifits. When your on the computer its really easy to just say things you dont mean...and you are buying every word he says, well atleast not if he were a good guy. He just wants to use you and isnt serious, maybe hes joking since you say that you are "best friends" he doesnt know you care about him. Point is you should not give in, and even if you guys do hook up, dont have sex with him untill your sure he isnt using you and always remember things he may of said that would make it obvious that he IS using you. Dont let him get to you, but personally i think he may just be joking since it IS online, why dont you guys go out for a change you'll be able to see if he acts differently or the same.
i am 15/f highschool, and i want to have sex, badly. i know that i'm ready for it. but my boyfriend and i both agree on waiting til theres a time where we dont have to worry about getting caught, and when he can actually love me after and not me have to leave, you know, well, i live in wilson. and i'm also afraid itd going to get around, but its weird cuz. i trust him. and dont think that he will tell anyone, but i dont trust myself.. kinda. i meaan, i told people when i gave my ex a handjob, and shit, but i kinda think sx, is a diff, story, you know, my mom would kill me if she found out.
confused& hatin hormones
Look, sex is really serious. Its not something you do because your horny and you want to. It means something very serious and u seem desperate for it. I think when you loose your virginity its to someone special that will stand by you A LOT of things can happen when having sex. Deseases and pregnancy. BE CAREFUL i dun mean to sound like a parent just dont do anything stupid your most likely going to regret. If this guy is really that important to you you guys can wait. I think your just really horny and the rush you get by sneaking around is getting to you. Relax, sex isnt necesary and alwasy remember the risks. I hope I helped and i hope my advice got to you.
P.S. Think A LOT about your decision if you decide to have sex, and i mean like weeks at every second of the day, even when your not horny. You'll be surprised at how differently you think.
I just had a tooth pulled about 6 hours ago. The doctor said not to smoke or drink alcohol, but I didn't ask for how long. I was wondering if anyone knew this, as I really don't want to cause an infection.
I dun knwo much about that but i would wait till its not sore for me to go back to normal...its only ciggerettes and alchohol im pretty sure u can stay away from it for a while..or just call your doctor and ask..