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Okay, so I have this problem, im 16/f and ever since i can remember...Ive been harrassed by hispanics because of my butt. I have a ghetto booty and im white. People call me racist because I dont like talking or getting to know hispanics but its not that im racist i have NOTHING against them because i know a lot of them arent "dirty mexicans" but those who are, Im SCARED of them, I cry in public because im harrassed and the littlest things they do like wink at me, will make me cry just because i have been sexually harrassed since I can rememeber...Ive talked to my parents and they say im full of myself and that I think everyone is in love with me, so they dont help, ive talked to my sister , same thing and my friends cant do anyhthing about it. I talked to a lot of people about it, and im honestly scaared to death of them because they always make me feel uncomfortable, ive had them grab my butt and say dirty things in my ear, and I just cry...in public, please help :( I cant take it anymore. Please dont answer if your just gonna call me racist because Im not. Im scared.

I think its a blessing and them hispanic girls are jealous of yo j.lo bootie and their juss afraid that your taking the attention off of them. Girl, you use that butt but don't let the boys grab it, they can look but don't let them touch cuz thats not right. Show em how strong a white girl can be and never show them your tears.
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Ok this is weird but i want to get my ear pierced and my friend has a peircing gun. But my parental unit had a problem with it. But i am 17 i should be able to pierce my own ear. So the question is should i just go pierce it and come home to see what happens or not?

I'm 13 and my ear is already pierced 2 times in each ear and in febuary I'm getting my 3rd hole done. I think you should get ur ear pierced, because my friend pierced her tounge behind her mother's back and she's only 14. If I had a piercing gun, than I would definetly do it!!!!!!
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There's this guy I like and i thought he liked me too. But then my friend had to go and mess everything up. She ran up to him and started bugging him and told him I was in love with him (which I'm not-I just like him). And now he's acting all weird around me. What should I do?

(I'm 13 and in 7th grade and I'm a female)

PLEASE HELP!!

I'm 13/f and I'm in the same situation right now because there is this boy that is beyond orgasmic and I always say how fine he looks to other people and now my whole class knows and theyr'e gonna tell him. He thinks I'm obsessed with him, but I'm not, and I'm juss gonna go up to him and say that I don't like him cuz he got a madd grimy attitude wit me and he can't handle me anyway cuz I'm too bootylicious. That'yll teach that boy not to mess wit me, and it might work for you, too. So....be a tough girl and nobody will mess wit u.
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16/m/tx
lol, as the subject of my question suggests, i um, have a micro touch hair trimmer, i got one for xmas cuz i thought they were cool and i got bored...so...i um, ran to the bathroom and like, trimmed my hedge so to speak? lol, it's not like bald or anything but it's cleaned up and i think it's COOL lookin :p, plus, it makes what i have look like the 8 it is, and not like a 7 :/ , lol, so what i'm asking is should i keep it short and well kept, or, grow it out and just be all natural like the chick on "without a paddle" ?? =O haha :p
xxxkylestylexxx is my advice column, there's a pic of me on there, stop by! :p
thx,
-Kyle

well, I like a lil hair down there but I dont want it to be a jungle, and that's just my opinion, I don't really know what other girls like...........
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my doctor told me i was anemic, but i have no idea what that means. can anyone exaplain it to me?

Oh, we talk about this in science class----It is more common in women than in men and it is when your iron levels are low so you have to take a vitamin with iron in it or intake more iron in your diet. And if you don't, it can make you feel wiped out and tired, so I think you should take the vitamin.

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ok im 13/f and im goin out w/ a 12/m...yea i no its werid but im one of those ppl that says age doesnt matta lol. so we started goin out a couple of days ago but hes liked me for a long time. the only prob is when im around he doesnt treat me like his gf...i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him but i wanna be treated like his gf...not jus a friend.

Girl, I am 13/f, too and I have never went out with anyone younger than me....guys that are younger are way too immature. Thats why I like guys that are about 15 cuz they know how to do EVERYTHING to me.......if you know what I mean. Come on now, you cant be going out with someone who is 12, they don't the first thing about how to handle a girl!!!!!!!
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me and my friend have decided to get eachother presents. well, we are like best friends so i got her something special that took me a long time and trouble. it coct about $30 but she is my best friends, so she deserved it. today she said she would tell me what she got me if i told her wat i got. it turns out she got me a $3 key chain!!!!!! i smiled and said "thanks, can't wait to see it!" but inside i was screaming. she already knows what i am getting her so i can't return it and she said she was so excited it was a great gift. im mad, is that wrong? what should i do? i dpn't wanna hurt her feelings but c'mon! please help, i rate high.

Girl, I think that you should return the gift for reel cuz if your girl is gonna play you like that, then that's not right at all. My best friend gave me this necklace that I thought was really nice, but later i saw the price tag was on it!!! It was $3.99!!I got so maddddd because i went to the mall and bought her a nice bath and body works set for $22.00. But if I had'nt already gave it to her, I would've returned it or kept it cuz that's not right.

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I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me


Rachel

That dosn't sound like a real friend to me at all. Girl, do you think that her friendship is worth it if shes mean to you 70 percent of the time? (100 (percent of the time) divided by 7 (days in a week) is about 14, then 14 times 5 (because she is mean 5 days a week)= an estimated balance of 70%. Thats definetly not good. So talk to her about it. And if she don't listen, drop that bi**h like a rock---she's not 4 reel.

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My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?

Hell no!!!! I always wear baby phat and I'm white!!!!The girl that designs the baby phat clothing line, Kimora Lee Simmons, happens to be Oriental(Chinese,Japanese,etc.), not black or white. I love their clothes and they are not made for black ppl only cuz at my school, black or white, you be wearin Rocawear or Ecko and you look good-----and yea some poeple will be labeling you as a wigga (white nigga), but they are close-minded idiots with low self-esteem. So tell your mom that ery body can wear anything they want!!!It's a free country!!!

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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..

I've been in situations like that and i'm in 7th grade------and i know a lot of girls that have lost their virginity, but none of them have gotten pregnant. Even though this is very risky, i think they try to scare us in heath class that condoms dont work. I don't think thats the reality of it, but I wouldn't have sex anyway---because I'm not ready~~~~it might not be that fun anyway, cuz ya boy might not know how to do it and I bet it would be awkward. I was scared shitless just to tounge kiss a boy like 2 years ago. So just think how scary it it to do him. But if ur comfortable with him, then I don't see why not. Just dont regret what the outcome turns out to be.

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I have this friend and her birthday is in a couple of days. We are trying to figure out sumthin ReaL CrAzY and alot of fun to do, but we cant think of anything-- ANY sugestions?!!?

haha well you could always do the old bra-in-tha-freezer thing
or
If you eat pizza, leave it out for a while, then when it gets all crusty and shit, put green food coloring on it------trust me it works. it looks like real mold. Then put it on one of your neighbors doorsteps..and wait.......If you're really bold, put it on your doorstep----and then people will have to tell u theres a nasty piece of pizza at your door!!!!!!!!

Hope it works 4 u it worked 4 me

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ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!*

i once had a relationship like that---it didnt work out good at all-----we talked alot on the phone, but we didnt talk about anything important. I'm only 13, but i think that love is like friendship, but better! So that means that you have to have friendship before love. Think---are you his friend?)))))then you can get physical and emotional with him like a real couple should without worring about a harsh heart broken breakup)))because he will always be your friend. the bottom line----work up to being his friend first.

Good luck girl i hope everythang gioes well wit ya boy

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