about

Im Danielle and I smile alot (:
Im very happy and satisfied with my life.
I have my nose pierced. I enjoy having fun. I have the most amazing boyfriend ever. I believe in love at first site. I always try and make the best of a bad situation. I have a hard time trusting people. I get taken advantage of alot. People screw me over alot. I dont have a " best friend" My best friend is my brother. Im the type of person who doesn't have a good friend, but who is friends with everyone. But I do believe I'm a good friend. Im very well rounded, and I am friends with all types of people. I don't like sterotypes, and I don't consider myself as a "label" Im starting to learn to brush off peoples thoughts of me. At times I'm shy. Im sensative. I take everything to heart. I like to write. Chances are if I know you, I like you. Sometimes peoples oppinions change my own. Im very forgiving, epecially when I shouldn't be. I don't judge people by first impressions. When I'm set on something, I'm determined to make it happen. I won't give up until it does. I'm very trustful, and I don't tell secrets. Just my own. I have very strong self-control, and If I don't want to do something I won't do it. Im a strong person, but I can be weak. I guess depending on the situation. Im a nice person, and I care more about other people than myself. There isn't much more to say

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My best friend and I like the same guy. What do I do? I dont want to be a bad friend but I also really like the guy. She doesnt know that I like him but I think it is pretty obvious.

let her know that you like him as well. and let him know that too. but you should never let a guy come between a friendship. guys come and go, friends are there through thick and thin. maybe the guy likes you more then her ( or vise versa )but you shouldn`t put this among yourslef. and make him like you more. let him choose, its less weight on the shoulders. and if it turns out he likes her, then be happy for them two. there are others out there hun

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wow this is the closest thing i've ever written to a journal haha sry its mad long..please help

Ok to begin with I am 17/m and there is a freshman girl I have liked since arouund christmas and um basically i cant tell if she likes me or not..at first i thought she did so i told my friends until one dumbass friend went and told her and since then she hasnt said anything on the subject and im too shy to ask her and the only place i see her is in drama class or right before school ends if she passes by my locker to go to her bus..

i have been making fun of her in class since the beginning of this year (2007) cause..i dunno im kinda scared i guess haha i've tried to talk to her before and she will usually just give me a look and say "hi" and i'll say "whats up" and she dosnt respond ..and sometimes she just ignores me..im thinking maybe she's a little mad cause i make fun of her almost every day. she says she doesnt care but i dunno..girls say they dont care for a lot of things :P

she's kind of shy in class but sometimes when i pass her in the hallways she'll be yelling her ass off and she has 231 friends on myspace (none are bands i checked) and after school she's always on her cellphone..and she plays 3 sports and also she's REALLY smart..like seriously she got all a's on her midterm, has a 101 average in our drama class, and she's like in all honors classes..insane

girls are so confusing haha
so i dunno..i guess my question is what is she thinking..does she like me? because i know that i can talk to her if i know she likes me but i dont want to embarass myself because ive embarassed myself more than once for this girl..i am seriously head over heels for this girl

thanks for reading

ohkay well... i know you may seemed nevous and didn`t really know how to respond to being in the same room with her BUT making fun of a girl is not a good way of flirting. too some, maybe most it`s a turn-off.

and that`s where you are wrong. girls do care about alot of things. they have feelings just as well as you do.

maybe you should talk to her a little without even thinking about that question. make a friendship with her. that`s the best way to start a relationship.

i have feeling this lil lady is playing hard to get.

but i have a question myself. why is it that you sed on the orginal that you didn`t talk to her and on the additional you sed you talked? i don`t get it.

i think she likes you but don`t know how to show it.

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Well I am a 17 year old female and have never really done anything with a guy.. not even kissed


well i was laying down with a "friend" watching a movie today and he started fingering me.. how do i react? i just kinda layed there and put my hand on top of his

Should i do anything back? I am comfortable with whatever but tonight was the first night we were more than just friends and my parents were upstairs.
what should i do?

try govong him a kiss and giving him eye contact. touch him as well.

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hey- anyone know who got voted off of american idol tonight?
thank you so much!

melinda dolittle.

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Ok, so she told me today that she dont wanna be my friend anymore, she didnt tell me y. she said you dont like me cause i like your bf, n i was like..dats nt d reason even tho it was. I mean, im gettin tired of him hanging up on me cuz hes talkin to my best friend or him puttin me on hold jus to talk to her n vice versa...im jus sick of it. Do you think i should break up w/ my bf or stay w/ him?

i would break it up with him:(

he seems to like her more. DUMP HIS AASS.

you seem better then that.

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ok iw as just wandering if you knew some one for a while and you guy were good friends would u fuck him just because he was stilla virgin and wanted to do it, and even though you didnt like him at all??

well... me personally? i wouldn't :/ because i feel that in order for me to have sex with someone, we should have feelings of the same amount for each other. i mean don`t get me wrong or anything, there has been times when i have had sex just to have sex, but yes, i do regret it.

i wouldn`t have sex with a virgin either. i think that he should lose it to someone that he most diff. cares about. he shouldn`t lose it, just to fit in with the crowd, or just because. you only have that chance once, make it last.

" a when a girl has sex just to have sex it`s called a fuck, when a has sex with feelings it`s called making love."

think about that saying. my mom always tells it to me. and i used to be a girl that just fucks. but then i realized that, i need to have respect for myself. haveing respect for yourself makes others have respect for you. try to keep a good name for you. if you don`t being called, a hoe or slut then don`t act like one. k?

a guy is only going to use you until a good girl comes about.

think about all this that i am saying, and then ask yourself the question again. " should i have sex with him even though we share no feelings ?"

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friday will be my 6 month anniversary w/ my boyfriend. we want to do something special to celebrate, but i have no idea what we should do. any opinions?

go to a park and have a little picnic. most people think that it's a little corny but it is a good idea. && make little heart shaped sandwiches. and light little candles. BUT it really depends on if your the romantic couple type, or a laid back.put some of your ideas together and have fun with it.

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i need a really fun exciting birthday present for my mom. but its soooo hard getting her stuff: she doesnt use/like/wear the following -

make up
perfume
jewelry
music (ya shes really picky)
watches
cookbooks
clothes (she hates a lot of things)
shoes (SHE has to pick them out)
gift cards (she wont even let me buy them for my friends)
kitchen utensils (anything from silverware to bread machines)
pillows
stuffed animals
jars of macoroni


basicly she doesnt like a lot of things. =/
i am making her a birthday card though, but i want a store bought gift to go along with it.

i cant ask her what she wants, becuase shell say she doesnt need anything.

i want to get her something fun, maybe a bit useless, but something that she will really enjoy.

any random ideas?

*i already thought of making a video of our family and a scrapbook, but we dont have any pictures and videos.

just a tiny bit about her: she homeschools me and my brother (no gifts saying teacher, please!!!)spends 6 hours of her day drivng and watching my brother do gymnastics (his gym is 1.5 hours away) so i was thinking to get her something that will amuse her while she watches my brother.

i am willing to spend up to 100 dollars.


thanks!!





i have always gotten my mom a picture frame with a picture of me and her or me and my brother to go in it.

she has always liked it. something cute, and simple. from the heart, which is better then any other :/

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Okay,so there's this 70's party thing at my university but I have no idea what to wear...

Any ideas? The party's on the 27th this month so there's time if there's any tailoring needed...

If you've pics of stuff, please incude those as well..

Thanks!

http://members.aol.com/pumpkinave/costumes/70girl.gif

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I saved a picture in MSN messenger and I saved it with a keyboard shortcut.Now whenever I type an "O",a picture of a hypnotic O appears.How can I delete it?

go to your lil wink expressions and klik were it says "show all" amd then you will see all of your pictures and expressions. and then should say "remove". did it work ?

if not add me onto your messenger, and i can lead you to it. cuz right now im @ school and i don't know what it says exactly. soo add me if you wanna.

messyjessie0@yahoo.com

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STORY: Rebecca was with her mom and her mom said; Rebecca you are very thin, I am concerned, I dont want you to lose weight;.
Rebecca then asked her mom; Why do you think I should gain weight?; And her mother said; No I dont think you should gain I just
think you should not lose;. The next day Rebecca told her friends the story and asked her friends is my mom saying I am to thin; and
her friends said; No she is not. All she is saying is that you are very thin and she does not want you to lose any weight and she EVEN
TOLD YOU SHE DOES NOT THINK YOU HAVE TO GAIN WEIGHT. MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE/CONCUR WITH REBECCAS
FRIENDS

her mom is saying that she don't need to lose no more weight, she is skinny as it is.

i totally agree with her friends :)

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what do you value the most? and why?

FAMILY, w/o them you wouldn't feel what love really feels like.

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theres this guy i really like and hes been flirting with me my friend but i already made out with him and were hanging out this weekend to make out again. what can i do and say until then to make him want me.. like how do i act? i really like him. do i act like a tease if so how?

you cant make him want you. butt you can try, just be sure that you don't try to hard. and when i say you can try, i mean, BE YOURSELF. i'm not going to tell you any of those corny lies, like, go with your heart or anything.but in order for him to want YOU, he needs to understand and respect the real YOU.

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Hi. If I delets a friend from my Yahoo Messenger list and Hi5 would the friend know they have been deleted? Thanx!

no they can not tell.

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hi im a 16/f and i wanted to know what the average penis size was so that i can convince him he is average if not bigger i would say hes about 7.5 inches hard

well... you never gave me any information about his, wieght, his age, or his body built wise.

but the average penis length is 6.16 inches.The average girth is 4.84 inches.

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okay my best friend sara has been going out with this guy josh and theyve been dating for a year and a half.they are so cute together and make like the perfect couple.but they get into fights alot and its about stupid little things but they still get really annoying..anyway..i was talking to sara one day and she said that she may have a crush on this guy matt..but the thing is..matt is her ex boyfriend from like 2 years ago..and shes going out with josh!
sara is really confused about what to do. she doesnt want to keep liking matt..but its not like you can really stop a crush..its just like a feeling you have..and you cant change that..but she really loves josh too. and i think that since theyve been getting in so many stupid little fights tthat maybe "the flame in their relationship is starting to die out"
im just really worried about sara because i dont want her or josh to get hurt.

me and my boyfriend get into little fights all time but we seem to get over them fast. sara and josh just need to think postive and not let a little fight ruin thier love for one another. and as long as her crush on matt goes, a crush is a crush, it`s going to happen. but if she is really feeling this matt guy, then let her try out again with him. i`m sure josh will understand that sara feels that way.

like you sed "the flame in their relationship is starting to die out" and you think they are unhappy together, then they need to end it. it isnt fair for her or him to be put in a situation like that.

put you can`t make their descion for them, they need to realize this on their own.

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is the host of punk'd (the guy that always talks in the beginning) ashton kutcher?

yes, ashton kutcher

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in ur opinion what do girls want while having sex i know every girl is diffrent but what would u think the average girl would say

Ahh, control. Sometimes it seems that sex is all about control, and so much of that sexual control is all about the man, and how he exercises it.

to be honest i really don`t know what you are looking for on this question. sorry, gove more details.

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what do girls want

The perfect man to me has to be attractive. I define attractive as a man who could have sparkling blue eyes and a great jovial nature, but not a #10. He doesn't have to have the perfect body or the perfect face. I am one independent woman, so if I like him, I really don't care what my friend think as far as his looks. A man that surprises you with even one flower just to say "I love you." Someone that can make me laugh and laughs with me. Someone that isn't being something they aren't to impress me. I like good down home, honest, "what you see is what you get" type of men. A man that is interesting to talk too, yet realizes I'm bright and have topics I like to talk about and he's interested in what I have to say. A man that is loyal, no game playing and I DO LIKE a man that is on the shy side. I find men that are too confident too blasted smooth. I am the type of woman that is extremely out-going and if the guy is shy or having a rough time I make it as easy as possible.

It's difficult to say what women want in a man, because just like men are all different, so are women. Even personality-wise, some personality characteristics may be attractive to one woman, but irritating to another. Just focus on being yourself, and you'll find a woman who is attracted to YOU, not just some general, pseudo-you version of yourself that you've concocted to attract female carbon-based units. :)

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I want to know if when you give head if you like hold ur lips and really how do you do it give me pointers

Ask your lover what he likes, don’t be shy. Guys have different preferences. And remember, good sex and good communication come together. Also, be attentive to his body language.

Use your hands to increase his sensations. You can massage his testicles, pinch his nipples or stroke his anus, while giving him a blow job.If your mouth gets tired, use your hands.If you also use your hands while giving him a blow job, the transition may not even be noticeable.
Be aware of your own sensations. Use the head of his penis as lipstick and feel how soft its skin is.

Use your hands to increase his sensations. You can massage his testicles, pinch his nipples or stroke his anus, while giving him a blow job.
f your mouth gets tired, use your hands. If you also use your hands while giving him a blow job, the transition may not even be noticeable.
Be aware of your own sensations. Use the head of his penis as lipstick and feel how soft its skin is.

If you really want to drive him wild with a blow job, try this: while you're sucking on it, run your tongue around the head at the same time. It also seems to get to them if you lick it and look straight into their eyes at the same time. Try it... you'll see.

A GAME :
While giving him a blowjob, to make him really wild:
a) suck on some ice until your mouth goes numb, then quickly slide his penis deep into your mouth. It really does send shivers down their spine!
b) while his penis is quite far in, gently (VERY gently) just bite the shaft and drag yourself up. It shouldn't hurt

- just makes a change that's all. My boyfriend likes it, anyway.'




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