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i cant sleep at night at all and im always tierd.what can i do to sleep better.nottake drugs or anything like that? pleaseeee help (link)
exercise. makes your body tired so you fall asleep quicker and its good for you!


i've had my period on april 17th, it started april 17th and now i have some discharge, well it the discharge is usually clear liquid or kind of brown but now sometimes when i wipe myself there is some blood.....sometimes not a lot though only on the toilet paper....is that normal cuz i've never noticed blood it's usually just clear or kind of brown....it's kind of freaking me out....i am married i do have sex i know i am not pregnant for sure......is that normal or is something else going on....please answer as soon as possible any advice is appreciated. Thank you !!! (link)
are you on the pill? the pill can mess up your period track and you can get your period twice in a month or it can make you bleed a little bit. if you arent then i think you should go see your gyno. its probably nothing to worry about. hope everything is fine!


13/F so my freind for a long time likes me and i dont like. like that and i kinda like. but im still young im 13 and i dont kno how to date yet and i dont kno wut to do (link)
explain to him that you are to young to be getting into a relationship. he'll understand hopefully


I have searched many websites and they have all said that it is legal to smoke mary jane in alaska, i have also read that it is legal to grow up to 4 oz in your house. Is this the law as of now the year 2008? If so, does growing in your house apply to apartments as well? If you can't grow it, can you still smoke it? What is the law over there?
Thanks (link)
my health teacher said it is illegal to smoke mary jane in all of the united states. and your apart of the united states. so i dont think you can. if you could...my brother would be living there.


i got a sore throat this morning and it hurts when i swallow, and i just feel it there. and also i feel nauseous at random moments during the day. also during this test we're taking in school.. like standardized tests that take several hours. i dont feel nervous really but i felt nauseous at some point today and yesterday when we did 2 portions of the test. i kinda feel nauseous now too. and my period.. i mean its quite irregular but its supposed to come around now but it hasnt yet. i havent even felt cramps yet. and i havent even kissed a boy yet so being pregnant isnt a concern. whats wrong and how can i fix this? oh yeah i also have a headache and feel kinda tired although i slept for 10 hours last night.. i usually dont sleep that much on a school night too.

14/f, and thanks for the help! =] (link)
maybe you have mono? share drinks with people? you could have gotten it. if this continues for another week go to the doctors and have them swab your throat


hey, im being dragged to key west this summer and if im going i'd like to go to a teen club. does anyone know of any because this could make my vacation a whole lot more interesting. (link)
i live in florida and been to key west many times. not many teen clubs that i've seen. when you get to the hotel ask the travel person at the desk if there are any...and get brochures. if not just spend all the time at the beach. alot of teens are there...ALOT. be careful of spiders though...seems to be alot in key west.


i have 3weeks - a month
to loose 10 lbs!
I gained 17 lbs, in the last 2 weeks , so i want to loose around 10.
PLEASE HELP!
I had jr high graduation coming up , and class trip!!
I need to fit into things!
My dress is to tight now , and it was alot of money and my mom said she isnt going to buy another one , and we cant return it .
Plus i need to be seen in a bathing suit.
Please help, what are good diets, and things to do when i am bored.

oxox !
PS . I need responses, quick! (link)
well your young so loosing 10lbs should be no problem in a month. just run for a half hour a day, dont eat any fatty foods you know will make you gain weight (like mcdonalds). but make sure your eating healthy still and dont go on a crash diet.


so i'm looking for like the sexy black and white pictures of a guy n a girl kind of like a hollister ad almost but not. can someone please help me find some! (link)
go to photobucket.com and type in hollister. alot of cute pictures come up. also tinypic.com and google images.


i have a guinea pig and right behind her left and right ears, she seems to have a patch of hair just like, missing. like if i move the fur apart she just has a chunk missing. it's about the size of a dime or penny. it's the size of a quarter behind her left ear. the skin is dry and she was not reacting when i touched it (it's not itchy or anything) and it's black. what could it be? i'm going to take her to the vet, but in the meantime, what might it possibly be from the symtoms i've listed? (link)
jus wanted to say I WISH I HAD A GUINEA PIG! they r so adorable. but my dad hates rodents even tho they rnt like rats but watever. glad to see you care about yours :]


Okay, well this is my 4th month of getting my period. I started and it was regular at first and then the second time i was supposed to start, i went very little and only for one day. The third time, i went very heavy for 11 days. Well, it was a week after i quit and it came again. Why did it come this early. It is supposed to be 28 days and this time it was only a week until i got my next period. Is my body just trying to get normal since i just started 4 months ago or what? Any advice would be great.
Thanks. (link)
since your a fresh body starting in puberty you havent regulated your cycle. and you wont for a year or maybe more. i got mine 3 years ago and it still isnt on the dot. just give it time and you will have it down to where u can track it on a calender. welcome to womanhood. its a b**** but fun lol


i never really have bad ance but lately its been realllly bthering me and ive got more then usual and whenever i get pimples it the ones that hurt really bad that are under the skin and dumby me i pop them and make them 43245x worse. whats a way i can get rid of pimples? i use acne products but nothing seems to work. neithe does tooth paste.
ive heard about green tea oils. do those work? and where can i buy them? and also what else works? (link)
well i have your problem too so i went to the dermatologist (skin doctor) and they perscribed me on like 5 different things and im all clear now. so ask your parents to take you to that kind of doctor.


15/f

okay so i have a sweating problem. I could be sitting in first period, just sitting and start sweating for no reason and i'll start getting wet stains on my underarms. it's sooo embarrassing and i can't wear clothes i want to. i don't know what to do. i've been using secret clinical strength for like a year and it still doesn't work. should i like try guys deodorant or something? can my doctor help?
i'm desperate i've had this problem since 7th grade.
any advice would be great, thanks! (link)
my brother had a surgery done. and my best friend has that problem too. you should try everything possible before surgery though. my brother only did it because he has had sweaty hands, feet and underarms since he was born and it got annoying. the only side effect was that his back sweats more then usuall now. he said its worth it tho.


imagine this fun happy spirited girl who runs around and doesn't give a flip =] she likes meeting people and can make conversation with people easily. but then when she finds out a guy likes her, its like she gets all nervous. she pretty much loses all of her spunk that probably attracted the guy in the first place. but she finds it hard to trust the guy in a way, and his intentions. either shes afraid or she just hasn't had enough experience with guys. but she wishes she could show him who she really is. because he told her friend that he liked this girl and they've been hanging out together once a week for the last few weeks. they even kissed once =]. but she needs help letting loose. she needs to get her groove back hahaha. i bet you all love how this question is all hypothetical. thanx =]]] (link)
im totally opposite of you. ima shy person infront of everyone. but infront of my boyfriend..i talk. alot. or i use to. it was because i was nervous. i noticed that when i ate infront of him i felt more comfertable. yeah thats weird but true. try eating a big meal infront of him. it might work for you to. lol sorry its so odd.


I just bought 4 fish yesterday.

They are in the right size tank and have the right filter for the tank and plants etc.
The lady at the pet shop helped me.

I have two little Fantales and two little Black Moors.

The Fantales are fine and swim around and everything but I have noticed that the Black Moors will just lie on the bottom of the tank or just float near the top under the top of a plant.

The other two fish are fine but.
What is wrong?!
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my dad got these tiny little fish not to long ago and thats what they did for some time...its because they arent use to the new tank and the new fish. give them some time and they will warm up to everything


okay how do i get my toddler to stop biting people. And screaming. She is one and i understand it is normal but when you change her diaper she screams and she tries to bite you. She has bit me before and i bit her back, but not too hard. Just enough to let her know that it hurts. But how do i get her to stop. I tell her no and everything and i have put her in time out. She just screams and pulls her hair and bites. It has to stop. (link)
i use to babysit these kids who would bit me any chance they got. i guess its some kind of phase they go through where they love to bit if you dont do EXACTLY what they want. start taking away her favorite things and let her throw he fit. the only reason she throws the fit is because she knows you pay attention for it. when i was little thats what i use to do. once they ignored me i stopped doing it. tell her that she cant go places if she doesnt stop. it doesnt look like time out is working so just let her sit on the floor and have her little tantrum. and about the biting. well i guess you cant really do anything about that except taking things about..you could tap her on the butt and tell her biting wont get her Christmas presents or something. its hard to say what to do for that. sorry i couldnt be much help. its just a phase she is going through i guess. sorry.


my prom is coming up and its probably impolite if i smile with my mouth closed.. but my teeth are crookedish and yellow! the crookedness is fine i guess but the yellow is unacceptable.

is there some way to get them whiter without whitening treatments? like white-out my teeth for one day or something? (link)
the only thing you could do is get white strips....or go get your teeth whitened by a dentist..but you should take care of your teeth from now on....don't want fake teeth at 40 do you?


This is very embarrassing ok im 16 and my penis is very small just over 2 inches fully erect
im really embarrassed i had a gf and when she saw my penis she laughed we broke up and im feeling really low and im too embarrassed about being with another girl what can i do will it grow?
can i pleasure a girl? (link)
that girlfriend you had is messed up! i have been with a guy who had a 3 inch penis when erect and he pleasured me just fine so dont worry about that. guys penis's dont stop growing till about their mid 20's or so you still got ways to do. just from now on dont show a girl your penis inless your confident she wont judge you for it and talk with her about it before you show her and tell her your self concious about it. if she actually likes you for YOU then she wont care. but you can also buy male enhancement pills if you are gettin so self concious its effecting your love life. just remember there are girls out there who like little penis's.


so i have this friend..lets call him A. A and I are really good friends. in fact i would call him one of my best friends. i know him really well. hes a guy and im a girl. like 2 weeks ago he told me he liked me, and before he told me i thought kinda liked him too. he said he didnt want to date though because we were such good friends and if we were to break up then it might ruin our friendship. but i kinda want to date him and i dont think it would ruin our friendship at all. i have been talking to him on the phone everynight for the past 3 weeks. (btw he knows i like him too) then last night we were on the phone and he said he was texting the girl he kinda likes. i asked him who and he said he cant tell me because he knows i dont like her. so honestly i didnt want to know. i knew if i knew it would break my heart. i asked him how many girls he liked and he said 2. i asked who they were. he said it was the one he was texting and the other one i already knew. so of course that one is me. then he said that he doesnt realy like the one hes texting a lot. which gets me confused because he plays with my heart and i dont think he knows it. hes such a good guy though. when we got off the phone i texted him to see if he still liked me and he said idk. and i asked him what that means and hes like yeah idk ever since i liked a girl who ripped the insides out of me i really dont know. (that girl is his ex from last year but he doesnt like her at all anymore) but i really like him alot. ive gotton to like him over the past few weeks more and more. and now for some reason i get really jealous whenever he talks about people asking him out or things like that because a ton of girls ask him out because of the way he looks. i like him for his personality. i dont even know what im asking. like what should i do? i have never liked a boy like this. im not kidding. (ive never had a boyfriend either) i really want to MAYBE date A. i like him so much. =\ hheeeellllllllp!!! thanks in advance and sorry it was long. (link)
wow for one i think he is very messed up person for messing with you like that! and now he has a girlfriend!!!!! i use to talk to a boy like that. nothing but trouble and crying for me. he was only toying with you because he probably doesnt know what he wants or wanted. talk to him about how hes being mean and you dont want a girl to ruin your friendship. and idk how old you are but if your still in middle school or an underclassmen in highschool then this boy is probably very VERY immature and has no idea how girls work. so you have to talk to him and explain what you feel. if he doesnt seem to care and continues to be mean then your better off not to be even friends with him. you dont need fake people in your life.


alright so my hair was never like this before so its not like i was born with natural frizzy hair.. but like i started scrunching my hair with gel and now my hair is kinda frizzy and like.. i cant keep my hair down without putting something in it because it will get really frizzy.. what can/should i do to make my hair go back to being nice? (link)
it may be that you need a haircut ( dead hair means frizzyness ) try new shampoo(organics are helpful).use conditionor.. use serums made for frizzy hair. it might be the weather too. hope i helped


i just started going to a psychologist once a week becuase i was just found out to have depression. In the meantime, i ALWAYS over think things, and its just like i feel everything 10x worse than everyone else! I hurt so much, even the slightest thing. Like I think about the boy I like, and i want to cry. Is there anything i can do to make myself feel better? Like any good ways to get myself to stop over-thinking so much and just be happy? PLEASE help! (link)
im going through this too. myne has gotten better though because ive been dating this boyy and he always there for me to make things better. ive learned that if you talk out your problems, have someone to give you a hug when you need it ( a pillow or teddy bear works too..also a pet like a dog! thats what i do! ) and dont bottle up tears you feel better. your very lucky to have a doctor too see also. they can prescribe you medicine that will help if you are really feeling down. ive been in my depression for about a year now...with no doctor to help me. so your blessed. try to look at all the positives! make sure you get around 8 hours of sleep a night because i found out that helps too. maybe taking naps after school may make you feel happier too? it works for me. go skip down the street or turn on happy music and start to dance. doing something silly brightens you up too. spray your favorite smell on your pillows and clothes so your comfertable. read a book. write poetry. i like to give advice..like i am doing right now. maybe that could help for you too? look at pictures of you and your friends. get out of the house. go swimming and go under water and scream. relieves stress. take a hot bath with bubbles and make a beard out of the bubbles. hehe. play with play doh. hang with a younger kid and play little games with them. never sit there and let your mind wander! that makes things worse. goodluck. and i hope you break your depression. hope i helped!




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