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Hey guys, I'm Maddie. Yes, my advicenators name is ridiculously dorky.
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I'm fifteen and as far as I know, I give pretty good advice, to anyone, about mostly anything.
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hey im 15/f and i was at my really good friends jacobs hosue the other night (16/m) our families have been close forever, adns he is the sweetest best looking guy u will ever meet, although kinda cocky (in a cute way) sometimes. well we were alone at his house (nothing new, our parents dont think ne thing of it) adn he said something really sweet, and we kissed. after we just had dinner and were watchign tv, in alittle while he was telling me about when he went shopping wiht his friend and he got a free pair of hand cuffs, we joked aroun wiht them, untill he locked them to me adn to the leg of the table. we made a game out of it, adn we were kissing and playing around, before i knew it he was on top of me. i told him 2 times i didnt want to do that and to stop, but eventrally i just stopped adn actually enjoyed it. is this rape , please some one help me

Yes. This is rape. It's illegal.
Get help. This guy is an asshole for not respecting your wishes.
The police or a counsler or an anonymous support group, or at least a friend, needs to know.
Just go tell someone.
Good luck.

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I have a friend that I've known since like 3rd grade. I'm a sophomore now and lately she's been driving me crazzy. She's my bestfriend and I don't have another bestfriend, i have other friends but I dunno she's always been my bestfriend. So, yeah.. she's been reallly annoying me. Suggestions?

Just keep on being nice to her. It looks like the two of you are changing, and growing apart. You should gradually spend morer time with your other friends if it makes you comfortable. The best case scenario is the two of you stay friends, like she is one of your "other friends", but you are not necesarily attatched at the hip. Don't feel guilty for being annoyed at her. It's just a change in her character, or yours, or both.
Be nice, but spend lots of time with your other friends too.
Hope I helped ;-)

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I haven't heard from my boyfriend at all since friday. He hasn't called or texted or anything. I've texted him but he hasn't texted back and I called him yesterday but he didn't pick up. I know that he's gone away for the weekend but he would always have his phone on him. I'm getting worried.

Chill out.... he probably just isnt getting any service. If you're still suspicious, just casually ask him what he did that weekend, and mention that you called him. (do that anyways)
xo Ask_Me

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My dad is moveing to San Antonio, Texas tomorrow. We live in Pennsylvania now, but my dad got a job, and hes moven there now, and leaving me and my mom behind until we sell our house, (they think its the best thing to do) My dad is like my best friend, and alotta people know that he is. My friends invited me to hang out with them like since its Halloween abuncha my friends hang out and we just mess around. I really wanna hang out with them tonight because Halloween only comes once a year. But I wanna spend time with my dad too just because he's leaving tomorrow, and I won't be able to see him again until December 22nd. What do you think I should do? Any help will get 5s!

Go with your dad. I know halloween is fun and all that, but it will come again, and it seems like you will really miss your dad. He wants to be around you as much as he can.
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There is this guy i like and he likes my friend but she doesn't like him back and she keeps askin him y he won't go for me and whatever and he says he can only like 1 person at a time and she told him she doesn't even wanna go out wit him but i would. how can i get him 2 become interseted in me or nething that will help me in this situation. thanks i will rate u

Just be extra nice to him, and give him that extra little bit of attention. :-D hopefully, he will notice. ANd if you really want to get him off your friend, although this is kind of mean, have your friend NOT be nice to him, if shes up for it. Whatever, if you think thats mean, just dont do it.
good luck!
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I've liked this one guy, Bob, for a while now. And he said he likes me and all, but he also likes a couple other girls. He told me this maybe a month or two ago, so I'm starting to think that he just likes being liked (because a lot of girls like him). And I'm starting to think that he doesnt really like me, even if he does act like it.

Anyway, I met this other guy, Bill, and I'm starting to really like him. and i heard that he wants to ask me out. but i still like Bob a little bit. even though im getting over him pretty fast.

should i go out with Bill even though I still kind of like Bob? or should i wait until I'm fully over Bob to go out with Bill?

thanks so much

I say go out with bill. It seems like he has exclusive feelings for you, not just that he kind of likes u among other girls. Once you get in deep with Bill, you will most likely forget about Bob. Bill seems nicer anyway.
Good luck :-)

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my question is that i asked my bf if he looks @ porn he said yeah and he was being porn but like a couple of Months ago he said he only looked at it when he was single but before i was like wow he looks @ that and he said he loves me and shit?? what should i do?

He's just being a horny loser, like most guys out there. But we fall in love with them anyway right? I think it's pretty normal, but if it makes you uncomfortable, just ask him to not watch it anymore. If he respects you, he'll do as you wish.
hope i helped :-D
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my akita is 6 wks old & has been feeling ill and has had diarhea for about 24 hrs

What's your question? Take him to the vet.

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my friend needs a costume and fast, she was going to be a slut but now she realized she doesnt have all the stuff she needed and cant go out shopping b4 tonight she has to be something she can make jus from the stuff in her closet. plz help!

question: How hard is it to be a slut for halloween??
just cut some shirt in half and wear it.... or whatever
but if you cant do it... then i would be a prom queen reject. its easy, all you do is wear a formal dress or something with ugly socks/shoes, tease ur hair or make it ugly somehow, and smear makeup on your face. You could make a sash too, and whatever else u want to add.
hope i helped :-D
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Is it ok for a guy to stay out late partying if his girl is sitting at home waiting for him?

Not a good idea, as a generalization.

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I dont know if this is love life or friendship but I have a huge crush on here and he dosnt know it I want to tell him but Im afraid, I dont know if he knows me , what do I do I really need help , my heart pounds everytime I visit his coulmn, what do I do?!!!!

ooh ouch. I don't think this will work. Really, you cant tell the true character of a person from a website. But ff you really want to, 'ask' on his column saying that you really like his advice... and that you'd like his sn? Well, good luck.
xo Me

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Ok...there's this kid I like alot. I have for a really long time and we went out about 3-4 times before but now it's been like a year since the last time we dated. Well...he's not exactly the hottest guy in the school but he's popular and everythin,,like he has a great personality n everythin. Well i wanna tell my best friend that I like him again but I'm afraid of her reaction. Beacause she's really into looks and everythin..and not only that she just doesn't like him that much. What should I tell my friend and should I tell this kid I like him again? And if I do tell both of them who should I tell first? Help!

Well, if she is good friend she will suck it up and support you, unless she has something against him or something. But dont push her into spending time with you when he is around, if she doesnt want to.
If your confident he will say yes if you ask him out, then go ahead and let him know :-D
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I like my guy friend, but he has a girl friend. Well last night i went to my old private schools football game. I go to a public school now so i havent seen my old private school friends in over 5 months. Well i saw them last night, and my guy friend from the school (ryan), who ive been talkin on the phone with all summer, has a girl friend. Well last night went ok, ryan and i hugged and then his girl friend got jelous and didnt want him around me. Well i texted him last night telling him how hott he was. He told me that i was really hott to. We started talkin and i really do want to go back with him. What should I say to him, cause i dont know if he wants to still be friends or maybe be more.

well, im not sure if it would be best, it depends. Cause if he is going behind his girlfriends back and flirtin with other girls (i.e. you) and telling them they are hot, then chances are that it could happen to you if you go out with him. I wish u the best, but just be careful. hope i helped :-D
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My boyfriend and I just had sex for the first time..He took my virginity. It was unprotected and Im not sure if he pulled out or not. We were both a little drunk. I dont regret it. Anyway, I was told that you shouldn't have unprotected sex for 15 days after your last period ended. Its only been 10 days. Im a little worried that, well basically, I could become pregnant. Im not sure if the 15 day thing is true. Im going to the health clinic in a couple days to get on birth control and they always give you a pregnancy test. I want to know if I should be worried about this or not and if the 15 day thing is true. Hurry..this has me scared. Thanks.

hey um... none of that schedule shitt is tru... u can get pregnant ne time... : ( soo get checked for your own sake... especially if you werent protected :/

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i am in 9th grade. which college is best. penn state, michigan state, florida state,california state,or st. vincent? i rate all well.

I think Penn is pretty good. :-D

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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?

I say 12-14, somewhere in there. Take them to the movies, local hangouts, etc.
but hey, it's up to you i guess. But if you make it really late, chances are your kids will rebel and go out anyway. Just a bit of advice (hey, thats what this is for, right?)
hope i helped :-D
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ok i am the girl who asked about burning cd's and u answered my question yesterday...ok...so i know what cd's to buy (and yes i do have windows xp) so i just go to windows media player and and download from there or do i have to go to a place like kaaza (or what do you use?) and download it onto media player then burn it from there...please let me know cuz i have never done it and i wanna learn how...lol...i know im a little retarded in this area...thanks for anything u can tell me on this subject..!!!!!
thanks
--sarah--

Ok here goes:
What I use to download music is Limewire (limewire.com), cuz its faster than kazaa and has no ads. When u register for limewire they will ask you what folder u want to download into (pick one that you will be able to find later). Once you have downloaded the music you go into that folder (my music, my sharedmusic, whatever), select the song u want, and on the toolbar on the left-hand side there will be a button that says "copy to audio cd" click that. And hopefully it will direct you right to media player and you can burn from there.
Good luck!
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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help.

Sry to say, i would just do it :-P
its all good. And if you must, just make something up, like you gotta babysit or something. BUt something that doesnt involve any of your other friends cause then she could find out. good luck!
xo Me :-D

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when ur burning cds what kind of blank cd's do u buy??? thanks a lot!!!

also can u burn cds on media player after u download them??...thanks...

i dont really know how 2 download and burn cd's so if there is other stuff i need 2 know...please tell me....

Buy anything that says CD-R
they're all about the same.... (napster, memorex, fujifilm,staples, etc)
and when you are in the folder that has the music in it. select it, and if you have windows XP, click the thing in the toolbar that says 'BURN TO AUDIO CD' and hopefully it will take you right to media player and ready to burn.
hope i helped :-D rate if it worked :)

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I can do just about anything with my hair.I can scrunch it, straighten it, put it up just name it and I can do it with my hair but tomorrow is picture day and I don't know what to do with my hair. I was thinking of scrunching it. I also don't know what to wear. Any suggestions?
thanx!

I say straighten it, but hey, I dunno what yyou look like or w/e....
and make sure u wear something simple and solid print, or stripes, with no writing or anything on it.
O and also make sure that you put a lil gell or spray it at the top or find some way to make the flyawways go away, cuz i just got mine back and i look dumb cuz i have these lil hairs all over the place. Otherwise, you'll look fine as long as you look in the mirror that morning and think you look ok :D hope i helped

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