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i am gay and i think my mum knows, what do i do?
Well you should probably talk to her about it-she deserves to know, I think.
okay well i loose my virginity just 2 weeks ago with a guy i didnt go with an then tonite i did it with another guy i didnt go with .. is that considered a slut?
also i heard sex makes your hair shiney ?
You need to ho up on being sexual active.
(Ho up means stop, it's like a command to a horse to stop, anyways...)
I'll be blunt here...
You shouldn't have sex with people you don't know well! You lose respect from it, and you could get STDs, or even worse, pregnant!
I would just say if you're wondering if you're a slut, you probably are on the road to slut-dom, so chill for a while.
No, sex does not make your hair shiney although it is a good workout. SHAMPOO and having a healthy diet makes your hair shiny.
quotes ppl i need quotes anyone have any good ones just answer this advice piece with as many as you got ! .. COM EON YOU GUYS GOTTA HAVE SOMETHING!
"Great minds think alike." -I have no clue
"A penny saved is a penny earned." -I don't know
"Life is like a box of chocolates" -Stewie from Family Guy
"When life gives you lemons make lemonade." -Again, no clue
"You never step in the same river twice." -Pocahontas
"You couldn't get hold of the things you'd done and turn them right again. Such a power might be given to the gods, but it was not given to women and men, and that was probably a good thing. Had it been otherwise, people would probably die of old age still trying to rewrite their teens." -Stephen King
Only a few serious ones there...haha.
Ugh I feel so stupid and weird about asking this but what is spooning?
Spooning can be defined in two ways:
A sex position, or
a cuddling position.
It's like you and your partner are both laying on your sides, facing the same direction, and right up next to each other. Normally the guy is behind you (or girl).
So you kind of looked like stacked spoons, hence the name.
i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im shy and really afraid to ask him out.he always stares at me and blows kisses to me can some one help
Well go up and talk to him! Don't listen to that one girl that said 'he sounds gay'. Nonsense. He could be, but then again, he couldn't.
But my guess is if he's blowing kisses to you and staring at you (you have to catch him staring at you, now, and make eye contact for a little over 3 seconds, then look away) then I think he might be into you.
Or he could be a jerk, some guys are twisted like that.
But like I said earlier, go up and talk to him! I know it's easier said then done though, because you said you were shy. Just start out with little things like smiles or a wave.
Me and my boyfriend are both 16 and a couple of times when he goes to put his penis in it goes soft and so i gave him a hand job and he got hard again and then he did'nt stay hard for long
does this happen often to guys he's a bit insecure
about it.
I don't really know, I'm only 13...
I think most guys can usually hold their erection until they ejaculate, but if it helps, can't you get some sort of ring or something or stick on the end to keep the blood in the penis (therefore keeping it erect)? I'm sure they must have something like that.
Ok... im only 13 and my school is goin 2 the brewer game on the 22nd. All the couples r supposed to have sex 2gether, but i dont want 2. I didnt hear this from my boyfriend, just one of my other friends. I don't know what to tell him. I don't wanna seem "scary" becuase i wont do it. I just don't wanna take the risk because of all the thingz that could be done 4 me in my future. Plus, its a school event and it would be easy 2 get caught. What should I do???
Well, if you don't want to do it...Don't!
I'm 13 too, and it's not a very good idea to be having sex right now. Who knows...if lots of people have already had sex at your school, what kinds of STD's could be floating around?
Talk to your boyfriend and see if he wants to do it, but don't let his answer influence your decision.
Being caught would seem pretty easy, plus the risk is too high!
My friend got fingered by a guy, and she has had her period. I was wondering can you get pregnant from being fingered. Does that also mean ur a no a vergin anymor?? PLease write back thanx
Ok. Do you think fingers contain sperm? No.
Sperm must travel up a woman's vagina into an egg, if one is mature at all.
If she has her period anytime after sex or anything, she's more than likely NOT pregnant because part of your period is expelling unused eggs and such.
You are a virgin until you have SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. Look it up.
does anybody know any FREE! psychic readings i need to nkow what my future is gonna look like cuz i have these dreams that seemm like they show my future but i cant tell i need someone to tell me... please help me find someone to help me... asap i really need to find out.. help! make sure it is free
Maybe it's just best that you DON'T know the future? You shouldn't always know what's ahead of you--part of life is the suprise and spontaneity.
I was at a friends house and I was playing on her brothers skateboard. Stupidly I was wearing sandals and I fell. I hurt my toe and it looks fine but it hurts when I walk and it looks a bit swollen. I'm not sure if I broke it, fractured it, or just stubbed it really bad but I would appreciate any suggestions that would make the healing process faster!
Yeah...I think you just stubbed it really bad...there isn't much more I can say on remedy-ing it though, sorry. Don't know much about that.
Oh! Maybe you jammed it! In which case you either pull it out, VERY GENTLY, or you just let it heal itself w/o you intervening.
what should I do if i wanna wear a skirt but my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at?
I'd say wear some skin colored pantyhose! =D Or tights, whatever. Unless you are in 8th grade...tights aren't so hot here, unless it's for a special occasion. Remember to wear boy-cut undies (they're great! They look like little bitty shorts, but...they're not! They're panties!) underneath 'em! =D
I am normal weight and such, and my legs look like hell. I have a bad tan from playing soccer, so only slightly below and above my knee is tan. I don't shave simply because I don't have to, unless I'm going to the beach or something. Even then, if I forgot, it's no big deal. I have little thin light hairs.
All right, here's the picture. I'm a boy in 8th grade. Last year, I was a bit of a pervert and got a huge rep as one. That all changed over summer break. However, no one realizes that, and so my rep still stands. That is the only reason I cant get a girlfriend. And for some reason, I feel a need for the companionship, and not on the level of just friends. What should I do?
I don't think there's very much you can do to change your rep, except it will just be gradual. Like going from 'nerd' status to 'popular' status. Just prove yourself, and give it time.
I need some good advice about my sister. She is 15 yrs. old {I am 21 if that matter's} and has been getting in alot of trouble at school & home. She got into a fight at school, stole my mom's car one night to go joy riding, tried to hook-up with a 26 year old ex-convict, and the other day was caught giving a note to a boy with a condom inside, asking him when they were gonna have sex! My mom, or me doesnt know what to do anymore. Talking to her about this doesn't seem to phase her. She just cries, promises to do better and never does. Do you think she is doing this for attention? Also, I told my mom I think she need's to get on birth-control, for the obvious reasons, so she will not get pregnant. My mom said NO! she said putting her on birth-control is just going to give my sister the go-ahead to have sex. I don't know if she has ever had sex or not, but if she's passin' out condoms to people then i dont think it'll be to long before she does. Any advice?
I would say let her get pregnant, and leave her to herself. She got into it--she's gotta get out, BY HERSELF. You've told her repeatedly, and she just doesn't listen. I don't think there's much you can do now, and yes, I think she is doing it for attention. Not attention from you or your mom--from GUYS.
how does the penis fit in the vagina? the hole is small does it open up or something and get bigger?i really want to know this help!
A girl's vagina is very elastic, so it stretches. Sometimes it keeps its elasticity and stays 'tight', or it will lose it over time with enough penetration. If you want to keep 'tight' (keeping 'tight' is more pleasurable for a man), you have to work your vaginal(PC) muscles.
I know that this question is gonnaa sound a lot like Legally Bl;onde, but I think my dog (pug) is gay!!! (Help...me...)
Well dogs of the same sex hump each other from dominance issues. My two female dogs do that occasionally and it's always the dominant dog humping the lesser dog. It's just a dominance issue, I wouldn't be worried. And if your dog IS gay, more power to it!
My parents smoke pot and I've always known that but I have been taught in school that POT IS BAD. I want them to stop but I'm afraid to tell them. Is it really that bad?
~gir with pothead parents~
A guy came to our school with NARCONON, getting people to stop narcotics. I think he was addicted to pot or something...I thought you could get addicted to anything.
Anywho, yeah, I still say they might need some sort of rehab, or the sauna treatment. (They sweat out all of the drugs in their system.)
please will any girl that is 13 or less call me
p.s you must be hott
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P.S. If anyone took that(^) seriously...wow you are fucked up.
i'm 10 and just got pregnat. young?... i know! Should i tell my parents?
Well, DUH, tell your parents. You think you can keep it a secret or something? I'd say go for abortion. Sure, it's murder and all that blab, but you probably aren't physically or mentally ready to have a baby.
And it's pregNANT. Not 'nat'.
Lunarad, it's possible she's pregnant. My friend started her period when she was 9 years old. She had size C breasts by the 6th grade. Now she is like an F or something. She's bigger than DD.
I know 69 mans something gross but what? I've aske dmy friends and they are like you don't know?? BUt then they only know its something gross too. What is it?
'69'ing is when two partners are giving and receiving oral sex at the same time.
Not sure if it goes under "injuries"...but whatever...it just hurts.
Today when i woke up, my chin just had some kind of pain i never felt before. it feels as if a "bump" grew or something. whenever i touch it, my chin hurts.
i might not be able to go to the doctors...my parents don't have the money. And Because of that, I don't have money.
It might be those random things...sometimes my knee hurts, and it stop in a few minutes...
kind of like...when you leg gets numb...only with a pain.
help?
I'd say acne.
Once in class I somehow hit my nose, it hurt really bad.
Next day, I wake up, and there is a big painful bump. I thought it might be a 'battle scar' type thing, but it wasn't even a bruise...
IT WAS A HUGE PAINFUL PIMPLE!
Not a patch, just a big one. It seemed to be under the skin. The hit seemed to push the oils of your skin inward so then they created pimples UNDER the skin.
And sometimes I get painful pimples just because it's on a nerve or something. But yeah, you could get hit at night (once my cat knocked over a pretty hefty glass goblet thing, and it fell on my head. It didn't break, though. I was having a dream in which my skull shattered, then I thought I was dead, then I woke up and felt my head hurting. Damn cat).