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im ashley, most of my friends call me ash. im 18 years old & a senior in highschool. im a very outgoing person, im always smiling and laughing :)i try to always be positive about things. feel free to ask me anything!

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how do people know how to dance? like at nightclubs and school dances? (grinding does not count) (not formal dances that require ballroom dancing)

just move around. do whatever feels comfortable. watch other girls, you'll get the hang of it.

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are guys supposed to be shaved "down there"?

its their choice, just like we have ours. lol

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15/f
alright so my boyfriend and i have bee going out for over a year, anyways we've thought about having sex awhile. i love him and he loves me so dont give me you're too young crap. we were both virgins till today. haha anyways he went inside my vag, and it hurt ALOT. he stuck it in more then half way but not fully, then took it out. the condem had a bit of blood at the tip, but not alot. now, does that mean my cherry popped fully?, or whatt is there suppose to be alot of blood? thankss for readingg :)

yeah it deffinitly popped! congrads :]

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So im starting a new school in a new town in a few weeks, sophmore year, and im veryy nervous. But i want to try and lose a few pounds before then, any tips,diets? Thanks a bunch!

try running

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cute clothes for fall?

i personally like hollister & old navy!

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hi 14/f :D
any of you out there, did you ever have long distance relationships that worked out in the end?
if so could you tell me your story? opinons or anything would be awsome :]

no my long distance relationships never last. basicly it was hard for us to find time to talk bc we are both athletic and in sports.

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is it okay to eat egg everyday? at least one EVERY dAY?

yeah its fine to eat one egg a day as long as you dont high cholesterol.

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I got my nails done about 5 weeks ago so they are looking uglyyy right now. my natural nail takes up half of the tip.
my questions are:
-should i trim them? then let the rest grow out?
-can i still get fill ins after they are already this grown out and get them shorter and have my nail the same length at the acrylic?
-should i just get them taken off?
thanks in advanced.

go get them filled out. if you want them cut shorter, they will cut them shorter for you :]

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on facebook can someone who sent you a message tell whether you read it or not?

nope

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does anyone know a website that makes pictures on your myspace brighter and whiter looking?
i've already tried lunapic.com and it works but it also makes my pictures WAY to small and won't stay the same size after i use it on their website. so any more ideas on a different site?
please and thanks. :]

try blingee.com

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I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months and i'm wondering when i can finger her

whenever you and her are ready to take the next step. but MAKE sure shes ready!

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Before my period comes on I get really really really bad cramps. I can't even go to school because it hurts so bad. Please tell me what I need to do because if this happens every month I'm going to be over in my school days. Thank YOU!

buy midol. it does wonders!

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hi,i wana get a pack of condoms and the sex clinic is just down the road but its shame of asking for a pack..do sex clinics give them out?..what can i say to get a pack?..thank you

yes they give them away for free! don't be embarassed just walk in and ask for some. easy as 1-2-3.

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how do i get people to want to talk to me? and be loved (as friends) and be interesting? ahh, any help! i'm desparate! thanks

just be yourself :] and talk to them first.

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I'm going to a new school. And the school I use to go to I went to my whole life. And the new school I don't know anyone there. I'm people have told me I'm shy. I know I'm shy,unless the people I'm hanging out with are friends,around my friends I'm like really LOUD. The promblem is that how do I make new friends at a new school. I'm going to be going into 9th grade,so I'm starting a new school at high school. Could anyone help me? Like give me tips on how to become not as shy and talk to people without being so shy about? If you understand what I'm asking,ha.
Thank you.

i have the same problem :[ uhmm try..talking to the person that has the locker next to you. or in your homeroom or any of your classes, but some of the kids will just come up to you and ask where your from etc. try asking if they have a myspace or if they use AIM/aol or whatever? lol. its really not that bad. this is my third time switching schools lol.

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if i do twenty in the monring tenty in the afternoon/night
what would it do for my body?
seriously its the only excersize i'm starting to do.
also, what kind of excersizes can i do to lose weight? i want to weigh like 15 pounds less really badly.

14/f

you won't notice any major changes until about a month later.

uhmm, you could try running. join a sport? maybe basketball or volleyball if your school has those sports. join your local gym.

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this guy asked me togo see a movie and his like wayy older then me like aboout 3 years lets say and i dont if he means like a date or just to hnag out ??? cuz im 15 and his 18 so i dont he was all like so u wanna go to the movies and i dont if its date or not??

yeah, its probably a date.

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if i pluck my moustache, would it grow back longer, or darker?


i cant wax it.

and no bleaching.


do u girls, pluck urs?


help.

thats a bad idea!!

go to like a wal-mart, cvs or something and buy bleach dye for it, its only $5. Sally Hansen makes it. It works for me, soo it should work for you, and you dont have to re-bleach for a good month n a half :)

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I have been looking for the perfect man for some time now. I am in 7th grade. I have been checking out some guys, but i am afraid they won't go for me, although there is one, but i don't know his name, he is cute, but not over-the-top cute. the big valentines dance is coming up. how do i get the boys to notice me?

im not trying to mean or anything, but i think you shoud stay young as long as u can, dont worry about boys until your older sweetie..its soo much easier, take my adive. you dont need a "perfect man" in 7th grade. all you need is frieds and family for now. worry about other things. try joining a spring sports team or something?

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okay!
My Boyfriend and I just had sex, and he cummed in me! so i freaked out and i didnt know what to do ! So i thought that maybe if i put a tampon in it will suck it up haha ! yeah i know stupid right ? Well do you think it will work or am i most deff. goin to be preg. ? Please help me!?

i dont know if that would actually work, but its a pretty good idea, lol..the best thing to do is get a pregnancy test to make sure your not

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