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Hi, I am Alison. Well I live in New York. I love helping people out and giving advice out to people. Fashion is my thing, so if you need any advice on that don't be afraid to ask = ]. I love getting messages for advice so feel free to ask me anything. I'm up to great oppurtunities in life. Ummm there isn't that much more to know about me!
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Ok I have a best friend but we don't go to the same school but we hang out on weekends and go to the same church. Well I don't really think of her as a best friend anymore. She's been getting more mean and bossy. Since I know her really well she thinks she owns me and can do whatever she wants. When me and her went down to the pool I was bouncing a ball and it bounced on her head when she was getting out and she got so mad and she hit me with her goggles. And it was one of those soft bouncy type balls. Yeah I sorry about that, she didn't care. Well I got over that and then we get to her house when I'm walking I run into her, not on purpose, and me into the wall of her house and my hand got scratched up and my fingers were bruised and I was holding my hand and I was about to cry. She walks right past me, "I really don't think it hurt that bad." So it turns out I start crying, she doesn't care. Then another time she actually makes me cry and I've never been like that before and I go home. My life hasn't been easy and she isn't helping at all. When I go to church she is the only one that I hang out with and she acts like she is the sweet and innocent girl and everyone thinks that. And I'm the one looking bad.
Then I really don't like her parents. They make her seem like she is better than everyone else in the world. She gets everything she wants. Her parents are always 'right' in her eyes and their eyes! And they are better than me and I know they talk about me. I'm tired of them and her. But sometimes I have to go over to her house. But sometimes she can be really nice, and actually I like her mom but definetly not her dad. Can anyone help me stop hanging out with her!?
It seems like she is being more of a bully than a best friend. You shouldn't have to stand for this! If she can't listen to you and see what you have to say, then let it go. People change, and sometimes they can't change back. If you can't even talk to her then you shouldn't be friends with her. Talk to an adult about it. And try to find some other friends you can hang out with if you have to go to somebody's house. She might just be going through a stage right now, but you shouldn't have to deal with it. Try to talk to her and if she doesn't listen and ignores you, I think you should think twice about the friendship and find a better best friend who treats u equal, rather than a slave.
I had this friend since like kindergarden,and we've been like bark on a tree, 2 peas in a pod. Then now, in 7th grade, she had a scheldue with all of these super popular people, and became best friends with like all of them. I'm not jelous, but like she won't even say hi o me when she's with them. Now, I'm not like super nerd, but I'm definetly not super popular. She acts so different and stupid when she's with them. I hate her being a fake~~!
if she left you for popular people that means she is a mean person. It also means you probably were not meant to be. I have the same problem right now where my bestfriend is doing the same thing. Get along with her but don't like be bestfriends with her because she has treated you bad. Hope i helped
hey Im 13/f and im in the 8th grade lately I have been thinking about college and I plan to go. I just dont know whats the best college to apply to in or around NY or not to far away I need to know things about it and like top 10 best thnx
well these are the colleges you ca go to:
Columbia
Mercy college
i have others too or look up colleges on the internet
Okay I have this friend who is 12 and she is wanting to save up some money but for being as young as she is she is having trouble earning money so if any of you have any good ways she could earn money then plese help as soon as possible!!!
This is a list:
papers in the morning
work at a grocery store
babysit
hope this helped
Hi i met this guy on a website and he keeps talking to me and sending me love smilies. Does he like me, i mean i don't even know him (i dont think so u cant ask who they are). I've only been talking to him for a day (not even) and apparently he plays football. I dont know anything about him i dont even know if hes a guy. I want to get his screenname but he wont go into the chat rooms. Someone please help me!
I think the next time he sends an icon talk to him. See what he likes and where he lives. Maybe try to meet up with him sometime and see what happens. Good luck!
I love to draw but the only problem is that I never know what to draw.I need some ideas on what I can draw!And if you name something that is very colorful and takes a while to color than I will rate you a perfect five!!!
Here's a list:
draw a sketch of a person
go outside and sketch the nature
just draw anything that is on your mind
and have fun
hope this helps.
whats a site where i can send greetings to people on my buddy list? thanks
www.123greetings.com
Why will you not play golf with me?
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Elizabeth
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I think the way I come off to people is just mean and that I don't like anyone. Today I heard some kid say (about me) "Yeah, she hates everyone" and that is not true. I tend to tell people to shut up and I guess I'm not the nicest person... so how do I begin to change? I don't want to seem a rude, hateful person anymore!
You have to change. You can start to be nice and caring about people. Try to help people out and show them you are not rude and don't hate anyone. This will be on your reputation. You don't want to look back later on and say that everyone thought you hate them and was rude. Begin to change. Hope i helped.
ok i know this is really random and sounds stupid, but whenever my mom eats, she doesn't eat with her mouth closed. this really bothers me because it looks and sounds really disgusting, but none of my other family members seem to notice. how can i tell her, politely, that i think it's disgusting and she should stop (because she does it in public too!)
I think you should talk to her at home. Tell her how you feel and ask her to please stop. Maybe make her try to eat with her mouth closed. Hoped i helped.
i`m confused...for 9 months now i've been trying to get with this guy and well...i've been thinking...when i finally go out with him i'm gonna lose a lot of things. I`m not gonna have the fun of TRYING to get him...it's like i want to go out with him sooo bad...but then when i finally do-i have something to lose?...is this a normal feeling???
It is a normal feeling. I think you should go out with him. You will probably have a great time and then will excited to do other things with this guy. I hope i helped.
therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?
I think maybe you should get another boyfriend. That might make him mad and sorry that he was mean and cruel to you. Make him sorry that he did that in the first place.
Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.
I rate 5 for anybody who tries to answer
Maybe he can work at a food market. He can bring the carts or do anything. I hope this helped.
one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend
You should go over. If you care about her then go and plus about your report. It will show her that you were scared about her and care for her. I hope you think this is good advice.
My two best friends are in a fight. I used to be in it but I got myself out. Today Friend #1 tried to settle it by talkin to her but she made her cry. What should I do to help them and not get myself in the fight again?? PLEASE help
Thanks sooo much
I think you should try to get a little more involved in their fight. Maybe talk to them together and have them settle there differences. If that does not work then talk to somebody to help you. Maybe that person can help. It is a hard situation to be in the middle of your 2 friends. I hope you can get them to be friends again.
if i wanted to be a model... how would i go about doing that? (not as a lifetime career)
It depends on about how preety you look and if you can walk the walk and talk the talk. If you think you can be a model then go for it. Live your dreams.
how do you move to the beat at a school dance and not look like an idiot? i tried copying the dance moves i saw in movies in parts where people go clubbing and i look like an idiot. so how do i dance at a school dance and not look like an idiot? and what are some moves you can do? for example: move your arms like your swimming *even tho it looks retarded* but just stuff like that. sry about length your advice is much appreciated
I think maybe if one of your friends knows how to dance then ask them to teach you some moves. It will help you improve your dancing without looking werid and everything. If you don't have a friend that dances then try to maybe take dancing lessons or get a video that is for teaching you how to dance. Not from a movie. Hope this will help.
Me and my ex boyfriend don't really talk anymore, he has a new girlfriend now. But, i found out that he cheated on her and i know for a fact cuz he told me too. Should i tell his girlfriend?? his girlfriend and i have always hated eachother but i hate them being together it makes me like sick cuz i'll always love him :-/.. i think thats why i want to tell his girlfriend the news. Should i tell her? or leave it alone? thanks ill rate
I think you should tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know about your ex boyfriend cheating on his girlfriend. Tell her even if you don't like this person. But if you don't you are letting her down. It is your decision.
ok when ever someone asks me to do something i almost instantly forget it and they get get mad...what am i supposed to do?
I think maybe you should write it down. Write it down on a piece of paper and then put it somewhere that you can remeber where it is. So if you forgot you could just go to the place you put it at. If you forgot or just forgot about where you put something have it somewhere you go everyday. I hope this will help you.
well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????
Please help me out
Well it is very sad to move from your friends/ everyone. I think you will meet a lot of friends at volleyball. If you love volleyball then you know that the people there have the same interest in you. I know it will be hard but you will have to do it. Just be calm and try to understand that you have to move. Also try to talk to your friends online and on the phone. Also just do it with anyone you will miss. At least you can still keep in touch with everyone you care about.