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my best friend
Ok I have a best friend but we don't go to the same school but we hang out on weekends and go to the same church. Well I don't really think of her as a best friend anymore. She's been getting more mean and bossy. Since I know her really well she thinks she owns me and can do whatever she wants. When me and her went down to the pool I was bouncing a ball and it bounced on her head when she was getting out and she got so mad and she hit me with her goggles. And it was one of those soft bouncy type balls. Yeah I sorry about that, she didn't care. Well I got over that and then we get to her house when I'm walking I run into her, not on purpose, and me into the wall of her house and my hand got scratched up and my fingers were bruised and I was holding my hand and I was about to cry. She walks right past me, "I really don't think it hurt that bad." So it turns out I start crying, she doesn't care. Then another time she actually makes me cry and I've never been like that before and I go home. My life hasn't been easy and she isn't helping at all. When I go to church she is the only one that I hang out with and she acts like she is the sweet and innocent girl and everyone thinks that. And I'm the one looking bad.
Then I really don't like her parents. They make her seem like she is better than everyone else in the world. She gets everything she wants. Her parents are always 'right' in her eyes and their eyes! And they are better than me and I know they talk about me. I'm tired of them and her. But sometimes I have to go over to her house. But sometimes she can be really nice, and actually I like her mom but definetly not her dad. Can anyone help me stop hanging out with her!?
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It seems like she is being more of a bully than a best friend. You shouldn't have to stand for this! If she can't listen to you and see what you have to say, then let it go. People change, and sometimes they can't change back. If you can't even talk to her then you shouldn't be friends with her. Talk to an adult about it. And try to find some other friends you can hang out with if you have to go to somebody's house. She might just be going through a stage right now, but you shouldn't have to deal with it. Try to talk to her and if she doesn't listen and ignores you, I think you should think twice about the friendship and find a better best friend who treats u equal, rather than a slave.
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if you really still want to be her friend, try talking to her. she might not realize what she is doing because her parents make her feel like she is better than everyone else, and it obviously went to her head. explain to her how she is treating you and how you feel. if she doesn't respect you and doesn't agree to stop acting the way she is, forget about her. you deserve to be treated so much better than that. start hanging out with friends from your school more, become better friends with them. it will also be better that way because once you have found a new best friend in your school, you will be able to see them all the time in and out of school. hope i helped<3
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ouch! sounds like a very painful relationship.
i use to have a friend kind of liek that, she was very bossy. what you need to relize is that, whether she says shes your friend, shes not. noone is a friend that does that to eachother. you should sit your friend down and explain to her (dont be too nice, but not too mean) that you cant be treated like your some sort of slave or push around. you have feelings as well as everyone else in the world and she just has to expet that. tell her either she changes her ways or you guys need time apart. if you take a break & if shes really your true friend, then she will come around appologize. its not easy to stand up to a friend expecially when ur a teenager. but you have to do something, its not right. theres other fish in the sea and youll find plenty new friends. better ones =]
good luck hun & have a good day
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