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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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Does anyone know any good buddy icons sites? I really hate doll icons, so I need some good sites that don't have a ton of dolls.

badassbuddy.com

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I'm about 5'0, and way 100 lbs.13/f/ny. am i over weight?

no ur normal, here is a website that will tell u if ur over weight or not
nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm

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there is this guy thats been my friend since like, kindergarten. he keeps asking me out but i dont like him like that and i dont wanna hurt his feelings!! i have told him this a million times that i dont want to hurt his feelings and taht i dont like him like that but he just wants to kno why!! and its making me mad!! what do i do? --Chels

tell him hes not ur type and u just wanna be friends

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me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do

im a middle child but i always bug my older sis 2 and call her names like fatso when shes not fat and like now shes going on a diet when shes fine but i do it b/c shes mean 2 me so if u try 2 be a lil nicer ur bro will stop bugging u or if that doesnt work ignore him, when he sees that hes not affecting u anymore he'll stop.

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Hey everyone,
I really love this guy. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. Whenever i think about him, i smile uncontrollably. Just talking to him makes me melt. He's so sensitive. One summer, we talked all night about little things that we like, and really deep things. He's the type that's into deep thoughts, Jimi Hendrix, Bob Marley, Led Zeppelin, and even poetry. I myself love writing meaningful thoughts and especially poems. He's not in a serious relationship with the girl, and I dont even think theyre right for each other. Im the only one that sees his sensitive side. I love him for who he is, not who people want him to be. Hes not like other guys, and i dont know what i can do to get him to like me the way i like him. if anyone has any good advice, please share it with me. i am madly in love with this guy and will go to shocking lenghths to make im mine, and me his.

just keep hangin out with him and wait 4 him and his g/f 2 break up... it will happen or tell him how u feel

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i have a best friend and i love her so much as a friend that i call her my sis and i always have to talk to her like every hour and always be around her! i think im obsessed about our friendship and ive tried everything to stop being so obsessed over a friendship by trying to call her less and stop having her spend the night all the time and trying to not be around her everywhere she walks but its really really hard and it doesnt work! WHAt CaN i dO? Please help me asAp!... and thanks you!!

maybe make more friends and spend time with them so ur not always around her

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hi...im 16 yrs old and my ex bf(Aaron) hes 17 we got into a big fight one day about girl thats 15 she was supposed to be a 'friend' she kept trin to get with him so here me and aaron are gettin into it i said somethings that i now regert i have been tring to get ahold of him in all to tell him that i miss him and want him back....but he got his number changed(i think) no one knows where he is everybody i talk to tell me he has a new gf but i dont know...What should i do...should i just wait and see what happens or just try to get ahold of him and tell him how i feel?...please help

u could look in the phonebook but it might just have his old #.... i personally think that u should just move on, if he doesnt wanna talk 2 u then its his loss

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me and my bf are ok together (slight kissing dilema but that's not too bad) but we've run outta places to go on dates! we've been to the cinema, to town but there's no where else to go. there's no bowling places near us and we live on the other side of town from each other. any ideas of places we could go? im an almost 13 year old girl and i live in the UK.

r there any ponds or sumthing near u or maybe hang out at the mall (if ur b/f doesnt mind that)

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(note: anyone who answers this will get rated by me)

Anyways, I just met this guy out of the blue by chance online. He's my best friend's boyfriend's friend, so I know he's not some sweaty old perverted guy pretending to be someone else online. It seems like we're both pretty interested in eachother; however, he just broke up with his girlfriend recently and he's been having a lot of trouble recouping from his past relationship. They broke up recently so I had no clue if they were going to get back together again soon, so I had decided to not get involved. But then he started calling me pretty and asking if I wanted any gifts cuz he wanted to buy me something... etc. Now I'm not sure what to do. Should I get involved in his recent relationship with his ex gf? should I just stay away from him?(there's no harm in that because I've never met him in person) Well, I'm planning to meet him in two weeks, and I need to plan on what to do. Please help!

just keep not staying involved 4 like a week and tell him u want 2 make sure hes over his ex and when u meet him maybe bring ur friend the is going out with his friend or bring both of them... now i might b confusing u lol good luck

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my boyfriends b day is coming up hes 15 what should i get him? he has the 'punk' look, umm likes quads and stuff i just dunno what to get him...

wat kind of music does he like? maybe a cd

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ik this is dumb but i am really paranoid about my bf. we dont see eachother a ton becuz it is summer and we are both busy. i saw him 4 days ago but today like we didnt talk at all i have relatives over and etc. i really like him and i want to go out with him but if we dont see eachother i get all worried he will dump me or not like me or whatever. it sucks. then he has this pretty friend and blah blah blah i am just overreacting i hate it.
any advice? thank u

y dont u call him every so often to k.i.t

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Why do we all wear clothes it would be a lot better if we did not wear them

i think we wear clothes b/c in the beginning of time with adam and eve after the fruit they felt ashamed of their bodys so they tried 2 cover them.and 2 keep warm in the winter :)

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ok..i already registered for a chatter box for my column but now i dont know how to put it on...i think i have to right something on the edit settings page ut what cu it gave me like a whole tthing with like stuff saying on it...and how do i make it go on my side bar?please someone help me fast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wat is a chatter box?

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Okay so when I went out with this friend I met I was having fun until , this really cute!! guy came along I could tell he was alone, My friend went off for something to eat, I stayed , i went over and tried to talk to him but he just looked at me finally we spoke he was sad because his gf moved away and now its his x g/f , but I told him I would try to help , but when we talked for an hour I got to know him ... alot more. Hes 16 andhis names CJ , he asked me out and Im only 15, I like him alot , but is he Prince Charming for me??? PLz help ,, Jenipher WBASAP!!!

just go on a date and see how it goes and take it from there

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im tryin to make a long story short it mite be hard to make out, and if it is, go to my column...im southern_chickety, and ask me!!

i've wanted to be an actress for the past 2 years
i love acting, and i take theatre classes, my mom wont support me in it tho, because the said it's a hard career, and it wont be easy to find a job, and it wont be cheap, and we dont have the money to spend, i mean my parents are raising 3 kids, and they have one in college

i wanna go to acting skool and stuff, but now every1 is sayin if i go to acting skool ill just become a broadway actress, and i dont wanna do broadway, i wanna do movies

i'm really confused, should i follow my dreams,and try to be an actress or listen to the family¿¿??
im 14/f/nc

i think u should follow your dreams no matter how hard

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I'm 12, im 5'0" and i weigh 81 pounds. I'm underweight and I like the way I am. I like my size. I just wanted to know if theres any way I can get to the weight im supposted to be(91 pounds) and stay they size I am. Please help.
~Amy~

if your ok and eat balenced meals then u dont have 2 gain weight

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ok well, me (a guy, 16) and one of my best friends (a girl, 16)have been friends for over 10 years, since elementary school. Recently we have gotten really close and we really like eachother. we talk all night on the phone and we fall asleep on the phone together and we talk like half the day everday. today at 7 she left to california from florida and she'll be there for a week or so. we really care about eachother but i dont know how to proceed with the relationship. we both know just about everything you can imagine about eachother and we talk about anything that comes to mind. we havent gotten a change to see eachother since the 12th and ill probaly see her the day after she gets back from cali. we havent kissed or anything yet. im not sure how to proceed with the relationship becuase i dont want to mess up our relationship and friendship. she means the world to me and thats the last thing i would want to happen. If you could help me out id greatly appreciate it.

thanks for any help, brandon

i think u should tell her how u feel and if she doesnt fell the same way then u can just be friends

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Im anorexic, i dont know how to stop, i try to eat, but when i do i throw it up, i was on a diet to loose weight but i dont want to loose to much, im 13, 5'6, i did weight 122 pounds and now i weigh 78, i think im at the perfect weigh, but im feeling tired and lightheaded and my face is pale, i really need help and im afraid to tell anyone :(

you need 2 tell sum1!!!dont be afraid 122 is normal weight for your age and 78 is too low 4 u is u are pale and lightheaded.

here are some #s and websites you can visit:

an anorexia self-help hotline # is 800-448-3000

eating disorder recovery online: www.edrecovery.com

eating disorders awareness and prevention: 800-931-2237, www.edap.org

nation mental health association help line: 800-969-6642

i hope this helps!

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I'm a 12 year old with the biggest dream!! I want to become a singer so bad. I have the right voice. All my friends and family wanted me to try American Juniors, but my school district had a strike and now we dont get out of school until July 19th!! Too late for American Juniors!! please help!!
~Amy~

dont give up! maybe next yr u can go 2 american juniors or maybe u could tryout 4 a musical play

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I'm in the military, and I work at least 8 hours a day, 5 days a week. Sometimes more. My wife has a job where she works an average of 10-15 hours a week. How much of the house work should I realistically be doing? I know I need to do some of it, but we always argue about it. I'm getting really tired of being insulted and being called "lazy" over this, when shes the one who gets up to 12 hours of sleep on a daily basis. I'm lucky to get 7-8. She says I'm lazy and never do anything, but when I'm not working, shes here and we're spending time together. She gets mad at me for not doing as much as her, but she won't let me do simple things such as the laundy or vacuuming. So how can I help her if she won't let me?

try cleaning up after yourself and ask her if she wants help dong something

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