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i have never had sex ,still a virgin.well i had my period a couple of weeks ago and i normally get it at the end of the month.but any way i have blood stain coming from my virgina.its not like lots of blood.just like blood that mixed with the fluids . whats wrong.i have had my peroid for 4 years (link)
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What could be wrong is that there could be a tearing of their hymen, which is located outside of the famale's private or the vagina wall or vulva can be injured which rarely results in a lot of bleeding.By the way a hymen is a layer of tissue that partially conceals the vaginal orifice.
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o1. What is foundation used for?
o2. What is the difference between foundation && concealer?
o3. What is better, bronzer or face powder?
--thx (link)
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The foundation is designed for all skins and all women.Provides shade and color.The difference between a foundation,a concealer would be that a foundation could be applied on the entire face,and a concealer would be used for the eyes.I want to say that for a concealer to stay put you should use some powder as well.
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sorry this is so long
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alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?
once again... im so sorry its long.. (link)
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I'm sorry to say this but you should let it go he is a bad guy always having sexual relations with other girls and he doesn't appear what he really is that is a saying for some people it's true like this guy. Get on with your life there are other guys who are nice,you have to get him out of your mind.If you decide to be with him once he has relations with you he'll most likely break up with you and break your heart.Save yourself from being humilated don't be with someone like that even if you're obessed or in love.Even though it'll be hard to find the right guy for you.As for him he shouldn't be pretending to be something he's not.Have a bright future in your life!
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My best/only real friend just said he likes me, but i dont like him like that what do i do?
He is always depressed and i dont want to hurt him.
Help fast!
I'll rate 5's (link)
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You should say your truly sorry but you can't correspond to him and just prefer to be friends.But if he doesn't except this then you shouldn't be friends and just so he won't get hurt anymore.Or try to cheer him up find him a girl that will bring joy to his life if you still want his friendship and tell him that there are several girls out there waiting for him.Not only that he should find one who will have the same feelings for him.Be honest to him and tell him what I told you if he is nice he'll be able to accept this.Your friend needs some counseling to help cope with his stress.
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Well I wrote this, not really a poem, just kind of a one of those little writings.. will you tell me what you think of it so far... maybe some help on it, or wordings that would sound better?
After spending hours on end perfecting every detail about herself, she heard the doorbell ring. Her heart races to see him. This was the moment she had been waiting for, for so very long now.She lopes quickly to the front door and swiftly swings it open to see her love. Her heart sinks inside of her chest in her overwhelmed body and her beathing has stopped as if her heart would have. He looks amazing, more amazing than ever before. Not a word comes out of either of their mouths, both stand there completely speechless, both infatuated by their prescences's beauty... (link)
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It sounds wonderful and good description!Write more like who goes up to who,you could also write :there also seems to be a chemistry once they view each other's eyes,like love at first sight.....Then continue and write more lovely words keep up the great job!
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i hate haveing hair down there so i was going to shave it but my friend said that doctors dont want you to because your not suppose to. i dont know what to do i don't want to ask my mom but then again i want to shave there badly i need help!
signed
shaving down there (link)
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What I can tell you is that you should be very careful on where you're going to shave and you could decide if you want to shave there it's your body it's not there's so if you want to just do it but shave properly.Try not to cut yourself shaving.
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yea, its me again..I forgot to ask this..Well, i know that EvErYoNe argues and fights..Since i grew up in a family that everytime someone STARTED to argue, it blew out into a fist fight and cops coming and me getting hit, so everytime ANYONE at all argues, i get REALLY shaky, crying, and everything like that! I live with my dad now, i have for 3 years and nothing like this has happened before until now, or atleast i havent noticed it..Like a few weeks ago, my dad and step-mom got into a big arguement over something and i was in my room with the door shut, but i could hear them b/c they were only on the other side of the wall..and i know that this would NEVER happen b/c they're just not this kind of people, but since everything before happened, i was scared that they would hit each other and come after me and the police would come, but i know it wouldnt happen but i still get scared..can anyone give me any help on what i should do?? I really need help on this b.c its getting so bad that i actually hated them for a minute b/c i pictured it being my real mom..i got HORRIBLE flashbacks..Please help me!! :( (link)
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Stay calm and try not to feel resentment.One of the things you should do is have a good discussion with your parents of how it is affecting you a lot when they fight and argue.Convince them both that they need help this is just horrible they have to go to help agencies for family problems as well as you not that you did anything bad just to heal your pain and those flashbacks you have and I know what you mean by that.Take care!
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ok i made a new xanga site.. its www.xanga.com/music_and_iiconz. i need advice on how to make it better!! guys! i rate high! (and if you have an xanga, subscribe and tell people about it! i would really appreciate it!
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You could use the xanga tool bar to build great looking affilite programs,or go to www.why banana.co.uk/xanga-com-music.html for other ideas.
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There's this guy I really want to get to know. He's new to out school, he's cute, he's shy, and sits alone at lunch. He barely ever talks.
The bad thing is, that I'm shy, too. I'd love to get to know him, but my shyness is holding me back. How can I get over this? (link)
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You could get over your shyness,first try to understand the problem.By being shy you let opportunites and friendship go.Second is overcoming it by stop worrying about whether the person is evaluating you.Try to think about good things,learn to judge others fairly there are other ways like wanting to change or knowing how to relax,cope with anxiety or rehearsing a situation before hand,relying on the help that god gives,gaining confidence by progressively sucessful experiences,etc...You must talk to this boy and it's much easier since he's shy like you!
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I think somebody already asked a question like this, but here I go anyway.
I am about to turn 15 years old in September, and I am in all honors classes this year in highschool. I also want to be in Drama. I was thinking maybe this year I could look for a job. Would that be too much on my plate for one year?
I am also wanting to take tennis lessons and workout after school.
I heard that honors classes hand out alot of homework, but I really want a job because my parents are never willing to pay for certain things, and I dont blame them.
Should I cut down on my after school to-dos? (link)
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You should not do too much than you can handle you will be stressed out and very tired.Try to get a job later on when you have time you could get a planner to organize schedules to see when you could workout,take lessons.Think about how you're going to plan it don't do too much work you might not have time to study do your homeworks your schoolwork comes first,studies to get a good career in your future.Get your planning well and straight.
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I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!! (link)
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Go to www.bored.com or chat online with other people or rent a movie you'll enjoy or play games online or go shopping,buy a magazine,books, or hear music or burn a cd.Which ever one you choose should keep you from being bored.Or you could choose more than one of these ideas!
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Okay well im going to be 16 in sept. and on the 9th im having a party ( i wanna big party with alotta ppl there all jus having fun) I told bunches of my friends and i kno most of them are coming- im juss scared like no one is gonna show up! That and my mom wants to do games.. how gay i keep telling her no but she says the DJ has to get a break and i said NO GAMES.. b/c m friends are like all 9th-12th .. they aint gonna wanna do games.. so how can i stop being nervous about the party- and what to do about my mom... should i do while the DJ takes a break PLZ help! i Rate High! (link)
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Entertain your friends by telling jokes if you're not good at it then tell your mom to hire someone who is a professional comedian.Keep insisting to your mom that you don't want to do games.Or what you could also do is have them watch a horror or comedy,or action movie.You could try to stay calm by drinking some tea,coffee,or anything that doesn't make you think about all this. Think positive make sure they receive your invitations so they will definitely show up to your party!Have a wonderful time at your sixteenth birthday!
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Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
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Now don't feel guilty it happens to some people because it builds up a sensational feeling which people get's them curious.You can restore your innocence all you did was watch porn then feel bad about just don't make the same mistake again.You could also go for help and feel normal again.People make mistakes they do wrong things sometimes without noticing it.But don't tell your parents about it if you ever feel curious about someting like this say no and do something you like a hobby or hold that need of it and it'll take time for you not to feel that curiousity of yours just remember other people have that problem as well or worst if that makes you feel any better.You're not a bad person just normal one.
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hey im a 15 female and i have brown hair thats pretty long a little below my boobs haha, its thick and when i let it air dry its wavy, but i can wear it either wavy or straight depending on what i want.. i have some layers and face framing but i wanted to try something new for the school year. i dont wanna get highlights or anything i am just looking for a new look so people will see a difference... and nothing too short because i have a oval shaped face and it wouldnt go good with it and i dont think side bangs would either... well thankss (link)
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You should go to this website which is www.google.com in your search write hairstyles without side bangs then scroll down and click onStay cool with summer's hottest hairstyles...Runaway hair you can... there's one I think will look great on you has a picture of a blond woman under it it reads Carlos Miele or you could also check out other hairstyles which ever one you think is best!Sorry about what happened before!
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hey guys... im looking for a good deoderant that will accualy work for me.. like ive tried secret platinum protection but it doesnt stop me sweating.. theres like no odor but i just sweat and id like to get a new one before school starts... well pleaase help and thank you! (link)
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Use a anitperspirant deodorant with aluminum chloride which blocks pores to prevent sweat from escaping.Read the labels of deodorants to make sure you don't choose thw wrong one.
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Hey,
ok i'll get to the point. I didnt even know i had a sister until i was 9.. actually know one in my family knew i had a sister, and my sister didnt even know I existed.. See she's my half sister, my dad had sex with his old girlfriend when he got outta college, but he didnt even know she was pregnant. So when i was 9 i met her for the first time, and then she left, because she thought when she first met me and my, err, OUR dad she thought it would be JUST us, but our WHOLE family was there, could you blame them? someone new was entering our disfunctional family. So after an hour or so, when we all went shopping, she left with her boyfriend, she didnt leave a note or anything... she ran away. So i was sad, then i talked to her online, and she said she was mad at my dad for trying to force her to go to College, but she had a fine job. But now she never calls because she thinks my dad will answer the phone, and she talks to my aunt, but she never gets online, and she never talks to me-- ever! I know it's sorta like loving a stranger, but I still love her, but how could she love me? i'm pretty much a stranger, i was alive 9 years and she didnt even know that i was alive-- much more her sister. And the last time i saw her was 2 years ago and she didnt even talk to me really.. a little "hi" every once in a while then, but other than that, she didnt do anything or say anything to me. I know she dosent love me, or my dad, what do i do? i love her so much, how do i get her to love me back and visit and stuff? it's been YEARS! i'll rate high! (link)
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Your aunt could help you by talking to her that you love her no matter what even though she is your half sister.Tell your aunt to convince her so you could talk to her or even have her visit you.Don't get upset have faith she can't be mad at you she's probably just confused,and feeling sad as well as you are to find out about something so shocking.If she doesn't talk to you right away give her time she's affected by this whole situation she needs it think things out throughly.Relax everything will be fine.
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well i feel so left out of my family cuz somehow someone except for me is really smart. like my sister she was supposed to skip a grade. my brother is supposivly smart, i dont kno how but then my mom is smart and my dad is smart but with me i feel like i'm the only one in my family that is good at sports. it feels like everyone else is smart except me. and it shows. my parents just somehow show it. help me plz i dno wat to do (link)
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What you need to do is get tutoring if you need help with a subject you need help or more than just one subject.You could even get an expert tutor I have an expert tutor's number,teaches several subjects call this number(718)646-8013.Tell this to your parents about getting one so they could hire this tutor.
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hi.. i have a twin sister and were idenicle.. this brings us close together and far apart.. she is 14 minutes older than me adn because of that she think sshe can boss me aroundd.. like she will be right next to the fridge and ask me to go and get her a soda or something like that and if i dont she gets really mad.. the otherday she threw a hairbrush at my head and i had a huge lump! dose anyone have any adivce dfor me on how to stop this from going on?
i rate well! =] ***((haily))*** (link)
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Talk to your parents about taking her for counseling because she's always trying to boss you around.Don't let this keep happening to you she really needs help and for someone to teach her how to respect others even if there younger than her.Have you ever went up to her and told her to stop bossing you around?Now is the time to take action.Believe me she'll change for sure once she get's into therapy.
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All right. I just got this computer yesterday and my grandfather used to use it at his work, so it's older, but probably not by more than 2 years. It has windows xp, but i have no idea what kind (like dell...but it isn't that) it is.
The problem is, the sound doesn't work and the disk drive won't work either. We called my grandfather, he said the sound worked. We even tried different speakers. I checked the computer's settings, and there's nothing muted, nor is there anything disabled. Can anyone help me with the sound possibly?
Also, the disk drive (as i mentioned), doesn't work. I can open it and put a disk in it, but when I try to open the disk drive icon, it says "please insert a disk". Does anyone know what could be causing this?
Thanks in advance! (link)
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What you need to do is call the company of the computer to fix this problem if the charge a lot look for other places like Computer World or technician near your area or ask someone if they know.I hope you get your computer fixed I got my computer fixed with a friend of my cousin who fixes technology.
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ok my boyfriend asked me this question and i dont know what to do. ok first of i am 14 and my boyfriend 15 (turnin 16 in sept)and well i have known him for 3 months but i have been going out with him for 2 weeks and everything has been going great except one thing.. MY PARENTS. out of two week i have only seen my boyfried once...y bc i meet him online and i talked to him on the phone then meet up with him at the mall with a friend.. i noe i shouldnt be meetin up wit guys online but i did it. (plz dont say anyhting about that because i already did it) my parents wont let me out of the house. my boyfriend gave my two things i can do 1) either wait until i am 16 and he is willin to wait for me and in the mean time we stay close friends (i dont know about that i am scared that i will never have a secondchance) or 2) keep going like this and see my boyfriend wheveer i can?? dont knwo what to do?? i mean sometimes i will probably be able to see my boyfriend once every 2 months and i dont want to hold him back from liking or going out with other girls.. does someone one get what i am talking about?? can someone please helps me out??? i need some advice on what to do?? and i cant fallow my heart it is confussed... (link)
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If you don't want to lose him and keep seeing your boyfriend because another girl will probably have him but I'm not saying it will.It happens a lot to people when they are in difficult situations.Follow your heart if this guy makes you happy don't let obstacles get in your way have a lot of confidence in you.I wish you luck!
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