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I went to the mvoies and the person i like was there his friend was with him and i think he told the person i like that i like him. The person I like started talking to my friends but not me he would avoid looking at me. He also used to like me, what does this mean?

That you should get over him now! you dont need someone in your life like that find something else to keep your mind of him, do something fun with your friends.

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I need help in my neighborhood there is a lot of families with little kids and I herd they need babysitters but they don't know that I babysit so how do I let them know

Put posters up saying "babysitter wanting job"that will help write all your details down and your age and how long you have been a babysitter and your number so they can ring you, And you can do little cards which you can post through the door!
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I have just brought a puppy staf and was wondering what the best was to build her up is. Can you help?

Just keep her on the same food, and take her out for walks. Mabe take her to a dog trainer to help her walk.

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Ive seen a lot of girls wear cute sweatpants that say PINK on the butt. What brand is it? Where can I get them and how much are they? Thanks for your help!

There sold around. Search on the internet to see where they sell them.

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I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
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No there is nothing wrong with you, Your irregular dont worry about it! of you think its getting worse go see a femal doctor.

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ok im going to a new school monday how do i make freinds? like i dont want to sit alone @ lunch or sit by the rong person. iv decided that guys are more easy to make freinds with than girl i mean some girls are really nice but you have to addmit guys are easier to make freinds with what if they think im a slut then if i try to make freinds with the guys? help!!!!

Just be you, start chatting to some girls! and tell them that your new, and they sure will let you join with them! They wont think your a slut because you have guy friends, If they do there not the right sort of friends.

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ok so i find cute guys and all there all nice ya no evry girl wants a nice sweet one but no they act sweet for about 1 day thn want to have sex. im so sick of horny guys just doing this its so annoying. k help

Fortunatly guys are like that, and most f them think about sex every 15 seconds so there isnt really a way of find a normal guy. But try shy guys they usually dont think about sex if your going out not until your a little older anyway.

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Any tips on how to be more patient? It seems like when I'm waiting something that I REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEALLY want [lol] I cannot stop thinking about it. Any tips?

Oh hi! im soooooooooo impatience and it bugs me and my friends because i cant wait in a line for to long! Just take a deep breath and just thing of something else that will take your mind of the waiting.

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Well, I think I might be spotting (Menstruely lol) when I use the bathroom my undergarments are covered with a mixed waste...when I wipe, i get alot, or a little, blood on my toilet paper, sorry if im too graphic...anyway, I havent started my period yet (I'm 13). Do you think this is spotting? or do i have a problem?

You are about to start your period! you havent got a problem so get stocked up with tampons or pads.

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I can never eat breakfast- one because I'm a bit lazy because I'm tired and two because I'm not a big fan of it, but I know it's unhealthy not to eat it and I know you can gain weight from not eating it because then you pig out at lunch and the rest of the day. Any suggestions [besides fruit] and please note that I'm on a tight scheduale and don't have alot of time to eat or prepare it [no cereal suggestions, please]

You can get ceral bars. Which are small and you dont have to make them, And there full of energy!

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any good april fools tricks??
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thanks in advance

You could come to school dressed up as a clown or a fairy something wild and funny! That will make your mates laugh.
Tell your friends that your moving away and you going in a week. that will make them worry.

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I told my boyfriend that I'd never kissed anyone and that I wanted him to be my first kiss. He said he wanted to kiss me, too. But that was about a month ago and nothing has happened. I told him I wouldn't make the move. I'm too shy. I don't know what I'm scared of since I know he wants to. I'm just scared I'll do something wrong, I guess. Any advice?

Its normal to be scared of your first kiss. Just pluck up the courage and kiss him, Do it when he least expects it and then once thats over with you will be alot less shy. Go got it!!!

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I'm very shy and quiet, and I not a geek or anything but I'm not exactly popular either. There's this guy that I think might like me.. but he is really popular and outgoing, so I'm not sure if he really does like me or if it's just my imagination. Is it possible for a popular, outgoing guy to like a shy, not-so-popular girl? What are the chances? I don't know what to do because of my uncertainty.. should I flirt back or not?? Thanks in advance!! :-)

There is alot of chance just because hes popular doesnt mean to say hes always going to go out with a popular girl. Of course you should flirt back go girl!!!
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ok i have a few very close friends and some not so.. But what i was wondering is... if i ended up on disney channel what do you think they would do? be jelouce? would they still want to be my friends? or just use me?
What would you think if you're friend suddenly out of the blue got excepted on a popular show?
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I think they would support you. So might get jelious but thats normal.

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I think all my friends now hate me what do i do?

Talk to them and ask them why they hate you! If they do go find some new friends no point in hanging out with them!

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I've had this firned. She's really sweet, and never did anything to hurt anyone. We went everywhere together, and told eachother everything. She's made new frinds now and doesnt pay attention to me that much. We have the same lunch period and she wont even sit with me!!! She's also changed a lot (but i still love her) I miss her so much. How can we be BFF again???

Tell her what you just said to us lot! Tell her that you miss been around her and that you wish you could be bff again because you feel like your friendship is getting very distant from her and you wish you was as close as you was.

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I am going to a school dance on thursday (tomorrow). I don't know what to wear, however. It's a pretty casual thing. I also have no clue how to dance...some one please help! i rate high.

Wear a demin skirt some light tights! And some boots! A tank top. You dont want to go to formal!
Make-up mabe some light colours dont over do it! Hair curl it and put a head band in have a good time!

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yeah i am going through confirmation and like i have to look for a cute dress and well it can't be sleeveless. anyone have any places or anything that would have something cute? thanks!

Im sure they will have loads in a wedding shop have a look in the mall. I dont live in the us so i dont have a clue!

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well, my friend, who happens to be the same sex as me, keeps getting uncomforatblely close to me... well actually 2 same sex friends do this... and when i ask them to stop they constantly do this and one i think doesn't do it on purpose and she's always doing this and it bugs the heck out of me... how do i make it stop?!?!?

Tell her that your not into that sort of stuff! if she doesnt stop stop been her friend!

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