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i was wondering if me and my bestfriend should go out. we liked eachother befour but we didnt know we liked eachother.Are friendship is unstopable.mybe it could work out as boyfriend and girl friend.could it?
oh, all the way. anything can happen.. go for it
Ok well i have naturally wavy frizzy hair and after I straighten it then go outside it gets friizy again and it looks even worse than it did before I straightened it. What should i do? i have picture day on Wednesday!
get it permanantly straightened? Just tell your mom your hair really doesn't work with ya.
I went on vacation and met this perfect guy there. We hung out everyday for 2 weeks. We "were a couple" for about a week. I havent seen him now for 2 months and it has been the hardest thing ever. We both still have really strong feelings for eachother but i am kinda starting to like this guy at skool. I am going to go see him for Thanksgiving. Should i totally forget about this guy and go for someone who lives in the same state (since i will only be able to see him about 3 times a year)?? I dont kno what to do so please help me!
Thanx a lot
i would say definetly go out with the guy who lives near you. I guess you can say im in some what of the same situation and long distance sucks, when your young it totally doesnt work. I mean if your older and you can travel where ever and live whewre you want it does then. Just live your life your a kid, go out with this other guy, plus you cant even keep an eye someone who lives far away from you so you really just cant know whats going on in HIS life. Good luck derlin'
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I was watching shorties watching shorties and i was wondering... can u really get high off of sniffing whipped cream?
noo haha whipped cream doesnt have the chemicals. Remember hun-- drugs are bad.. bizzzad.. haha no good for ya really thinx get shitty with drugs.
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What happened to all the moderators??? How come there are so few now? Will there be more or is it staying this way?
hey put it this way, next time they dont like your questions it will be so much harder for them to get rid of it, so consider yourself a lucky duck ;-)
haha nahh but truth be it sweetie i have no clue where they went, maybe alot of them figured the site was gone when it broke down for a while.. alrite gl hun hope u find som rele good answers.. xoxo
ok im trying to get an ipod off of freeipods.com does anyone know if its a scam? have u done it and not gotten one or gotten a crappy ipod?? plz lemme know.
thanx--
im not really sure but i looked at the offer and it looked like a scam :-(.. plus do you really think that could happen? The company would loose so much business for spending all that money on the thousands and thousands of people who applied. But good luck anyway.. xoxo
U c i like this girl who goes to my school and we r great friends. But the prob is she is goin out w/ one of my best friends. At first i was just gonna wait and c what happened but they've been goin out for a while. I dont wanna mess anythin up but i cant stop thinkin bout her. And when i'm w/ her i feel sumthin.
HELP!
thnx in advance
key words : been goin out for a while. It will definetly fade, all you can do for now is try to become good friends with this girl, she will so appreciate it and if you guys have a good healthy friendship she'll see all your qualities. Hope all goes well good luck!
whenever i get cold my nipples shrink up. is that normal? plz help!!!
lol yeahh it happens.
I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't.
Ok dont bring them along in the first place. Just set aside plans in an organized way and they can have no way of bothering you. Even if someone does show up you know have backup plans where you can do stuf. And when you're alone, tell him that you're not prude you just dont like to kiss in front of big crowds it pisses you off. that's all he needs to know. Good luck sweets xoxo
I'm 13 and I got my period November of 2003. My mom doesn't really like me using tampons, I never have, and I never really wanted to. Until now. They seem some much easier, and more conveniant. My question is, which kind do I buy? Mine aren't usually really heavy, but they aren't light either. So what brands to you reccomend?
tampax pearl. everyone says their great.
good luck hun xoxo
There this girl that i like she a senior and im a sophmore but im 16 gona be 17 she 17 gona be 18 we use to be friends when we were little. As time passed i didn't talk to her for awhile and now im best friends with her brothers now i have a crush on her.I've never been the type of guy to be shy to talk to a girl. but with her its different i don't want to sound dum and i don't know if she would even want to talk to me. I really like her tho. Every time i see her i just go crazy. I need some advice on how to break the ice??
sure, find out what she's interested in, i think it would definetly make you guys closer. Just say so what music do you listen to? Maybe you guys like some of the same music and if you dont, dont say "ew i hate that song" but then again dont lie and say you do like them because she could start asking you questions about them that you can't answer. So be honest, be yourself, and theres nothing more you can do about that. Talk to her brothers, see what they think, if you arent too afraid to.
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arite i'm 15 i been goin out wit this boy for almost a month n knew him for like 2 1/2 or w/e cept it's online. he lives somewhat close n everything n he's my age-ish. he really wants to meet me cuz we have real strong feelings for each other, strong as they can get over the computer. i've seen his pic he aint seen mine but i told him everything i look like, eyes hair, and that i'm overweight. he said he doesnt care n he just wants to be wit the person he cares for this much. i'm a naturally shy person n i'm even more shy/scared now cuz i don't want to lose him. how do i meet him n not be shy or scared? shuld i trust that he doesnt care about looks? what do i doooo?
First of all you shouldnt trust anything thats online. How can you prove this guy is who he says he is? I think theres a definite possible chance he is the picture he showed you but you have NO proof. And i know you dont want to listen to me because you dont even know me but i've heard kidnap stories, rape stories, all sorts of terrible stories about online dating, even murder stories. Do you really want to risk your life or healthiness for something that might not even work out? I know this isnt what you asked to hear, but I'll answer your real questions too. I'd have to say theres no way of not being shy if you've never talked to him in person before, all you could do is be straight up. And to not be scared?? Well bring a friend, then maybe if theres an 'emergency' they can help out. I dont think you should trust he doesnt care about looks, because you dont know him, good luck hun, hope ive helped really make u think.
xoox sweets
Hey, I have a question about my hair. My hair is naturally wavy, but not curly. When I try to blow-dry it straight, it never comes out right, and one side of my head is wavy, and the other is straight. Sometimes I straighten my hair, but I don't really have a ton of time in the morning to do that. Do you have any suggestions of what I should do with it (Possibly even something I could do at night and sleep with it, or something I could do in the morning but it won't take too much time)
Set it in big loose curls over night with those really big curlers but loose you dont want anything to tight, and wear it in two pig tails, it would be cute, or try wearing a hair band with it like that.
good luck sweetie!!
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my mother and her whole family are white. however my father is half & half..(black/white)
..everyone in his family is white, except for his father.(my grandad) so..what am i? half/half? or just white? and if any1 knows, what percentage of each would i be? :) ty!
your a quarter black. :-) But im guessing you really just look white, lol.
me and my friend both like guys from different states... and they like us back... we have so much fun with them... when we see them... should we feel guilty if we dated another guy?
plz help!
No not at all, dont feel guilty. Unless you were going out with these guys from different states dont feel bad at all. Its okay to date around and see who you like and whos just not for you. Its healthy. Good luck, send one to my inbox!!
the guys who like me are normally nice guys but just guys that i don't have feelings for ~ like I don't think of them that way and all...but i never really say yes to anybody so i'm wondering if it's me? will i kno when a person who likes me is somebody i can like back?? i should have a gut instinct towards saying yes instead of no, right??
if you liked someone enuff you'd no. your saying no because you follow your heart, which is some good stuff. you will DEFINETLY know when you find prince charming. you will SOO have a gut instinct. Dont worry yourself, your probably just having second thoughts since you havent liked anyone recently.
good luck sweets
I'm a 14 year old girl, and I really, REALLY wish I was a guy. If i were a boy, i would be gay. But i think SO much about being a gay guy. I really want to be one! Am i a gender-bender? what can I do? Please help!
yeah, you definetly are. What can you do? Well um lets see get a change of gender? If you like guys make life cheaper and stay a girl. Good luck.
i have these weird spots on my boobs and tummy their nto goign away wtf am i suppose to do?!!! im only fucking 13!!! HELP PLEASEEE!!! & i refuse to tel my mom or doctor... PLEASE HELP ME!!
well if you refuse to tell your mom or doctor your screwed because sweets they just wont go away. They're probably some sort of rash or breakout, rub some body lotion on you, to soothe your skin, you really cant fix it until someone medically experienced finds out so unless you wanna walk around with polka dot boobs, try going to your doctor, its not that embarassing ,trust me.
Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not
well 'everyone' who makes a big fat deal over who you go out with is way to nosy and obviously enjoys your life 10x more than theres. Its simple jealousy and your business is yours, nobody elses. Do what makes you happy, screw the crowd, they effect your life ZERO.
good luck sweets
ok my friend jessica has a HORRIBLE problem! she never stops sweating. even shes sitting down shes sweating. People usually sweat when there hot or doing physical activity but she sweats when shes sitting on the couch and watching tv. she was too embarased to ask this question online so i told her that i would do it for her (ima good friend lol) shes tried ALL diff deoderants and NOTHING can stop it. its only under arm sweating and its gotten so bad. please help her! thanks!
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trying to help a friend!
Jessica should try taking two showers a day. It may seem like a lot, but some people just need it. Shes probably going through puberty right now and rarely does that sort of case last. But anyway when she gets in that shower she should take a bar of soap and scrub it on a wash cloth and then mix some shower gel, she needs to scrub her fricken pits like 5 minutes at the least each, i know it sounds complicated but it will kill tons of those germs. She also needs to dress in layers. When it gets cold sweatshirt, cute tee, tank top. When she starts feeling like shes hot and she might sweat she needs to get down to that tank top. And as far as deodarant try using teen spirit stick and not two little scrubs of it i mean like atleast 20 long counted scrubs of deodarant on each pit. Then, use body spray. Wow, i know this sounds really long but if she does all this she most likely wont sweat i guarentee, tell me what happens!! if you or her need any help send one to my inbox, thanks!!:-D