I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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ok im 15 female
im in a relationship and in 2 days it will be a month and his name lets say is Kris and i swear i love him and our relationship is perfect but hes a virgin and isnt ready for intercourse yet but im not a virgin and lately iv been really craving it...
today i hung out with my friend...umm...Mark and iv always secreatly kinda liked him and he was giving me a lot of attention tonight and then i gave in and he had his arms around me and at two moments in the night we kissed and then once i even was making out with him and i realized how i really like him
now i like both guys for different reasons and i dont know what to do...should i stay in my relationship?...should i go to Mark?....should i tell Kris about tonight?
......Please help me im desperate.... (link)
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Well if you really love kris you should tell him what happened that way your not holding anything back and feeling guilty and if kris breaks up with you then you wait a little while and go out with mark if you still want to.
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I'm 21/f. I live on my own and I have two jobs. I also have a kitten to take care of and three writing-intensive courses in college. I have crohn's disease (If you don't know, it's intestinal inflammation that can be maintained with various medications, sometimes medicinal steroids, and apparently marijuana (which I'd rather not get into, because I'm a singer, and I refuse to do that to my lungs or throat)). Crohn's can also be triggered by stress.
Now here's my problem: My crohn's was under control until about halfway through the semester. I admit, I missed a couple days of medications, but one DAY doesn't make much of a difference, as long as it isn't days in a row. Now I'm having problems with it in a big way. I'm at the highest doses of all of the medications I can take together (for crohn's), and my only other option is an IV "miracle drug" that causes multiple sclerosis later in life. Since that runs in my family, I'm not so keen on that. Nor am I willing to put myself on steroids, as they can cause glaucoma. So I'm running out of solutions.
My friend accidentally triggered something that upset me the other day, I wound up in tears, and couldn't figure out why. Later, I realized that I'm starting to suppress what I feel are "negative" emotions, like stress, sadness, etc. This is a terrible habit, and I thought I broke it a year or two ago.
I didn't even notice how stressed I was until last month when I skipped my period. I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative, so I assumed it must be stress, since I haven't changed my diet or my weight.
I don't know why my body is reacting so badly to this stress. I've put it under much more in the past and never triggered my crohn's or missed my period. I'm on birth control, too.
I thought it might be because I don't really have an outlet at the moment. I've pretty much stopped singing, my creative writing is now for school...I go to the gym every day, but that doesn't seem to help much.
I guess I'm just looking for some feedback. Does anyone know any good ways to reduce stress?
Help =( (link)
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yoga helps release stress also just putting on some music thats relaxing to you also helps just put the music on and just dance around a bit or just sit and listen to it also when you feel your getting stressed deep breaths in and out will work i hope i helped :)
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so i wanna get my boyfriend something that he'll love for christmas.. but i dont really know what.. we've been together for awhile.. so i feel like i should know what he wants but i dont. I want to get him something pretty inexpencive.. like under $40 because he doesn't have much money right now and i dont want him to feel like he needs to spend alot on me. He's 23.. and he's kinda rocker-ish. He plays the guitar and he's in a band and he really likes 12 stones... Any ideas? (link)
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get him some rock t-shirts or cd's
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So the other day I was downtown at my cities Remembrance Day ceremony. I was walking with my dad and sister to where we were going to stand for the ceremony. When we finally decided on a place to stand, I noticed I was standing about 5 feet behind a girl I knew from middle school. I’ve only talked to her once in my life and haven’t seen her in a few years, I didn’t really look at her first because I was afraid she would think I was checking her out or something, Every 3-4 minutes she would casually glance back at me sometimes for more then 10 seconds and would look right at my face. Sometimes she would smile and sometimes she looked at me with a blank face like she was thinking about something. She bent down a few times to pet her dog but other then that nothing else really happened. The whole time I think are eyes met 3 times and every time I caught her looking at me I was looking out of the corner of my eye so she didn’t know I caught her. Anyways on Thursday I went in for detention in my math class (I’m in grade 10) and decided that while I’m in there I should do some trigonometry homework, so I get it out and about 5 minutes later she walks in the door starts talking to the teacher and then sits down at a desk a row behind. One of my friends was in the row behind her and I turned around and asked him if he knew anything about trigonometry and he said no. She looked up at me and smiled and sad she knew how to do it but not that great. So she walked over and came and looked at my homework sheet. Shes in grade 9 so she didn’t know much about it. So this is my question, how can I start talking to her again? Should I talk to her on facebook? (link)
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ya add her on facebook and just talk to her whenever you get the chance and you two will end up being friends.
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For our project we're supposed to answer these questions and one of them is who do you look up to and why.
I decided on friends but I can't really tink of a reason WHY. I know it's there but I can't get it out >. (link)
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well you could write because my friends are always there for me and never let me down and they care about me and make sure that im ok when something goes wrong and just write down how you and your friends have always been together because your friendship is really strong and nothing and nobody can break you apart. i hope i helped good luck:)
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[[Sorry for how long it is.]]
I'm 14 and a girl,
I really like this guy and I know he likes me to I get butterflies whenever I'm around him and he makes me happy we are friends and talk about everything.
But when I first told him I liked him it was through a anonomos "truth box" thing on myspace.
I said "I really like you and would have dated you it sucks your dating cc I'm pretty sure you like me too or so I had heard." and he later msged me and asked if I wrote it I said yes why did you come to me first he said because I told people I like you.
Later like a few days he broke up with cc.
And all the sudden is dating a new girl.
we text 24/7 and talk to eachother like we're dating.
He likes me I like him.
What I need to know is should I wait and see if he brakes up w/ the new girl or move on??
Help! Please&Thankyou. (link)
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you need to move on because if he does come back to it wont be the same trust me ive been through this the sooner you move on the better it saves a lot of heart break and pain i would just forget him and try getting into a new relationship with a guy who is twice as good as him because im sure you will find someone who is great for you and make you more happy then he ever could.
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so I was reading a thread on a forum (lol), and it was about Turbo Jam, the work out videos.
I heard that it actually gives crazy results, like people losing weight or fat off their body in 2-3 weeks (doing it 5 days a week). But at the same time it's really intense and you have to follow it-- dieting and the like... 5 videos.
Has anyone here tried this before? If so, does it actually work? (link)
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One of my friends tried it awhile back and she seemed to like it and it did work because she looks amazing but it gets really tough and the first 2 weeks will be hard like you whole body will hurt and you will feel like giving up but just keep trying and eat a lot of fruits and drink water and after your workout fill your tub with ice and sit in it that will ease the pain.
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I was wondering how to download sims 2 clothes and import them into the Sims Bodyshop, and then into the game. How do you download them? (link)
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you have to download them onto your computer first but that isnt always the best thing to do because you could get a virus but ya you have to get it onto your computer documents and then import it im just not sure how to do that tho.
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i tried to post these on a photo critique website, but noone responded. so i was hoping to get some feedback from you guys lol. im just starting out and these are some photos i took in my photography class at school..
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0010_copy.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0016.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0017.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0021.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_5084.jpg
i wont rate poorly if you dont like my pictures, i want honest opinions. thanks!=] (link)
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wow nice pictures they came out soo clear and they look so professional but i would try taking pictures of something more exciting and more appealing that would make people want to stop and just keep looking at like starts or a sunset or a moon or sunrising even moving objects like cars or people even animals those are just some suggestions.
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I have a great relationship, with a wonderful guy, a rare guy who is sweet, loving and considerate. So why am i worring so much? I constantly think about him dumping me, or him getting bored, or me getting bored, missing out on other guys. But you see i know that im only a sophmore, and have plenty of time to have fun and date, and i know im probably just takeing everthing to serious like i tend to do. I worry about our future, if he's loosing interest, if im falling out of love. I care alot about him, and i dont want to screw this up, we have been dateing for 7 months, i just cant stop worring and thinking of the worst thing possible. Idk what to do. (link)
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The more you think the more perinoid you will be so stop thinking about it everytime you start to worry just stop yourself and think about the goods things and how things have been going and just how your relationship will grow stronger by the day and if that doesnt work then talk to a friend or your mom even your bf and just tell them whats going through your head because they could probably help you more then someone who doesnt knoe you very well.
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so i am a sophomore girl and there is a jr guy that i have been talking to a little bit. We dont kbow each other too well but i am pretty sure i like him. I dont think he considers me as any more than a friend.. or even a really good friend. So how should i like flirt minimally without making him think im desparate... or a creep??
THANKS (link)
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Just twist your hair when your talking to him and tell him you think he looks cute today or any other words that describe him as looking good on that day.
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i've been wanting to learn spanish, and i looked online for a program where you could learn spanish for free. i found a website, spanishprograms.com...and i know this may sound stupid, but i've had people teach me some spanish words..and they end up not being right. so i was wondering if the stuff they tell you on spanishprograms.com is really spanish or not..? like is it CORRECT spanish? like ill actually be able to go up to a hispanic person and have a conversation with them using the stuff i learn from this website correct..? (link)
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Websites only tell you the write words but the sentences are not always right. When a person who speaks spanish tells you something like a sentence they use different words to create a sentence because thats how the sentence goes but the website will often mix up the sentence and so the words arent always right maybe you should get lessons in person their are a lot of people who teach others spanish you can even get a school spanish teacher to help you.
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Ok so I just bought Taylors Swift's new cd Fearless. This cd come with enhanced content meaning 2 music videos. Is there anyway I can get these music videos on my itunes and to my ipod? When I put the cd only tracks 1-13 showed up, not the videos.
thanks in advance! (link)
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You have to burn the songs from the cd onto your computer using windows media player
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17/f
So I might not have the best sleeping schedule but still - this has happened to me A LOT and I'm curious if this is even normal. I go to sleep and people will come in my room, a parent or a sibling, and find me wide awake. I'll see them come in - as if my eyes were already open - but I have no reelection of what I had been doing before they came. They tell me my eyes were wide open [I'm a HEAVY SLEEPER TOO - so I didn't wake up from them just opening the door] - From not feeling well I was awake until 6am. At 8 am my mom came in my room and I "sort of" remember her talking to me - the memory is really foggy. But apparently I had been sitting up wide awake when she came in!!
I know I'm always tired and I wonder if I'm actually not sleeping at night - like I'm awake but. . sleeping? I'm not sure >.< Help! (link)
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I think you need to see a doctor because it could be a sleeping disorder and maybe you arent sleeping at nite which makes you very tired so ask your mom to take you to the doctor and just tell the doctor whats going on and im sure you will be able to get to sleep normally.:)
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my girlfriend doesn't know how to tongue kiss how can i tech her (link)
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k well here are some ways to do it but if she still doesnt get it then showing her is better then telling her but anyways here are the ways
1.Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
2.In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
3.Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
I hope this helps good luck :)
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My friends and I (It will probably be me and 2 or 3 others) want to take a trip to a beach, possibly over spring break, or if not, the summer. we're wondering about how much it would cost to rent an apartment or something within walking distance of the beach for a week. we don't particularly care where, as long as its by the ocean and WARM. How much would the trip cost, approximately? We don't plan on doing big things-- mostly just hanging out on the beach and sight-seeing. we'd probably drive there in a small car, so i'm not sure how much gas would cost...
basically, i'm just looking for some estimates here to get the planning going. we're happy to stay pretty much anywhere. we're not picky and we don't have a lot of money. suggestions, please? (link)
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the cost depends on your locations so in order to help you i would need to know where your planning on going like what beach.
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Im 16f and live in a small town. I had a kidney transplant when I was seven, and have spent many years in the hospital. I have only had one true friend because of this, and she dumped me for my brother. Now I am a loner once again like I was before I met my 'so called friend'. We did EVERYTHING together and she even said we were best friends. I guess my brother is easy to flirt with or something. He is a total jerk to everyone in my family. We can't stand him most of the time, because of his drinking and attitude. I just hate that she dumped me as a friend for him, and now I have to see her everyday at school knowing she betrayed me, and seeing her when i come home because she comes over every night to be with him.. its just heartbreaking to know that I had one friend, and she chose my brother over me. What do I do? I've talked to her, tried meeting new people but since its a small town, its same ol' same ol', everyone already has their true friend in my school, and im the odd one out. Im not ugly or anything, its just people dont accept me as much because i dont smoke so i dont socialize with smokers, and im just not into going to after school parties and such. I have a job, can afford my own stuff, have good grades.. im just not having an easy time in my life when it comes to friends. It would be different if she just dumped me and I had another friend I could be with, you know? But I don't. So im a loner again. I feel as if the only way I will keep up a positive attitude is if I have someone I can do anything with, talk to about anything, someone who I know will be there for me, who cares for me, who makes me laugh. Someone who is a true friend. Without one, I am nothing. (link)
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Join some clubs outside of school or inside the school you tend to meet a lot of kool people when you join clubs so just try it who knows maybe you'll meet a lot of people that like the same things you like good luck
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16/f
alright lets start off with saying im a pretty "friendly" girl. i have my slutty moments and i like being around guys, teasing them and what not.
so there was this one guy, b. we started talking this summer and like really got into each other like saying i love you and stuff, but then i met z, my like best guys friends best friend. him and i had a connection instantly and weve been hooking up for like idk a month now. anyway, both b and z knew about each other, z didn't really care, b just pretended he didn't. i saw b once since i met him, he lives in the next town over. i saw z every weekend and he lives like 30 min away.
well b and i stopped talking because he basically called me a conceited whore, which i thought was a good enough reason to end it. so we stopped talking for like a good 3 weeks, although he was always at the back of my mind. so he texted me the other day saying he missed me really badly and as much as he tried to stop thinking about me he couldn't so i started kinda talking to him again, not really sure of what to do because everything right now with z is going like great (knock on wood) like we both have feelings for each other and want to see where it is going to go.
so then there is this other guy, m, who is in college , he comes home every weekend. and ive been talking to him for like a couple weeks now too, kinda teasing him, kinda serious though. he keeps saying all this stuff like he likes me and really wants to see me and kiss me and what not and i just go along with it.
so there is now me, m, b, and z
basically im asking what the hell should i do? (link)
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k so B and Z shouldnt even be considered at this point because once you've started liking someone else then there no point in looking back so just be friends with them nothing else just go out with M because obviously he likes you and you like him and things will possibly work out and just try to forget about the other two guys as potential flings because chances of that working out dont seem very high i hoped i helped in some way good luck
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So im 15/f. i had a great friend, and we started liking each other, we were bf and gf for like... 2 weeks. but we NEVER held hands, hugged, or kissed. we told each other we love each other, but only over texting.
So he goes to my school and stuff, and he's not in any of my classes. so we always called each other. so. yea. well anyways, i was thinking alot one day, and i figured i do love him, but more as a friend, than anything else. and i told him that. and he's like ok. and he said he would talk to me tomorrow, and we havent spoken since (thats like.....2-6 weeks... im not good at timeee.)
And i want to talk, but im thinking if he wanted to talk to me, he would have. we have a similar friend (who's my best friend, whos a guy, and is kinda my ex's friend) so anyways, he told me that my ex said he was sad, and that it was probably for the better.
But this guy just WONT talk to me! we run into each other in the hall and he just looks away.
i dont know. I hate knowing we could be great friends, and that we arent.
What should i do?!
Im sorry its a long question, and thank you for helping me! (link)
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Msg him and just ask him whats going on its the only way to really get an answer and dont just ask him and then be like k ask him to hang out afterschool so you can talk about it so that you know if you can be good friends or not good luck :)
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I have a big bump on my forehead and it won't go away, and advice for a quick fix? (link)
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fill your sink with ice and just stick your head in their for awhile or just take a zip lock bag and put some ice cubes in it and keep it on your head for half and hour.
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