So i broke up with him, cuz we would be better off as friends...
Question Posted Tuesday November 4 2008, 6:54 pm
So im 15/f. i had a great friend, and we started liking each other, we were bf and gf for like... 2 weeks. but we NEVER held hands, hugged, or kissed. we told each other we love each other, but only over texting.
So he goes to my school and stuff, and he's not in any of my classes. so we always called each other. so. yea. well anyways, i was thinking alot one day, and i figured i do love him, but more as a friend, than anything else. and i told him that. and he's like ok. and he said he would talk to me tomorrow, and we havent spoken since (thats like.....2-6 weeks... im not good at timeee.)
And i want to talk, but im thinking if he wanted to talk to me, he would have. we have a similar friend (who's my best friend, whos a guy, and is kinda my ex's friend) so anyways, he told me that my ex said he was sad, and that it was probably for the better.
But this guy just WONT talk to me! we run into each other in the hall and he just looks away.
i dont know. I hate knowing we could be great friends, and that we arent.
What should i do?!
Im sorry its a long question, and thank you for helping me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ediemarie answered Wednesday November 5 2008, 11:35 am: Hi,
I commend you on knowing that a romantic relationship was not the right choice for the two of you. That was very mature. However, no one likes rejection. Although the two or you were very good friends, he wanted to take things further and the fact that you didn't is kind of embarrassing. You can understand that. He probably just has a hard time facing you right now. Give him some time to get over it. If he values your friendship which I'm sure he does, he'll come around. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie [ ediemarie's advice column | Ask ediemarie A Question ]
Katlyn answered Tuesday November 4 2008, 9:19 pm: Msg him and just ask him whats going on its the only way to really get an answer and dont just ask him and then be like k ask him to hang out afterschool so you can talk about it so that you know if you can be good friends or not good luck :) [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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