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The kid I love that i went out with a few times and another boy i went out with hung out last night. The other boy is a complete a**hole and i hate him. He's an extremeeee jerk. The other boy im not with but i love, im just afraid that he'll turn into the other boy. I htink they smoke and drank last night because the other oy wanted to. I'm just afraid the kid i love is gonna change into the other boy. Why do you think I'm feeling like this and should I be this upset and worried about it? I feel like crying :/

Hey, nope dont be upset by it. If hes a good kid he will no better. If hes not well then hes gonna go down the wrong path. But dont let him drag you with him. Also dont cry. Your not responible for him. Sooner or later he will realize what hes doign is wrong and stop. But have a talk with him. Let him know how your feeling. Hope i have helped. Pelase rate.

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i have limewire and is it really bad like.. causes spyware and slows down your computer? is bearshare any better? does it slow down the computer alsooo?

Hey, Yes bearshare is better. I used to use limewire and i found it to be bad and slowing my comptuer done. I also used to get these nasty pop-ups but not with bearshare. Hope i haev helped. Please rate.

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So I have this boyfriend I love with all my heart. We've been going out for a little over a year. But like lately Uve been meeting other guys and I don't like them or anything but I always think of like what would happen if I cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. One of these guys, I will be seeing this weekend and I know it's possible something couldl happen. And I don't know. I don't want to cheat, but I might. Helppp!

Hey, Its seems to me hat you feel restrained. So you should tell your boyfreind that you want to take a break. That why you have time to flirt a little and get the feeling of being single again. Then when you sure you know exactly what you want pick the luck guy ; ]. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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i am really pale. i'm 15 and i can't drive yet, so i can't drive myself over to the tanning places, and my mom never wants me to tan. i've tried the mystic tan stuff before but it looks too orange on me. is there any kind of products that will make me look like i have a natural tan and that actually work?

Hey, Yep i have the perfect product. Jergens Natural Glow is the best thing out there. You can get it at your local pharmacy like CVS. Also they have different levels so you can choose what color skin tone you have now to make it tanner. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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Recently my sister got a game for her PS2 that let's you sing. I've played it a few times and it got kind of addicting. I've done really good on it and I think I actually kind of have a good voice. My parents and sistre and brother say I have a good voice and so do the rest of my extended family. I think it needs some work. But now I was thinking about it and I want to get someones opinion who will be honest with em about it that's not like in my family or one of my friends. Can anyone tell me where to find someone who won't try not to hurt my feelings and just be plain honest? EVen anyone on here?

Hey, if you want to get better at singing try to get singing lessons. Also if you want peoples opions on your voice try www.soundclick.com it lets you post songs and it tells you how many people listen to your song eash day. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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OK, im trying to lose weight around my theigh and ab area, so i was wonderin what diets actually worked, and i was hoping peole could give me like what to eat and not to eat and stuff..thank you very much, ill rate high for any useful info

Hey, umm i know this isnt a diet but its helpful to losing weight in those areas. Do 100 crunches every other day. If your a beginner to excerise then start of with 25 or a number that your comfortable with. Then the days you dont do the crunches go on the tredmill. If you dont have a tredmill join a gym or jog/run around yyour neighboorhood. Put before you excerise you gtta get pumped and break alittle sweat so jog in place for 5 minutes. For dieting i dont think its a good idea to do any of those diets out ther soo try this. Only eat 2 meals a day. With no snacking in between.Also drink either diet sodas or water. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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ok i am doing P.E this term and in 3 weeks i have to go swimmin. even when i am on my period. thing is i know that if i wear a tampon it wouldnt matter right? but see my problem is that my mom wont let me. she told me because it will make my cherry pop and it isnt supposed to pop until i am merried.(or so she says) but if i dont dress out and put an effort into swimmin then my grade will go done everyday by a letter grade. so basically (since we got 3 wekks of p.e) it can be possible that get an F and fail P.E completely.. and another thign at my school is that the guys swim wit the girls. there isnt a speration thing.. someone help me.. i dont about sneakin them bc i dont know hoa to use them..

p.s.
15/f

Hey, well theres no way you can swim using a pad. So your going to either have to fail or use the tampon. I suggest using the tampon. Maybe ask your school conseller if shes a girl how to use them. Even ask one of your friends who might use them. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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i was wondering how does that kareoke revolution work and about the game?

Hey, Its a game where you judged on your overall vocal preformance. You could probably find a better descripiton at like www.target.com or some store website that sells the product. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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Is there a free program that will let me create flash games and or movies? I also need it to run on windows 98.

Hey, no i dont think there is anything like that for windows 98. You might want to go to the store and upgrade. Then i could probably help you. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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hey im 13 female and i have a pimple or zit under my bottom lip so it looks like i have a lip ring but i dont want it to iss there any tips about getting ride of it and preventing more? i was my face atleast twice a day.

**sleepiesheep**

Hey, SleepieSheep. Umm my friend had the same thing happen to her. So i let her borrow my Pro-active and it went away within a couple of days. If you dont know where you to get pro-active or dont have to money to another good thing to get is Clearasel-Ultra. You can find taht at your local pharmacy like CVS. Thats where i got mine. Also dont get the Clearasel cream get the pads. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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I'm a sophomore in high school...and I'm really..scared. I don't know what to do with my life!..I don't even know the college process..how do I apply? How do I apply for financial assistance? What's a major/minor? I don't know which classes to pick when I get to college..I don't know what I want to be when I grow up..Can someone help me figure all of this college stuff out? Thanks so much.

hey, just make sure you do good in school. and right now try to decide where you want to go to college. do you want to stay at your college or after classes do you want to go home? do you want to be near home or far away? ask yourself those questions. hope i have helped. please rate.

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Well, my friend and I were supposed to hang-out this weekend. I have called her numorus times, maybe 3 or 4. Most of the time somebody didn't answer, the line was busy, and then one time, her brother answered and told me she wasn't home. But, sometimes her brother will say she isn't home, even when she is. Well the thing is, I really want to get intouch with her. So should I just keep calling; it has been about an hour since I called. Should I just not call and wait til' she calls me. Or does anybody else have anymore suggestions?
Thank you so much if you can help!

hey, no dont call her again because you may come off to her as annoying. just simply wait for her call and if she doesnt call tonight try back tommorow. or if shes on aim i/m her. i hope i have helped. please rate.

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Alright, I'm 21, and I'm married to a 22 year old Air Force man. We've been married for about a year and a half now. Anyways, we both work. We only have one car, so my hubby often times has to take me to work, and take me home from work. We live off base, and work on base. Sometimes there won't be a whole lot to eat at home, or I'm really wanting to eat out, and I'll suggest it. Then he'll say,"We don't have enough money, just make something at home." And he'll go to work(the same day), and eat out on his lunch break when he could bring something from home, or come home to eat instead of eat out.

It just pisses me off, because I'm always stuck at home eating left-overs, or scraping something together because we need to go shopping, and he gets to go out to eat. I talked to him before about this, but he CONTINUES to do it. I don't know what to do. I'm sitting here hungry, because there's not much to eat(and nothing good). And I packed him something to eat for when he went to work, but he didn't take it, and ate at Burger King instead(after yesterday he told me we couldn't eat at Burger King because we didn't have enough money). I am at my wits end. He doesn't seem at all sympathetic or sorry when I explain to him my feelings.

And there are times even, when we're in the BX that I want to go eat at the food court, and the only place that's fast enough is Anthony's Pizza, but he doesn't want to eat there because he ate there the night before, so he takes me home so I can make something instead, while he goes back to work. I honestly don't know what to do anymore!

hey, all you can do is talk to him about it and if he chooses not to listen and stil ignores your requests then maybe hes not right for you. hope i have helped. please rate.

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okay.. so right now i use mozilla firefox so would i be able to delete internet explorer off my computer ? or would that be bad.. because even though i use mozilla.. there are some popups from internet explorer and causeing spyware and nasty popups.. please help thanks

Hey, there isnt a way to delete internet explorer and i garentee that that is not causing the pop-ups. there is maybe a 1% chance that if you take it to a store that seels comptuers like best buy they might be able to tell you how to remove it. hope i helped. please rate.

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Are you expected to moan while a guy is fingering you? Or do you just lay there silently? And does being fingered usually lead to an orgasm? Thanks.

Hey, Its just a usual reaction. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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16/f My dad won't let me get my license until I turn 17. I don't think this is fair. I've been driving (with a learners permit) for a year now. I'm like the perfect daughter, and I make mostly A's in school. I've never gotten in any serious trouble. And I really need my license because my parents hate driving me everywhere, and so I'm always stuck at home and I feel so..restrained? I don't know if thats the right word. But it's been really depressing me, seeing as ALL my friends are or have gotten their license when they turn(ed) 16. But I'm the only one who won't be getting mine. I cry all the time when I think about it, I want my license soo badly. How can I talk my dad into letting me get my license? I need some good, real answers. Thanks.

Hey, umm there really isnt a way of tlaking your dad into it. Your just going to have to wait. I know its not what you would like to hear but its the right thing to do. But if you wish to go beyond my advice just sit down and have a talk with him. Even offer him to teach you how to drive so he feels comfortable with you on the road. If you want you cant explain to me why he will not let you get your license and drop a message in my inbox. Hope i hhave helped. Please rate.

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i get a lot of popups and there are some nasty ones like porn.. and it gets really annoying and i use ad-aware but it doesnt work well.. i also use limewire so would that be the cause of it? can someone PLEASE tell me what to do cause im sick of these popups

Hey, its definately the lime wire. Try a different music service like BearShare or something. Also get the google toolbar pop-up blocker at www.google.com. Hope I helped. Pleae rate.

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i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now when we first got together he said he does not want a relationship and that and his best mate even said not to do anything with him he will just get what he wants then leave but he did not and it did not bother me before but not i think that it may turn it to a realtionship and that but every time i see him i cant help but think that he is sleeping around with other lasses how can i tell if he realy likes me or not and if he is sleeping with other lasses one min he is close to me the next he acts distant please help i will rate

Hello, Yeahh all you can do is ask him. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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i am 18 and under weight doe anyone know how i can put weight on it is realy hard for me to put weight on i have always been under weight please help i will rate

Hello, all you have to do is simply eat more. Try to have ice cream or soem sort of desert aftewr every meal and also eat 3 times a day. Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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Does anyone know websites where I can shop for clothes online?? Thanks

Hello, It depends what your style is. If your sort of gothic try www.hottopic.com If your preppy try www.abercrombie.com or if your sort of in between try www.pacsun.com Hope i have helped. Please rate.

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