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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:
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I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5
if your brother is old enough, talk to him or live with him... or call the youth crisis hotline at 800-488-4663 or call kids save which is info and referrals for kids in crisis at 800-543-7283
i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her?
tell someone, like her parents
ok i like the scruncy hair look !!! but i havent found a scrunching gel that i really like !! do u have any suggestions??? thanx
when u scrunch it make sure ur hair is wet but not soaked and maybe used some moose and hair spray along with the gel (i also use a curling spray)
i was laying on my bed and out of nowhere..my left leg started to have a really sharp pain and i can't walk right now. it's right at the back of my leg right below my knee. what could of happened? i played 10 hrs. of volleyball today - could that be the cause?
it could, or it might be a charlie horse... sleep on it
this is not good at all. one of my best friends (lets call her Sarah but thats not her real name) i think is a compulsive liar. she lies about everything...or so we suspect. her cousin told me that a disease like that runs in her family. but she lies about everything. here are some of the things:
-she told me she got raped and went to court for it. one time she told me she went to court at 8:00p.m but court isnt open that late
-she told me she has a boyfriend but nobodys ever talked to him except on AIM (and she has 2 computers so it might just be her) and yeah, she gave us a picture of him but its weird because i found the exact smae picture on BuddyPic and the names didnt match up
-when i talk to her on AIM she always says i feel so sick im gonna go make myself throw up im anorexic
-she told me she had a signature of somebody famous that i really like and she said i could have it. then next day she came in with it and it looked NOTHING like the real signature and it looked like her handwriting
there are more things but im just too stressed out. i DO NOT want to talk to her about it because one of my other friends confronted her about the lying and she almost commited suicide. she's really scaring me. she lied about getting RAPED...or so we THINK cause its not 100% sure. i tried to talk to my best friend about all this cause he knows whats going on with Sarah, but he told me that he belives her about all this because nobody else will. its freaking me out...a lot. i love her so much and i dont want to lose her. but i cant believe anything she says! and im afraid that if one day something bad really does happen, im not gonna beleive her. what should i do? PLEASE HELP! i have more info if you need it...just ask for my email.
just say you believe her, then maybe she'll stop or maybe shes doing it for attention
Ok, i made a new ID, because my other column got really messed up. But, whenver i try to sign in on my new account, it will not let me. It says that the username/password is wrong, but i even copied the username and password to make sure it was correct! It still went invalid, does anyone know whats wrong with this?
maybe it wont let you b/c u already have a column
okay i have a problem, but its not mine, its my friends. my friend has been talking to this person on AOL instant messanger for about a week. let's call my friend Bob and let's call who he's been talking to Mary (not real names) Bob is one of my BEST friends in the whole world. he tells me that Mary and him are really getting along and that she always says how she loves him, even though they've only been talking for a week. he isnt sure if he's scared of her or anything, but he told me that he thinks she's sort of like a stalker and you know stuff like that. theres two ways he can go about letting her go:
1) just telling her to stop being so obessive
2) be a jerk and maybe she'll stop liking him
he doesnt want to do #1 because it would most likely hurt her a lot. but i dont think he should do #2 because thats dishonest and mean. please help!!! what should he do?
thanks so much!! and if you have anyother questions, ask me and i'll give you my email
just tell him to say he just want to be friends
Ok my mom hates it when I swear.. and I always do. I tell her to get over it and usually I am jking about it.. All I say is frickin and she bitches at me.. i tell her it is not a swearword but she still bitches.. I am 14 by the way.. plz right back ur the bestestestest
just tell her you'll try to be better at *swearing* although i dont think frickin is a sear
is it wrong to like ur boyfriends best friend?
i dont think so... just dont tell ur boyfriend! lol
ok theres this guy who ill call steven(not his real name) but i met him in this crazy people place.. i was in there for being suicidal...he was in the for doing drugs "cocaine and marijuana" i dont care about the marijuana..but im not a big fan of coke heads...hes been free of it for over a month now..and im pretty sure hes done with both..should i forget about his past and move on...or should i just forget about him and move on to someone new no matter how hard it is?
you could give him a chance
hi, I have this dumb problem.. with this compture. long algo I downloaded new beta msn messanger. and later then i can't able check my hotmail account. i try sign up new one. i went go ahead sign in still not work. when i go libaray or something I go check my hotmail. works. i want redown load msn back msn 6 but i can't. so any ides?
maybe delete it and then download it again
ok...I lost my virginity when i was 11...im 14 now..ive never messed around w/ anyone except one boy...but both of them boys i truly LOVED...does that make me a slut?...
kinda, 11 is young!
I have a huge problem..im only 13 and weigh 98 pounds but i love to eat!! When i get home from school i eat like a bag of popcorn, some chips, and a salad just to make myself feel better. I excercise but not like a TON. and im healthy ..so whats wrong? I eat breakfast, then a snack, lunch, then a snack and dinner, then dessert. But, when im bored or sad - i eat. even if im not hungry..how do i stop this eating problem ?? =/
i dont see a problem... u sound UNDERWEIGHT 98 for 13 is really skinny... eat MORE
I work at a restaurant and there are some really nice guys there that are about 20-25 years old. a lot of them have been kinda flirtin with me and i told my mom! my mom said that i'm not dating them! should i obey or not? i'm 17 and I'm a female and she said i should only date 17, 18, or 19 no men over 20!
unless u really really REALLY like one of those guys u shouldnt, they r kinda old
my friend katie has a horrible reputation. she is 15 years old, and has been sleeping with MEN since she was 12. she has slept with over 10 people. last year, i had a boyfriend of 11 months. we broke up because my bf cheated on me with katie, and lied to me about it. i was mad at her forever, and i even got suspended because of her. i forgived her, and she promised me she'd never do it again... so she broke her promise. i'm going out with this guy.. we've been off and on for almost 6 months. katie has somewhat of an idea that me and him are together. my bf called her to apologize for a fight they got into a few weeks ago. she was like "ohh well im going to be home alone tonight if you want to hang out" and ryne (boyfriend) said okay and flashed back to me (i was on the other line). he said hes going to go along with it, and he called her back. she told him that she likes him and everything, and she doesn't want me to find out. ryne is going along with everything and he wants me to go along with him and stuff. us three are in the same algebra class and if i see her flirting with him, i will go crazy. what am i supposed to do? go along with it or go nuts ? i can't hold my feelings in very long.. and she has no idea i know anything..
i rate high for anything.. even an effort
sorry for the length.. and if it's confusing
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
i dont kno what you mean by go along with it... but she sounds like a rotten friend, like a bad apple/seed. if she wants to keep things from you, like your realionships and things that make you happy then thts messed up.
Ok, well I have a really big crush on this kid in my grade, and I think he likes me and so do all of my friends. I don't know what to believe, but I definitely want to believe that he does like me. He always talks to me, and he's in almost all of my classes, and we always talk. Sometimes at lunch if he sees me talking to other guys he will come right over and talk to me too. The thing is he always flirts with other girls right in front of me, and when i tell my friends they say hes just trying to get back at me for being a big flirt and hes jealous. Can you tell me if you think he likes me or not?
i tihnk he likes u, but like a guy, he likes all girls
My best friend Olivia invited me and this girl Whitney, her 2 best friends, to go get a manicure with her for her birthday. The only problem is that we're going on the 23rd, and it's the 14th, so i want to stop biting my nails but i don't know how-------any suggestions???????
PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!$$$babiid$$$$$$
put some foul tasteing liquid on your nail so next time you go to bite them, you taste the nasty
ok well i have one main friend in my school----my best friend------and i'm starting to feel lonely. And it's not the type of lonely where i feel invisible. No, it's much worse, a lot of people know me, they just don't want to be my friend and they're really mean to me. My best friend thinks they're haters. Like today, this one girl said to me when I was at my locker "o0o0o those jeans are cute....but they don't look right on YOU." She said that to my face.half the school year is over, but i still have to get through 2 more grades after this year and i cant stand it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Plz help me plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
maybe your really nice but too clingy, try to be a little more laid back.... good luck
i really need help!!! i cant seem to stay organized at school and i have possiable tried every method out there. So does anyone have a suguestion that might work ???
use your agenda/planner or try color coding things
now im not blowin my own trumpet or anything, but im a pretty good singer. recently i entered this singing competition, but im getting really neervous about the first heat. i hardly ever sing in front of people (except at my singing lessons) and im getting really nervous - its on the 24th of jan and i dont even know what song im going to sing! can anybody help with calming down about this, coz im really scared im going to do REALLY badly on the day!
practice singing in front of family and friends so you feel more comfortable. to relax, just take deep, long breaths, try counting to ten slowly or think, whats the worst that could happen?