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Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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I have had a crush on this boy in my class since like fourth grade and he thinks i am weird. I dont even know why i like him....i just do. I've tried just talking to him as friends, and sometimes he's ok with it and other times he just looks at me like i did the weirdest thing ever. I dont really understand why...i'm not overweight, i'm not ugly, but i'm not the prettiest either. How can i get him to kind of like me?

Hey - no woman should EVER change herself or worry over some man/boy whatever that thinks your weird!Just dress and stuff the way you do - if you have gd mates ask them as well and get one of them to see why he thinks your weird and stuff.Then go up the nxt day and talk to him and act as if you didnt no ur m8z where talking to him about it,
rate my advice!
sadie

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when you're at a dance, how do you get guys to come up and dance with you?

say you dont really get it and say "hey, I am kind of stuck can you help me?" and if you want
say you still dont get it with an innocent smile and chuckle - it always works.

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Ever since school started I have lost weight drastically. I lose weight very easily especially when I'm stressed out. I need to gain this weight back. I eat and eat and still don't gain a pound. what do I need to eat to gain my weight back. I'm around 5 feet and I want to weigh around 100 pounds. I'm around 91-93 pounds right now.

darling, i am 5ft 13/f and weigh 6stone which is about 40 pounds - and i am WAY underweight - you are perfect for you height and weight and shouldnt try to put on weight!Its all the walking around the skl which is makin you lose weight and you probarbly have a fast motablisim!
You are perfect - flaunt it lol
sadie xx

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Things were going GREAT with Nick until Friday afternoon. Earlier that day, he said I could sit by him at lunch since my friends weren't going to be there. I didn't actually end up sitting by him because my friends came back and forced me to be by them. But anyways, then I sat by him at the pep ralley and he said "What happened at lunch? I saved you a seat". I explained to him the story and apologized and then we just joked and laughed the whole time. I really like Nick because of his personality. Everything he says or does makes me smile or laugh. BUT after school, everything changed. Nick's friend, Will, knew that I liked Nick so he asked Nick if he'd want to go to homecoming with me. That made me really mad because I wanted Nick to ask ME. And if I was going to be the person who asked, I wanted to do it myself and not have somebody else do it for me. Well long story short, Nick said no. I have no idea why. Maybe it was because he couldn't make it or maybe it's because he doesn't like me. I really want to know! If I don't have a chance with him, I'd rather him tell me that so I can move on. It's just confusing because all of the signs point to him liking me. He flirts with me all the time! I'm not upset that he said no to me, but I'm upset because now everything is different. He completley avoided me after that and didn't talk to me like he normally would've. I just want things to go back to how they used to be =( Even if that means we are only friends! What should I do?

Act normal around nick - as if you didnt know anything about will asking nick.Then ask nick if he is going.If he says yes ask who with and if he says no ask why?Tell him you dont have time to go there but you gonna TRY and make it - to make it sound as if you arent to eager to see if he is going and as if you arent to eager to go yourself - see if it works honey xxx

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I want to wear my hair naturally and straighten it less because my stylist constantly tells me my hair is beyond damaged.

His suggestions to wearing it naturally were horrible, the products were VERY expensive and I didn't even remotley like the outcome.
My hair is layered, semi-think, past my shoulders, naturally wavy, somewhat frizzy.

Srunching looks horrible due to the thickness of my hair, any other ideas to perserving my waves?
My hair looks great wet, then horrible when it dries.

I have brunett , thick, past my shoulder,WavY HAIR!Maybe you could blow dry your hair, because when you do that you can get it to dry staright!

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OK, I wasn't exactly sure where to put this, but, I just have a quick question. I work in food service, so, I have to have my hair up the whole time. Well, tomorrow I have somewhere to go right after work, so, I will basically be doing the "quick pick me upper" thing in the bathroom before I get off. I was just wandering, how can I get rid of my pony tail bump fast before I even leave work? It is a hugh bump that I can't just brush down. Any ideas? Thanks.

Ok, wet the bump and if there is a hand dryer , dry your hair underneath there!Genius or what?
or bring a hairdryer if there isnt a hand dryer!

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I totally loooove stockings - just plain black ones but I don't wear skirts often. Is it okay to wear stockings with shorts? If so what type of shorts (like camo print, beige coloured, denim etc.). What else can you wear with stockings?
Also I've got these really cute shoes, you can see them here: http://www.funktiondesignhaus.com/portfolio/etniesGirl/trixie.html
Do you think stockings would go with these shoes? Or knee high socks? And what colour? Also what should I wear with them; like shorts, skirt etc.

Any advice would really be great!

No i meant if your wearing pink socks you might want to wear and pink skirt with a silver belt and a folder thats pink and silver.No way did i mean hermonie style!

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Like so many other teenage girls, I want to be a model or movie star.

I was wondering how to get into either buisinesses, and tips on how to be good. Also, how can I convince my parents to let me audition if i do find something?? How do I know if I am good enough?? Or pretty enough?? How do I audition??HELP!!!

THANK YOU!! f/13

your just like me. I go to a famous performing arts school called stagecoach and since i have been there i have been recommened to do loads of sghows and stuff.If you see an audition nearby where you live ask your parents if you can do it and say your best mate wants to do it 2, then your parents will no youd b ok.Sing to them or dance tyo them to show them the potential you have it can been ebarrasing but they know whats best for you and if you got it, so just show em what u can do

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14/f well, i meet this guy down town and we hung out for a littel while. before he left to go back to where he lives (about an hour away) we exchanged screen names. we talke dfor a bout a month or so before we decided to start soem sort of a relationship. he was too clingie though, and called everyday. he always said how he cant stop thinking about me, but after a while, i didn't liek it. i didn't know hwo to tell him though. so i broke it off. he still talkes to my friend zack though, adn it turns out that he still likes me. i feel that i broke it off and that i left things unfinished, but im afraid that if i call, he will start to like me more again. what can i do?

Well first if you dont like him you should:
Call him
Tell him how you feel
Say you wanna be good mates and keep in touch
and tell him your sorry about breaking it off

If you do like him
Call him
apologise, explain why you broke it off (males always need to know why - there cluless lol)
ask if you wanted to meet up
and see if magic happens!

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