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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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19/Male...There is one girl in my Accounting class that I am attracted to. We are in the same lunch line every day right after class, but it seems like every time I am about to talk to her, i freeze up. I still haven't said one word to her. What should I do to break the ice?

hey breaking the ice tends to be ver hard quite often. but what you could do is see if she has a aim or aol screen name and chat with her online first. it is sure to break the ice. cait ♥

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Ok Im 15 nd having a baby nd will the baby take the fathers last name or mine or is it our choice?

hey the choice is yours. but most people give it the fathers last name. but if hes gonna get up and leave you give it yours. but also some people do this say your last name was coke and his was pepsi you could give it this name the name coke-pepsi. cait ♥

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I'm planning a party for my friends- guys and girls- and there's going to be dancing. Like you would dance at an actual school dance. Could anyone give me some really good slow and fast songs? That would be great. I need a ton. Thanks in advance. ♥

Jess

hey good slow songs to dance to would be love by keyshia cole and everytime we touch by cascada. some good fast songs to dance to would be temperature by sean paul and rompe by daddy yankee. also throw in some fun songs like the cha cha slide and cotton eyed joe. cait ♥

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14-f. Okay, well I have this problem.. I was dating this guy named Mark that lives about 15 minutes away from me.. who's 15. We were dating for a month & he broke up with me because we don't see each other that often. I've liked him for a few months & I still like him now. We still talk and he said that maybe we can start dating again once he gets his license (he's taking drivers ed)Well, the things is, I'm really worried that a year from now I won't have the same feelings for him. My other problem is, I've been best friends with this other guy named Ethan from the same town as Mark & well I've dated Ethan 2 times. I consider him my first true love. The only problem is.. he treats me differently while we're dating then when we're just friends.. like he finds these stupid reasons to fight with me all the time.. and well I think Ethan likes me again, and this whole time.. I've liked him & Mark. I've liked Mark for a few months.. and well I've liked Ethan for about 10 months. I really don't know what to do. I want to be with Ethan yet I don't want to get hurt, yet I want to be with Mark.. because I deffinetly want to be with him when he gets his license. It's really hard. Some of my friends don't like Ethan, yet some of my other friends don't like Mark either because well.. he takes dance class & likes to sing. That honestly doesn't bug me because he's the sweetest guy in the world, while Ethan just hurts me. I really don't know what to do. I'm stuck in the middle & I just need some help. Please help me & I'll rate you! I promise!!

hey woah you got a situation on your hands. well what i would do is have a talk with the both of them seperately tho not together. choose the one that is willing to try to get along with you. cait ♥

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well, im talking with this kid and were about to go out. we go to the movies and dinner a lot but where else is there to go besides bowling dinner and movies? thanks!

hey, fun places to go are school dances the mall each others houses. ♥

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I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

hey def. personalize. it would be much cuter with his name on it. cait ♥

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hey thanks for answering my question and you mentioned try "on your toes" for skating apparel do you know wht the website is??

hey on your toes doesnt have a website sorry. but its located in Peabody, Massachusetts. if you live anywhre near there. ♥ cait

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im 13 and i got my period a week before my 12th birthday. my boobs didnt grow at all before that and they are supposed to grow dramatically and then still havent grown much at all im like a 32A and its been a year and 2 months since ive gotten my period..is somethign wrong or are my boobs just enver going to grow?

hey nothing is wrong. thats my size to and im 13 also. it also depends on your body type. skinnier people usually develop later then biger people. give it time. ♥ cait

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14/f

A couple of nights ago at a school dance, the boy I like and I were getting pretty close. We danced together like the whole time (only fast dancing though). I was asking him about who he liked. I told him to tell me online but he said he was grounded so I'd have to call him to talk. I told him he could just tell me in school. However, now I want to give him my number. But how do I go about doing it? He's not in any of my classes so it may be awkward. Thanks in advanced.

hey um ask one fo your friends who he likes and if its you then give him your number or have the friend yo asked give the number ♥ cait

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hey im going to buy 1 or 2 figure skating outfits but there were two i really liked that i saw sasha cohen and i was wondering whether you guys know if i could get one similar to it with the same colors
http://www.windweaver.com/sasha/sasha95527.jpg
http://www.katu.com/slideshow/050115cohen_gallery/images/050115cohen.jpg

or if you guys know any really really nice and pretty figure skating outfits but if you know where i could get costumes similar to those please tell me i rate high
thanks

hey i dont know if you can get those exactly but you could try " on your toes " it sells dance and skating items ♥ cait

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I'm currently expecting my first child and my due date is fast approaching. I recently told my husband that I'm hurt that no one has offered to throw a baby shower even though everyone around us (family, friends, coworkers, church members) knows that we are expecting. He said that I should throw a baby shower for myself. I'm afraid that it would be a breach of etiquette and come across as greedy. With our current financial situation, the gifts would be helpful, but I want the shower more for the companionship and celebration that comes with it.
1) Would you consider it greedy if someone were to invite you to a baby shower they were throwing for themself?
2) What would you do in this situation?

hey nope i dont think it would make you look greedy at all. i think it would make you look independent and ready for the baby! well good luck on the shower ♥ cait

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Okay so I have some chocolate chips...i decided i want to make my friends something for valentines day and who doesnt like chocolate right? yeah, okay well i have no idea what to make or what i need to make them (preferably nothing expensive)...I would google this but i'm not sure what tto search for so if anyone knows a website that could help me or tell me what to google i'll appreciate it!! Thanks

hey umm try watching a cooking show that would maybe give you an idea or soemthing. or just simply type in like peanut butter cookies on google and find a nice recipe. another thing to do is if you wanna make cookies make them heart shaped. a good idea would be sugar cookies heart shaped with red sprinkles on them. aww that would be so cute. also get a cookbook. ♥ cait

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Every time I get my boyfriend to have a boner he covers it up, what does that mean? It doesn't bother me that he has one but what is he trying to like hide?

hey most guys are like this. they dont know how the gril si gonna react and there scared because of it. ♥ cait

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My boyfriend is 13 years old..he is always horney and I wanted to know...do you think he would want to have sex? I'm not going to I was just wondering

hey hes a normal teenage boy who wants to experiment. i would hold off tho your way to young. but dont dump him jsut for that. ♥ cait

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there is this girl at school that i really like. i want to ask her out but i don't know her that much.

what advice could you give me?

thanks

hey well get to know her 1st duh. then after like a week ask ehr out. but make sure she knows your interested. make alot of eye contact. ♥ cait

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hey i'm a guy and have a girlfriend, i love her and everything. i was wondering...i havn't asked her yet, but would it be a bad thing if i sent valentines day cards to my friends that are girls? some of them i'm really good friends with and i wouldn't want to do it if it offended my girlfriend or let her think the wrong idea. should i just ask her about it, or am i over-analyzing things? i am getting my girlfriend a gift, but would it be wrong to send a few cards to my friends as well? what do you think, thanks in advance.

hey, nope it wouldnt be wrong at all. because a girlfriend and a valentine are to seperate things. girlfriend means lvoe of your life. valentine means special friend for the day. so she shouldnt get offended. ♥ cait

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I havce 3 morbid, discusting habits, And i need help on stopping them.
- I forget to wash my hands after using the bathroom. Gross, How can i remeber to wash them?
-I chew on pens I literally take them apart and chew on different pieces and usally end up with no pens, its sad. How can i stop?
-And i can never remeber to flush the toliet.
And thats gross to.
Help me with theese horrible habits!

hey, like ehmagod are you me or what? well what i do is buy like the foamy soap so you want to wash your hands like to make it a little fun you know. for the pen problem but something gross on the end like vineagar. and flushing the toliet you jsut gotta think " flush and go " ♥ cait

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i have been with my boyfriend for 5 months but we are not together officialy itis supposed to be a flig but i realy like him and he admitted he has slepted with other lasses since we have been together i want to finish it but dont know how to or what to say but i realy like him and dont want to loose him but i dont him making a fool of me any longer plz help i will rate.

hey, okay he isnt treating you right! you need to put your foot down and dump him. he must be really low to admit that he slept with other girls. i mean really how low can you get? thats my advice to you. cait ♥

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How do slow down fast metabolism? Any tips or something?

hey, i dont know why you would want to slow it down but whatever thats your problem. anyways im sure there is some type of medicine/drug to do that. ask a doctor or a pharmiscist. but just to let you know fast metabulisum means not gaining alot of weight. if you want to gain weight aska a nutiontrisist. cait ♥

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Right now I have a decent paying job that I don't hate. I like most the people I work with and my boss. I'm in a position of power so I have a lot of control which is always good. However, I live an hour away from work. That's a lot of driving and a lot of money going to the car. I want a job closer to home and I have a job interview this week at a place in the town I live in. My problem is, the phone receptionist here is going to have to have her tonsils removed and won't be able to speak for awhile. We are the only people in the office that work full time and the only other phone person is in on Mondays and Tuesdays. I'll be needed here but I don't know when she's actually going to get them removed, need off work, etc. If I do find another job, should I take it? Should I mention my predicament and try to start at the new place after she gets better? I don't want to drive back and forth any longer than I have to but I don't want to leave this office in the lurch.

hey, this seems like a tough choice. well i personally think you should wait for the receptionist at the job you have now and then take the job. think about it the job that you have now has been paying you and supporting you so you can have a good life. so now your just going to leave your job in such deep trouble like that? plus if you get rejected from your job interview theres no going back to your old job. i think you should wait till she gets better and take the other job after. if they dont let you dont worry. thier will be plenty of other chances to get a good job near where you live. cait ♥

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