Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
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Ugh..I just feel like there's no point in living life. Like I feel like I have no meaning. I still haven't figured out what I want to do as a career and I'd love to know. I love acting though but I'd want to do something after but I just can't seem to get started in it! I'm getting so annoyed. I trusted a guy way too much. I might have sent him a 'risque' picture (nothing was revealed but it was...you know) and i thought I could trust him...we've been friends for awhile and he likes me...he was friends with my sister and thats how we met. but anyways, with the picture thing my sister came up to me at home one day and told me she knew about it...and i faked it off with a story but i donno if she bought it or not..now i always feel like she's going to just tell my parents and i feel like it's always being held against me constantly! :[ and the worst part is that she said that HE told HER about it and that she didnt even see it but he TOLD HER and thats how she knows. thats what pissed me off the most. Like I can't trust him?!? WTH. And I dono what to do. I'm not talking to him tomorrow. I'm so tired of this. And my town is such a bitchy town and I can't stand it anymore but then again i'm scared to death of change and I don't know where else to live that I would be happy. I've moved so many times but I'm still so afraid of change. I hate change. UGHH, I have like no loyal, true friends here and I really want to move but me and my family are still deciding on where. Should I move back to an old town I used to live in or a brand new town? Because I'd like to stay close to the acting business...I don't want to move to some random place out in the country. But i Just want to get away from all of this. Like I NEEDDD to escape. I can't handle it all anymore. I want to grow up and be on my own so badly because my parents annoy the freakkin crap outta me. There's never a moment when they AREN'T complaining and I know you'll say its normal but their complaining is sooooo annoying and unnormal. The only thing I can do to get away is going to school or reading a good book (when i'm lucky enough to not be disturbed). I just feel like they're always harping down my back and my older sister's (they LOVEEEE my younger sister...favoritism...) and no matter what i do they still will complain. They won't let me or my sis hang out with boys alone and my mom no matter that I havent done anything to lose their trust in the past she always asks me the most suspicious questions whenever I do ANYTHING. Like I'll stay after school one day and she'll think i'm hooking up with some random guy or something! WHAT DO I DO TO STOP THIS!??!?! I've tried telling her but she doesn't stop! She is the cause of most of the complaining. I just cant wait to get out of the house!!!!!!!! :[ I'm sooooo sad. I feel so hollow on the inside. I do the same thing day after day and I don't know what to do to stop! PLEASE HELP ME :[
PS. Sorry this is so long. (link)
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i dont really know what you want me to tell you. and i dont really know what your asking...like, are you saying you wanna kill yourself or something? dont do that. all suicidals go straight to hell, no matter what religion you believe in, or whatever.
there isnt anything you can do about your parents except just deal with it. parents will be parents and until you turn 18 your just gonna have to deal with them. by what you say, your sister is dealing with them, too. and with this boy and the picture and stuff? you shouldnt have sent it in the first place. that was too high of a risk and obviously you cant trust him.
anyways, if you wanna get into acting, try out for some plays around your school or something. or go to a drama club that meets after school. that way, you get to do what you want, and you'll be out of your house.
i have another suggestion. why dont you go live with a family member or something? like, your grandparents? you'll get out of your house and go somewhere new, and your parents trust your grandparents so your mom wont think anything suspicious. sorry if i couldnt help more, but i dont really know what it is you want me to help you with. :\
take care and good luck. :)
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Well my name and Jenny and me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 years now, and we are perfect. We take long walks, we lay on the beach, we laugh together. We're totally young and in love. We're both 15 by the way. Well, me and my boyfriend have been best friends with a boy since 6th grade. Me and my best friend have always been like brother and sister. And since he's my best friend and everything we talk about alot of stuff and help eachother through problems. He admitted to me that he likes me, and that he's tried to stop but he cant control it. He says when he sees me and my boyfriend together he gets sad, he said he feels like my boyfriend is the luckiest boy in the world. I told him that he already knows i'm in love with my boyfriend and i will always see him as my best friend, nothing more. He knows that. My best friend said he was never sure about his feelings for me before, but now he realizes that he likes me...alot. May even love me. He describes me as his perfect girl. This was a shock to me because we have always had a brother and sister relationship and i couldnt believe he felt this way. Now i dont know whether i should stop talking to him, so he'll get over me. Because he has to get over me or else he's just gonna be hurting all the time seeing how in love me and my boyfriend are. Or should i keep talking to him, because we feel that if we stop talking, it'll ruin our friendship. None of us want that to happen. He really is a true friend and is always there for me. I dont know what to do...he cant just shut me out of his life because he said its too hard. And its too hard for me as well. (link)
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i know how you feel. its really hard for me to have a friend whose a boy because he eventually developes feelings for me.
but i just keep talking to them as if nothing has happened. my bf's friend has a crush on me, but he and i are still cool. and we all still hang together and stuff and we still have fun.
just keep going on about your life and never mention it again. try to get him hooked on other girls. tell him to never speak of it again, either, because he knows how much you care about your bf. he should be happy for you, not tearing you down along with his emotions!
take care. :)
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okay so this is pretty embarrassing, but i need to know. for the last two years little white things have been popping up on my breasts. now, i think they are white heads or something. how do i get rid of them and are they something more than white heads. (link)
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try using acne cream on them and if it worsens or doesnt work, then go talk to a physician.
but if they ARE whiteheads, just treat them like whiteheads.
take care! :)
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This one girl who sits next to me always says "you wear pink alot." and so I always go, "you wear black alot, but I don't say anything." I don't understand what she makes these comments. I guess shes kinda weird, but I don't say anything mean to her or anything. I'm not annoying, and I'm not always saying oh my god!!! I'm not like that. I'm nice, I smile alot. But, whatever. Anyways, the other day I take out a pink pen to write something. She goes, "I hate the color pink." So I said, "I think I've figured that out by now." So then I decided to ask why, its just a color, why do you care. So, then this boy who shes friends with is like, "You're a typical high school girl." And I go "what?" he rolls his eyes at me and turns around. So then I freaked out and started fighting with them.
I've never hardly ever talked to this girl before. I don't get it, why does she and her friends seem to have a problem with me and other 'typical high school girls' i'm not really bad or anything, or not enough to get around school or for it to be much of a big deal. I or anyone else I know has a problem with her friends, they don't talk about them or anything. Why are these people always feeling bad for themselves? what do they have against me and people who are like me?
I don't get it. (link)
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its highschool. simple as that.
i wear a lot of black, and i usually dont talk to girls that wear a lot of pink. usually kids that wear black HATE the color pink, so they like to point it out, as if it wasnt obvious enough. and when he called you a typical highschool girl, he means you're a prep..and people like them just hate preps and thats the way they are.
just breathe easy. its not your fault. just ignore them. they obviously still have some growing up to do....i guess i do too. hehe...
take care! :)
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i've never had this problem before!!! even when i was in Nigeria last year where it's so so SO hot. I am in Greenland now and it's colder here... i am sweating like a cow! i have sweat circles always no matter how much deodorant i rub on!!!! i am not doing strenuous work (well it's wayyyy less than what i use to do in Nigeria) and i am sweating... the only thing i could think of is that it has been more than a year now since i had my laser treatment (for hair removal, underarms, bikini, legs, arms) which i usually do either during my couple days transit in uk, france, or if i am in the states... but it's been a year... shouldn't the sweating have began earlier? help!! please it's ruining my life! what can be the problem... (link)
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your just sweating a lot. i did, too. but my mom got me this stuff you put on before you go to bed. its an anti persperant and its called certain dri. its over the counter, so you dont need a perscrption.
it works reaaaaally really well. you just simply put it on before you go to bed and then put on your regular deo in the morning.
:) take care!
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recently, my hair has been having patches of, like, flaky skin in it. my friend says it looks like dandruff. and near my scalp, there have been pieces of skin like stuck in my hair. it's been occurring for two days now, and i'm really self-concious about it. my mom won't really help me with it. she just says im fine and leaves it at that. what could it be? and are there any products or thing i could do to stop it? any help is appreciated. thank you. (link)
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ok well selson blue salon really helped me with dandruff. what you have is what my hairdresser called "cradle cap" and its very simple to get rid of. just use the selson blue stuff.
OR.
*im not sure this is how it works, but yeah*
put some vinegar in your hair for like 10 minutes and then wash it out. it might *will* smell reallllyyy bad but its all worth it in the end!
good luck! :)
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Ok..this is a weird question...but nevertheless.
You see I'm from a family with dark hair genes, and I've noticed that my nose hairs are dark, and they are quite visible.
I have that nose hair removing machine..thing :P but I'm scared to use it since I'm not sure how :(
Basically do you turn it on and stick it in your nose?
Does it hurt?
Are you at risk of cutting your nose with it?
Btw, please don't laugh at me, I find this v. embarrassing.
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Thanks (link)
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they should have instructions with them. if not, read this:
http://www.ehow.com/how_2139340_use-electric-nose-hair-trimmers.html
anyways, what i used to do is take my tweezers and just pluck my most noticable hairs. like, just the ones that stuck out farther than the others. but if you try this, be careful. cuz one time i plucked a few too many and it started up a nosebleed. heh...but yeah.
good luck! :)
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in 2006 i started to talking to this guy named john online. Its not like i met him online, he used to go to my school its just when it was in person i would get too nervous and when i noticed he would try to aproach me i would head in a new direction. Online Me and John became like bestfriends we would talk everyday and our conversations would never get akward or boring. John knew i used to have a crush on one of his friends but im not sure if he knew i was over that. After about a year john and i started to get distant. I really really care for john. Sometimes he would invite me to places but i couldnt go because my mom wouldnt let me...but i never told him that. I would tell him i had other plans. I would have loved to spend time with him, but wasnt able to. This december John moved really far from me about 3 hrs. =/. Now that im able to go out and date boys hes not around. this sucks. =[ This summer i know john will spend time over here but i dont know how to aproach him or what to do to tell him i miss talking to him. Yesterday i sent him an im, but he didnt respond. It gets me wondering like was he busy or does he not want to talk to me. =/ i dont know what to do i really, really like him and i dont want to loose him. what do you think about this i want to see someone else perspective or solution. (link)
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maybe hes hurt. maybe hes been turned down by you so much, he just doesnt wanna try anymore. im sure if you sent him an im saying "hey, wanna get together next time you come here?" he'd think you wanted to talk to him. :) just try it. you really dont have anything to lose.
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my mouse pad thing on my laptop stopped working. and i havent even had it for a month what should i doo? (link)
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mouses at stores only cost about 10-15 dollars. just go buy one and hook it to the back of your computer. there is a little hole either in the side of it or in the back that has a little mouse picture above it. just go buy a real good mouse and stick it in there! simple as that!
good luck!
P.S. i recommend one that has the lazor thingy on the bottom instead of a ball. the ones with the ball can easily get dust collected in there and then you have to go buy ANOTHER one. ive had my mouse since christmas and it works just as if i just got it! :)
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why did sean flynn or chase from zoey 101 get out on season for (in real life. not in the show)
was it personal or he needed to go somewher eor what? (link)
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in the show, zoey has to go to england. and she asks chase what he thinks about it, and chase is a little upset that shes leaving so he acts like a dickhead. and then she leaves, and he regrets it, so then by accident zoey hears him on the webcam say that he loves her. so zoey comes back to the campus, only to find out that chase left to go to england to find her. so yeah. and so then they try to have webcam dates and stuff but it doesnt work out. so then chase is replaced by a guy named james and zoey dates james and chase is still in england this whole time. thats why hes not there.
i hope i helped! :)
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i really like this guy (R) and i think he likes me back but his best friend (G) was in love with me and told him to stay away from me. now G has a girlfriend but still doesnt want R to like me.
he never talks to me and always looks sad when he sees me. the thing is that i want him to talk to me but im too shy to do it myself lol
so what can i do to get him to talk to me? because i mean his friend has a gf now anyways so i dont get it.
heeelp :P (link)
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his friend shouldnt still like you even though he has a gf. thats just rude and not fair to you. its also not fair that this guy wont let the guy you like go out with you. what i would do is tell him that you like R and you wanna hang out with R and he cant stop you OR R because you both make your own decisions. it doesnt matter if he likes you or not, if he was really that good of friends with R he'd let R be happy.
or just talk to R and tell him what i just said. maybe R will find some balls and tell G off. :)
anyways, i hope it works out! take care! :)
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i like this guy at my school. he is my exs best friend(my ex now likes my friend) but he only thinks of me as a friend. we always talk and i asked him who he likes but he wont tell me and he asks about if my friends like him or not and its sooo confusing. he tells me that im awesome and he is always saying stuff like that but i think he likes my friend...what should i do about it? (link)
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he doesnt like you. but he thinks of you as a really good friend. and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. just let things flow! if you two were meant to get together later, then it will happen...but for now, there is really nothing wrong with having a good guyfriend. and you know how movies end up with good girl/guyfriends. they always end up trying it out.
take care! :)
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I have been having some vaginal discharge and its worying, it smells a bit, could it be the fod i eat, because i eat curry food, im indian. :)
is this natural??
*lost & new* (link)
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every girl has discharge. just wear a panty liner and you should be fine. :)
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so there is this guy named D and he is 17 and i am 15 we have known each other for about a month or more now and for the past 3 weeks he has been texting me and contacting me everyday. I have never initiated a chat with him before maybe once or twice. One night we were texting and i stopped because i was watching a show and in the morning he instant messaged and texted me he was sorry for not replying as well and wanted to know where i was. Then i went to a horse show and i arrived late and he kept asking my friend where is she why isn't she here? and then when i got there he kept texting me to say why aren't you watching this where are you and he would come find me. So i am asking you is he into me because i am kinda confused. because i tried flirting with him and he kinda gave me a weird look but maybe it was because we were in a room filled with adults. Also he was talking to my friend H does she like me? does she think i like her? and my friend H was like no goodness why do u flirt with her and he was like i don't know but she is younger then me and i don't think she can hold a relationship. please decipher all this. (link)
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he likes you...but there is a fine line between liking someone...and being obsessed. if he cant stand to not talk to you for more than 20 minutes or if he gets freaked when you dont text him back, its not going to be a healthy relationship if you two end up going out.
you need to tell him to chill. take a breath, and start all over. tell him you like him, and if he says the same then try going out. i hope it works out for you. :)
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Anyone know any good sweep arpegios or guitar sites to leanr howto sweep bettter? I needto learn quick befor the endof the school year -_- (link)
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you could search it up on google.
or, sometimes my what my dad does is search it on youtube. they sometimes have "how to" videos dealing with guitar and stuff.
hope i helped! :)
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how do you turn off that auto complete thing cause it makes me so mad. its like that thing if you type t it will show all the t words you've typed (link)
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if its on your phone, then it means you're on t9word. all you have to do to turn that off is press the key under where it says t9word( or whatever you're thing says, thats what it says on mine and i have a razor.)
if its on your computer, im not sure. just ignore it and finish typing the word.
sorry i couldnt help a little more. :\
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I like a guy named Darrel and we used to like each other back in April of 2007. since then, it's been on and off and asdfghjkl and he's met girls, and i've had my times of depression and stuff. anyways. I did kindaaaa get over him for like, a month but the feelings were still there. we JUST started talking to each other a little more a few days ago. we talked for three nights in a row and tonight, he didn't call. I know i'm being paranoid but i can't help but feel reaaaally jealous if he's talking to another girl. He's allowed to, but I DONT LIKE IT. WHAT DO I DOOOO (link)
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since you two arent dating, you shouldnt care. hes aloud to go and talk to other girls if he pleases because its his life and right now, you're obviously not the only girl in it.
maybe you should try to chat among other boys. or maybe you should try calling him. or just wait until the next time he calls and just be all "hey, i missed talking to you the other night," and it just goes from there.
take care! :)
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Omg all my life I've been so sensitive toward sex & stuff with guys. I'm the virgin that is no way in hell a virgin physically. I sure as hell don't dance like one or talk like one. None of my friends are virgins. I'm called "the good girl." I say "Ewwy!" When my guy friends talk about sex & stuff. I never have a boyfriend anymore because I'm so picky but.......
Now I have one. And this boy turns me ON hahaha. I'm like exploding sexually! I love to talk to him about it, I let him touch me ANYWHERE. I'm just so ready to do anything. Is this normal??!!! I'm just EXPLODING! BOOM!! =]
Oh and I'm 17. (link)
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lol.
this is called being HORNY. and yeah thats totally normal for someone your age.
:)
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ok this might sound a lil gross but boys wat position do you find makes you ejaculate harder and faster?
girls...which one drives your men crazy?
please dont just give me names if they are not self explanatory i would re appreciate it if you explained how it is done as i am quite new to this lol
thanks...alot (link)
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im not really aloud to answer this question without being suspended...
but here's an arcticle i found. if i looked anywhere else, it would have included hardcore porn pictures along with it, and im sure you dont want that. lol.
http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualpositions/Sex_Positions.htm
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does sex lastt? (link)
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until you both orgasm.
:)
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