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ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????
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~LiLy~
There is a possibility you could be bisexual. But also, a lot of people around this age are just..curious. Give it time to see if you actually ARE bisexual. Don't say anything at all right now. It can give you a reputation that you don't want. To help you figure out if you are bi or not, ask yourself some questions. Can you imagine you and your friend being 'together'? Can you see yourself kissing her?
Remember, even if the answer is yes, it could just be curiousity. Don't take it too seriously right now because as I said, you don't want to get a bad reputation. They can ruin a lottt.
Think about it for awhile.
=)
Does anyone know a website where I can make my font on myspace like bold, bigger, smaller, hearts, and different fonts?
This is the website I use, and it has a lot of text help on it. But I just looked at it, and it said it was suspended or something. I'm going to give it to you anyway. You could try again, because this website is really good.
http://www.myspacehtml.net
And if that doesn't work, here is another site.
http://chasebadkids.net/main.htm
How do you get rid of all those website URL's in the address bar. You get what im talking about right? Like when you click the arrow next to go all those websites that you go to. Please help theres too many and its irritating.
That's clearing your history.
Go to "Tools" at the top.
>Click Internet Options
>Then towards the bottom, click "Clear History".
Also, next to "Clear History", there's a thing that says "Days to keep pages in history" & a number. Change that number to however long you want websites to stay there when you click the arrow thing.
There you go =)
my frend brittany went out with this kid named james. when they broke up, james started talkin 2 me on da computer. he wood kall me sexy nd everythin even tho he neva saw me, he wood always talk 2 me so nice.then 1 day, he asked me out nd i sed yes-not knowin wat he looks like-. wen i DO see him, turns out he's asian. nd no offense but i dunt like asian boys, i like white ones. he's really nice, but he isn't that cute... i wood break up with him but i dunt wanna break his heart since he really loves me...nd i dunt hav da guts 2 break up with some1 cus its 2 sad.... i dunt no wat i shood do!!! heLp me pleeeeeeeeees!
You shouldn't go out with someone if you don't want to. That will definately lead to more problems. You're going to have to break it with him. But do it nicely =) Just say things happened too soon, and you're not ready to have a relationship with him yet. You just met him and you don't know him that well. Those are pretty good reasons to break up with him, since you know, they ARE kind of true. Be nice though =)
how do you insert a tampon? i've tried countless times, and i just cannot do it. is there anything i could use to get it up there like vaseline or something? thanks
When you buy tampons, there should be a little folded piece of paper inside the box. It will explain exactly how to do it =)
But if the type you buy doesn't come with it (which it should), then these should help::
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/azhealthtopics/ht/How_Insert_Tamp.htm
http://www.ehow.com/how_1185_insert-tampon.html
Pick which one you think will help you best. I recommend the first one. It has pictures & will probably help you understand better. =)
I was wondering if anyone can help me make a plan of when to change "supplies" during my school schedule. I'm only in middle school, so no one uses purses yet. There's also this one girl who ALWAYS searches my pencil case to find gum and whatnot so I can't use my pencil case! I go to my locker before lunch time, and in past situations I have picked up a purse in which I put a pad in. But, I hate using purses because its SO obvious that when you carry a purse to the bathroom, you have your period!! I don't know any other ways! I don't want to buy anything at school because the dispncers have the worst brands. My tampon can not last ALL day and I'm a little scared to use jumbo because im sure they're hard to insert and other stuff. If anyone wants to contradict this idea please do so! I need some ideas!
Well, I had this problem in middle school also with the purse thing. But I made it through =) What I did was, put it in my clothing when I could. For example: When I would go to my locker, I would take a tampon (very secretly so no one could see..) and stick it either in the top of my pants [but make sure it stays and doesn't fall out] OR if I was wearing long sleeves or a sweatshirt, stick it in the sleeve and hold it in there until I got to the bathroom. Another thing you could do is, if you don't have one already, buy one of those hoodies that have those secret zipper pockets in the front, and you can hold it in there! Winter is the easiest time for this, because you're always wearing long sleeves or hoodies! But if worse comes to worse, and you have nowhere to put it, bring a purse! I know you said it's totally obvious, and I get your point. I felt the same way. But who cares what people think? All the girls will understand, and they probably feel the same way as you do =)
ok so im 5 5....5 6 and im 124 pounds i think im overweight but alot of my friends say im skinny and some of my guy friends who mess round and pic me up say im light but when i look in the mirror i dont see skinny i see fat
am i fat or overweight/healthy
Everyone always finds blemishes or imperfections in themselves when they look at the mirror. It always feels like you wish you looked like the other person, & they probably feel the same way back to you! But no, you are not fat.
According to http://www.am-i-fat.com/ you are "Perfect score!! Good Job!! Stay like you are!!". See? Now do you believe me? =) Don't worry, believe your friends, you're not overweight =)
My best friend, well, both of us, have dealt with death alot in the past year. and now her mom is incredibly sick! i dont know how to help her or give her advice! i'm so scared, for the both of us,..and her mom is someone that i'm really close to as well and when she dies, my best friend is gonna need me but i dont know what to say,...anybody got any idea?! i need them ASAP
GIVE ME SMARTASS ANSWER, YOU'LL GO TO HELL I SWEAR!
Think positive & keep your friend thinking positive. Do things with your friend to keep her mind off of everything going wrong. Have fun with her. And there isn't necessarily something you should say to her if anything happens. Just being there for her will do it. Just ALWAYS be there if she needs you or just needs a shoulder to cry on. You don't have to talk for her to understand you care. Hug her when she needs it. A simple hug can do a lot =)
When do you usually have a grow spurt?
13/f
5's for reasonable answers
Usually a growth spurt will happen around when a person hits puberty, usually between the ages of 8 to 13 in girls & 10 to 15 in boys. =)
hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off?
It's recommended that you SHOULD take it off, I guess you don't have to if you don't want to. But I've been told that you're breasts will not grow as fast if the bra is on. Also, I found this from http://www.007b.com/why_wear_bras.php ::
"bra-wearing has been linked to breast cancer in a study done by Sidney Ross Singer and Soma Grismaijer. They found, for example, that women who wore a bra 24 hours a day had a 113-fold increase in breast cancer incidence compared to women who wore bra less than 12 hours daily! They suggest that bras exert enough pressure to the breast and surrounding areas to inhibit the flow of lymph, which then lets toxins and other waste material to remain in the breasts instead of being flushed out."
I also found this from http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0IBX/is_2_9/ai_92282680 ::
"It's a total myth that sleeping with a bra on causes cancer. We've heard that rumor, but it's not true! According to Dr. Nardone, no study supports the association between breast cancer and wearing a bra to bed. However, you should go braless for a few hours every day just so the breasts aren't restricted. Let them air out already!"
So I guess it's really just means of opinion. But it's definately something to think about. Better safe then sorry, right? =)
I just bought a new shirt from aeropstale and when i got home i was lookin at it and they kept that security plastic thing on and i heard you can only get it off with a special thing! Im sooo mad i wanted to wear it tomorrow! does anyone have a way to get it off without ruining the shirt??? PLEASE HELP! 5'S!!
You can't get it off without ruining the shirt. I know you REALLY want to wear it tomorrow, but if you want the shirt to look pretty tomorrow without ink all over it, then I would advise you to wear something else tomorrow & take back the shirt. They will take it off for you, but don't forget to bring the receipt with you, because they might think you stole it! =)
ok well,just like..2 weeks ago i saw yellowish white faintly in my underwear,but im not sure if its dischagre or if i really had to go to the bath room..i cant feel anything come out so..how do i really for sure know? and also,my mom got it when she was 13,my sister 14..so will i get it at 15? how long does discharge last untill you actually get your period?
It's discharge. Usually, you can have it for at least a year before you actually get your period, maybe more. Wear a pantiliner, so the discharge doesn't get in your underwear. Also, just because your mom got her period at 13 & your sister at 14, that doesn't mean you'll get it at 15. Every girl is different. If you are scared or nervous about getting "surprised" by your period, just always keep a pad or tampon with you at all times in your purse & you'll be safe =)
i always end up having a crush on a guy who has a girlfriend, wat the hell is wrong with me
what should i do
There's nothing wrong with you. It's just that whoever you like, happens to have a girlfriend. Start paying attention to the guys who you know are single, get to know & flirt with them. They don't have a girlfriend..so hey, you have a chance =)
I've noticed some people's myspace pages say "You cannot view this person's profile unless you are added as their friend" or something like that. Well I checked out the FAQ & I can't seem to find out how I can get my page protected like that. Does anyone know?
It depends..If you're age on there says you are under 16, then it will make it private. If you want to change that, and make yours private also..
Go to "Edit My Profile"
> Then the "Basic Info" tab at the top
> Click Edit
> & Change your birth year to a year that will make you under 16.
That will make your myspace only viewable to your friends. =)
where can i go to add some cool stuff to my myspace? how can i make a scrowling marquee of pictures or jus put a couple pics on my main myspace page .. and where can i make a comment box? pleassse help, ill rate
I am a Myspace PRO =)
Here's a bunch of sites you can go to, to help you::
http://chasebadkids.net/main.htm
http://www.myspacecodes4u.com/
http://www.december.com/html/spec/color.html (color codes)
http://www.myspacesupport.com/
http://www.myspace.com/hey_lyts
http://www.mygen.co.uk/ (Go to 'Generators' at the top)
http://lissaexplains.com/basics.shtml
All these sites are VERY helpful, if you don't find exactly what you are looking for, feel free to ask, I can probably find it for you =)
welll this is kind-of like, comfusing.
Last night i went on a hayride with about 11 friends.. and my friend A brought her boyfriend.. and he brought a friend with him.. and he looked lonely so me and my friend D were always going over to talk to him.. and then they kept telling me to give him a hug but i kinda shyed away because i just met him.. so D gave him a hug and he looked at me while he was hugging her and then on the actual ride (that was all standing in line) i sat on the end and D was next to me, him next to her, and a girl next to him, and we gave him some of the blanket we brought.. and then we switched so i was sitting next to him and when i was scared D dared me to hide my face on his shoulder so i did and he smiled down at me and stuff and then he wouldnt laugh so I made him laugh by making a joke about something and stuff. and then while me and D were waiting to get picked up she was like "I think he liked you because in line he kept looking at you with the 'Oh she's cute' look. And he smiled at you when you dug her face into his shoulder."
what do you think?
Aw, cute. It pretty much sounds like he likes you. He might have just been a little too shy to make a move on you. But you did, & him smiling kind of showed he enjoyed it. He seems like a cool guy. You have something going for you, take it while you can =)
I know this has got to be the stupidest question ever, but...
You know ear buds? Like the headphones, but theyre just little things you stick in your ear? Yeah. Well, no matter how hard I try, they do NOT stay in my ear. Can anyone help me?
Yeah, they NEVER stay in my ears either! I guess my ears are too small? Heh, I don't exactly know. BUT, a lot of people I know say they don't stay in either. I guess they are made for big-eared people? =D Well, Just buy some new headphones; I suggest the kind that go behind your head, I love em! =)
Hey, I'm a 14 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend and I'm ok with that and I don't intend on getting one anytime soon, but what my question is, how do I become a girl's best friend. As I said, I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment. I want to be close friends with girls and I want them to be able to be open with me. I usually just sit with my group of friends which I'm pretty much the "leader" of and observe the girls from far away. I want to be able to talk to girls and feel open with them and them with me. How do I do this? Thanks a bunch.
Just go up to a girl and say HI. Introduce yourself, & if she seems like she's into the conversation, keep talking. Talk to her about anything. Get to know her better and let her get to know you. Be open with eachother. It WILL take time, but eventually she will feel open enough to talk to you. It really depends on the girl though, because every girl is different. Some are extremely shy, but once you get to know them, and they get to know you, they are really cool and talk more (because you're friends). Some girls are very open and willing to talk about anything. For example, I would consider myself one of those girls. I would most definately go up to anyone, introduce myself & start up a conversation =)
So basically, just get to know these girls. Once they know all about you & begin to have trust in you, you should be very open with eachother.
Don't be nervous or shy. & Once you become friends, start hanging out with eachother.
Good luck with "her" & If you ever need a girl's opinion, I'm 14 too, don't hesitate to ask =)
okay on this site http://www.whateverlife.com/diagnolstripedlayouts.php right before it gives you the code ir gives u a lil pic with wut it looks like on a web page...does anyone know how to make that? will rate 5s for anything
If you are talking about making a screen shot, you have to go to the website you want to make a screen shot of. Then hit "Print Screen" on your keyboard, which is often abreviated as "Prnt Scrn". It should be somewhere on the right side of the keyboard (at the top usually). Then once you've done that, open up Paint & go to Edit, then Paste. Then save it, & there you go, you have a screen shot =)
ok my birthday is comming up and i want to have a sleepover at my house. im inviting like..10-12 people and i need to think of some fun things to do and like..some games to play. my mom can`t spend A TON on the party tho..because she got me a digital camera for my birthday. so if anyone can help that would be awesome! thankss in advance:)
[1] Rent movies (a good way to use time) & don't forget the popcorn =)
[2] TWISTER. Fun stuff =)
[3] Manhunt (if you don't know what that is, just ask) OR hide & seek inside with the lights off!
[4] Truth or Dare
[5] If there are guys & you're allowed..Spin the Bottle or 7 Minutes in Heaven.
[6] Charades
Also, here's a bunch of games you can choose from & they have explanations too:
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/GameList_044.asp
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/GameList_039.asp
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/GameList_115.asp
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/GameList_083.asp
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/GameList_059.asp
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/GameList_116.asp
& Here is the main site where I got them from, In case you wanted to look at the other games there:
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/GameList_116.asp
Enjoy your party =)
I like this game..sounds fun:
http://www.eventwise.co.uk/asp/Game_417.asp?CategoryId=44