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Thaaaattt's me! The anonymous advice giver from the other keyboard! mwuaha! Actually, I'm a 13 year old give from Southern Cali here to give you some helpful hints on getting through sticky situations without any trouble at all. Send me all your questions on friendships, crushes, and school blues and I'll be sure to get back to you!

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my friend and i want to be singers and we have written 1 song and we always try to write another song but we just can't....anyone have any good ideas or a good song we could sing that is original??...thnx i rate

My advice to you is to stick to songs about things you know. Let's say you just got over a heartbreak. You can target your feelings from that and put it into a song.

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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much?

You sound perfect to me. I'm very happy you recovered. You are tall and that weight makes you perfect, I promise.

xOx Emmz

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ok here it goes..
my best guy friend and i went out for roughly a month, then he broke up with me. Well he's gotten over me and gone out with all these other girls, but i still have feelings for him and he has no idea whatsoever. i want to tell him, but then again i don't because i'm afraid that it might mess things up. and just a couple minutes ago, he read my profile and it has a quote in it that says "if two past lovers can remain friends then they were never in love or they still are" and when he read, that he imed me and goes "thats not true, i loved you until i saw you as a friend" i dont know, something about him saying that made me feel weird. i really really like him, but i feel like i can't do anything about it. This might be a confusing question, and it might be hard to understand what im asking, but if you do please help me..

Sounds like he's not worth it. Don't mind me being so blunt but your one and only will probobly value you as both a friend and a lover so perhaps this ones best to have as a friend. Especially since he got over it so fast. You deserve someone who will comit themselves and not fear friendship and love.

xOx Emmz

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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

xoxo

Sounds like he feels the same way about you... or he could find you as a very excellent friend. My advice is to open up about your feelings. It may seem like a risky thing but with love don't be afraid of a challenge. Tell him that sometimes it feels like he's "the one" and then wait for him to open up. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, finish it up that you're glad that you guys are such good friends.

xOx Emmz

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Hi,
I am doing a play with a kiss scene. And the person that I happen to be kissing is my guy friend. So its really akward. I really try to make it non-akward after but somehow it just is. And I was going to do the "theatre illusion" of kissing someone but the drama teach says it looks to obvious (putting your thumbs over the person's mouth and kissing your thumbs). Is there any other way to make it illusion? so its not all akward. We already kissed for once and for real. Boy, I was mad. All my friends are like aw, you should go out with him. I mean for heaven's sake! It was a staged kiss!
Any adice?
Por Favor :)
xo0x Pucker Upp

I've been in the same situation before so no worries. I had the same problem but I ended up liking the guy. Acting is my thing and I believe its yours also. In your acting career you will face situations like this all the time and feel the same way, its natural. Take your "kissing partner" aside and talk to them about how you feel. There is nothing better then being truthful. After this, things will be easier. As for annoying friends going on and on about you dating him, just ignore it. They will bug you more if they know it bothers you. Hope this helped!

xOx Emmz

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