ask xoiiloveyou143xo



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



I'm Melanie. I'm 18 and I don't know what else to write.
Gender: Female
Location: Baton Rouge, LA
Age: 18
Member Since: March 14, 2005
Answers: 138
Last Update: August 18, 2007
Visitors: 9482

Main Categories:
General Sex Questions
Love Life
Friendship
View All

k. i tan a lot. especially now for prom, but my armpits are really white. what would help that, the stand up bed?? i really like laying down, but what could i do to tan under my arms?? (link)
While you are in the lay-down bed, just lift your arms straight up above your head.


I've never really had my nails done. I'm wanting to get gel nails on my hands and just a regular pedicure.
Do most places require appointments?

Also, if anyone has had gel nails, please give me an opinion on them (are they durable, do they look good, etc.). (link)
Gel nails are different from acylic nails. They are VERY durable and they are much prettier. If the nail salon is good, then your nails will be nice and shiny for 2 weeks. It costs more, but it's definitely worth it.

P.S-They do look more natural.


there's this one science question, and i think i have an idea, but i'm not completely sure.

which of these is an example of a completet and balanced chemical equation and why?

a. H20 --> H2 + O2
b. NaCl + H2O
c. Fe + S --> FeS
d. CaCO3

**all of the numbers are subscripts.

thank you! (link)
I think it's C.

It's the only logical answer. It has 1 Fe and 1 S on both sides of the equation. It's been a while since I took chem, so it might not be right...



omg.
so me and my friend went with a couple of our guy friends about 2 weeks ago to hang out.
well we went to a friends and we started drinking a little.
we hung out fo a little bit then we went home.
we dropped everyone off and thats it. nothing else happened.
like 2 days later, my friend shawn IMed me and told me that he got kicked out like 5 minutes after we dropped him off.
well last monday, a week after, shawn started flipping out.
he couldnt remember what happened that night. at all.
he thought that we stopped at a gas station and that a kid put a gun to his head.
none of that happened.
he said he doesnt remember anything then that. he also said that he was driving home from a pap smear and he heard the kid that he thought did that say kid get out of the car im going to kill you.
but no one was around.
well hes like in a crazy hospital now cause he thinks that all really happened.
he said he didnt take anything but idk if i believe him.
well his mom is getting detectives to check all of this out and they are going to question us all.
one of our friends we were hanging out with is 22, so can he get in trouble for hangin out with me and my friend since were 16?
and also can they give us drug tests? cause i smoked some weed over the weekend and im freaking out about it.
nothing happened that night and we didnt do any drugs that night so idk what is wrong with shawn.
what do you think i should do? are they aloud to drug test me??

thanks in advance. (link)
I doubt they would drug test you and even if they did...you can't get in trouble for just smoking pot. If you don't have any weed or pipes or anything in your possession, then they can't charge you for getting high. The 22 y/o is going to be in some trouble b/c he gave minors alcohol.


I'm not planning on having sex the first time for a couple years or so atleast but I'm afraid I will end up regretting it later on. I'm just curious about the average age girls lose their virginity.

So basically I have three questions..

1. What age did you lose your virginity?

2. Do you regret it or are you happy with your choice?

3. What age do you suggest? (Please don't say when you're ready because obviously I'm going to wait until I'm ready but I'm talking like what's too young, etc.)

Thanks (link)
1-I was 17.

2-I kind of wish I would have waited because I realize now that I didn't love the guy and now I'm with a guy who I do love and I wish I could have lost my virginity w/ him.

3-I would say no earlier than 16.


you know those birkenstock shoes everyone is wearing? well i want to buy a pair, (the regular tan color) but i don't know if i should or not. what opinions do you guys have on them? thanks, soo much! (link)
I wear them and at first, I thought they were really ugly, but they are REALLY comfortable.


Is running a mile and a half in 13 min. and 48 sec. what you guys would consider good, average, or below average? (link)
It does depend on your age and sex, but regardless...that's either average or below average. A person in good shape should be able to run a mile in between 6 minutes - 10 minutes.


I'm just wondering what other people think...
How you feel about the United States potentially having it's very first female (Hillary Clinton) or African American (Barack Obama) president?
(link)
I wouldn't mind having a woman for a president or an African American for president, but I pray to God everyday that neither one of the before mentioned people EVER make it to office.


I'm 16/f. I don't even know how to begin, just I think I might be bipolar. I've been feeling like this since October, and not just once in a while. Almost every day I think about it. I've looked it up on the Internet and I have almost all of the symptoms. But it's hard to put down everything here, to explain everything that has happened and stuff. Me being bipolar would explain a lot of things. What should I do? How can I know for sure, without seeing a doctor? Thing are getting to be too much. Thanks. (link)
Okay, I'm bipolar and the best thing to do is seek medical advice ASAP. Bipolar is a hard disorder to control, so if you are...you need to be medicated and taught how to control your mood swings.


I take the SAT on Saturday. I'm REALLY good at the math part, but I'm horrible at reading those long passages and answering questions. How can I prepare for the SAT reading section in 4 days?

*I'm not really that horrible at the reading, just average. (link)
Okay. I'm really good at the reading section, but I NEVER actually read the section. The best thing to do is skim over it a little bit and then start with the questions. Read the question and then just look for the answer in the passage. It's the only way you'll be able to do well with that section.


what are some good comebacks to say when someone calls you a lez/bi and your not.. like theress a rumor going around saying that im a lez/bi (and yes it does get to me alot but i dont show it) like what would i say? (link)
I've learned from experience that kids only do that to get a rise out of you. If you just ignore it, they will stop. && Really, why does it matter what they think? You and your friends know you aren't.


Why are guys turned on by not wearing underwear? I once told this guy I was, and he was like running out of breath ;]. haha but seriously, what's so great about not wearing underwear? (link)
Well I asked my boyfriend, but then found out that he isn't turned on by that thought..so logically, they must consider it easy access.


Ok so I am expected to make a 25 on my ACT by the time I'm a Senior. I know I can get better than that, but i'm not sure how to. I was wondering what kind of classes I can get to help me up my score. I know this sounds really crazy, but i set my goal at a 30. So is it possible? What kind of classes do I need to take? How many times should I take the ACT? and When is the best time to take the ACT? Thanks (link)
A lot of tutoring programs offer ACT prep. 30 is a possible goal, but it may be hard. You should take the ACT about 3 times and I've found that taking the ACT during the summer months, is when the test is the easiest.


Well I'm a Freshman (15 years old) in high school and I took the ACT for the first time ever. I got a 19 on it and I was wondering if that was a good score for my age and all. So is it good or should I have scored higher? (link)
Correction. The highest is a 36.

A 19 isn't that high, but it's not bad either. You should consider taking an ACT prep class or something.


does anyone know johns hopkins's policy on SAT scores? like do they look at the highest from each section of any of the tests you've taken? (link)
Most colleges will take your average score.


how much weight would you lose if you didnt eat for 3-4 days?

please do not lecture me (link)
It depends. When I was anorexic and I worked out everyday, in 3-4 days time I could look 10 lbs. Starving yourself won't work. I'm not lecturing, just informing. The reason is because it drastically slows down your metabolism. So when you do eat again, you'll easily gain it all back.


Hi. I've been thinking about going on birth control. Not because I want to have sex, because I'm waiting for marriage. But because I hate my period.

I've had it about 2 years, almost 3. It just got half way regular last year.

I was wondering what type of birth control makes you have fewer periods?

I've heard something about one that only maked you have 3 or so a year. What is it called?


I'm 14, and sex is the furthest thing from my mind, so don't worry about that.

What would I have to go through to get them if my mom says okay? Like how would the doctors appointment go?

How do I ask my mom also?


Thanks. (link)
There's a lot of pills that will make you have less periods. The shot, Depo Provera, will most likely stop your periods all together.


ok what's the difference between being on your period and ovulating? because i heard that if people do it while they are "ovulating" then it will be more of a chance to get pregnant. but if it's the same as a period.. won't blood get everywhere? basically, what is ovulating? (link)
Ovulating is the period of time right before your period. So you won't be on your period yet.


yikes
i have everything i need
i got vd
i have boobs
and i have hips
and i have hair DOWN THERE ,lol
but yeah
whats wrong with me
will i get it soon
i get vd a lottttt
help
(link)
Please stop saying VD. I know you think it's an abbreviation for vaginal discharge, but it's also an STD. So it sounds pretty bad.

Also, don't be so rushed to get your period. Once you have it, you won't want it anymore. =] You will probably get it soon. Don't fret.


A couple days ago I tried having sex with my boyfriend with my legs up on his shoulders so he could get deeper and hit my 'g spot' and stuff. well wen he did it, it hurt my lower abdomen, my lower back, and my hips. it was like a really weird cramping feeling. It almost felt like his penis was poking up into my stomach and it kinda made me feel like I was gonna throw up. Is there anything wrong? and is there any way i can get more pleasure besides that because it for sure does not feel too great like that. thank you !

~amandaaaa* (link)
If it's painful, it probably means that he's penetrating to far. I've had a similar problem. Instead of putting your legs up on his shoulder, just wrap your legs around his waist and lift from there. It's basically the same thing, but he won't be pentrating as far. Let me know if it works out for you!




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker