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Hi I'm Ali. I'm 15 and I'm in 10th grade. *Yay!* I'm origionally from New York but I moved up to Maine. I have a sister who is 13 and a 3 year old brother. At the moment my 17 year old cousin is living with us. He just moved in around april. Long story. I tend to be shy at first but I eventually warm up. I'm always the one my friends turn to for advice or just for someone to talk to. My dad is a phsychiatrist so I wonder if it's in my genes. *lol* I can be very fun, but also serious when I need to be. I tend to make good grades but I have to work for them. So thats me! Not too interesting. Oh well.
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Ok...so this is kinda gay..but how do you get those gorgeous jessica simpson soft curls...i have the tools and my hair is natrally curly ( but not the pretty curls the messed up ones)and i have mind you that my hair is THICK! ahh i love it some much
After you shower blow dry your hair straight. Take a biggish hair curler and curl only about half-way up from your ends. Put in some flexable hairspray so it will stay. Good luck!
well, over the years i've sturrgled through school, not with friends, not with grades, not with teachers, but i get so nervous over everything. It's so stupid! I get so nervous over everything....like i'll be nervous to go to class tomorrow cuz i'll think i'll get in trouble or i think the teacher is gonna hate me!! I hate it, i've always had this thing ever since 1st grade only my mom knows about it. It's rele dump and i feel like an as*! I jus started 7th grade and i feel so stupid! i feel like a mental house, what should i do, :(
Try to think about what might really be bothering you. So what if you get in trouble for frogetting your homework? What would really happen? Try walking with your friends to class or something and laughing. It will get your mind off things and make you feel better. And you are not an a**.
Well lets start off my saying im 13/f and I weigh 155.I use to weigh 165 but then I stopped eating and I lost 10 pounds and well not eating isn't very healthy for you body and ive tried exercising with correct eating and that still didn't help so I just completely stopped eating and I think I over exercised.I would exercise 3 or more times a day for an hour or more and well I know im going about this the wrong way.I hate the way I look when I look into the mirror and I hate when I go shopping and nothing fits.Im a size 13 in Jr.'s clothes.Most ppl tell me that Im just exagerating about how big I really am and well I might be but if you were in my position you probably wouldn't like the way you looked either.Anyways to get to the point I need another way to help myself to lose weight or to gain self-confidence and be happy about the way I look without becoming anorexic.I can still eat so Im not completely anorexic yet so I need help before I get to that point.If anyone has any advice once so ever plz give me it.And I think Im pretty and all but I just hate the way my stomach looks.So plz help.I'll rate good so plz just help.Thank you.
-Unhappy and Depressed about my weight
It's great that you realized you have a problem (not eating). That was a giant step that you tackled. Well, it seems to me that your actual weight isn't the thing that's bothering you, it's the way your body looks. So start trying to eat right. You know that you need to eat the same amount of calories everyday to keep up your weight, so first try and find foods with less calories. Drink lots of water and exersize. Go slow with exsersizes. For example start out with 25 or so crunches a day and the next week do 50. Try something like that. Also try and build self-confidence. Plus, that will give you more modivation to work out because you will feel happier. Good luck!
Ok, I have blue-ish eyes with green around my pupil. I have tan skin. School is starting soon and I wanna make my eyes stand out. Like when I'm walking down the hall, I want people to turn around and be like "Who's that girl". What kinds of colors of eye makeup such as eye shadow, mascara, and eyeliner should I use. I'm going into the 8th grade also. Please help! Thanks
For the first day (or special occasions), I would try a blue eye liner (top and bottom, probably liquid, but whatever works best for you), brown/black mascara to make lasshes fuller and longer (try one with a bigger applier. One that looks "fluffy" ) and a brownish eyeshadow. For everyday just a navy eyeliner and some black/brown mascara. Good luck!
i am extreamly sick today and i have no clue what's wrong with me. i called my doctor and she said it was just a cold but it's REALLY bad. my head is pounding, my whole back is KILLING me, my throat is so soar i can barely talk, i feel like i'm going to throw up, and i keep getting those cold sweats where you start to sweat really bad but you're still cold. what is wrong with me?? i'm so miserable!
First, are you on your period? Because that makes everything worse. It could definatly be a virus. That's what it sounds like. Call your doctor again and tell her you would feel better if you saw her. For the dizzyness when you sit up, I get that all the time, It means that the blood doesn't reach your head fast enough, even if you are sitting up slowly. Don't stand up untill the dizzyness goes away. Talk to your doctor and she may perscribe antibaotics. If it is a virus it shouldnt last long. Fell better soon!
okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?
sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help!
First off, you definatly need to apologize and make sure he understands that you thought he was joking. If he wasn't joking would you still say no? Because you should tell him that, just in a nicer tone. Tell him that you love being his friend and you don't feel right making the next step. If you think he could be a potential boyfriend, give him a chance. You never know. After you go out with him you might see him in a diferent light. If it's just not working try and go back to the way it was. Just make sure he know you still like him, just not in that way. Good luck!
Okay y'all..... I'm sort of seen as "ghetto" by the way I dress, which is just hoop earrings and ....yeah. I'm a sophomore and I'm crushin on a FRESHMAN! I don't see the harm in that..right? But anywho, he's sorta a "sk8er".... and it just seems like sk8ers are into...punks, skaters, etc. all those stereotypes. I really wanna get close to him....I mean, boys are boys are boys..they'll like any girl, and it doesn't matter what "label" you're under, right? =\
I don't erally have a "problem" I just wanna know if it's possible between us!!....
Og course it's possible! Anything is possible! I don't believe in sterotypes, personally, but I know exactly what you mean. The whole sophmore/freshmen thing doesn't matter at all. Last year, one sophmore went out with a freshmen. But I don't think boys will just like anyone. Sure some do, but definatly not the majority. If you try and talk to him just friendly and he starts to like you then the only reason he might not ask you out would be because he would be embarrassed because maybe his friends wouldn't approve. But if he's sending you signs, go for it! Good luck! And please rate me. Thanks!
I have asked a lot of people for advice on this, but no one has an answer. I start school tommorow.
On the last day of school last year, 8th grade, I sort of asked out this guy, Alex, whom I liked and who liked me, by saying "If I dump Jerry will you go out with me" (yes i know im a jerk) and he said he would and I said we hadda hang out over summer. I really did intend to, in the beginning of summer I called him a few times and there was never any answer. Then I went to a lot of camps, but I did have some time in between. I went out with this guy during one camp but we sorta drifted apart. Now school is starting tommorow and it's going to be so awkward. I don't know what to say to Alex...I did intend to hang out with him, but it just didn't work...And I don't know if I like him anymore or what seeing how I haven't seen him all summer. I need advice real soon on what to sasy to him tommorow and how 2 handle this thing. It's a pretty sticky situation. Thanks.
Well, at least you tried. But when school starts try and be friends, just friends, with him at first. After a while and you still feel things talk to him about it. It might take a while for things to stop feeling so awkward but wait a while and if you two go out it will have been worth the wait. Good luck!
Hey on my legs i have these little red bumps and sometimes they have 2 hairs growing outta it and it bugs me because i have a wedding soon and it looks like i have freakin pimples on my leg!! how do i get it to go away?? And what is it? My second question is i have pimple on my arm how to i get them to go away?? And how do you get stretch marks to go away? THanks so much ill rate yall!
The things on your legs are most likely ingrown hairs. You just have to wait for them to go away. Try not shaving untill the disappear a little and you'll get a smother shave. Also put on a new blade. For the pimple on your arm, there is creams, etc, for body pimples and you should try those but theres no miracle cream. And for the stretch marks, they don't go away. They'll fade and there are creams out there to help them fade faster. Good luck!
What does it mean when your breasts are sore around your nipple area?! Does it mean they are growing? I'm 13, female. My breasts are already a C! So I thought I'd ask about this. Please help
It most likely means your breasts are growing. If there are excessive amounts of pain you may won't to see your doctor just to make sure. if big boobs run in your family (D or bigger), it just sounds like growing pains.
does anyone know the symtoms of ADHD? also, do you know of any sites that have those online tests for it? please give me sites giving info on ADHD if possible too. thank you soo much this is important i find out. i will rate ya a 5 :)
Symptons of ADHD mostly depend on the case. The case can also be Mild or servere. I know a ton of peaople with either ADHD or ADD. They also run in my family. Common symptonms are:
*Difficulty paying attention
*Easily distracted
*Figits a lot
Those are just the basics. Go to a site like webmd.com for more info. There arn't any online test that you can take. Go to your doctor. Good luck!
i want to get into fashion designing do you guys know a site or anything?? thank ya
For a site I don't know any off hand, but if you haven't really started anything in fashion designing yet, I suggest making a portfolio full of sketches, fabrics, pictures, etc. Good luck!
I'm not to sure what this falls under but I wanted peoples thoughts. I love kids, honest to God they are the best thing that has happened in my life (I don't have any). This lady at my church is having a baby in Oct. and has a 10 month old who is smaller for his size, anyways he will be staying with us more then likely. I have a two story house along with basement stairs and breakable stuff. Our house is not by any means baby-proof. Does anyone have any good ideas that don't cost a ton of money because this is probably only going to happen once and I don't expect on having children for another 15 years...LOL THANKS!
Megan
Going to Wal-mart, or target or some store of that sort will definatly get you on the right foot. I babysit a lot and I also have a three year old brother. I suggest gates in front of the stairs, some cushions for the side of tables, and basicly moving breakable/dangerous items to a higher level. Good luck and have fun with the little one!
I like this guy, he likes me back. He says he doesn't want to ask me out because asking people is out dumb because no one actually goes out or they stop talking. I'm not goin got ask him out because if he can't ask me out then he is going to be a bad boyfriend. He's had girlfriends before so it's not like he's not ready. WE are both in 7th grade. Any ideas on how ot approach him and talk about it?
First off, definatly talk to him. If you guys like each other you should try and make some thing work. You say know actually goes out, why don't you invite him to go somewhere with you. Somewhere simple and easy for the first date, like the movies. If the first date donesn't work out and he doesn't seem like he cares that your even trying to make it work, tell him that he needs to start caring. If he doesn't care, he's probably not going to be a great boyfriend. Good luck!