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im a 13/f and i have never kissed a boy in my life. I have never even gone out with a boy in my life. I have wavy brown hair and am about 5'4 with an athletic figure. I want to know if theres somthing wrong with me and why i cant get a bf. plz help me
There is NOTHiNG wong with you.
If you don`t liek a boy yet, that`s fine!
It doesn`t mean yer like lesbian or anything, haha. You just don`t have that intereset yet! You have bette things to do than that, right?
Hope I helped, love! But if there IS a boy out there that you fancy, then make a move and tell him!
how do you make out i know this might sound weird but i would like step by step instructions so that i will be thought as a good kisser.
-Make sure you FLOSS. No boy wants to eat and kiss at the same time [ew!]
-Do not have a mustache...wax that upper lip hair!
-Take a few mints before doing it, but don`t make it too strong.
-Apply a delicious flavored lip gloss [bubblegum, mint, cotton candy, candy apple, etc.]
-If you are going for an close mouthed kiss, practice holding your breath, because if you breathe [through your nose or your mouth] you WILL be labeled a dragon.
-If you want to OPEN mouth kiss [makeout, macking, french kiss, etc.] then when you start to slide your tounge into his, relax your tounge...no one wants a stiff, had thing darting/poking around in his mouth.
* stick out your tounge right now- relax it. then, gently move your tounge right, center, left, center and REPEAT! *
-Let the guy lead [;
-Always tilt your head RIGHT. If you haven`t already noticed, you two will be facing each other -_- and when you are, his head will be tilted right too, which would be YOUR left.
If you have any more questions, just mail me!
Hope I helped!!
Let me know what happens, love!
oh & congrats.
i`m sure he`s a hottie!
does anyone know a websibe that has myspace stuff (or a myspace layout site) that has just more than layouts and icons?
www.whateverlife.com
=D
my friend and i both use limewire, and our limewires will start up, but when we type in songs..no results come up
is there a problem with limewire? because i know this is happening to other people
i tried uninstalling and installing it again
and i just want my music
is there any way to fix this?
and if not..is there any other good programs to download music?
i tried bearshare but i didnt lyk it
thanks in advance
this is because limewire is being cancelled by the president since it is running most music stores out of buisness. it will not work unless you get a master hacker like such to install it. my brother installed mine & it`s the PRO one so yeah...
Sorry!
Try Ares!
Hope I helped!
My friend (age 20 girl) that I like told me that our friend chirs (age 22 boy) ask her out over the phone. I played it cool and ask her if she seems him in that way. she said "no" I relpyed "it'll be odd and its sick to picture it" she laughed and said "i wounder how it'll be like?" "uh i dont want to know, its giving me the chills" I said. "are you sure its not the wind?" (cause I said before the I was getting chills cause the wind was blowing.) she said with a teasing smile. I rolled my eyes "no" in a whisper.
Was she making me jealous?
She want`s trying to make you jealous; she was FLiRTiNG with you. If she told you that chris asked her our & she said no, then that`s a sign that she wants you to make a move.
trust me; girls like that.
So ask her out & see [=
Good Luck babe!
where can i get nice sunglasses? im a girl by the way. i dont want the cheapy plastic kind and im willing to spend up to $50. websites and stores would be much appreciated. : )
Well, if you go to Nordstrom Rack, Marshalls, TJ Maxx, or Loehmans, you can get the REAL designer sunglasses for around $30-$60! And trust me, they aren`t fake. The reason they are in these stores are because they ight have not sold all of them in the REAL stores, so they give it to those stores.
real thing.
great price.
you`ll look HOTT!
Trust me, love!
Are there any good stores like Alloy only cheaper? PLaces wear you can order online.
www.delias.com
www.platoscloset.com
www.target.com
Hope I helped!
I want to try Nair, the hair removal thing.
I don't want to buy the bikini line one, so I just want to but the plain Nair lotion. Can I use it on my bikini line? I mean, it says you can use this one anywhere, so why do they still make a bikini line one?
Thanks!
Kso, Nair SUCKS.
Just go get waxed.
But if you MUST, lol, you can use the nair lotion, but to be safe, just use the bikini one. There MUST be a reason they are two different ones, right!
I just bought new shoes for my choir program (we're going to New York) and my director told us today that our shoes are not allowed to clunk, mine do. Is there anyway to make the heels not make noises, or am i totally screwed and need to go buy new shoes?
Congrats on the choir gig, haha.
You guys should have fuN!
Anyways, the shoe that you are wearing should be PERFECTLY your size. And when you walk, don`t glide your feet; pick them up. Also, when you are around your director, walk on the soles of your feet!
If you REALLY don`t want to do any of these you can always buy rubbers [sounds wrong, i know] & put them under your shoes. It costs like $10 at your local shoe repair!
Hope i helped & good luck!
i'm lactose intolerant, so i can't eat anything with dairy. no cheese, no yogurt, no milk.
most of my favorite foods have cheese in them, and i can't eat them anymore. i can't eat mac & cheese, no more pizza, no more cheesecake, or cheese crackers (goldfish/cheesenips), or things like that. i can't even eat ice cream.
i can eat them, but i end up getting sick, and i hate it. what are things i can eat (that appeal to a teenager's taste) & that won't get me sick?
One word;
SOOYYYYYY.
Lol. It may sound gross, but you really can`t tell the difference!
Also, try going to diffrent exotic restaurants and try different foods, just making sure there are no dairy product in them! Then, you can determine what you really like & stick to that!
Also, there are pills for that!
Here you go;
Hope I helped!
16/f so there's this guy that i really like... i'm about 80% sure that he likes me... i used to be 100% positive... but latly i don't know... well anyways me and him were supposed to get together over the weekend but he stood me up... and never called... so i decided to ignor him and just blow him off... but i really like him and it really makes my day when he hugs me or anything... but i don't want him to think that he can ever do this again... so what do i do? how can i teach him a lesson while being close to him?
First of all, i`m sorry that happened to you;
no girl deserves to be treated that way.
Ok, so I think you should ignore him for two days STRAiGHT.
Then, talk to him.
Be straight up with him & tell him like it is.
Boys like that.
But the two or one day thing is a must.
But when you talk to him about it, don`t sound desprate.
on friday the colorado rapids played DC united. it was a really good game but i had to leave for work. can anyone tell me who won the game?
by the way for those of you who dont know..this is soccer im talking about
Rapids won 2-1.
yays.
hey-
i did somehting bad... accidental.. but bad (not like against the law bad but i tad gross and messaged up) and i lost all my friends and had to make new ones and swtiched schools, but my 'community' i guess you could call it is all linked somehow and everyone knows everyone! that measn that the word spread about me so fast that i could even blieve it! its been about 4-5 years later and people still talk bout it! and i feel so weird a stupid. like im popular at my new school i gess but when i look at people myspace i see that my 'old' friends are frieds with these really cool girls and i relize i cant be firends with them! and all the high school parties i cant go because im scard ppl will be mean or look at me or not be nice bc or wa i did ACCADENTLY 100 years ago! i dotn no wat to do! my mom doesnt get y im still hung up on it and my friends dont get it eiterh! its stupid i know but it keeps me up and idk what to do.
Woah, those people are retarded; they must have no other lives.
Ok, the thing is, you can`t just keep transfering, because then you are just running away from your problems.
Don`t be afraid to go places!
That`s a HORRiBLE reason to isolate yourself; if YOU honestly know it wasn`t your fault & you didn`t mean to then that is call that matters.
ALSO, for the nexxt person to give you a dirty look or whatever, go up to `em & be like;
What do you want from me?
& BE CONFiDENT!!
That`s all.
Don`t let these people take you don!
& Who CARES if you can`t be friends with some people? first of all, you CAN, and second of all, you can make such cooler friends from other places.
You should travel[;
But yeah!
Join a club or something because it sounds to me that YOU are the one isolating yourself and punishing yourself.
I did somehting....weird... 3 years ago. i was the most popular girl in my grade i was mean and then i did somehting really bad. (not like break the law bad but stupid) i lost all my friends. they dumped me! they were all so mean to be after i did an accadentl thing to them! i feel so abanded and till this day i feel so annoyed!
...what exactly is your question, hun?
Well, you should talk to them & tell them that you are VERY SORRY. & that what you did was an accident.
...maybe if you told me what you did i could help you more?
Ok heres the deal my sister has been going out with his guy marlon for a couple of monthes she says she loves him, but i don't really care i don't think she is happy, cause the only thing their relationship is based off of is humor, and that they are funny people and even funnier together. But i think she should stop going with him, i mean they always agruing and why would you want that! But he's cool and everything i just want her to be with chris brown they are a lot like each other and she knows if she could she'd take him over marlon any day! But should i just leave this situation alone or take action right away!? She said that chris brown is still awesome and everything,but she would never get the chance, but i am saving up all my money so that when chris brown new cd come out in august i can buy two copies one for her and me and then tickets to when he goes on tour for the album and maybe even backstage passes so that she can see that she was wrong and i know i'm exaggerating a little, but who cares! I don't even know if they will still be together by then,but if so and i save up my money and get this and my plan don't work i'm going to hurt marlon! Just kidding! Hahahaha!
...wait what are you kidding about?
Well, I think it is NONE of your buisness what your sister does.
Leave it alone.
It`s her life.
So, for the Latin Banquet [since I'm year 4 in Latin], I have to be a mythological figure. I was going to be Cleopatra but all the make up =X So I changed to Pandora. The thing is, I don't know what to write about Pandora. Like I need a short, short paragraph giving a brief description of myself. Like if I was Cleo, I would say something like "I'm the Queen of whatever and the lover of blah blah blah blah blah." I need something to say for me [Pandora]. I need it to be short, not serious but not totally frivolous. I need an in betweener that will describe Pandora. Anyone think of anything??
Ok, this is going to sound rude but you should SERiOUSLY do your OWN homework. Do some research;
Advicenators is for getting advice, asking our opinion on something, or getting help; not for doing you homework.
Sorry!
how do you get jeans to shrink?
Wash them in RLY hot water.
I hope this is where i go to put this. My hair is like frizzy. all the time and i hate it! how do I get it to be sleek and smooth? I use this get by matrix but its still frizzy
Kso, i kind of sort of have the same problem as you!
Ok, so first of all, when you get out of the shower, dab your hair with paper towels;
When you are iN the shower, then pout some ViNiGER on your hair, this prevents fly-aways and makes your hair more relxed.
Also, when you get out of the shower, NEVER rub your hair with the towel.
Try rinsing your hair with COLD water instead of hott;
it`ll do you good!
Hope I helped!
i have thick, straight, heavy hair, and i was wondering how to get it to look naturally curly. i've tried scrunching after showers, but it turns straight right away because it's naturally straight and because my hair sort of weighs the curls down because it's so heavy. it's past shoulder length, though if i cut it it'll still be heavy. are there any products, (no curling irons because i have so much hair it takes FOREVER) that i can use to get to look naturally curly? kinda wild, relaxed curls. thanks
If you do not like your straight hair, then you should Chemically Enhance your hair.
Just go to your local hair salon, and ask them if you could get a PERM. Then you would look even more beautiful than i suppose you do now!
Hope i helped!
Ok well my lips are soooo chapped and it bugs me more than being on my period. Don't ask. Anyone know how to get them to be not chapped fast??? thanks!
Carry a Chap Stick/carmex/lip-smackers/burts-bees around with you everywhere you go, and apply it like lip gloss.
the reason your lips get chapped is mostly because of the weather & dehydration.
Drink LOTS of water!
Also, every night before you go to bed, get a toothbrush, put vasoline on it, and rub your lips a little bit with the vasoline to keep your lips supple!
Hope I helped!