ask xo1234



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Hi, I'm here to give you advice on any topic. Just ask me advice. I recently just started giving advice on this website, but I have given advice before on another website. I'll answer all questions, with at least something. But I would really like you to give me feedback. Add me as a columnist, and I will add you back unless I for some reason do not like the advice your giving or find it offensive, which rarely happens! I hope everyone's problems get fixed an all is well! You can also click ask a question and just vent to me if you would like. All things on this column do not have to be just advice it could also be venting! Again please give me feedback! thankss!
Gender: Female
Member Since: May 5, 2006
Answers: 80
Last Update: August 16, 2007
Visitors: 6316

Main Categories:
School
Fashion and Styles
Love Life
View All

Favorite Columnists
lala456
i need some help. I want some help with hairstyles. I have medium brown straight hair and brown eyes. i can do a lot with my hair but im not great at it. i usually just wear my hair down. any ideas on some new hairstyles that are pretty easy? (link)
Im not sure if you mean a new haircut or just regular everyday so I'll give you both.
regular everday: up straight, half up and down straight, down straight, up scrunched, half up and down scrunched, down scrunched.

new haircut- angles, highlights, perm, side bangs.
I hope you find a new hairstyle soon!! Good luck.


Recently i have been thinkign about getting blonde highlights. I've seen many people with highlights, but some people have few highlights, or a lot, or highlights that appear to be wider (i guess lol)but the kind of highlights that i want to get are all over liek i DONT want to see a TON of my natural color liek you do in this picture:

www.markglenn.com/News/Bella_25_11_2003.htm

(i foudn it on yahoo)

but i want it all over...
how do u think i coudl describe it to the hair dresser? thanksss =)


peace and love (link)
thats streaks. I have highlights, I got a half a head, it doesn't make your hair look too blonde, but you can still see some of your natural hair color. a full might make it look like you dyed your hair. bring that picture to your hairdress and explain what you want and make sure you tell her/him that you do not want that. good luck and I hope you like your highlights


so there is this boy i like named brandon. and he just got out of a long term relationship with a girl who treats him like shit. he has liked me and i liked him for the longest time and he invited me over to play video games with him tomorrow. Since he is finally single and willing to make out and stuff i dont wanna just play video games. i wanna make out with him what should i do? (link)
flirt with him, or if you can invite 2 other friends, and tell 1 to dares you to makeout. don't come on too strong though. good luck


Okay I need help with batting, yes I've played baseball before, and I used to be the best batter on the team, but after 2 years of no practice, I suck at it. I have to way to practice batting without a pitcher, and I don't have one, my dad will not help and my brother is 3 so he can't and my mom sucks at base ball altogether how would I practice since I live in a town(the nearest city is like 30 miles away)small at that, unless I practice onnly at practice? and i'm 13/f. I'll rate 5 for good answers. thanks in advance, JJ (link)
Im sorry, I dont have much help for you but possibly a batting cage which I know could be hard because you said your far. Or you could try throwing the ball up and hitting it from there, I did that and it worked, I know it sounds dumb but it works. Have a friend over?Try teaching your Mom. If not than I guess you would have to practice at practice and maybe stay a little later/ go in a little earlier? Im sorry I couldn't help that much, I hope you find a way!


hypoglycemia and asthma, does anyone have both? how do you know if your dizzy from your peak flow being low or sugar? which do you handle first if your experiencing both at once?
a friend of mind has both information on both seperate and together would be great (link)
yeah. you just have to test your sugar to find out. Im not sure which to handle first though. I hope your friend feels better.


I'm part of a small community that's looking into getting their own wiki, and I'm their local tech person. Any recommendations on wiki software? I've already got a few possibilities in mind, but it's so hard to choose.

My criteria is something easy-to-use (WYSIWYG would be good, but not essential) and not too confusing. Search, page history, user groups/levels, and uploads are essential. An in-built or addon discussion module would be great, as would be easy customisation of looks. Wiki software would have to be either Perl or PHP, flat-file based or perhaps MySQL.

I've been using PMWiki as a personal wiki, but I'm interested if there are better alternatives out there -- currently considering OddMuse, DokuWiki, and TWiki (any opinions on these?)... I have considered MoinMoin, but our server doesn't support Python.

Suggestions much appreciated!

Suggestions? (link)
I have no idea what any of this means, I'm sorry. I tried looking it up and just got confused.


I want to make my image just a little more punkish/skater, but I don`t know of any places where people get band tees, and things like that. Does anyone know of any? (link)
hot topic, or the actual band stores, I think fye has some


ok I have AVG Anti-Virus software. The free version. I have some viruses in my virus vault that aren't healable. They arent really effecting my computer becuase it still runs smoothly, but I would like to know how to get rid of them(im not downloading any other programs so forget about that) There is a button that says wipe objects- what does that do? Will that get rid of the viruses? Will it erase the files? Will it effect my computer in any negative way? Thanks. (link)
If your not good with computers, don't touch it. a friend of mine did that and it wiped her computer, Im good at them so I was able to fix it but still. Your going to need to buy a virus software, sorry.


is there any sites were you could watch anime shows in english? (anime like fruits basket) (link)
Im still looking for you, sorry.


one of my best friends recently has gotten into the phase where she wishes she could have a boyfriend that will basically love her and live for her. and she took it pretty far where now whenever i try to talk to her, that's all she talks about and when i try to give her advice, she says that she doesn't feel like talking. yesterday, i tried giving her advice. i told her that you are not necessarily going to get the man of your dreams at age 13/14. everything happens for a reason and everyone has a perfect match, they just might not come until later in life. & i also told her that she should really accept her friends giving advice because if she actually took time to read and thought about it, i bet it'd really help. she keeps telling me that i don't understand even though it runs across my mind everyday. i basically want her to just think of me as a higher person, you know? so when i give her advice, she can really think about it and actually think i'm good & smart. i want her to think i'm a better person to come to so she can think, "hey, she is really good so i'm going to trust her with my problems." & we've known each other since preschool and recently became closer and now best friends. i know it's impossible to control what she thinks of me, but is there anyway, to i don't know...impress her to show her that i am better than what she thinks? i will rate super high if this is good adviceee. (link)
Hi, maybe your friend doen't always want advice, if I was you Id just try sometimes just listening to her, and occasionally agreeing. I know your trying to help her, but sometimes maybe all she wants to do is vent. Than when you actually do give advice, it'll be rare and she will listen. As for trusting with problems, you just have to show her you won't tell anyone. Tell her she can tell you anything and you won't tell anyone. Start telling her some of your problems, and see if you can trust her. I hope I helped. Good luck!


I really need help. My boyfriend of two years broke up with me a few weeks ago and it's getting really hard to handle. I knew that I'd be crying a lot and facing a lot of pain, I'm just in a really bad moment of pain.

I've been crying a lot every night because he has a new girlfriend and it really hurts to think about. I know that I should be talking to someone and I do have a really supportive family. I guess I'm asking if theres anything more that I could be doing at this point?

He had an away message talking about how much he loved his girlfriend and it set me off into depression. Can anyone help any further when it comes to dealing with a break-up? (link)
did he know you were online? hes probably trying to get you jealous, and it does work. you can't show him your jealous. just take it day by day, theres a lot of other guys out there.
you really just have to cry and let it out and always remember that your too good for him. I hope you feel better, I'm really sorry about your breakup


I'm looking for a Newspaper Archive website, that has articles that date back to the 1800s.

Trust me, Google and everthing else has nothing.

I had found one website, but you had to pay for it.

So it needs to be free.
Thank you if you can help. (link)
the only one I could find was: http://www.newspaperarchive.com/DesktopDefault.aspx

I'll keep looking and if I find more I'll let you know. I hope you find some, sorry I couldn't be much of a help.


ok,well,i have split(some) ends,but i dont have the time to cut them off.I heard there was this thing from fructics for split ends but i dont know the name.is there one from frutics and if so whats the name?thankyou :] (link)
Its garnier fructics, but my hair dresser said its bad for your hair because it coats your hair. If you don't cut them off they will just keep growing and eventually split up your hair. I hope you find a solution soon



i have AIM and me and my friend switch away messages and she sent me sumthing cool and i copy and pasted it and then it turned out plain and i didnt click paste plaintext, then i tryed copying other stuff and it did the same, someone help. i did update it. ohh and wen i sign on sumtimes this thing pops up and says unknown error, ohh and do u kno how to get rid of torjans virus??!

PLEASE help!!
i rate and give feedback (link)
unknown error happens to me a lot, it might be if your screen names are linked. as far as copy and pasting try left clicking with the mouse and click copy, and do that twice and than click paste. Im not sure about trojan viruses, but Im pretty sure you need an antivirus program. I hope I helped!!


i just broke up with my boyfriend because one of his close friends told me many things he's been doing behind my back and my boyfriend called me to tell me he loves me and that's all not true, his voice was so sad.. how do i know which one's telling the truth?!! ! please i need help (link)
Do 3 way on the phone and let the close friend and your exboyfriend work it out. But make sure you listen to what they say. I hope it works out for you


How do you care for a pet monkey? (link)
Why do you want a pet monkey? Its illegal first of all, and not a good idea. You could get in A LOT of trouble. So my advice is don't have a pet monkey.


ok, here's the situation: i was at a dance Friday night and i met this girl(whoo hoo!), and i got her phone number. I said that i would call her sometime.
what i was wondering is when i should call her. should i wait 2-3 days or do it right now? and when i do call her, what should i say? Should i be like "hi, remember me from friday?" or what should i say? (link)
Wait a day or 2, no more. You want to look interested but not desperate. When you call her say Hi, its _____ we met at the ___ dance friday. wait for her response. Than just take it from there.


I seem to have a really big belly the rest of me is alrite im not overweight i just have a huge bulge and its my belly sumtimes i luk pregnant!!!! (link)
When you exercise concentrate on that area. Don't over do it though.


okay if i wanted to photoshop my head on a cartoon how do i do that??


automatic five (link)
The only site I know if is: http://www.photoshopnerds.com/
But I think therre is a program in word, I also heard there was one in adobe. Sorry I couldn't help you that much. I hope you find the program!


Hey I'm a junior and planning to take an SAT II soon. Maybe Biology or Math 1. What kind of books are good for preperation? I know theres Barrons and The Princeton Review, but I'm not sure which one to get, or any others.

Has anyone tried any or more of those books? I'm looking for one with a lot of examples and practice - with explanations. Any help is appreciated, thanks. P.S. - does College Board make a prep book for subject tests? (link)
I can't really answer this question because I honestly don't know but I would type in SAT II prep books on google.com make sure you type it in quotes, you'll get better results. I hope everything works out for you and I'm sorry I couldn't be a better help.




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker