Ok well, here is the deal... I started talking to this girl online, we talked every day, and night, we eventually became liking eachother, so after a few weeks of joking around, I decided to ask if it could be 'for real' as a relationship, She is 14, and I am 24. I know it's a bit of a age different, and no, I am not a pedophile, I never usually like people younger than me, just it's.. She acts more mature and it's really easy to talk to her, and listen to her. We have really great conversations, but we never met, but then one day, we decided to meet, and she brought a few friends with her... the whole time she avoided me, yeah I was shy also, but I would've talked to her if she wasn't avoiding me, cause I could tell she didn't want to be there with me, I mean, she did, but she didn't... and I know she's had past relationship problems, but I guess, maybe I was just another problem in a relationship, and I really fell in love with her, before we even met and she means the world to me, I just don't know what to think, she only lets me talk to her, if I ask her on this, but she speaks as if she don't know me, and I don't know what to think, any advice? P.S. She talks to me still, but don't tell me her true feelings, and acts like nothing happened, but she don't talk as much or act the same.
My adivce is this, run now! I know you like her, but you are just waiting to get arested. If you think she could be in your life someday, then just talk to her online for a few more years and wait till she's legal. I know its hard, but it is the best thing to do to avoid ruining each others lives.
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Well, tonight was my fourth time having sex. It hurt a little at first but then it kinda felt pretty good. It hurt very bad the first 3 times.
It felt like i wanted to like scream [in a good way]
I was wondering if this is normal? cuz i always heard it hurts until the 10th time. But, maybe a myth? hah.
Well, thanks =]
It's a total myth that it turns until the 10th time. I started enjoying it by the 3rd time. The most important thing to enjoying sex is that you are connected mentally with the person you are having it with, its so much better that way.
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My mom has this best friend and we go to his house all the time. My mom says we'll be livng there soon. Well anyway... he has to sons one is 19 and one will be 18. When I am there I feel wierd like my face gets like hot and red. Is that normal for a 13 year old girl??
It is perfectly normal hun. At your at guys are very important, even if you don't know it yet, and older boys may embarress you in some way. It is normal to be shy around guys that much older then you. The most important thing about this is make sure you keep everything in a brother and sister kind a way, when you move in don't let them take advantage of you in anyway. I'm not saying they are bad people or anything, but you never know.
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this is for my sister. she married a pakistani and he has really ruined things here in the US. he has broken so many laws, and he took another wife which is illegal. he thinks it is fine. and he is ruining her life, he is abusive ( but the police won't do anything) and he is a big hacker, and just the worst of people. i don't like to see him taking advantage of america, and he IS breaking so many laws. what can i do??? please please help. ps. he is illegally working. thank you for your help.
Well the first thing you need to do is get your sister away from him. This is a problem that occurs in many marriages when the cultures are totally different. I'm not saying he is a great person, but the way he acts is influenced by the way he was raised. If he is not here leagally then call the immagration offices.
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i am usually depressed & never happy ! im always crying & NEVER in a good mood . i think about suicide WAY to much . sometimes i think its my only option . help me please
Suicide is never the answer, it is the selfish, whimpy way out. You need to talk to a profesional that can help you, but the first step to that is admitting to your parents that you have a problem. I'm sure they already know, but just sit down and talk to them.
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Ok me and my girlfriend plan to have sex soon, the thing is that it is both of are first time and i know that sometimes it can be painful or uncomfortable for the girl. so i need some tips and advice on how to make it less painful/uncomfortable for her so she can enjoy it to the full. i dont like the idea of hurting her
My best advice to you is for you to wait! I'm not sure how old you are, but it is going to hurt her no matter what and if you wait you will minimize the emotional hurt, but the physical hurt will be the same. I wish I could tell you there was some magic way for you to make it great for her, but there just isn't.
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me & my boyfriend have been having sex for awhile now. & he used a condom everytime, but the last time we did it he used the heated one and it broke but we really didn't realize it. & i know he def cummed. what are the chances i'm pregnant? i'm really scared =x
please help
thanks
My first sugestion would be to visit a planned parenthood office and get a script for the morning after pill, it can be used up to 72 hours after an acident, but it is no longer usefull once the egg is implanted.
The other bit of advice I have is to not worry too much, or else you will start imagining symptoms of pregnancy. Just chill out till it's period time, then if its a few days late, buy a test. It's best to buy them in packs of 2.
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what is the average size penis for a 13 yearold. i just kinda nervous my girl might think it's small so i was wonderin... yea, id apreciat some help
First of all I really don't think a 13 yr old is even ready to be having a girl see his penis. I don't want to sound like I'm preaching, but sexual acts should wait because they have many consenquences that you will like. Even oral sex can lead to STD's for instance. I know right now you may think you love the girl you are with, but trust me from experience, save sexual experiences for later on in life!
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Alright i am a 15 year old girl. im pregnant. i have a great boyfriend. i dont get along with my dad or little brother. my mom and dad are getting a divorce. i choice to move with my mom. and my little brother choice to live with my dad. just recently i started cutting again. i no its not good and i talked to my boyfriend about it and ive been trying so hard to stop but there is so much drama. i just cry and i want to do it so bad. but i can i promised my boyfriend i wouldnt. my mom and i are moving out the end of the mnth. so i wont have to put up with my brother or my dad any more. but thats to long i cry everyday! and i want to cut everytime i cry or get angry. i need help!! and im crying out for help. i dont want to go talk to someone. i have a fear of talking to someone i dont know! so hopefully you guys can help me!
I think the first issue that you need to come to terms with is the pregnancy. Teen pregnancy is very unhealthy, both physically and mentally, but it is a blessing anytime a child comes into the world. The biggest thing you need to be consentrating on right now is doing what is right for the child in side of you. I'm not promising the pain will go away once you give birth, in fact it will most likely get worse and you will want to cut more, but please just resist for the sake of your child.
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I am bulimic. Does God hate me for it?
It's a sin.
Just because your bulimic you should not at all think that your condition is a sin. I use to force myself to throw up, but then I stopped after going to counseling and honestly, that would be what I suggest for you.
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is spaying and neutering a pet wrong?
Every pet should be fixed, enless they are a show animal or you are planning on breeding them. It is healthy and it helps controll the animal population.
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Well I have dated this guy for about 3 months and i fell in lvoe with him but I had found out that one of my crushes from before liked me and i did stuff with him too and broke up with my ex because i felt so guilty. The thing is no one will ever treat me as well as he has or does but my feelings ffeel like they are fading yet I dont't want to lose him...I am so confused about what is going on and what i should do. I will always remember him and honestly NO ONE will EVER treat me well like he does
Ok first of all, I'm not sure how young you are, but you don't seam that old. I want to tell you that as teenagers, we fall in "love" very easy. If you broke up with this guy then it is probably for the best, but in the end you have to trust your heart.
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