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OK. I have this little problem because I like this guy who is younger than me by like 10 months. People say it's not cool to date younger guys but I don't care. So here's my problem: I like him a lot, but I wanna be more than internet friends. I know him and he knows me, we go to the same school, but we don't talk in school, only online. And one time, my friends told him that I liked him and he said "Don't say that or else I'll throw up in my mouth" but that was a long time ago and he said sorry for it and I forgave him but now I'm feeling mized emotions again. I like him a lot, but at the same time I wanna hate him. What should I do? Still talk to him? Not talk to him at all? Or not be friends? I'll rate anything please!! I really need help... (link)
dont worry if you like him date him if you dont give him a shove!!!!!!!!!!!


Okay.. none of my friends were help on this. See if any of you are!

I've been with this guy for almost 2 months. He's in LOVE with me and totally obsessed. I hate clingy guys and I'm sick of him. He calls like .. 5 times a day.. AT LEAST .. and is Always wanting to hang out. I barely have time for my girls with him around!

I need a way to break up with him so he won't be too upset, and he will still be friends with me. I still like him, and i've already told him he's too obsessive, but it didn't help any! I need a way to let him down gently!

!mucho amor! (link)
no sense in being nice. like we say at my skewl chump him out(kick him to the curb hard honey,b/c next thing you know you wont have any friends except for him and if he's doing this to you he's really not a friend!!!!!!!!!!!


hey i got my belly button pierced on new years....i just took it out a while back and now i want to get it re-done.....is it going to hurt worse the second time because of scare tissue? or will it not hurt as bad because there are no nerves in the skin.....help! hahah (link)
not sure!!!!!!!!!!!


I am 13 and a female. I like this one guy who is one of my friends. He has liked every other of my friends except me out of all my friends (not trying to be self centered or anything) I seem like i'd be bettter with him because we have a lot of things in common. we have weird things in common about our family and grades etc. we just seem like we'd be really good together. i have liked him for a couple of years now and he most likely knows that. Why would he not like me? (link)
he should but he might be scared of commitment!!!!!!!!!!!


People say opposites attract, do people who are alot alike attract just as well? (link)
yes sometimes better than opposites!!!!!!!!!!!


Tomarrow there is a feild trip! To Canobie Lake Park!! Im afraid of going on the rides!! but i really want to! im only 4"6 would i be tall enough? [please dont make fun of me because im short ]] (link)
yes!!!!!!!!!!!


ive been dating this guy for 5 months&we really got to know eachother before we even started dating. he ended up getting grounded over the summer for failing spanish&we havent gotten to see eachother since then. we decided it was pointless to date over the summer if we never got to see eachother, so we went on a "break". i think he might be interested in this other girl he just met. she plays basketball with him&his friends all the time. i dont know if he just thinks of her as a friend or more. he said he wants to start dating again as soon as he's allowed to see me again, but i don't know if i should or not. what if he has or had feelings for the other girl? should i trust that he really does care about me&want to stay with me? (link)
he would rather be with you!!!!!!!!!!!


one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand? (link)
write me back without the ugly words please thank you


alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it? (link)
sweetie giing oral sex and anal sex means that youre still avigin you cant be halfway in between.


i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing? (link)
go see your doctor!!but let me tell you i didnt start mine until two full days after my 15th birthdayso dont worry to much! talk to your mom she will help!!!!!!!!!!!


ohk i have a bad case of ashy elbows ... anyhome remedies to make them less dry ?? thnx (link)
lotion


i dont know if someone already answered my ? but i cant find it so ill type it again. theres this girl that is 15 and she called me a loser and a freak a lot last year. now shes all over me. she squeezes my cheeks and she calls me cute and gives me a lot of hugs. shes goin away for the summer and she was sad that i was leaving. i think she maybe was crying. i dont know what to do. i dont want her to think that im a freak by askin her if i like her but all i think about is her. what should i do????? (link)
tell her that you dont lie all of that attention and that you need so spac!!!!!!!!!!!


What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy. (link)
honey have u got alot to learn about the ladies! tell her how you feel give her this website and my advice colum. she will fall for you just let her know how you feel!!!!!!!!!!!


Hey me and my friend are having a party and we want some good ideas because we dont want it to be way lame. nothing corny like clowns and baloons. but we are 14 and its a boy/girl party and its going to have alot of people so keep that in mind thanks. (link)
good music no beer no smoking no sex and no fighting. have a good time. and remember, making out is ok, babies are cutier when youre married!!!!!!!!!!!


Hi, I take dance class and I'm in the marching band. And I have dance tonight and I'm also supposed to play at graduation. Dance is from 5-8 and graduation is from 6-whenever. So I can't do both. But I have to, lol. For dance, my show is June 17, and I just got new pointe shoes, and I need to go to dance as much as possible to break them in, in time for the show. But I have to go to band, too, because we're turning in our uniforms afterwards. And plus, my band director gets really mad if you don't go to these kinds of things, except if it's an emergency or something (ex. having surgery, family death, etc.) So I don't know what to do! I'd rather go to dance if that helps. I was thinking about asking my mom or dad to drop off my uniform after graduation and telling my band director I was sick. Oh, and if I miss a dance class, I have to make it up, and I HATE making up classes. So what should I do? Please help.
x3 Erin (link)
dear x3Erin,
g\irl i cant believe how much we have in common dance and band!i think you should go to grad. b/c if you can make up a class thogh its hell grad. is a one time thing. plus you can break in your shoes at home!!!!!!!!!!!


Lately, I have to pee all the time. I used to only have to go once a day. Now I have to go once every hour. Anyone know why this sudden change has occurred? Should I be worried? I'm 18 female if that helps. (link)
dear friend go to your doctor immedeately know questions asked b/c you might have a bladder infection!!!!!!!!!!!


My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!

PLease answer!!
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dear friend,
there is nothing you can do. give him the time and spce needed to work things out!!!


okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?
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dear scared,
i wouldnt wait. go see ur dr. dont wait until ur missed period! and i would defanately STOP HAVING SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SAVE URSELF THE HURT!!!




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