Whats up? I'm Aleasa and I love to give advice and help people! I'm 15, 5'4", hazel eyes, and long brown hair. I like to sit in my room when its dark and listen to Queensryche (no NOT Queen), Great White, Quiet Riot, Metallica, and Guns~n~Roses, etc. I also like to hang out with my sexy boyfriend Chad, eat, and play video games. Video games I like to play are: Metal Gear Soild, Blood Rayne 1 & 2, Final Fantasy etc.. um yeah anyways, got any questions for me, feel free to ask!
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I think I have depression. I'm crying right now, and I'm not even sure why. I've been thinking about dea and searching on the internet for ways to commit suicide just now. I feel as though my life isn't worth living, I'm getting worse at school and I'm not going to ever get a job or get married because I'm worthless. I've always been shy but instead of acting upset and stuff in front of people I try to act happy so they don't notice that I feel so low, but it hurts, I feel as though they don't care even though they probably have no idea. I can't tell them, my friends are immature and just wouldn't understand. I feel as though everything's my fault, and like I'm the worst person in the world. I keep taking my anger out on my dad, I don't want to but sometimes I really can't help it; he was staring at me today and I just started yelling at him, it's like I've gone mad because I never used to shout at all. I don't ever go out anymore and I find chatting and going out boring and pointless. I can't ever concentrate on things for long; even television and chatting to people. I've got into a sleeping pattern a few months ago where every day, I can't sleep until at least 2:30AM, even on schoolnights, and then I go to bed because I'm so tired when I get home from school, and my parents won't let me have time off school to get into a normal pattern again. I've also been thinking about self-harm, I don't do that yet because I'm not sure how to, but I'm going to find out because I have nothing better to do. PS I've been feeling like this for about 4 months now, and no-one has noticed how I feel :| I'm really sorry this is so long but I need help. (link)
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you know what, i was the same exact way as you are right now, i was like this maybe 11 prolly more months ago, i was like that for 4 years for reasons i'm not going into. but i used to tell myself that i was worthless and will never get married, and i'd cry for no reason and stuff all the time. but i never cut myself, please don't do self-mutliation. whats best to do is what i never did until i got a boyfriend...tell people...your dad, your mom if you have sisters or brothers tell them, tell someone, get a counsler or something. i really hope i've helped you, i'll pray for you. don't think no-one notices, because someone always does, it took me forever to relize this, but like i said, i was the same exact way you are right now.
-Aleasa
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(15/f) My friend totally didn't invite me to his 16th birthday party. It's actually a couple of us that weren't invited, we're all on his tennis team and we've known him since 7th grade when I showed him around the school, on his first day. We hung out a lot freshman year, not As much this year but still. I saw him everyday. nI actually went through a stage of liking the kid, and he liked me for awhile to. Basically, we've *my friends and I that weren't invited* laughed about it but it still hurts! How can we 'jokingly' approach him about it? It's tonight so we're talking about asking him on monday. And he knows that we know about the party. But he doesn't know that we know he knows that we know, so how do I sorda make him feel kinda bad about it w.o making a big deal. thanks!
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Don't make people feel bad about not inviting you, thats selfish, i say GET OVER IT!!!!! you can't make someone feel bad without makeing a big deal of it, so just get over it, let it slide, its not a big deal it was his choice you'll have to live with it...so bascially get over yourself.
-Aleasa
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hi my parents left at 12 this afternoon and theyre not coming back till like 1 am and im reeealy hungry i havent eaten anything ive been saving my appetite for a pizza and my sister was supposed to drop of my nephew but i guess hes not coming and i want to order a pizza but im scared cuz im all alone and i dont want him to kill me and my house isnt safe and i dont want strangers coming in and im scared =( should i order the pizza anywys? (link)
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order the pizza, lol i have to say thats cute how your freaking out about ordering a pizza, but i think you'll be fine, just go ahead and order, you'll be ok.
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ok well my bf and i have been dating for about 3 months and valentines day is around the cornor and i don't know wat to get him! i don't want to get him something really stupid that hes not gonna like but i want to get him something that shows i really love him! so if u have any ideas! let me know! thanks a bunch
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Make him a really BIG cookies maybe shaped in a heart, its better (in my opinion) to make a big sugar cookie, cause then you can decorate it and what not, belive me, he'll like it...well every boyfriend i've given a giant cookie does so yeah! have fun, and good luck.
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ok yea hi there ok well im worried about my older sister shes 14! and shes in highschool and shes ALWAYS hanging out with seniors and she ALWAYS has guys over at the house and she has a bf and hes like one of my best friends ever! and they have been dating for a couple months now and im just worried about her cuz when she goes out she goes with seniors and they go get drunk and im afraid that sumtime she mite have sex with one of them! and if they do her bf will be really uppset and i don't know who to side with my sister or my best friend! HELP (link)
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Tell her how you feel, and if your sisters ends up getting into that mess, the best thing you need to do, is go to your parents and tell her, you could up saveing her life and virginity.
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Hey, so here is the thing. My BF and I were really happy, we loved eachother (and still do.) but what happened was he was supposed to move to virginia last month. So we broke up b\c we didnt want a long distance relationship. But then he ended up not movin. He told me this recently and now the girl who ALSO wants him is makin moves b\c we are not officially together again! So now the girl, Amber asked him to the dance and he said YES!!! But then he kissed me and said he wud go with me!!! I feel bad for him cuz hes hot and ever1 want him but i feel bad for ME b\c my bf MIGHT me a playa! What in the world should i do?!?!?!?!
I WILL RATE PLEASE REPLY!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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First off, the whole give him sex advice that XxXhypergirlXxX gave you, that is definatly a not, he would still cheat on you if you gave him sex, and sex before marriage is so dumb, anywho. Sounds like your boyfriends two-faced, I don't think he really loved you, if he did you would be back together again and he would have told the girl no. And another thing, looks are nice, but being hot isn't everything, in the end looks don't matter and hot fades away. And no i'm not some 30 something year old women...i'm 15, i just opened my eyes sooner.
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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
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I think you should tell him the truth, and i understand it will be sooo hard for you, i can imagine how hard it would be. But if he truely cares for you, then it won't matter that you were raped...well it will but it won't bother him, he'll try to be understanding and try to comfort you.
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my friend who i told that i liked him asked my friend for my number. she gave him the wrong number. so he asked her for my number? does this mean he is shy?! and if so how do i open him up a bit? (link)
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I think it does mean hes shy, and you can't open someone up unless they want to open up, nice thought though.
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my friends say i should be more affectionate with my cursh because he likes me! what should i do?! how can i be affectionate?! (link)
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Do what you want to do. Don't worry about what your friends think or what they want you to do. this is your life not theirs, go with your heart, do what you want to do.
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i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off. (link)
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ok, i had to ask my mom for this one, shes a red head with brown eyes also. she said that green works. sorry if i'm mistaken....later!
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well i went out with a guy for about 7 months. then we broke up. i really love him and he always tells me that he still loves me and misses me. he was acting like he wanted to go back out w/ me. so i tryed to get him back but last night i found out that he wouldnt go back out w/ me. now there are two really hot guys that want to go out w/ me. but i still love my ex-boyfriend. i like the two other guys a lot but i dont want a boyfriend because im still not over my ex. now i dont know wut to do!! what do u think? what guy should i go w/ or none at all?
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Dearest, if your still not over your ex and don't want to have another boyfriend yet, then simply don't. tell them your not over your last break-up and you need sometime. if they are worth haveing as a boyfriend they'll wait for you. and as for your ex, sounds like a big jerk, you can find someone much better, good luck.
-Aleasa
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I'm 13 years old, and I'm bleeding "down there". i'm afraid, and I live with foster parents I dont really know yet. What do I do?!! I don't know whats going on!
signed,
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Dearest, every girl at sometime or another bleeds "down there" and I understand how scarey/embaraasing it is. I tried to hide it from my mom. But anyways.... don't be afraid to tell your foster parents....if you don't want to tell both go to your foster mom, she'll understand and she can help you with it, don't worry about it that much though, its not that bad after awhile.
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