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i'm trying out for highschool cheerleading this year, and it's a pain in the ass,it's super hard to make.
soo, any tips?! (link)
Well do as many flips hand springs hand stands splits and all that during the tryout smile while doing the cheer look at the judger person be fit and practice make all your tryouts dont mess up do great stuff during the cheer and thats all on the top of my head

hope i helped

- Samantha white a 14 yr old


ok so me and my boyfriend broke up and im over him in a romantic way but i still wanna be friends he hasnt talked to me sine we broke up but i wanna talk and i wanna be friends
how do i do that without seeming needy and desprate like i want him back because i dnt
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yes you can but wait awaile to get over each other

- Samantha White a 14 yr old


This might be long...
My friend, I'll call her K, and I REALLY want to create a baby-sitting business. She can be irresponsible sometimes. We are really going to do this, but I have a few questions.
1. When would be a good time to start
2. A name? We had Iris Sitting Club because we do mother's helper, babysitting, and pet-sitting. Help?
3. Is 2 members enough? When I was little, I read the baby-sitters club books: this is the same thing except with mother's helper and pet-sitting
4. Any ideas? We need all the help that we can get!
5. There is an auction at my church, a service auction. We want to auction off a package of services, but how would it work? Which member? How much initially $ wise? How long?
HELP! (link)
1. Anytime

2. Babysitting and Pet sitting co.

3. You should get more than 2 at the begining its fine but when ur getting further in your buisness you'll need lots of help

4. Make posters, kid kits for the kids, games

6. Well you can do $3 and hr per person or $1 and hr if you have lots of hrs of babysitting for that 1 kid


- Samantha White a 14 yr old


Okay, so i've known this guy for about three years now. He's two grades ahead of me. we dated over summer, and i didn't know i liked him so much until we began "talking" again this year. he got mad because i couldn't ALWAYS go to his house, and couldn't meet up with him 24/7.he said we had to stop "talking" because he flirts around. and hooks up with other girls to much, and he wouldn't want to hurt me. on the other hand, we still talked, as f riends. but still flirted. then he stopped texting me one day and i wondered why...... a few weeks later i bumped into his at the local mall,and he said hey, and i responded saying hey back. well, i was really getting over this ignoring me thing, and i was wondering the whole time why though...... well today i was on myspace.com and i went to his myspace profile to see what's new. turns out he has thing new GORGEOUS cheerleader girlfriend. and, i was just getting over him. and now i feel like crap again. what should i do to get over him, and stoip thinking about him?
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find a guy to make him jelous with the guy must be gorgeous tho or it won't work


I'm going to california in march and i want to look good in a bathing suit.
I need to lose some weight. I'm not like crazy over weight, i just need to lose at least like 10 or 15 pounds.
I live on campus at a college and they dont always have the best food...
What are some suggestions to losing weight and getting in good form? (link)
excersize dont go on no diet it will just be un healthy


heya im that guy who posted the questions "its not quite love but i think about her, what is it? :S" and "ahhh! everyone knows!! XD what do i do hahaha" well anyways.. both of those questions were about this one girl who i'v recently started liking, since those questions iv made a little progress, iv told that "I think i like you" because im not sure because im so confused right now. she got a little red faced and start stuttering which i thought was sweet because i think she likes me a little too. we'v both said that we want to get to know eachother better which was great it made me really happy beacuse we had allready planned to go into town on friday this week (which is probably today if your reading this now) but about 2 hours ago she told me that she couldnt go :( its for a good reason though she had to plan somthing with her family. but im feeling a little sad about it, i was really looking forward to seeing her and being able to actually try and talk to her and just her for a while so I could get to know her and her get to know me. we only see eachother in college and thats not exactly the best place because everyone in my class knows i like her so they like to say little things every now and then to try and make me get all embarassed which is kinda funny but not quite what i want. i walked back some of the way home with her today after college which was nice, we had a little bit of smalltalk about course work and stuff we said on msn to our freinds but nothing major, i was feeling really good about friday untill she said :( what do i do now? organise another day to go into town with her? is it probably better to do that? because on of me freinds just invited himslf along lol.

hotsauce if your reading, please help ^_^ youve been really helpfull with my other 2 questions what are your thoughts on this situation kus i cant get a straight thought it anywere with out thinkin ill be missing her or somthing :( (link)
well when she blushed it ment that she liked you she probley wanted to go to just ask her to go somewhere else then you can get to no her hopfully its all gonna work out

- Samantha White a 14 year old


PEACE


i brush my teeth every day and floss everyday too. but for some reason i feel like my breath smells terrible always. im always chewing gum and mints but after i finish with them my breath feels funky again. i dont know if its all in my head but i really do feel my mouth smelling and being dry. even if i dont chew gum or mints, like after i brush my teeth and then go to school, i always taste a really bad taste on my teeth. i know its definetly not from the toothpaste. midday it happens too if ive had a snack or even if i didnt.. i cant describe what it tastes like other than to say it tastes likes garbage. and when i drink my water from my waterbottle, i can taste the grossness i taste on my teeth. i really dont know what could be the problem. i honestly take really good care of my teeth and have exquisite hygene. i would never not take care of my mouth/body so thats why im so concerened about this problem. im also really nervous if someone kisses me if theyll also taste what i taste. what could be the cause of this awful taste/bad breath? has anyone else experienced this bad tasting teeth thing when they slide their tounge on their teeth? what are some solutions? PLEASEEEE HELP! (link)
i have bad breath too my mom says it smells like a dogs breath so i eat a mint and ask her and she says it smell bad. but you cant taste bad breatht if you fell th gunk on your teeth its cuz you have plaque orwhatever its called theres nothing wrong with your breath


are there any websites that let you write to people your age from other countries? like a penpal sort of thing?

i used to have BearShare and only used it for the instant messaging feature but i got a new computer and i haven't been able to re-download it.

but i really enjoyed talking to people from Europe mainly because i speak english and french. (link)
theres one called friendshack


hey hey hey. im in this literature class and we are supposed to start writing a short story. i came up with this idea like this girl had it all and then one day she is forced to move to this school across the state and its "in the hood" and stuff. she is depressed and tries to O.D. but i am not like this at all. i would never even think of O.Ding so i have no idea which drug to use...so what would be a believeable drug to have Nicole take? (link)
well how bout an antibotic and she takes to many of them. She took it to cure her headace and didn't read the directions and popped 5 in her mouth


where can i buy hard candy nail polish offline? (link)
hot topic


Hi Im female and Im 17. The problem is that my mom is choking me and my space. She always wants to know everything...I have a job as tutor and make some money. She always asks me when I get payed and she always gets in my business calling people to scream at them to pay me (which is rude) and i know they´ll pay me later I have no problem with that. She is always going through my backpack too she cant see a paper in my room cause she´ll look at it. She is always asking me questions at the wrong times like when Im doing my algebra homework shell come and start talking and asking me questions which doesnt allow me to think at all. And when somebody calls me she always needs to know who it was and what it was for and if i dont tell her she gets mad saying that im horrible. If I asked her all of those questions she would get really pissed off (I know cause i tried it once) Its driving me nuts she is also so needy she´s always calling me to do a lot of stuff for her like repair the t.v. or other utensils or do my brother´s project because, according to her, "Im the brain of the family" its annoying and it makes me feel bad...like if im supposed to be a full grown up and an expert in everything which im not and when i cant do it...she insults me...really bad...please help me...what can i do? (link)
tell her how u feel and tell her to lay off


gggrrrr!!!! i dont know if i like him because i thought i did but now im thinking diffrent and urg!!
begining we started talking over myspace and he goes to my school hes a grade lower than me.. we talk on im alot and we talk occasionaly at skewl. i see him all the time and i think about him because hes awsome and funny -but- i dont know if i acually like him... its just weird because i have mixed emotions about this i could like him one minute then not the next... i am looking for a guy who loves me unconditionably and who loves me crazily but i dont know if hes that guy at all but idont really know...
im kinda mad at him right now because i dont know why but i think he was mad at me first because i always want to talk to him on im but hes like never on then he tells me at school one day that hes gonna get on after his haircut but i totally fergot to tell him that i was bizzy so i get on later and hes on and i think he was mad...
is it because he was really wanting to talk to me or if it was because i always tell him to get on and when he is on that im not and i think he was acually think he was mad before that... like he was like \"cranky\" one day i was talking to him and i dont know if it was becuase OK- hes akwayz talking about he needs to find a girlfriend and hes all lonely and such- and i dont know if hes mad at me for not saying anything yet or something becuz somethings really not rite any more.... i dont know wat he thinks and i deffinatly dont know what i think.. i dont even think i like him...
but asking for advice on him.....
urrrggg!!!! so confusing!!!!
*do i like him?
* does he like me?
*why isnt all diffrent now?
* is he like mad er something
*what is he thinking?
*does he think of me when i think of him?

ok i knew he liked me at one point just the way he would just talk to me triend to be funny and what not... but now... im confussedd....
i dont know how many questions this is and i know its long but i acually dont know what i want answered.... i amm sooo connfuzzled!!!!
i just need answers on thee whole story!!!! (link)
1. you like him it seems
2. ask him
3.
4.ask him
5. nobody noes inless ther a mind reader
6. probaly ask him


It's a VERY long story, but basically, I need (yes, it's need, not want) about $200 by the end of the month. I don't think I can raise it at all. I'm only 14, so I can't get a job, and even if I could, my mom wouldn't let me because of school :(. It's becoming impossible to find a job as I weed out what I am able to do and what I'm not. I can't drive, so whatever it is has to meet my MOM's schedule. It's too cold outside to do lemonade stands but it doesn't snow down here so I can't shovel snow. We live in one of those neighborhoods where everyone hires COMPANIES to do their yardwork, so that's out. Our neighborhood also, majorly unfortunately, is made up of older people with grown up kids, so I can't babysit! It's really hard to find things to do for money. My mom said she'd pay half of it if I raised at least 100, but at this rate, I don't think that's going to happen :(. Please help me, I can't think of ANY ways to raise money! Help! All answers are accepted and rated :) (link)
well the library has workers that are 14 or older and you get payed. Dog walking babysitting

hope i helped


Hey I'm looking for a song that i can sing for my audition for the school musical. The musical is the Robber Bridegroom. Most the time when I sing I sing a little flat, so I really just want a song that can make me sound decent enough to at least get a part in the chorus. I'm defiantly an alto, and the director likes it better when people audition with songs that aren't like super popular. Any suggestions on an alto song that will make me sound decent enough to at least get in the chorus??? (link)
follow me by uncle cracker or how do i by lee ann rimes there both pretty good songs

p.s. i hope you do good.


I must say this is not easy to explain.

So at first I was bi-curious, meaning...I had thoughts of wanting to have sex with someone of the same sex. It is really a feeling that one has when it comes to wanting to have sex with a person of the same sex.

When I was bi-curious I questioned if these feelings were normal and the more I told myself that perhaps it is just some kind of phase I was going threw I just needed to satified myself by wanting to try it.

What happens next.....After months and then it turned into years of being bi-curious I finally decided to have sex with a girl-friend who was bi-sexual. To be honest I felt strange doing it the first time, BUT then I grew to enjoy it so much.

I enjoy having sex with both man/woman....my preferance will always be with a woman because we are more sensual and soft...men are also sweet...but a woman can get u so hot...ohh my god!

So being bi-sexual is not something you can see from the outside in opposed to gays and lesbians.
Being bi-sexual is a sexual prefence..which means you can be straight and be bi privately.

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this really not helping me because im only 13 and stuff but some times i look at girls but and slap ther asses tell them there pretty and i like there hair and check out ther but and boobs does that mean im bi


so i'm 16 turning 17 in like 2 weeks and i've come to the conclusion that i need a boyfriend. or just some kind of interaction with a guy in my life considering i've never had a real boyfriend or my first kiss. plus my junior prom is slowly but quickly approaching and i am completely unaware of what i am going to do. SO. since i have found that about 75% or more of the guys in my school are total idiots, i am willing to broaden my search to find a decent guy. however, i am not sure where to find this guy. where do cute, funny, smart, guys like to hang out? and how can i approach them? thank you! ;) (link)
ok well your decripition to me describes a nerd so i'd find a personailtity for this person

you could do some kind of witchcraft or you could talk to one of your guy friends or you could look in the year book find a guy you thinks cute talk to him blah blagh figur out if hes the kinda guy for you if hes got a gf and if so or if you don't like him look for someone else do the process again and again till you get him and once you get him ASK him to the dance


I am a married woman and i am also bisexual, my husband and I have a open relationship.

I met this woman a year ago I was so attracted to her and we started having sex shortly after. We used to meet at my home at least twice a month to have sex, every day she would send me messages saying have a wonderfull day or I miss you very much. I also spend money on her doing little things such as putting gas in her car paying her cell phone bill ect.

Now I noticed that she barely calls me and when I do call her she tells me some excuse like I am busy working perhaps next time.

What really bugs me is that she does not want to have a conversation as to what the problem is, she says she does not have to explain me anything.

It is very difficult to communicate with her. I told her that she is selffish and only thinks of herself and that she is only using me.

She became very angry and is now saying that she does not want to have sex anymore with me. I have tried to apoligize to her by calling her but she just does not care to listen I even went to her home to apologize and she would not let me in to talk about the situation. She just said go home and looked threw the window and said I don't want to see your face.

That really made me feel really bad and I went home.

I told my husband about the way she treated me. He said she was never your friend to start with she only wanted to have sex in exchange for something and made me believe that she is really me friend. I really liked her alot and I really thought that we could have sat down and talked about it but she does not communicate at all. (link)
I don't think she was ever your friend she used you. I think I'm Bi How were you sure you were by what are the signs. My mom has things against bi people and if im bi she kick me out but how'd you no


We have to pick a sonnet from our book, and i have sonnet 7 by john milton. For the paper, we have to write about how content and form work together, or how form aids in the presentation of the content and how content is enhanced by the form.

I'm honestly really not getting what they want. I know content is whats included in the sonnet, but would that mean like figurative language, persona, connotation and denotation, symbolism and info on enjambment? Also, what would be form and is there a way you could give me an example of what theyre asking?

Thanks so much!!! (link)
google your sonnet im only in 8th grade so im kinda confused maybe you can email me and teach me some stuff and i could teach you some stuff

hope i helped

nore advice person


hey i like this guy and its getting so we have nothing to talk about what are somee things i can talk about with him?
thanks
loveboys (link)
talk about what you recently did ,camp, vac.,thing you like to do,family stuff, jokes


hope i helped

normal advice person


I am a 17 year old girl who is questioning my past. I have heard about people who were abused and forget the entire thing, and was wondering if this was a possibility for me. I am extremely afraid of sex and have anxiety about men. I hate hearing footsteps behind me because it scares me. I am also afraid at night that there is someone in my room. I sometimes have dreams about groups of men chasing me. I used to self-mutilate a few years ago and I also had an eating disorder.

I am asking this question because I heard that these are things that abused people do, and because people in my support group for eating disorders have asked if I was abused after I talked about some things. Is there any way to find out, or any other clues I can look for? Thanks =] (link)
I would talk to a counsler Omg i feel so sorry for you




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