Hi. :) I'm Sara. My friends call me "Sharpie". So call me whichever you please. I'm a 17 year old female and I live in Hamilton Ontario. I attend CHS and I'm Grade 11. I'm a hockey playing cheerleader there. :) Soon to be a Delta Red Raider. (H) I may seem young but I've been told I give great advice. I'm a kickass writer and want to somehow use that in the future. (IF!)When I go to university I plan on minoring in history and Majoring in Drama, and becoming a Drama teacher in a High School setting. Haha, because I'm a drama nerd that is in love with english. I have morals and do believe that everyone deserves a fair chance. I love debates. Man oh man how I wish my school had a debate team. Haha. I do have a sense of humour, as well as a very serious, emotional side. I tend to open up like a book, so if you ask me what's wrong you'll most likely regret it. I'm currently single, as if it matters. hardy har har. My friends are my life, as if it mattered to you people.
Well, that's a bit of my life story.. want more message me. I love mail. I'll answer back, scouts honour.
Or.. add my msn! i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Bye Folks
E-mail: i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: My Mom :) haha. Hamilton Ontario Canada
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: November 4, 2006
Answers: 59
Last Update: September 26, 2007
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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not? (link)
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You're 14. If you want to do it then do it but if you really want advice for it then it just shows how "mature" you are.
I dont mean to sound like a bitch but its the truth. If you want to be HIV positive or have AIDS for the rest of your life and just throw it away.. go right ahead.
Another sign that you "aren't ready".. you say it's fun. Sex isn't about having fun, it's about love and commitment and knowing that the person is in it because they love you. Not so they can "get a piece."
There's a lot of risks in having sex. Pregnancy, diseases, dirty looks, mental breakdowns. These are amoung many things.
Another thing.. stay a virgin while you can. Believe me I made the mistake at 14ish and I wish I could take it back and still have it. Like somethings, your virginity you can't get back and if you're catholic it's sacred and it's a sin. Period. Also, girl's value their virginity.. well I know I do, now that it's gone. Believe me.. it's one of the best things you can have.
Tell me your decision.
Sara
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does anyone know any songs with good lyrics? like not that much love but summerish? thanks ! (link)
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theres this old-er song that i know.. Summer Time Girls (abercromie and fitch song) by LFO
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okay i've been dating this guy for about 1 week and he hardly talks to me. he hangs with his friends 24/7 and i mean he looks at me alot. i mean we have no communication. but when i guy teases me he'll be there being like back off and i think thats sweet. But he's too shy i try talking to him but i can't get past his friends what should i do?
Please and Thank you
-Ashliiee (link)
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dear ashliiee
My suggestion would be when you do actually talk, tell him how you feel and how you wanna talk to him at school. Just be like
"It's cool that you have your friends, but I'm also your girlfriend I need attention to."
I know it sounds rude but whatever works.
hope I helped. tell me how it goes!
Sara
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ok so i just tried to put in a tampon for the very first time (well i tried like 5 months ago and i couldnt do it) and when i was trying to push it in it wouldnt go in! i dont know if im putting it in the right spot or i just dont know anything. i dont get it. i tried reading the directions and they make sense i just cant get past step one (putting the aplicator in) cause i dont know where to put it in! and im so sick of wearing pads cause they always stick to me in school and when i wear them during sports and stuff its soo annoying and i cant go in water or anything when i get my period. anyway, does anyone know what im doing wrong or where exactly to insert the applicator (tampon) any advice will do!
pleaseee helpp. (link)
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dear tampon
theres 3 things that could be wrong here.
1) wrong size.
2) wrong angle
3) or my friend had this problem of where she could get it in but it'd hurt, and then she lost her virginity so that maybe the problem.
good luck.
Sara
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okay i am a virgin, so i haven't had experience with guys pleasing me "down there". i am getting married next month and i know it is something that will come up soon, so i want to know how i could make sure that it is fresh. so it doesn't smell or taste nasty. thank you:)
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dear "down there"
i've heard that if you drink cranberry juice.. NOT!! cranberry juice cocktail for 2 weeks you wont have a smell.
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Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75
+ there are more pics on here now. might give a better idea since some people either couldn't tell what body parts were, or thought i was sucking in... (link)
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girl i dont mean to be rude.. but thats gross. you are TO THIN!! go see a doctor.. go to a specialist. anything, just gain weight before its to late. i know im sounding like a mean bitch but its for your own good. you could die from something like this. this is serious. take this advice and go see a doctor.
but what are your thoughts on this? do you think you're to thin or do you think you're sexy as can be?
but please.. get help fast!
good luck and happy holidays
Sara
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15/f i'm a freshman at my middle school and we have our big holiday formal dance this friday. i excited about it but also a little sad becaues i don't have a date. all of the three years i've been in my middle school i've never had a date to the formal. why is this? it makes me sad sometimes because a lot of the other girls have dates even if their not going out with the guy.
either how can i get a date by friday. or how can i stop getting so upset about this? thanks! (link)
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my winter formal was the friday that just past and guess what? i didnt have a date either. i was happy about it.. because i got to spend it with my friends and not some silly boy that'd probably stay with his friends all night. but if you're that worried about a date then just ask a guy you like. if he says no then you still have you're friends. just remember you have loads of time ahead of you and just look on the bright side.. someone will come around soon-ish and he'll sweep you off your feet and you'll forget all about some silly formal.
hope i helped.
be happy and happy holidays :]
Sara
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I just found out that my hubsand is cheating on me and he told me that it is over between him and the other woman I don't know if i should beleive him or just file for a divorce
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I think that maybe you should sit him down and talk to him.. and if you like invite the other woman. If things get out of control maybe go see a relationship councellor or someone with a lot of help under their belt.
But also.. it's all about trust. If you trust your husband then he may be telling the truth and if he picked you over her then he does love you even though he was sleeping around.
Like I said just sit him down and lay all the cards on the table. You deserve better then this.
I hope I helped. If you need more info just send me an email.
Sara.
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14/Male
1)i go to all boy school, how can i hook up with some girls?
2)(girls answer plz)wat girls want from a guy?
3) i wear a uniform dress pance and dress shit, do girls like that? if not is their a way i can look cool with it on?
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Hello.
1) Go to local places like the movies, the mall, a park etc., somewhere fun where a lot of people will be.
2) All girls want different things from guys.. but most girls (from my knowledge) like honest, loyal, caring, down-to-earth guys. Like if your girl is the type that takes teasing to heart then don't tease her.. but if she's the opposite and you say something like "ew. you smell" and she answers with a "only cuz I'm with you" kind of thing, every girl wants a guy that she can have fun with.. that'll treat her like a princess.
3) I wear a uniform to but my whole school does and its co-ed so I kinda get where you're coming from. All I can say is be yourself. That's all that matters.. if someone doesn't like you for you then they probably aren't worth your time.
I hope I helped!
if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.
Sara.
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The key to pure success when making out.
I need tips.
Im a female, and I need to spice up my making out sessions.
HELP PLEASE (link)
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For me.. I usually tease him a bit. Bite his lip, but not hard cause this can hurt him. Play with his hair.. Let your hands wander ;). haha. uh.. Just have fun while doing it.
Hope I Helped :)
Sara
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i wear my hair the same way everyday - down and straightened. it's getting boring & i'd like to wear my hair differently. i like it scrunched but i'm always too tired in the morning to scrunch it. is there anyway i can shower at night and scrunch it before i go to bed without it getting frizzy and all messed up? thanks a bunch! (link)
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OMG. I hate this. My is the exact same way. Long, Brushed, Down and Boring.
Here's the step's I take and my hair comes out looking b-e-a-u-tiful :)
1) Take A Shower
2) Dry your hair a bit with the towel
3) Put in LOADS of mousse
4) Blow Dry it a bit (if you have a cold setting then use that)
5) More Mousse
6) Braid it
7) More Mousse
8) A Bit more blowdrying
9) At this point you can add more mousse if you like but it will already be drenched so it's completely up to you.
10) Then when you wake up in the morning take it out and touch it up with a bit of mousse.
I advise that you don't put any Frizz Ease in. Because I have used it and I've found that it makes my hair greasy.
Hope I Helped!!
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im 14 and never had boyfriend. most of my friends have. am I just a loser? I dont mind it much im happy and everything but usually when people find out their just like "OMG YOU NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND?!" and it just makes me feel pretty dumb. i like this one boy but I know I dont have a chance with him because im not exactly pretty. (link)
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At 14 I had a boyfriend, but truthfully I kinda with I didn't. Because thats the time when you just start to live your life the way you want. Dont let it get to you when people say OMG YOU NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND?! just say yeah I havent and I'm happy and thats all the matters. Because at the end of the day all that matters is how you feel about yourself and your life. And most of the time you feel a lot better when you decide things for yourself and do them the way you want to do them. Also, every girl is pretty in her own way. NEVER EVER let someone tell you different. If you dont think you're pretty then he probably wont think that either. Because they say the best thing a girl can have is confidence. So have some confidence in yourself and just talk to him and get to know him. In the end it could work out your way, and maybe not. But everything happens for a reason. So all you have to do is take the good with the bad and be happy when you're sad. Because like they say.. everyone minute you spend mad is 60 seconds of happiness you'll never get back.
hope I helped.
byee.
good luck
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I have a friend but she likes the same guy I like what do I do. (link)
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You talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel. If her feelings are stronger then try and work something out. Either way no matter if she gets him or you do.. it's one thing to lose a guy but its another to lose a friend.
Remember.. Boys come and go but your Girls are there forever.
hope I helped!:]
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what are signs mean a guy like you (link)
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k well some guys havent matured yet. i know we all wish they would but they dont. but im not here to pick on guys.
some guys are all like romantic with you and others treat you like "one of the guys"
some guys will just be like ew you're gross and then laugh. this is a compliment in the world of guys. so just little things.
i know i didnt help much but i hope i gave you an idea. :)
byee. goodluck
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for my boyfriends birthday which was only a week ago i got him rent tickets which he loved. now i have to worry about christmas! i need some good ideas not just ordinary stuff something really cute (link)
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My suggestion would be to pick one of your many favourite memories that you have with him and base it around that, or pick an inside joke that you two share. That's always cute and only he will know what it means so it'll mean more to him.:)
hope i helped.
good luck.
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whats a really good razor(not disposable) to use for your legs? and not too pricey. thanks (link)
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intuition rock. :]
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I usually wear some abercrombie or american eagle type clothes but I want to have some more individual clothes in my wardrobe too. So I was wondering if 2nd hand stores like goodwill, value village, or places like that are good places to find unique shirts and accessories. I'm trying to fray away from preppy clothes, but I still want to be girl. Also are there any stores that aren't 2nd hand that have the things im looking for? thanks for you help! any advice at all is greatly appreciated (link)
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Value Village is a really good place to go. I go there all the time. The prices are cheap and the clothes are great. Different things coming each and everyday. I know for a fact that they do have brand names there because people donate them. They have stuff from places like American Eagle, Buffalo, Guess etc. So basically whaztever you're looking for is there. :)
hope this helps!
Sara1YO
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Okay..I Like dis Guy But he dated my friend and my sisters bestfriend and he broke up with her lastnight at the club or whatever so we danced and you know how you get that stupid feeling and that stupid look in your eyes and you all just kiss? well that happened to me but we didnt kiss i told him he dated my friend. and i mean i relly like dis guy but friends are better than any guy but i dunno i mean i like him what do i do? (link)
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What I suggest you do is talk to your friend before you go any further with this guy. Like you said friends are better then guys, this is true ... to an extent. So after you talk to her and explain how you feel and what happened at the club. If she's okay with it then go for it, but if not I advise that you don't. This is just me but I know that I'd never want to lose a girl friend over a silly boy. Boys will come and go but yours girls are there Forever.
hope this helps.
Sara1YO
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msn messenger won't let me sign in. it always says that it can't sign me in rite now and to try later. when it does the test things to see if theres a problem there doesn't seem to be any problems. i need to go on msn right now but its not signing me in. i use rogers highspeed and i tried disconnecting the modem many times and i re-installed msn again but it still doesn't let me sign in. the error code is 80048820 if that helps. PLEASE HELP ME! THANK YOU (link)
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This has happened to me many times before. So what I do is I always make sure I have a backup msn. Theres many net ones out there. Such as.. www.ebuddy.com or www.msn2go.com or your computer should have the Windows Messenger. Well that's the old msn. I recommend you try the Windows MSN first and if that doesnt work try a net one. I hope this helps.
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