Question Posted Tuesday November 28 2006, 11:52 pm
I just found out that my hubsand is cheating on me and he told me that it is over between him and the other woman I don't know if i should beleive him or just file for a divorce
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? blinkl0ser44 answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 8:19 am: Well, it all depends on how you feel.
are you truely happy with him?
If you are I'd talk to him about it
and see why he cheated, and how long.
But, it depends if he's cheated
before, or how long you've been together.
If he's cheated before, I'd honestly
leave him. He's pathetic if he cheated
on you twice. If you've been with him
for a long time, say some twenty years,
it would be heard for you to leave him
so i would get a seperation to see
how you feel without him, and let him
know that you're marriage could
acctually be comming to an end. Sorry;
this answer is a little all over the
place. I hope I helped :] Inbox me if
you need anymore helpp. [ blinkl0ser44's advice column | Ask blinkl0ser44 A Question ]
sara1yo answered Tuesday November 28 2006, 11:56 pm: I think that maybe you should sit him down and talk to him.. and if you like invite the other woman. If things get out of control maybe go see a relationship councellor or someone with a lot of help under their belt.
But also.. it's all about trust. If you trust your husband then he may be telling the truth and if he picked you over her then he does love you even though he was sleeping around.
Like I said just sit him down and lay all the cards on the table. You deserve better then this.
I hope I helped. If you need more info just send me an email.
Sara. <3
P.S. You didn't deserve any of this.. also.. a little quote that I live by.. Everything will be better in the end, if things aren't better then it's not the end. [ sara1yo's advice column | Ask sara1yo A Question ]
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