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Okay, first of all, I'm 15 and a freshman in high school.

So, last year in eighth grade, this new guy came to our school and joined band (which I am in), playing the trumpet. Him being new, all the girls but me immediately jumped all over him, wanting to date him because he knows nothing of their past. Well, I decided that I wasn't going to do that. I quietly said, "Hey, what's up?" one day in the instrument room and gave him my Yahoo! IM screen name (after we talked for a while). I didn't realize that I liked him then.

Well, a few weeks after his arrival I started liking him. He's cute, sweet, and has abs to die for. And he's my age (always a plus).

Well, he didn't ask me out, and I was way too shy to ask him out. So, I lived with unrequited(sp?) love until close to the end of the year.

One day, before a band performance, we were riding around picking up various band members with our director. It was then that he told me that he'd liked me since he met me.

Well, I was sitting with my best friend one day after school, waiting for our ride, eating ice cream that we just bought from the store, when lo and behold, here comes Tyler (that's his name). Well, I decide that since I only live a block away from the school, I'll let Megan go home and I'll stay and talk to Tyler. So Tyler and I share the rest of the ice cream and start talking. Innocent things at first, and then it gets deeper. I told him more about my life than even my best friend Megan knows. And he told me all about his.

Well, somehow, we ended up making out on the picnic table. And then we got up and made out by the brick wall. Then the next day, we made out in front of the band room. Then he came to my house and we made out. And then we made out one last time by the gym. We never spoke of it again.

Now, close to a year later, I can't stop thinking about this! We never dated, even though we both wanted to. It was too close to summer and we both thought we were moving. It turns out that neither of us did, but we still haven't dated. Now I have a different boyfriend, and it's killing me that I can't stop thinking about Tyler! And Tyler and I are now close friends! What do I do about this? I still like him, but I don't know if he feels the same way! :(

okay well if you have a bf think about who you like more. if you like tyler more break up with your boyfriend. and since you do like tyler you should breka up with your boyfriend because its not right to like more then one person. then call up tyler or write him a note or something and tell him how ya feel

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I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿

Okay if your going out with this guy he DEFINITLY should not like another girl. Maybe only think is cute or hott or something but liking is a whole different story sorry hun but you should dump him

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I have a friend that sleeps with a lot of people, I tell her it's bad but she still does it. Well one day during lunch she took a pregnancy test (she never uses protection, and she's been pregnant before but had a miscarriage) and well it came out positive. She got home and somehow her mom found out, and was like "How many times are you going to do this, you act like a ho, stop sleeping with people" and stuff like that. And then she told me she took another test and it came out negative saying that she wasn't pregnant. So that's what she belives, she thinks she isn't pregnant. Is she pregnant? I heard that the only time pregnancy tests can possible lie is if it comes out negative, and that if it comes out positive then she's defninitley pregnant. Which is true? Is she pregnant?

You should have her take another test like EPT.

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okay. i'm 13 and of course female.
well, i just meet this really great guy. hes funny, nice, cute. Everything. we've talked and stuff. but i want to hint him that i like him, with out throwing myself to him or just being goofy! How do i hint to him that i like him?

You should just start calling him for no reason. Make it like a habit. And he'll probably get the idea after a while. And flirt with him on the phone or ask him to hang out.

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I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me?

Well it wont really matter if you go to highschool or not, if you have a few close friends it doesnt really matter if you have more just some to count on.

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ill make it short..i like this guy and he likes me but i have a boyfriend and my bf NEVER talks to me should i dump my boyfriend?
~please help!~

Yes you probably should. If you like this guy more then your boyfriend, and you have more of a connection then take the chance!

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Has anyone ever been in a depressed mood for no reason?

YES PE0PLE D0 GET LiKE THAT MAYBE THEiR TiRED 0R Y0U JUST LiSTENED T0 A L0VE S0NG 0R A SAD S0NG 0R S0METHiNG ANYTHiNG LiKE THAT CAN MAKE Y0U DEPRESSED!

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ok there is this guy...and i fell in love with him..but then he was really bogus...im not gonna tell the whole story..but lets jus say he "cheated" he told me he was sorry and i forgave him but then he did it again...ive been thru a lot of shyt because of him...should i forget about him? or forgive him adn give him one last chance?

0KAY Y0UR PR0BABLY WANTiNG T0 HEAR GiVE HiM 0NE LAST CHANCE BUT S0RRY SWEETiE Y0U SH0ULD DEFiNiTLY FORGET AB0UT HiM!

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Okay, well I'll tell you what I ate first(yesterday), for breakfast I had a muffin(8am), and about 5:20pm (at a basketball game) I had some M&M's and a rescee cup, and for dinner(7ish maybe 7:10) I went to wendy's and got chicken strips but instead of fries I got a ceaser side salad. Well I felt perfectly fine until after using their ranch dressing on my salad and was joking around like gosh I probably got food poisening because I had a small stomachache, and today I woke up early and was super sick. I went to bed at 11, I woke up at 5 sick to my stomache, and I haven't been able to get to sleep since (it's now 8:15.) And I was wondering, the last time I was "sick" (throwing up) was at 7:11. I wanted to know am I just sick or could it have been something I ate? The only thing that's going around is mono and I haven't kissed anyone lately. Also how long should I wait until I eat, and what can I eat. (like crackers, or toast, or something like that) and how long should I wait until I get something to drink? I have gingerale and I have water. I usually drink gingerale and I usualy make it really fizzy and drink it VERY slowly through a straw. Is that okay? I'm kind of worried because my mom is asleep still, my dad is at work, and I figure I'm 14, & 10-15 years from now I'll have to deal with sick kids and right now I want to know how to take care of myself. I'll probably ask my mom when she wakes up, but I don't want to wake her up because I know that all she'll tell me is to put mats down so I don't barf on anything and to always have a bucket with me (I'm not stupid) and like should I try to stay away from my brother and sister, I don't want them to get anything. Also, I was supposed to go to a 12:05 showing of a movie, should I just stay home and see it next weekend?
Well, thanks for the help and sorry for the length. And sorry if it's confusing.

WELL 0KAY iT C0ULD BE F00D P0iS0NiNG BUT Y0U SH0ULD JUST WAiT A DAY 0R S0 T0 FiND 0UT ..Y0U CAN EAT W/E Y0U WANT JUST N0T A L0T 0F iT USUALLY WHEN Y0UR SiCK Y0U D0NT EAT. D0NT LiKE TOUCH Y0UR SiBlINGS 0R C0UGH 0N THEM 0R DRiNK 0UT 0F A B0TTLE THEiR G0iNG T0..AND S0RRY BUT Y0U SH0ULD N0T G0 T0 THE M0ViE. SEE iT NEXT WEEKEND REST ALL DAY GET S0ME SLEEP!!FEEL BETTER!!!

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Okay i need help with....see i like my best guy friend a lot...but i cant have him..and tonite he asked out one of my friends...and yea i kno i should feel happy for them and im trying to...but i was wondering do you know any quotes about this?? thanks in advacne

Y0U CAN G0 T0 FiREH0TQU0TES.C0M AND THERES L0TS 0F DiFFERENT T0PiCS!! H0PE i HELPED!

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If someone eats you out, will you get an orgasm?

Y0U CAN ...BUT Y0U MiGHT N0T ..iT DEPENDS iN H0W MUCH PLEASURE Y0U GET 0UT 0F iT. S0ME PE0PLE D0NT EVEN HAVE 0NE DURiNG SEX!

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i no this is stupid but, what the heck is a condom?

A C0ND0M iS S0METHiNG A GUY WHERES WHEN HAViNG SEX..iT PR0TECTS THE GiRL FR0M GETTiNG PREGNET ..
ANY 0THER QUESTi0NS JUST ASK!

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my friend is well a "slut" because she goes from boy to boy and the only reason why she does is because she thinks they are cute but recently my other friend broke up with her bf and now my "slut" friend wants to go out with him what should i do because they are both my friends but i dont want any of them to get mad at me...what should i do?

D0NT GET iNV0LED

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so there is this guy i have went out with 3 times and now we are best friends. i have not liked him for a really long time, but we were at a party the other night and he was all over me! i am pretty sure he doesn't like me, but i like him! what do i do??

WELL Y0UR N0T P0SiTiVE THAT HE DOESNT LiKE Y0U S0 Y0U SH0ULD ASK HiM AND FiND 0UT!

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okay there is this guy i like at school we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have gotten to be closer friends and i mean we hug and we'll put our arms around each other and walk down the halls like that till we see a teacher or get to close to the office, im not suer if he is flirting or not i think he is but still not sure ya no? if it helps he calls me home grl and things like that and he smells AMAZING! what ever colone he wears smells really good on him! so i still dont know what to do cuz he doesnt have aim so i couldnt talk to him like that plz help!

WELL Y0US ARE DEFiNiTLY FLiRTiNG WiTH EACH0THER MAYBE Y0U SH0ULD TALK T0 HiM AND FiND 0UT WH0 HE LiKES!!

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hey... lately iv'e been getting the feeling that my boyfriend doesn't have enough time for me. We're in a long distance relashionship and i'm always the one calling him, which is pretty messed up if you ask me. He hasn't been returning my calls either, and he still hasn't sent my christmas present. The past three times i called him he's like "i gotta go do my homework, i'll call you later tonight k?" and then i wait till like 11pm and he never calls and then i don't hear from him for like a week. We've been going out for soo long and i really trust him, but i can't help thinking he might be with another behinde my back, cuse i have no possible way of actually knowing. i don't want to comfront him about it, but i really want to know what the hell is going on cuse it makes me so ed off and confused at the same time. [dont tell me to dump him cuse i love him :-/]please help!!

0KAY WELL Y0U SH0ULD DEFiNiTLY TALK T0 HiM!!! TELL HiM Y0U WANT T TALK T0 HiM M0RE AND Y0UR SiCK 0F WAiTiNG Y0U WANT T0 TALK T0 HiM T0 SEE H0W THiNGS ARE G0iNG AND SH0ULD ASK HiM iF HE STiLL FEELS THE SAME T0WARDS Y0U

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like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant?

0KAY WELL FiRST Y0U DEFiNiTLY D0NT NEED A C0ND0M T0 GiVE A HANDJ0B UNLESS Y0US WANTED HiM T0 WEAR 0NE BUT ANYWAYS Y0U DEFiNiTLY CANT BE PREGNET UNLESS HE T00K 0FF THE C0ND0M AND S0ME SPERM G0T 0N T0 HiS HAND ..BUT iTS A SLiM CHANCE

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I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..

Boy I feel stupid :(

0KAY JUST TELL HiM N0T T0 USE AS MANY FiNGERS 0R S0 DEEP - AlS0 LET HIM TRY T0 EAT Y0U 0UT iT FEELS S0 G00D AND D0ESNT HURT AT ALL!

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ok ive been asking questions about my boyfriend...like me not thinking he cared about me and stuff well yesterday i passed out and couldnt breathe and i think it scared him and i think he relized how much he loves now that it happend to me...he is constantly telling me how much he loves me and how much he needs me...
do you think that becasue of what happend hes relizing how muhc he loves and cares about me???
thanks a bunch!
XxXxAbabiiXxXx

iF HE WASNT SH0WiNG ANY FEELiNG F0R Y0U BEF0RE iT W0ULD DEFiNiTLY MEAN HE G0T SCARED 0F L00SiNG Y0U

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this friday I am goin to sleep over my friends house and she has her bf sleeping over too. I dont have a bf and their probably gonna make out and other stuff. I'll probably be WICKED bored! Should i invite someone for me or just be bored?

Y0U SH0ULD DEFiNTiLY iNViTE S0ME0NE! WHY SH0ULD Y0U SiT THERE BEiNG B0RED?!

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