Im a guy who has experienced a lot of things in his short life, ask away if i can help, i will.
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Can anyone give me websites were i can get music and music videos.... so i can just watch the videos without dowloading them
Not yahoo because it doesnt work on my computer
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Now this is a very hard question...the only site that I know, is launch.com, but like u said yahoo doesnt work on your computer. I dont know what kinda music you into, but if you like rap i know that BET.com has videos.
Sorry if i wasent much help
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I went on a blind date today and it didnt excactly turn out the way I wanted it to. Well for starters, I had agreed to meet him at a local coffee shop with the couple that set us up. He was late and when he did show up he didnt look too happy when he saw me for the first time. He didnt offer to buy me anything to drink or eat, and the whole time we ended up talking about his friends or his business. He didnt ask me any questions about me or my personal life or interests, which indicated that he wasnt too crazy about me. We all talked for about a half hour, and when the couple the introduced us had to leave, my date looked at his watch and said he had to go. He never offered me his number or asked for mine. He actually looked like he couldnt wait to get out of there. The other couple looked surprised and thought we would have stayed longer. My friend (the wife of the other couple) I think felt bad and invited me over to her place afterwards.
Is it just me, or was my blind date really rude? I don't understand what I did to make him act like this, the whole time I was polite and engaged him in conversation.
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Every one is quick to assume that the guy was a complete asshole..maybe he was a bit. I remember so many years ago when i first met my girlfriend, it was a blind date set up by my friend, anyhow...if i remember correctly, i hardly even said a word to her, and overall i thought the date had gone terrible, not because I wasent atracted to her, but because for whatever reason I could not think of things to say...Anyways to make a long story short, maybe this guy had the same problems..either way, no worries im sure a better one will come right after.
oh by the way, the girl who i acted kinda rude on my blind date, is now the love of my life. Give that a thought.
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This is going to be long... sorry!
Last year I had the pleasure to spend the summer with an incredibly awesome guy that I fell in love with. He was so sweet and was always looking out for me. After I started school again in august, I got word that his father was getting transfered to Illinois. I live in Fl. Well, the time came and I told him goodbye. We broke up then, because I didnt want a long distance relationship and neither did he(at the time). It had been a year and a half, and i had lost touch with him. On christmas, he showed up at my door... i didnt even know he was coming! That was a shock!Anyways, He called me a few days later and wanted to go to the movies... so we did. He left 3 days after that and i never got to tell him goodbye. I haven't heard from him since then and it has almost been 2 weeks. He said that he was going to drive straight thru to Illinois because he had to start school again. I am so depressed because i know it was meant for us... but the distance is horrible. We are 1212.16 miles apart! I have no way to contact him. I know he still loves me and I still love him. I am getting more and more depressed every day. I dont want to forget about him... that is not an option. I just want to contact him somehow but I dont want to come off as desperate AND i want to get rid of my depression without having to go to a doctor. Have you ever been laying on your bed in the dark and turned the radio on and you just cry to every song every night until your eyes are bruised? Well, i can say that for the new year (2006) i have accomplished that! (link)
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I feel what you are saying, Im a guy and believe it or not, ive done the crying after slow songs many times. I been through al ot of bullshit in my life, however, somehow i always manage to get through it all in a better way. I always find that praying is a must, being socially active is also a good way to keep your mind off of things. The way i see it, if its meant to be, it will be. If it isent meant to be, than it will not be, and believe me, something better and beautiful will come your way...Life is funny sometimes,its just how it always is, whenever you feel depressed and like you cant go on...something will slap you awake and make you realize that all the crying and worrying was for nothing cause damn now you are happier than ever.
i hope my words helped a litle..just remember to keep your head up, and remeber that God is always watching after you, and He will not alow anything bad to happen to you.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. I love him to death. I do everything with him and Hes probably my closest bf Ive had.
Latley though (meaning the last 2 months) Ive notice he's been worring NON stop. I mean I have to promise him everything. He'll ask me if i love him and I'll say of course! and he will ask ... are you sure? do you promise? He always has to re ask me over and over if im going to call him that night or make sure plans are to be w/ him and no one else. We have talked about this worrying thing before and He said he would work on it, but its not getting any better.
Soo guys ... why do you worry? Or is it just my boyfriend. I am one of those girls that can work out anything so breaking up w/ him isnt an option. Him knowing that I dont know why he worries soo much. It HAS TO STOP THOUGH. That makes me more frustrated then anything else about him.
Please get some reason that would explain this!
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I go thorugh this all the time with my girlfriend..One day everything is okay, the next im worried she will leave me for some one "better", Im not sure as to why exactly i feel this way, however, I find that it mostly happens when we have arguments or whenever i faill to do something important that she wanted me to do. Basically what im saying is that in my case, I feel like my gf id leaving me whenever i feel guilty for not keeping promises and such..But at the end, all it takes is for my gf to show me how much she loves me, by telling me and holding me..one kiss can make it all go away.
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One of my friends has been with her bf for ever it seems like. A few years. Anyway, they are in a tuff spot right now and possibly heading toward a break up.
Ive never been w/ a guy for 2-3 years so Im far from knowing how she feels. All i would like to do is be there for her.
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The best possible way to help, is by being there for her when she needs you. There is nothing you can do or say that will make them get better. To this day I have love for the friends who were there for me to talk to, or just hang out with whenever i went through the ups and downs of relationships.
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Im loading songs onto my iPod and I can't think of any songs that I like... do you know where I can find lists of songs? Either that, or can you tell me some songs that you like?
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I dont know what kind of music you like..if you like rap and hiphop, i suggest going to " ohhla.com"..they have every single rap song with the name of raper and the lyrics. Im sure if you look in the internet you will find some lists of whats cool..another place you can check is billboard.com, this website actually has the top 100 songs of every genre of music. try that...ever hear of james blunt? try his music, its awesome..@pac is always good..
I hope i helped, good luck with your music search.
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Has anyone heard the song So Sick of love songs? If you have do you thiknk it would be a good song to sing to my ex thati want to get back together with
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its an okay song, i dont know how singing it would help you get her back...you might wanna consider something a litle more romantic....try .."goodbye my lover" by james blunt
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ok my best guy friend told me he loves me over and but then my girl friend asked him out he said yes. he dumped her the next day and stuff. but i asked him out and he wont go out with me! he still tells me he loves me and i love him very much too. im starting to think he is lieing about loveing me. do you think hes lieing? i need help!
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The way I see it, love is a very complicated issue, I dont know how old any of you guys are, however, i can tell you from experience that sometimes we men say things the moment we feel them, at the same time we are known for using the word love to try to get into girls pants. Now im not saying this is the case, but you might wanna do some research and get to the bottom of his remark...shit, just ask him. I cant say if he is lying or not, cause like i said, i dont know him, therefore you need to be the judge in all of this.
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Ive got quite a tricky situation on my hands. My girlfriend (15) emailed me (15) and told me her parents were trying to get her out of their house and that she might have to move in with her best friend. The problem is her best friend is a dude. An eighteen year old dude that could easily take advantage of her. Now logic tells me I should be upset, but on the other hand I trust in her. Then I'm also worrying because the guy she's moving in with supposedly has a "sexual addiction". In my favor, however, he has a girlfriend. Do you think I should be upset or just trust that she wouldnt engage in anything with him? It's really gnawing at me. (link)
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A while back, i had a similar problem, lets just say that in the end my worst fears became reality. I dont think what im telling you will help much, however you need to be alert at all times, because the last thing you want is to get played. If you trust her enough I guess there is a chance it might work out fine, but at the same time, a sex addict dude will find away into her pants if she aint strong or respectulf enough.
Like i said i doubt my answers is what you wanted to hear, just keep in mind that i been trough what you are going through right now, so im talking from experience.
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My ex Boyfriend and I walk home from the bus everyday and today, we were talking about what we used to do.. (I gave him a handjob) and then when I got home I got a phone call from him and he was saying that do you want to be friends with benefits and I want to.. because I dont know if we could be in a relationship but i really like him and I dont know if I should or not because I feel like im being used but I want to be more than friends but less than a relationship. Because if I do this I have 2 guys that I'm friends with benefits with.. And this is my first time ever having guys that are friends with benefits.. but me and this guy have known eachother for 4 years and have gone out a lot but im physically attracted to him and he is to me.. so please help me.. My options are I should do it and have fun or not do it and not know what im missing but may save my self from hurt.. not sure.. because when it comes to this guy there is a lot of physical attraction but we always are friends in the end..
THANK YOU TO ALL THAT HELP!!!
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Friends with benefits are sometimes refered as booty calls...i dont know how old you are but take my advice and stop hoeing yourself with some asshole kid who obviously wants to be able to get pleased when needed. Whe I was in high school, there were a few girls who were know for being "friends with benefits"..i dont mean to sound rude, but behind their back they were also called "hoes, skanks, bitches, sluts, whores, cock suckers" and many more, you do the math, get out before its too late
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My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He always compliments me and is very good to me. My problem is that I feel funny undressing in front of him and I can't wear sexy nighties in front of him. I have a very low self-esteem. When I look in the mirror, I see fat. I want to be able to wear sexy things for my boyfriend and feel good about myself. What can I do??
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My girlfriend can sometimes feel that way..take it from me, I love every part of her body, and I find it difficult to keep my hands off of her..Most men feel the same way about their girlfriends, especially after dating 2 years like in your case..dont believe? take your pants off in fron of him, take a look at his crotch, and you will notice that he does indeed find you hot as hell
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