my mom's g/f is such a bitch she treats me like crap my mom belives her over me i'll take any thing
I'm sorry to hear that. Listen mabye yo need to stand up and prove that old hag that your not to be treated that way. Sit and try to have a conversation w/ her and she will probably think diffrent about you w/ just that. Do you lie alot because if so then that might be why your mom doesnt believe you. Talk to your mom and tell her in a calm manor that you dont like that. She might change. Best of wishes to ya!!!
Bianca
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I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex?
Thats not really a question you ask your friends because everyone has a diffrent answer. So I think that there is really no age limit to it because then it means your planning it. I mean its something you only do w/ someone you really and truly love and you feel youll be with for the rest of your life! I mean thats what I think. But I also think you should wait until your in HighSchool at least. I mean Im a freshman and I think about it often but you know Im not gonig to do it because my friends are and because I thnink Im the right age. But I also dont know if Im waiting till amrraige. So its something you plan but not like oh this day with this person and not discuss it. Plus it isnt all it comes out to be. There is alot of things you have to consider. Like condoms, birth control, and as soo nas you start having sex you need to go to the gynacologist once a year (thats a girl doctor where they check your vagina and see if its ok) Honestly Id be emberrased to go at 13. id wait till like 16. Plus you have to go w/ an adult so I mean is it something you wanna tell your mom at 13? Hope I hhelped!!!
Bianca
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What is the best way to go about piercing your own ears?
Honestly there is no best way! Its a bad thing! It hurts so bad sometimes! espically if it gets infected. It will get all nasty and ewww. Well trust me go to WollyWorld and they do it really good for like 10 $ and give you earings of your choice! Hope I helped
(wolly world is Wal Mart but I live in the country so thats what we call it)
~*Bianca*~
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hey umm theres this guy that i like and my friend was iming him and sh asked him if i asked him out if he would say yes and he said yes, so now i want to ask him out but ive never had a bf so i have absolutley NO clue how to say it...please help asap!!! btw im 13/f if it helps
Ok well first bf's are always the scariest. And honestly some girls hate to ask them out. Like me I was shy at first but now Ill ask if I like them. Well make shure you know him and in a conversation just tell him you like him and just be like so do you think me and you would ever go out to see if he catches your clue. And then if he sounds intrested pop the big DO YOU WANNA GO W/ ME? But mabye with not so much inthusiam! I hope I helped you
~*Bianca*~
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my relationship with my boyfriend is very complicated. i need solutions. we fight about little things all the time. now we dont hang out nemore, hes always with his friends and i dont feel very close to him anymore. i need to hang out with my friends more but i dont know what to do with them to hang out with them. also i want to make my boyfriend something but i dont know what to make him.... thanks
Ok seems like youve got a clasic bf moment. Heres what I think!!! Mabye the reason you fight so much is because yall are trying to hard to stay together. I know you probably dont want to hear this but yall might need to seperate. It seems like you put off your friends bc of him. So try and ask your friends what they like to do to get your mind off of him! I mean at least your trying to hang / them. And as for the making him something. Consider this:
Try talking to him first to make shure yall still wanna be together because you dont want to waste your time for a break up. And then see what hes intrested in so you can get or make something you know he will really appreciate! I hope I helped you
Bianca
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As indicated by the subject of this question, this is another one of those 'omg am i in love? or is it lust? or is it... something my mind made up to mock me?" type questions. So please bear with me. this is going to be a LONG question or series of questions. If you don't believe me go ahead and scroll down and look.
My first question would be to the guys: Do you guys enjoy flirting with a girl before making any type of move? It seems to me that guys find it fun to seem interested in a girl then totally shoot her down. Or something to that effect. Do guys believe in real honest-to-goodness true love? Or do you guys just see flings [right word?] as the right thing and see how many girlfriends you can get and then dump before you graduate high school/college? Right now, I would to state that no, I am not biased in seeing guys as heart-breakers and have no feelings. I'm just wondering, since I have no idea what a guy's notion of flirting is. Do guys believe in love at first sight or true love? Or is it that the only love left in this world is more similar to lust? Do you guys have high standards in what you expect in the 'perfect' girl?
Girls. Do any of you girls find yourselves falling in love with every single guy that comes along and makes an impact or small dent in your life? Do you find yourself daydreaming about the cute guy you've never talked to before or one of your new guy friends falling in love with you? Do you believe that out there, somewhere, there is a perfect guy? Do you believe that you'll meet him before you graduate high school or after? before you graduate college or after? I'm the type of person who wants a soul mate before graduating high school. High standard but what can I say? Almost every girl dreams of finding the perfect one before too long. Is it wrong to have too many high standards for what you want in a guy?
Now this section is to either gender. How do you know if you're truly 'in love' and not lusting? People probably have asked this question many times before, but I'm still curious. I've fallen in and out of love faster than you can say "omgimthinkimlove~". I can't really trust my feelings so saying things like "just trust your heart" does not bode well with me. What's the difference between love and lust as in how do you know when you feeling lust instead of love? Can you trust yourself to truly to be 'heads over heels' in love? Can your deep feelings of love be a fabrication of your mind when it senses that you're really lonely? Define true love, give me how you feel when you believe you're truly in love.
Anyone who bothers to read this entire question passage and cares to think deeply about the questions i've asked and answers thoughtfully would definitely get a 5. I would be really surprised if more than three people answer more than three questions or bother to answer at all. Answer more than two questions at least please. If you read this far, congratulations you get a virtual cookie and probably a 5 if you answer all the above questions [depending on if you're a girl or guy] or more than three. Idiots who have no idea what they're saying and are trying to sound philosophical will have a 1 branded on their foreheads or something.
Wow everything Ive ever wanted to ask about love you have just done so well. I am a girl and Im gonna answer the second question first. I dont fall in love eaisly but I do give my heatd to every Tom Dick and Harry(metaphorically speaknig) But yeah I do fall fast and I feel good about it until the insainly harsh break up and I go straight into a freaky depression. I thought I found the perfect guy a month ago. He was Christan, never cursed, working, making movney, paying my way, called every day, and spent time with me. Mr. Perfect right? ahh how I am one to be so eaisly fooled! I live in Callahan fl and everyone finds there soulmate in hs and I thought I did until yesterday when I broke up w/ the a/hole bc him and his x bonded again. And when I went to go break up with him she was there! So I was a succer and thought it was love at first sight! My standards are about as high as they can get and I could care less. They have to be drug free, christan, and a real man. He was 3 out of 3 until about a couple days ago. So its ok to have these standards and yeah love is a word that is just tossed and I plan on finding my guy in HS so Idk what else to say to that. To answer your 3rd question....
Love and lust I mix up so easily. Well I think I finally figured them out. Lust to me is what gou want from some boy and you dont care how it turns out in the end. Love is something you share with someone you know is right. When you look into that persone eyes you can see yourself lost and never wanting to come back. Love is when you can be in a room alone and stick out 20 of just talking and not making out ect. Love is when you can watch a movie youve seen befor and watch it. Love is just a feeling you get when he calls eveyday at the same time even though school endeed 20 minutes ago or you just left his house. But love can come back and bite you in the but.Love comes so fast that it makes you move to fast in the relationship and you end up seperated. Love can lead to sex on accident and then ruines everything. So I think Love can come but I would rather it develope to be stongeer then all come at once to ruine something. Lust is when your looking for a fun time!! So I hope Ianswered your questions bc you really help me answer mine. SOrry so long but I finally said what I had to say
Bianca
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Hmm... I guess this question may have been aked quite a lot but here it goes. I am currently a freshmen, and there is this very cute junior at my school. I see him every other day during lunch and he's always staring at me, and it's obvious that he's talking about me with his friends. Plus I know one of his friends and he has told me that the guy likes me. The problem is he never approaches me. Do you think I should try to make a move or play it cool and wait for him to say something?
Why wait and waist time? Go and talk to him. Start a conversation. Get like one of ur friends to go sit overthere with you and at the end of lunch give him your number if he sounds intrested!
Bianca
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If a guy is in love with you would it bother him that you called him on his cell before 6 pm? A guy that I thought was really into me got upset today when I called him on his cell. He phoned me first but then his phone cut out and I phoned him back. I wanted to talk to him for a couple of minutes because I hadnt been able to talk to him much lately (he works in the oil rig camp), but then he got annoyed and said he couldnt talk anymore and that it was costing him a lot of money. He told me to only phone him after 6 pm. I know he is making a ton of money in the oil camps so I think that is bull that he cant afford the extra money.
I thought if a guy really loved and cared about you you could phone him anytime. Does anyone else think hes being a bit of a jerk?
Yeah I mean he shouldnt mind a few minutes. And he could be getting annoyed but so what then he need to say something and stop lying! So dont let him get mad bc hes being the jerk. Besides a few minutes doesnt kill ne 1
Hope I helped
Bianca
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Sorry If Its Long!!! .. Well here it goes
Ok well theres this guy .. well call him cody.
well me and cody have know each other for like almost 2 years. and over the summer we talked about how we liked each other .. and he kind of i guess strung me along for like 2 months .. sayin he liked me but wouldn't do anything about it, but when i asked if i should juss forget it he told me not to b/c he liked me ..
he said he'd call nd he said we'd hang out but he kept blowin me off and not callin but he "liked me" so i guess he thought it was ok. so i left him a message on aim sayin to call me so we coudl talk about it .. yahh well he got the message but didnt call. so we stopped talkin for like 3 weeks .. like i was pissed. and he knew it but didnt try to make it better.
soo halloween night me him and my friend kev chels and jenn all hung out. i didnt know he was gonna be there or else i wouldn't have gone. but we ended up having so much fun and i laughed the whole time .. all the feelings i thought i was over .. came rushing back soo fast!!!
so we talked about it and we talked online the next day and he told me he liked me and everything. so 2 nights ago we hung out and went to funspot and all of us were in a guy named brody's truck. i was like practically sittin on top of him the whole like 1 and a half ride, and he had his arm around me and stuff.
- - but when we were driving home kevie (the other guy who was there) was like "so cod are you 2 like goin out now. and codys like no. and kev was like wait what. how come? and codys like you heard me .. i didnt stutter ..
i juss dont get him .. so we talked nd hes like i REALLY like you, i honestly do i juss dont want a girlfriend .. but he told kevin that he didnt even like me at all .. hes pissing me off b/c hes not even tellin me the truth .. and i just wanted an honest answer
Dont bother with it. Hes being such a loser! If hes palin games you play them too! Go off and flirt with other guys. Hes obviously using you as a fall back girl. I me an come on he says he likes you and doesnt claim that is front of people! Hes being a coward and a selfish one at it. Go off and find another guy then see how he reacts. Dont let him brin you down. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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i was talkin to my gy friend that i like online and he said that i was jealous of all these girls that like him now and i would never get aniguys to like me...and the only guy who ever liked me was him...although he was jokin i told him that i turned this guy down over the summer(which is true) and that he told me more in the 2 weeks that i knew him than you(my guyfriend) did in the 2 yrs that he supposidly liked me...i still like him and we havent talked in a few days...do u think that hes mad or what should i do...i realllly like him. ps i rate high
Well it sounds like this guy friend of yours is being a jerk. Dont let him tell you those things even as a joke bc too me its not funny. And has he tried to talk to you? If not why should you try to go out of your way and tralk to him. Let him come to you
Bianca
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okay, so here it goes. i`ve known this guy for six years, and ever since i have just wanted to be with him, be around him, talking to him, whatever. i'm in high school now. we went out all last year, but we broke up and since then it`s just been me really liking him, and him liking me. he said that he liked me since about four years ago, but he just doesn't want a girlfriend right now so he can focus on friends, family, school, etc. and that's cool with me. i`m fine with that, it`s just when we're not going out. he acts so different around me. like me and my friends will him and he`ll be like i can`t talk bye. within the first few seconds. sometimes when i call him alone he`ll talk to me for a while, but it just seems like he doesn't want anybody else to know that he likes me. like he's embarassed about it or something. and i guess for right now that's okay with me too. but it also seems like he's just trying to see how far i`ll go before i stop liking him. and i'm scared because i know will love him forever. i just want to know what i could do to help him, or something i could do to help me get my mind off him a little more of the time. i know everyone reading this thinks it's just another stupid high school girl who thinks she's in love. but you don't know me, so if you're thinking that. please don't respond with something like "you'll move on, how many boyfriends have you had this year?" i`m not looking for mean comments, i'm looking for advice. i know this is kind of long but i appreciate anyone who read the whole question and is willing to give good genuine advice. thank you
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Well listen all I can say is it seems like he is pushing you off. And your catching the hint. Listen I know everyone is going to tell you this but stop trying to put yourselff out there. If hes gonig to act like that then you should too. And if he says he need space then you have to respect that and just let it go. but if he still likes you then hell notice your distance and try to come back to you. But if he doesnt then thats ok too. Like my mom told me If you love is set it free if it comes back its ment to be
Bianca
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I have a boyfriend that I am very much inlove with. But in every relationship that I am ever in it goes great until they want to do something sexual! I duno why i just get really shy and scared. its not that im afraid of the thing its just im afraid of doing it with the person! its kind of confusing. I really love my boyfriend though and I want to be able to do stuff with him when the time comes cause I love him to death! How can I loosen up? Any advice?
I rate well
Listen there is no reason to loosen up. Trust me! I felt the same way about my x and Im glad I didnt got too far with him bc I just broke up with him. But listen if you feel uncomfterable the your not ready. and a good bf doesnt pressure. When your ready it will come naturally and then you an do whatever you want. But to loosen up more you just have to trust him and figure how far youll go. But listen even if you love him to death he will understand if you dont want to do nothing. You cant really loosen up if you dont want to so dont pressure yourself. It will happen when you feel ready and he knows it. But dont just go off and have sex bc it cold end up as a really big mistake
Hope I helped''
Bianca
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i am totally in love with my ex. He broke up with me about a month ago because he said he didn't have time for a relationship and that i deserved someone that could put more time into it and spend more time with me. well it's been a month since our breakup and i'm still in love with him and can't get him off my mind. i really want to get him back and talk to him about it but i don't know how to get him back or start out the conversation about it. anybody got any ideas that could help me?
Im with you! I just broke up w/ my x yesterday night and I want him back so bad. I cant go into details but listen youve gotta start looking the other way becase the only reason your still attahed is because you choose only to think about him. Its hard. But if you do need to talk to him( like I wish I would of0 then tell him hey you know what happen to us? I still really like you. And see if he feels the same way. Or try being friends. Start out at that and It could go farther.
Hope I helped you
Bianca
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I have a '05 mustang GT and I wont let anyone drive it. I don't even let my best friend who I've known since we were 3 drive it. But, apparently, my bf thinks he should be an acceptation.
We were supposed to go to a concert last night. Well, he called me up and told me that we can't take his car because he didn't have any gas and we were running late. I told him that I didn't want to take my car because the concert was in a different city and I didn't know how to get there. He gets very irritated when he has to tell someone where to go when they are driving. So, me driving was not an option.
He then suggested that he drives my car. I said no. He asked why not and I told him what I always tell him, no one drives my car.
I said that I'd even pay for the gas and that I didn't care if we were a few min. late.
He didn't pay attention to that and got all upset because I wouldn't let him drive. We ended up in an argument and didn't go to the concert.
I have my reasons for not letting my friends drive my car. Most of which is because most of them are not responsible drivers. So I don't see why my bf feels that he should be an acceptation. I'm not going to let him drive it and I'm not going to apologize. Should I just wait until he comes around?
Well if you feel that you are the only one gonna drive it then there should be no eceptions. bc its not fair. bf or not you said no. Yes say sorry for grtting in an argument but calmly explain why you said no. Its a new car! so enjoy it. And if he doesnt come around then hes being really immature. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Ok here goes :). I have feeling for my Ex boyfriend who broke up with me. He said he liked someone else. But he keeps on flirting with me i think anyway. Like everytime we see each other he smiles at me and stares and he will come and stand biside me when we have breaks in between classes and he walks me to my bus EVERYDAY. He even gets kinda mad when other guys are flirting with me. So Does he. I am kinda confused! Thanks!
Well It might seem like it. He might still like you and thats cool but I really need to bring up a topic that will kinda make this harder to decide. Think about his gf. Make shure he still likes you befor you or him might mess up something good. Even though you too still have feelings you need to find out quick. Because you dont want this to get ugly. The same thing just happened to me yesterday. My bf was talking to his x and stopped calling me and finally his bro and friends told me theyve been hanging latly and I went to go break up w/ him and she was there. So its still hurrting. So make shure you guys dont hurt anyone else in this situation because it could get ugly. I hope the best for you though and if yall still like eachother thatn youll definatly need to be together.
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well i like this guy at my school. Last year he used to be soooooooooooo annoying but this year i think he's really cute! but i cant tell if he likes me!!! plz help!
here's some signs that he might like me...........................
1. he always talks to me
2.he asked me to sit on his lap (being me i said no)
3. really nice to me
4. he usually goes out of his way just to talk to me ( like one time he was late for class because he was talking to me)
-sammy
Well it sounds like a crush to me. You should try to flirt a little. See how he responds. Get to konw him a little better so if yall go out you have something to start with. Make shure you like him thogh! And make shure he doesnt have a gf because he could just be being nice. Good Luck
Bianca
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I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!!
Well friends are always gonna be there with you if there really friends. So go to this school. Your friend scant help you get a better education though. But this school can. So kit w/ your friends but go to the school becase you could be missing out on so much.I hope I helped
Bianca
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I want to like self train my voice, I can't really get lessons, since my family is sort of poor... & its really hard, & I want to be able to do what I really & truely love in life, & is to sing, & I have a really bad voice, so is there like a site where I can learn some self-tips or like something cheap I can buy that teaches me how to train it?
I write songs, & I'm trying to learn piano & guitar, & I apperntly have been told I have a gift for my writing, & I've been taught that when the world oppens up & gives you a gift, you should share it with the world, so I would really love to sing
thank you, I can also try & do voice lessons if you think it would be best
15/M
-Cameron
Hey yeah I love to sing too! I can sing bu not as great as like everyone famous. Well you have to start simple. Do chouir at school. See if mabye can get lessons there too. There are programs you can but but they dont help at all. You have to have the gift first. Or you might have it and need to unleash it. You can practice in front of your friends. One tip I can give you , because Ive been in chouir my hole life, is that when your practicing pinch your nose together so you will learn not to sing through your nose. Also dont drink water befor you sing because it messes it up. Instead drink like tea that really helps it and sooths it. Dont chew gum or have candy in your mouth because it really takes away. And while warming up go from your diafram. Take a deep breath and make a loud yawning sound. I hope I really helped you because sing is also my passion. Hope I helped and if you need anymoe tips let me know
Bianca
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Can you have precum by itself before you ever have cum
yeah you can. Its like for a guy its the clear stuff that comes out while there masterbating. idk for a girl
Bianca
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hey,, ok well theres this guy i rlly lik lets call him \" bob\" 4 now but neways \"bob\" is my ex boyfriend nd were still close friends now i guess you could say but i still really like him,,,, and he just broke up with his gf last week i im not sure if he likes me or if hes just messin with my head because when he did have a girlfriend, and i was hanging out with him and my other friends he would just stare at me and smile and one time he blew me a kiss but i just smiled and lik gigled w/e bcuz i didnt wanna embarres maself if he was just kidding,,but my friends tell me that he probaley till likes me but if he does then why does he lik flirt with other girls in front of me and sometimes he tells me the girls he thinks is cute..... idk wut to believe... are we just good friends or is he tryin to get me jealous? and i wanna figure out if he likes me or not without embarrisin myself and feeling weird if he says no. please help!!! thnx in advance...
from,
~always missin ma_xbaby~
Listen Im sorry it look so long to respond but it seems yall should cool it bc you might be a rebound girl at the moment. Stop listening to your friends and follow your heart
Bianca
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