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Hi I'm a 13 year old boy and the other day I got beat up by a girl just because I splashed her accidentally and got her phone wet. I tried to apologize and even fought back, but she pounded me pretty bad. I'm feeling so bummed and stressed out because I never thought this could ever happen to me by a girl. Now I'm worried about the next time or if I'm ever going to be able to go to the beach again with friends because she might be there and they will find out that she beat me up and will tease me about it and stuff, and what if she beats me up again in front of them? She said she would if she saw me there again... any advice? Stressed and scared. (link)
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You shouldn\'t feel bad about being beaten up by a girl... this isn\'t the 1940s... girls can hold their own these days...
As for going to the beach again... Don\'t be scared to go. If you see her, just don\'t acknowledge her. If she tries to start something, you just look at her and say, with confidence, \"I don\'t know you. Go away.\" Feel free to add \"crazy bitch\" on the end of that. Then, if she does hit you, you\'ll have your friends there, who will help you out.
Also, you should ask someone to teach you to fight. It\'s never a bad thing to know. Sure, maybe you can hit a little, but you\'d be better off knowing how to dodge in this situation. Dodge and disarm. I believe the YMCA often offers basic defense classes... if you can dodge her hits, stay on your feet, and trip her, then you can yell at her that you don\'t know who she is, walk away, and not have to hit a girl.
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I have had a fox terrier for two years she's been with our family since she was four and at that time we had an older male dog he was a standard poodle and she escaped any time she could but not too long ago our poodle died and she stopped escaping my dad decided to get a puppy and we've had for several weeks and our six year old dog Hurley has started escaping yet again I don't want her to get hurt and we've covered every possible escape up we don't want to lose her or get rid of our puppy but were running out of options any advice? (link)
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Terriers like to escape. It\'s in their blood. She probably stopped after the poodle died because she was depressed.
Some of the best advice I can give you for that is that she needs to be ran more. Terriers are REALLY high energy dogs. She\'s got pent up energy that she doesn\'t feel she can get rid of in your confined yard. If you have a nearby dog park, it\'s worth trying to run her there for at least an hour in the morning and once at night.
Also... if she\'s a digger, you should take a weekend, dig a trench around the perimeter of the yard, fill it with concrete, and then bury it... don\'t let her see you do it, though... She can\'t dig through concrete...
If she\'s a fence jumper, you can angle something about 45 degrees inward on top of the fence... She shouldn\'t even want to jump at that...
If she\'s like my Shar Pei... you might have to chain her... My Shar Pei can leap a privacy fence like it\'s nothing... she also busts out fence boards, digs, and generally just lives to escape... so I got a 30 foot chain, and when she goes out she gets hooked to the chain. It\'s long enough she can get to most of the yard, but short enough to keep her away from the fences. It doesn\'t impede her ability to run with the other dogs or anything.
You could also try a \"shock\" collar. It\'s pretty effective, and it\'s less inhumane than you\'re probably thinking it is. It can be expensive, though... and a lot of setup. Still, I know people with Rotties that have no actual fence and it keeps them penned into their perimeter... so it\'s pretty effective business.
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We will be dating for the first time and I don't know what should I give to her because I don't have an idea. Can you help me please? Thank you (link)
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It\'s about the thought more than what you actually get... if you don\'t know what to get her, just try for something thoughtful.
Flowers are always a great starter gift. It\'s the gesture... Just try to judge what kinds based on personality... if she\'s a vibrant, vivacious person, a multi-colored arrangement is great. If she\'s more reserved, pick a single colored arrangement... usually a color she wears a lot is a good bet for which color. Yellows and pinks are always good in-between colors, if you can\'t decided.
I don\'t recommend candy/chocolate unless you\'re sure she likes that...
If you and her share an interest, get her something relating to that. Something small, not over the top. The more it looks like you were just thinking about her, instead of planning something extravagant, the better it is for a first dating experience.
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Hey guys. I would love any and all advice. So my question is if its worth a shot? Here is the situation: so I met a girl I realy like. There is one problem she is a Christian and I am a LaVayan Satanist (no that dose not mean I'm a devil worshiper if you think so I encourage you to reasearch the subject). I know she is a Christian because I whent to her church with a few freinds one time and that's were I met her. The sermon that was given the night that I went was on relationships. The pastor said that Christians shouldn't date people who are not a Christian. I'm not sure if she belivies that or not. I have no problem having a relationship with some one of a diferent religion. I would never try to convert her of go against what she wished. I guess what I want to ask is it worth basicaly asking her to possibly go against what she belivies to have a relationship together or should I just forget about her. Thank you for the help. (link)
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There\'s no harm in trying... So long as she\'s not a fanatical Christian that will constantly tell you that you\'re going to hell, I don\'t see a reason that religion should get in the way...
You\'re not gonna look good to her family... there\'s that... but you don\'t really NEED to tell them you\'re a Satanist... it\'s not like you\'re \"spreading the good word\" to them in some attempt to save their souls, you know? It doesn\'t need to be advertised.
If you like the girl, ask her if she\'d be interested. If she says yes, you can try it. If she says she\'d rather date a Christian, you don\'t really want to date her anyway...
The worst she can say is no...
Well... actually the worst she can say is that you\'re going to hell and throw holy water at you... but what are the chances that\'ll happen in real life?
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Hi there!
I need some monster truck themed ideas for my child's birthday party. This kinda got sprung on me at the last minute and I am in a tizzy trying to think of things to go with the theme! Can you help me? Please? (link)
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I dunno how old your kid is... but here\'s some ideas...
Tire Cake - Just a round cake with white icing, and then you cut out black fondant in the shape of a tire, lay on top... maybe use some white icing for lettering.
Dollar Store Trucks - they\'re cheap, but work for parties... everyone gets a truck... they can crash them.
Get A Bunch of Boxes.... ones big enough for your kids and his friends to wear... spray paint them loud colors.... greens, blues... yellows... and then let them decorate the rest and they can BE their favorite monster trucks...
Dirt - it\'s a dessert item great for kids. Here\'s a recipe... you can put little plastic trucks in everyone\'s bowl.
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/dirt-cake-i/
Half the fun of monster trucks is that they crush other cars... If you got some cheap plastic cards, and some larger, better made trucks, you can crush cars with it.
Throw in non-truck things that kids just like, too... If it\'s warm enough, a water balloon fight always goes over well.... random games.... make up a version of tag that relates to monster trucks... like... they\'re frozen until another truck runs them over, which could mean that you have to hug someone unfreeze them... they\'ll fill in the blanks themselves...
Don\'t stress. Kid parties are easy. You just make it up as you go along and they\'ll remember they had fun.
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I am a 23yo female. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. We graduated undergrad together, and will be joining each other in graduate school this fall. It is a serious relationship and though marriage is not on either of our minds, it is likely we will be together for quite some time. I love him a lot and we are able to share so much with one another which is great. He's a great guy all around but there's one thing that is slightly frustrating with him--he sucks at gift giving. It's not that he doesn't think to give them, he just chooses things that are almost like items I'd throw in my cart while grocery shopping, rather than things that seem at all thought out.
Some gifts he's given me are: the equivalent of a reusable shopping bag for carrying supplies around, an on-sale wine bottle (I am not a wine drinker), a pencil case, and most recently a cookbook (I don't cook). Some gifts I've given him have included a painting I made for him, a specific batch of cookies he'd mentioned he liked, his favorite cupcakes, a handmade leather sketchbook (he draws). He also never tries at all, even in the slightest to make the gift "gift-like", meaning generally I receive these things in the packaging they came in, or, better yet, in the shipping pouch Amazon sent it in (with the order summary included).
I know this is probably going to come off as me being greedy, but really it's not about that. I would be happy if he made me a card, or picked me a flower on a walk, or made a special dinner, or even just brought a new idea into the bedroom...because there would thought behind it and it would be personal. However, the gifts he gives always seem like material afterthoughts and it makes me feel silly for trying to think of things or gestures that would be special or meaningful to him.
It could be a cultural difference. In my family, gift-giving was never really about the gift so much as showing you care for the person receiving it. It didn't matter what it was, just that you were thinking of them. I get that the fact that he's given me gifts shows he 'thought' about me, but it always feels like he's just trying to satisfy a 'gift requirement', rather than think about what the gift actually means. I find it curious though because his mom gives very thoughtful gifts in comparison so I'm not really sure where he picked this up.
I feel like it's such a stupid thing to bring up and it will likely only make him feel bad about it for no good reason. I know I've mentioned in random conversations before how I feel about gifts and that they don't have to be material in nature to be special, etc. etc. I guess they just never really sunk in and I'm not sure what to do. I accept him even with his faults, but I keep getting random *stuff* that I don't necessarily need! How do I hint at this without hurting his feelings!?
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Some people suck at gifts... I know I do... I could know you my whole life and still not really associate you with anything interesting... it\'s just a thing. It doesn\'t mean we don\'t think about what to get you... we think really hard, we just have no idea what to get you and so the end result is... crappy.
If you bring it up, you\'re gonna hurt his feelings... and chances are high that he\'s going to give up figuring out what to get you and just get his mom to pick, or maybe one of your friends... so then he won\'t have to put any thought into it at all. That\'s what I tend to do.
\"Tell me what to get them... I don\'t even care what it is, I just don\'t want to hear about how bad I suck at this anymore...\"
It\'s a real blow to hear that you suck.
Instead... you could be more specific with him...
\"Hey honey, I know that (reason for gift) is coming up, and I thought I\'d help you out by making a list of a few things I\'m really interested in, but wouldn\'t buy myself.\"
Give short list in order of most desired item.
You\'re going to say that if you\'re telling him what you want it doesn\'t mean anything... but that\'s not true. You telling him what you want is sometimes how things work. I have a friend whose husband of over 30 years still has no idea what to get her. They love each other. They\'ve been together forever. He just doesn\'t know what she wants... so he just takes her to dinner and she shows him what \"he bought her\" (what she bought herself from their joint account) for whatever day. They\'re very happy.
Even my very best friend and I suck at giving each other gifts... Essentially we just go, \"What do you want under $50?\" Unless we think of something AMAZING that year... I think we\'ve both managed that once... lol.
If you don\'t like that... there\'s my other option... that I like A LOT more... give up gift days. I have two friends that have been together for a while, and they don\'t give gifts for anything. After year one they just stopped. They go out to eat for holidays, and if they see something they\'d like to get the other any time of the year, they just get it and give it right then.
There is a third option... since he\'s an artist... tell him that instead of a gift... you want a drawing... a drawing of how he feels about you... a drawing of... I dunno, get creative with it. Artists respond best to prompts. It feeds something we already have in us, which is a desire to draw. A lot of the time artists can draw their feelings better than they show them through gifts... but I\'m sure he\'s never thought of giving you a drawing, because he doesn\'t see the value in it you would.
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Do you have any ideas about potty training my new puppy? I am so lost with all this and I know it isn't his fault he is messing in teh house but I don't know what to do! Please help me before they take him away! (link)
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Puppy training can be hard... but I have four dogs... so here are some tips.
Gauge how old your puppy is... if he\'s less than eight months, you\'re gonna need to \"paper train\" because puppies just can\'t hold their bladder well. If he\'s older than that, paper training is still helpful for emergency accidents, and can help you teach him what\'s okay and what\'s not.
Places like Petco sell potty pads, which are plastic lined absorbent pads. They\'re easier cleanup than actually using newspaper. I highly recommend them. They also sell, on the same isle, attractant. It\'s stuff that you spray where you want them to go. They should have an indoor and outdoor formula... you might want some of both.
I like paper training in the bathroom, because that\'s where I go, so the dogs just put that together...
Regardless of whether you\'re paper training, outdoor training, or both, the process is pretty much the same.
Every morning when you get up, take the puppy wherever you want him to go to the bathroom and you keep him there until he goes. Then you you have to be really happy and excited that he went. Tell him he\'s a good boy, etc.
Also do this after he eats. Puppies always need to use the bathroom after eating.
If you catch him in the act of going to the bathroom in the house, where he shouldn\'t, then you need make a loud noise. Don\'t be ANGRY, though... You just want to startle him so he stops going to the bathroom. Then you take him wherever he\'s supposed to go to the bathroom and keep him there until he\'s done.
If you\'re outdoor training AND paper training, when you catch him going in the house, take him where he\'s allowed to go in the house.
To ween the puppy off paper training later, you\'ll just move the paper closer and closer to the outside, and eventually remove it all together.
Hope this helped.
Petco also sells some great cleaners for accidents... and they\'ll happen, but less often once you\'re consistent.
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I get along really well with my family, and I love them. But my mom is a very conservative Christian and I (secretly) disagree with her on many topics, and I don't want her to find out because it would negatively affect our relationship. The biggest thing I have to hide is that I am agnostic. If she found out, it would destroy our friendship. I also need to hide my views on politics, morality,and sexuality. How can I hide all of these things from her without her knowing so that we remain close? (link)
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It\'s not uncommon to disagree with your parents views... happens even if your parents aren\'t very conservative or religious. It\'s just kind of growing up.
If you\'re not ready to discuss it with her... just don\'t tell her. You just keep doing everything you\'ve always done. It only becomes a problem if you deviate from that. If you deviate, she\'s going to find out sooner or later.
I don\'t know how old you are, but eventually you\'re probably going to have to sit her down and talk to her about the life you\'ve decided to lead. It doesn\'t mean breaking her heart, or anything, but you\'re going to have to say that you\'ve given it a lot of thought and that (blank) is how you have decided to live your life.
You can\'t be who they want you to be forever, but until your difference in views generates a situation in which you need to have the conversation, such as who you decide to marry, how to raise your kids, what life goals you set for yourself, etc, you can just go on like you always have. There\'s no reason to generate static if you don\'t have to, but chances are high that at some juncture you will have to, and you need to be prepared for that down the road.
I\'ve had the conversation with my mom many times... when I decided I was no longer Catholic... when for whatever reason ALL my friends in high school turned out gay (that was a weird four years)... when I had a guy move in with me... It was never a really EASY conversation, but she loved me more than she loved her ideals... and your mom undoubtedly loves you more than her ideals, too. It won\'t be an easy conversation, and you might have a rough patch, but at the end of the day you\'ll still be her kid, and she will still love you.
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I have to fly out for a funeral and the airlines no longer offer a bereavement rate. :( I don't have much money, but I have to say goodbye. Is there a way to find a cheaper flight with short notice? They want over $1,100 because there is no advance notice, and I am a waitress and a student. Thank you for helping me. (link)
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It really depends where you\'re going... the cheapest airlines, always, are Spirit and Southwest... Also, it takes longer, but you could bus it there... assuming you have enough time to get there... Greyhound is cheaper than flying, to most places... but it\'s... well, it\'s busing...
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So, this weekend just gone I had sex with a guy. Him and his girlfriend were split up at the time and he said they weren't getting back together so I didn't see much of a problem. But the next day he said they sorted things out but he didn't tell her about me and him.
I'm really not comfortable about this as I'm friends with alot of her friends so I'm gunna see her about alot and I hate keeping secrets and lying.
I've tried persuading him, but said I won't say a word until he says something to her 'cause she should really hear it from him not me or someone else. But this also means I can't talk to any of my friends about it, which sucks.
He won't tell her though as she has alot of family problems at the moment and doesn't think she'd be able to handle it and isn't sure what she'd do (guessing he means self harm etc).
Some sort of help would be great as I'm really not keen on this situation and can't chat to anyone! Thank you! (link)
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He\'s not gonna tell her... ever... unless she pisses him off and he wants to hurt her... That\'s how cheating works...
So... you have options...
You can tell her, but all it\'s going to accomplish it that she\'ll be hurt, he\'ll be mad, you\'ll be labelled \"the other woman\" which often comes with the title of \"hobag,\" and everything will be chaotic and awful.
You can tell your friends... which will result in similar consequences as the previous option... because, let\'s face it, ain\'t no one can keep they trap shut.
You can NOT tell her or anyone... which will make you uncomfortable for a while... and then it will fade off, except when you see that guy, at which point you will remember he is a scumbag.
Been here, done this... That girl is now my sworn enemy. All the guilt stuck to me. All of it. That guy got off so free they dated for years afterward. I lost a lot of friends... it\'s not worth it.
Do what you will, but in general, that guy is an asshat that used you, and thinks you\'re gonna keep your mouth shut because he told you to. I don\'t like that and I\'d have to say something or hold it over his head and manipulate him... He shouldn\'t get away with it. But you shouldn\'t destroy your social life for him either.
I dunno how evil you are, but I am the brand that would use this opportunity to suck that man dry... money, favors, whatever.
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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The long and short is that your heart would be suffocating. It\'s not getting enough blood...
But I\'m betting that\'s not what you have...
Unless you\'re REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY MORBIDLY OBESE you wouldn\'t have enough plaque in your arteries to cause it.
If you don\'t feel good, just suck it up and go to the doctor... The internet will just tell you that you\'re going to die.
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Hi ladies! What ways have you found to lose weight as quickly as possible without causing yourself any harm? I could really use your help. :) (link)
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The most effective weight loss is simple... you eat less than you burn.
You need to figure out your nutritional needs (which is a caloric figure)... and either eat less than that number, or exercise enough to bring your intake down to less than your nutritional needs.
Example... if you go to http://nutritiondata.self.com/tools/calories-burned and determine you use 1638 calories while living a sedentary lifestyle (meaning you don\'t exercise), then you need to either eat less than 1600 calories a day... or you can eat 2000 calories a day if you burn off 400+ calories at a gym or something.
The bigger the deficit, the faster the weight loss, but the faster the weight loss, the fast you are liable to gain the weight back.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and it was an amazing 3 years. We always know how to make each other laugh and each other happy. We love and care for each other very much. About a few days ago, he came to me and wanted to talk. He told me he was re-evaluating his life and wanted to take a break from the relationship so he could "find" himself. He said also he needed some change. I know this break is meant to help us be able to go out and enjoy life without worrying about the other but it really hurts and it's really hard on me. He said that the spark between us was there still but it just wasn't kindling like it should. What makes me more upset about this "break" is he wanted this beautiful necklace back that he gave me for Christmas last year. I'm not sure what to do and honestly this break hurts me more than it is helping. I don't want to seem desperate but I really miss my best friend and I wish he knew that. (link)
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If he\'s asking for gifts back, love... this isn\'t a \"break\" it\'s a \"breakup\" and he\'s not man enough to tell you the truth.
A break is just a break. It means that you don\'t see each other as much, but you\'re still friendly. Maybe you casually see some other people, and then get together to evaluate the time apart and decide if you\'re going move forward with the relationship or if you\'re better off apart.
A breakup is severing ties with a person and trying to recoup time and money put into the relationship that you just ended. Asking for gifts back means it\'s over... and he just doesn\'t want to go through the business of actually telling you.
And that sucks. And he\'s a real douche bucket for that. Since you\'re 17, I\'m assuming he\'s close to that age, too... and... well... teenage relationships just don\'t usually last. I know three people still with a high school sweetheart. It\'s crappy, but it\'s just how it goes.
Keep the necklace, give it back. Do whatever makes you feel better. You\'re not getting him back, though...
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so me and this girl have been friends since last year and we barely became close this year. we used to do everything together and I would have a blast but lately shes been saying stuff that she thinks it wont hurt me but it actually does and whenever were with our other friends shes really annoying but when its just hanging out shes perfectly fine. I wanna know if its just me being dumb and over thinking it or Is she really someone I should just let go at least for a little while ? we are both 13 females (link)
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Sounds to me like she\'s just 13...
Girls get weird and catty around that age... guys aren\'t much better... it\'s just a weird age... so she\'s gonna act weird because she\'s 13, and you\'re gonna interpret it more dramatically than you have to because you\'re 13.
You have two options... One, you can wait three to four years to see if this is a permanent attitude change, and sometimes it is... Two, you can sit her down when you\'re alone and say, \"look chick, I have a problem.\"
I honestly recommend a mixture of the two. Sit her down, tell her what hurts your feels, and what bugs you about her when you\'re with other friends... and then just try not to let it bug you. People are who they are and no one is going to be awesome all the time. The important thing is to get the major stuff out of the way so you can enjoy the better parts.
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I was watching the show "too cute puppies" and I was wondering how you get your puppies on the show? We are about to have a bunch of bulldog puppies and if they are anything like the last batch, they are going to be TOO CUTE! :) (link)
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They have a page for that.
Right now they\'re casting \"unexpected friends.\"
You can contact them about your puppies, though, and they might be interested anyway. It never hurts to try.
http://www.animalplanet.com/pets/casting-couch/too-cute-casting.htm
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Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for almost three months and, in my mind, things have seemed to be going okay. I'm 16 he's 15 and this is the first relationship for both of us, we're also both quite shy people so the relationship is moving quite slowly. We see each other most days at school and we've met up a few times at weekends and we don't text an awful lot. People say that we can't really class ourselves as being in a relationship and that we're being pathetic. I can kind of see what they're saying seeing as we don't make any physical contact with each other - we've awkwardly hugged once but that's as far as we've got.
I wouldn't mind moving things on a bit faster and being in contact with him more but I'm not really sure how to go about it. I have social anxiety so I am constantly scared of saying something wrong or annoying him by texting him too much.
Also, my best friend told me the other day that she and this other boy basically forced my boyfriend into asking me out. I had no idea about this now I'm worried that maybe he didn't have any intention of asking me out and he only did it to stop people bothering him.
On the other hand, he has bought me really nice presents for Christmas, Valentines Day and my birthday and always responds very quickly and positively whenever I suggest we meet up. He spends time with me at school rather than his friends and always seems to be happy spending time with me.
Basically I'm confused - I want a relationship that people don't class as pathetic but I don't know if that's what he wants. (link)
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Your relationship is not pathetic... not at all.
This is your first relationship, is all. The first one is always awkward. Actually, they\'re all awkward, it\'s just a matter of how awkward it gets... but my point is, it\'s your first relationship, and it\'s totally normal to be unsure how to act in it.
The answer for that... is to act however you want. It is YOUR relationship, not your friends\'. So you\'re not a touchy-feely couple. People like me aren\'t either, and it doesn\'t matter. You guys enjoy each other, right? You have fun with him? You appreciate the things he does for you? That\'s a beautiful relationship. That\'s a relationship people want, because sex will get boring.
What\'s pathetic are teenage relationships where they get together, start banging each other, and then have a complete meltdown when it\'s over, because they thought that person was \"the one.\" It\'s high school. The chances that you\'re going to marry anyone you date in high school are so slim it\'s unrealistic to consider it.
If you want more out of your relationship, that\'s fine. Just sit down and have that awkward conversation. Sounds like he\'s as awkward as you are, so you can be awkward together and talk it out. Just remember to laugh about it.
Also, don\'t jeopardize a really good relationship you already appreciate just because some idiot teenagers are giving you shit. It\'s not worth it, and you\'ll regret it.
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I have read that a neutral undertone show no signs of either pink or yellow tones. I'm a cool-neutral and I have pink to my skin but most foundations are either too pink or yellow. My veins are blue and purple. Some say that neutral undertones = olive. Which confuses me because I cannot tan as I am quite pale.
So what is a neutral undertone? (link)
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I\'m not much of a makeup guru, since I don\'t really wear it... but here\'s what I know...
There are three kinds of neutral undertone...
Warm - which has a yellow tint
Cool - which has a pale pink tint
Olive - which is, of course, greenish
If you\'re super crazy pale, like I am, you\'re a Cool. Means you have mostly bluish veins, too. There are, of course, varying shades of cool neutral...
If you\'re having problems finding an undertone that matches you correctly, you should go to a makeup desk at... a Macy\'s... or Dillards... or Ulta... and have the people there show you the choices for your skin tone. You\'d be impressed.
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I'm 14 and I've noticed that there is always this thick layer or white stuff, it's not gooey or slimey or wet. It's not inside my vagina but on the inside around my vulva, it's really embarrassing and I don't think I could tell mum or a doctor. I've always thought it could be toilet paper? Not sure.
Any ideas on what it is and how to get rid of it? (link)
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The vagina normally secrets a clear to whitish liquid that cleans itself... but if it\'s not \"gooey or slimey or wet\" you might be describe smegma... which is a really gross name for dead skin cells and oil, etc, that have built up...
Either way, no matter what it is, you should be able to take care of it, assuming it bothers you, with normal cleaning. To reduce discharges like that, cut some of the grease and fat from your diet... including milk (which is fat suspended in water)... and increase citrus intake for more acidity.
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I got really angry because i dropped something and it got ruined. I do believe I overreacted, but I just got so angry that I slapped myself in the face. I felt as if someone needed to, so why not be me? I feel like I'm crazy or something because I did it... Am I? (link)
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More people are prone to that than you'd think. Lol. It's not uncommon, or even that weird to smack yourself once in a while. I do it. My mom does it. I've seen most of my friends do it. It's not weird or crazy.
The problem becomes when that once in a while turns into habit. If this is the first time you've done it, don't think about it... but if you notice this becoming a recurring pattern in your life, or you manage to actually harm yourself doing it, you should speak to your doctor about seeing someone. It still doesn't make you crazy, it just makes you someone that needs to figure out why you smack yourself. Lol.
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Hi, why does a boyfriend call his ex girlfriend as a mother of his child but he just doesn't like to call her an ex. when i say she's your ex and he says 'no' but she's the mother of my child. anyway, i just feel he's useless and he just still loves her even though they have been split up for a 6 years now and we have been together for 5 years. dating a single father is torture sometimes i reckon. cheers guys! (link)
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Here's the thing. If you have a kid with someone, that person is in your life for the rest of your life, and because she is the mother of his kid, a part of him is always going to have affection for that. There's nothing you or anyone else can do about that.
He calls her the mother of his child instead of ex because ex implies that they're no longer part of your life. It's a different thing...
And if you don't like, you should date someone else, because that woman is never going to NOT be a part of his life. She's there forever.
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